₦airaland Forum

Jadekitana:
Lol lagos has clouded my head, I should be there in June for a wedding , do you live there?

Jadekitana:
Lol some peeps in my family understand and speak igbo very well. Warri? I'v been to Warri twice, the town is very ok with lots of pepper soup eating spots hope u having fun?

Jadekitana:
Mum is itsekeri, dad is rivers. But I'm learning igbo gradually

tok2008:
But why are you giving yourself all these stress?

Even if not for the sake of faithfulness,at least for the sake of your children and wife in case you leave them with enough to take care of them and some wicked family members will want to cheat them out of these things,the legal binding wil come to play.

Jadekitana:
Very well

Jadekitana:
Le.zz

Fairytales:
you may call it a cinderella show, but it's a once in a life time event, why deny her of the experience? Also, to save cost, it can be merged into the traditional wedding.

Jadekitana:
Sorry I know of someone who just ended his marriage! He did court,traditional and church. When the woman was misbehaving badly, no pastor, nor documents nor traditions could make him change his mind. He kicked her to the curbs and signed an Alimony to cater for their son! He would be getting married later in June to someone else. Bottom line is when you are married, behave yourself as a lady or a guy! Divorce is inevitable,nobody is indisposable.

Fairytales:
Toks2008
Daret odiffer
Freec.ocoa
Lez.zlie
Postm.ann
Estarfabian
Mizmyc.oli
Mamag.ee3

And others, ur comments needed

firstEVA:
close lips?? I prefer open ones, french kiss


Lol, lezz i'm not doing this ok?

How are you doing?

firstEVA:
lol@ destiny enhancer

Easter is here already, yipeee!!
I am where I said I would be, preparing to devour the nicely prepared chicken.

U are free to anchor

8hrs it took your reply to come!!!

That's the longest dance of anticipation my heart has done!!!

I'm coming for Easter, to close my lips on yours

Synzu:
You sucked Venus' bosoms?



Evening le. zz 2.0

daretodiffer:
Lazy man

KingRex1:
I dont see young ladies of nowadays towing this path. Its one of the nice things that sets Africa apart from the world.

Its a pity they dont have this kinda mindset anymore

KingCheezyPuff:
Nah,just shows folk are bull headed an goat stubborn.
When warned,some don't listen.
Yer free ta do as you wish Le.zz, this is for those who care for it.Goodbye.

KingCheezyPuff:
I think you mean YOU can't.... even then I say ya can

LeSudAfricaine:
Well allow me, seems you are the one who's typed a lot of nonsense, I don't blame you though, you are a typical bitter Nigerian

LeSudAfricaine:
Since you apes are so fond of the words "savagery" and "backwardness" lemme break it down for you what those words really mean

LeSudAfricaine:
Savagery means beheading or dismantling someone's kidneys thinking that shht'll make you rich

-Burning toddlers suspected for witchcraft

-stoning adulterers and homosexuals

LeSudAfricaine:
-luring foreign women to Nigeria, killing them stuffing their corpses with drugs before sending them back to their countries of origin

LeSudAfricaine:
-cannibalism is rife in your country,even your restaurants serve human flesh

LeSudAfricaine:
-you talk about rape but hardly a day passes by without reading about rape horrors in YOUR country, your grandpas legally marry toddlers in some of YOUR states

LeSudAfricaine:
-You people are so backwards that you are a largely homogenous, yet you still bicker about which tribe is the best.

LeSudAfricaine:
You talk about backwardness and yet your people I see daily in Johannesburg, are nothing short of backward, they are uncultured you would swear they were raised in bushes, dude come to Jo'burg and see your brothers shhting on walls of Hillbrow then we can talk

LeSudAfricaine:
Since when we can't build power plants? three power plants are being built as we speak, you are still battling with common potholes

LeSudAfricaine:
We rank 2nd dullest nation on earth yet you have an oil shortage while blessed with the commodity, biggest economy on the continent yet can't provide electricity, oil and can't fix common potholes, i wonder who's dull, no wonder your people still carry baskets on top of their heads on shopping malls, others take pics in front of escalators, Nigeria is dull nation, Hack you've just launched a locomotive train in this era! gtfoI or better yet got to shoprite

LeSudAfricaine:
You can call me a slave all you want but i don't have my sisters selling asss in Spain, or my brothers cutting hair in Vietnam, or my family drowning in the sea trying to make it to racist places like Spain and Italy.

LeSudAfricaine:
If you're having it so good in that cave what is it that are you all running away from? of course being born Nigerian is to be born a slave, your much vaunted "all black government" enslaves you, you guys are political, economic,social slaves, biggest economy and yet you lack all the simple basic eminities.

LeSudAfricaine:
Your leaders get proper medical care in Geneva, Switzerland yet you slaves must drown in seas or sell some asss to drive in a proper road, it's shame i feel for you sometimes and i don't blame for all the jealousy

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LeSudAfricaine:
We are so lazy and you're all so industrious and yet it doesnt show

We actually supply other countries with electricity dumbo

We are "the worst thing to happen to the black race" yet we are the beacon of light in an otherwise dark continent, Who else can host a World Cup besides us? The Worst thing to happen to the black race is actually you people, embarrassing us Africans with your crimninal antics for ions, to be Nigerian abroad is to be a Scammer, prostitute drug barron etc

KingCheezyPuff:
[b]How to avoid sex.

When dating or
When new to a relation
........
Ideally you'd tell him/her
up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation.
Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her.
And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries.
But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.

....Don't put yourself in compromising situations
Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.

Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home.
No come "over and chill"
...Meet up for/have dates in public places.
Restaurants
the movies
the park
the beach etc.

If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it.
shake hands instead.
or
Hand hug
lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.

If he/she
or you can't kiss without it leading to sex,
tone down the passion in your kisses.
kiss on the cheek
nose
forehead
air kiss
or avoid kissing altogether.

But if you do kiss.
person will probably try to take it further.
Be prepared to stick by what you said before.
Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way.
DO NOT BE PERSUADED.
If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you.
Be strong!!!
.( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)

You don't owe anyone sex.
It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded.
Not payment for a evening out.
Don't be pressured into sex.

Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]

TheSonOfMark:
You lipstick-wearing queer! Everyone knows you have the intelligence of a doorknob.

You know nothing about heterosexual love 'cause you have a skewed sexuality. You sure do not want me posting pictures of you wearing weavons, lipstick and mascara, do you?

Now run along SAM, no-one here is SMITHen by your pseudo-intelligence! King to the slay

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RiloKiley:
Lol, funny dude!

But you're right, if this Julius girl was my sister the kind knock I will knock her head her brain will reset. Can u imagine the obnoxious guy begging threatening and cajoling for 10k, even telling her to sacrifice her laptop and put his interests first! And she is still thinking whether it's time to end the relationship? Unbelieveabe!

Op pls I join numerous others on this thread to plead with you to DUMP THIS GUY ASAP! He doesn't love you! He doesn't love you ooooh! Can't u see any man who asks you for money to the point of telling you to deceive others for it ISNT HUSBAND MATERIAL?

julius leave that guy. You will see that when u break up he'll be the one looking for reconciliation sohe can get more things from u! Don't be a fool! Drop his ass!

Of course she can see it all for the ruse it is , but girls love drama and commotion, she'll elect to be swept by the tide of emotion and love conflict than cling to the straw of logic.

Even a mugu guy can't do that for any püssy that threatens and disrespects him in that fashion!


Welcome to the age when women will look for men with their own money!!!

Female-preying by Packaged , jobless guys with starched cloths is now a career craze

Creamish:
True.. in my office, there are 8 women and 1 man.. LMAO!!

OK the OP is going thru some emotional turmoil...let's stop laffing biko. We're not helping at all..

Creamish:
No be my generation abeg... dat time never reach..

Creamish:
Its all in the name of luv...

OP... Wake up already. Dude is the King of Leeches! Get yo azz outta there Pronto!!

Love ? Since when love became that stüpid?

She's what I call a woo-woo!

She's just emotionally weak and thin-skinned!!!

I saw this was the second thread in sequence bordering on same issue with the same dude!


She's under this compulsion she needs to prove her womanhood to this guy with blind financial assistance!!!


Women empowerment


And it's just getting started!!!


Why does this verse come to mind, are we at the hour already?

And there shall be 7 women to a man, and will say to him, we can feed ourselves but we want to bear your name

Creamish:
Wow!!!


The guy is a joke!

postmann:
[b]Why do you find the need to deny me that which I never claimed? Psychologically speaking, you think I am-- an intellect, blessed with uncommon knowledge. And that was what brought you to my long dead thread.

Your soul is fed from the works of dead men whose theory live only to be disproven yet by another lost intellectual. That's how hopeless your case is.

You couldn't resist my posts, could you? You hovered for days on my thread even though it was a dead thread, betraying your silly anencephalic disposition as you celebrated e-punches, only to turn around trying to sound like someone who's mature.

A daft who doesn't even know that Japan has since lost the 2nd economic spot to China. I spared you because I saw you're lost. A fool who came to nairaland to learn atheism after being hounded by repeated defeats and failures.
You're a student of atheism. And that's all you're here to sell.

You found me because I'm a star. I never knew you until you came to my thread, seeking my recognition and pat on the back. I ignored you after you praised my jabs. That's after I took a brief look at your profile, and placed you as one of the rest.

You made your comment and "cc" my attention, mentioning my moniker just to get me to notice you. I'm a star and you were star-struck by me.

You queried why I make scriptural references to intellectual discourse, and I told your dull ass a well known truth; that knowledge and religion has always been together from the beginning before it was later severed. But that you didn't know and will never know.

You came to flaunt your knowledge on atheism! Hehehehehe! Wind-tossing soul! Even he who is your tutor doesn't go about wandering like a lost kite. You know nothing of what you parade. All your submissions on my thread were proof of your hollowness. Like a vain pupil, you were mercilessly beaten in my thread and you ran away in shame. You either havn't finished your classes or your brain is suffering from over concentration of amyloid.

Rural-looking ape, why tag s.e.u.n?
Didn't I offer you the chance to mount the podium and show us how good you are, son of the devil, rejected by the gods? Are you looking for my ban? Will that stop your bleeding heart?

But you're empty. You declined the offer. Rather you pose as a critic, but in truth you're a parasite who feed off the backs of true intellects. You have nothing to your name, lost atheist.

You belong in Saturn, not on earth. Join up with satan, you toy-antichrist. Satan made a poor choice recruiting you. He later found out you are as ugly as your brains are dead, and he dumped you. Now you're an orphan who found a home in atheism where you worship the works of dead men as sacred religion. Works only waiting to be disproven yet by another man.

For an African to be an atheist, hopelessness, defeat, failure, and blood-line bondage must have knocked such a person of out of his wits. And that's your case.

You're an arrogant young fool. Overdosed by falsehood, lost in the grip of deception, while envy, and hate drives you closer to hades. Your soul awaits damnation, bloody supplicant.
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