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yvelchstores:
Personally I don't blame Ur mother. Committing yourself to someone for 5 good years when he hasn't committed himself and his future to u.

Ppl should listen to parents on this. A man doesn't need years to know he want to marry u.
Why date a boy who hasn't stood up on his feet as a man? He can't marry now and u know, yet u volunteered for 5 years service.

New again u have jumped into another one. The truth could be that this new one wants to FINALLY get u. No guarantee that he will now find out "wow, this girl is great, I want to marry her"

As a woman, for how long do u want to keep testing the waters. A man who is serious about you will want to know more about u, where u come from, family background, not the colour of your pant.

An Igbo adage says, why scratch and pinch on the package when u will still open it.

Give urslf time to discover Ur self. U did say u entered D 5 years relationship very young. Allow Ur self to grow up by yourself a bit.
If the new guy really wants to marry u, he shld come and see Ur parents, then u can take it slow from there.

MarieSucre:
That is not answer.

MarieSucre:
Uncle you sef cut the crap and take your own advice. Stop sleeping around and keep yourself for your future wife.

Preshy561:
but you know,there's 100% possibility that the one whi objected might be more clean than the former, women have this overly sanctimonious character they display even when it's not required.
so,I agree with the second Sarah.
the former should shut the fùck up and mind her business.