₦airaland Forum

cooooooks:
Do gofund me, put me down for 100 dolls

You have my akant number.
Run am.

Toks2008:
I have told you to stop bothering yourself.

If i want any lady i will go for her regardless of my marital status. A man can only commit adultery if he goes for a married woman but there is no crime if a married man expresses desire for a single lady.

So relax babe..marriage nah title for men but nah status for women.

Eeyah. Sorry for whoever is married to you?

Where's the child?

Toks2008:
You mean Tems is married?

You're a little bit married

I want to go to Dubai!

Toks2008:
So she admits he was trying to be inappropriate but they are on stage nah..it comes with the territory

Tems looks decent but she too set. Nice body .

a little bit married

osuofia2:

WHY DOES TEMS ALWAYS HIDE HER BACK SIDE

Because she wants you to focus on her music, not on her body!!!

timefarm:
I dont understand too.
It seems she has more agenda

More like she's fighting the church of God ba?
You're deficit of wisdom, sir.

cooooooks:
Madam, which abroadians you dey talk to.

It is well o. This white stuff is just colonized mind and low self esteem.

I know one abroadian. His name rhymes with "books"

cooooooks:
Don't you discuss these things before tying the knot?

I know many married people in Canada and this is not the case.

The closest bad marriage I know is a guy brought a lady he had known for years, a lady who herself had studied abroad but went back to Nigeria. He started maltreating her after honeymoon. After a while, she got fed up and sent him out. Technically, the neighbours called the police on him when he was shouting at her; and she did not tell them to not remove him. Well after sleeping on diff couches, she told him to come back. Since then they have been living in peace and harmony.

They don't want a Nigerian wife who will rub shoulder with them. Periodttt.

I was just talking about this case with my dad a few minutes ago. If there's one thing I've realised, is that humans, regardless of who we are, or what we believe, or don't believe in, are fully capable of doing the greatest good possible or the greatest evil possible.
The cover up by the school admins make them culpable. I'd love to see justice fully served.

Her doggedness is commendable.

I thought it was Ned nwoko

DukeNija:
[s]And how is this relevant? So yea Chiamaka remains in Nigeria while Chinedu stays back in the US married to his Akata wife and they’re better for it? Use your brain and jettison your internalized hate for men before speaking. The op needs solutions not ramblings.[/s]

Go and give solution and never troll me again.

Nye nye nye. Wailers

Congratulations
I wish you an easier journey.

Mynd44:
Who will text me first bayi?

Nobody. Remain single

Emaprince:
Why didn't you marry all the men that you have dated or had a fling with?

Not all relationships lead to marriage

Not all kinds of relationships get your full investment emotionally, physically and even financially.

Emaprince:
So the bottom line is..Marriage must be the final out come.

What's wrong with that? You want to waste my time? And later call me "evening newspaper"?

Though I'm fair skinned. I don't believe that fair skinned ladies are more beautiful. Yvonne Nelson is cute. Jackie Appiah. Not bad.

You're a liar. Those are not the words of cr7's fans.

kurupt1:
Dem don fvck this one womb enter her chest for kuramo beach

Stop mistaking me for your sister.

Very bold. But then he has a good head. Don't try this with a fvckboi. He'd fvck your womb out of position, eat your food, spend your money and still, not marry you.

Except that's an old picture, her boys should be almost 3 by now.

If I may, my Lord, may I?
Barrister Athanasius Enyi Esquire

pocohantas:
Good one. The only Nigerian that produces movies worthy of gracing cinemas.

Unlike the others ones that show Lekki apartments, Ikoyi link bridge, big nyash, fake accent and fine cars.

Kunle Afolayan has really tried to put nollywood on the map. He's great at what he does.

pocohantas:
What is wrong in cooking for your family? Forgive me, I find arguments like this mundane and irrelevant. Sadly it is what has become the order of the day when marriage is discussed. It shows there is something wrong with us as a people. Both male and female.

You were cooking in Nigeria, suddenly cooking is below you because you are abroad? There are bound to be issues.

Ordinarily, both parties should be helping each other. Domestically and financially, but when one person thinks chores are below him or assisting financially would make her a mumu, wahala done dey. Nigerians play too many mind games and relationships with them wears someone like me out.

You might not cook 7 days a week, but I believe a good husband, be it in Nigeria or Cambodia, should know when his wife has done her best and deserves some rest. On such days she should get her rest.

If her husband is not dicking her and he is making no effort to improve, she can leave the marriage with her dignity and value intact.

No adult abroad has time to even sit and eat three times a day. There are more pressing issues and Nigerian men and women should begin to upgrade their OS. We are too backward in our issues.

The thought of not wanting to take a wife abroad because she'll "misbehave" is backward, I agree.
The points I raised may seem backward but is an ever present issue in Nigerian circles, especially in Nigeria.
These men want an African woman who is homely and Conservative in a Babylon like America, but don't bother to fix up their messes.
There are men, who are happily married to women they brought from Nigeria and they're enjoying their marriage.
But many are just afraid she can use her new found rights against them.

Ex0rcist:
Mine's beautiful but she's loyal asf. Not all of them are heartless though. That part of beauties crying for you got me though....its really romantic. I just look at her for some minutes doing nothing just looking at her face and can't help it but laugh at how such a beauty could be so loyal. Three years now, still going strong. I'm gonna make sure I wife her.

It will surprise you that not so beautiful people have more options than beautiful people. So what's there not to be loyal?

So?

The man is pregnant too.

madridsta007:
1. Get someone that has the same value system as you. SAME not similar. She has gone through life & has her own value system and convictions.
2. Get someone that is not broke. If she hasnt seen money before or hasnt travelled to exotic places, she will eventually change when she sees money.
3. Get someone that isnt too attached to her mother or family members.
4. Get someone that believes in the conservative African value system of "wives, submit to your husband" and "husband, love your wife".
5. Finally, get someone who is accountable to an elderly person (not her family members).
6. Get someone from a stable home, where her family does NOT have any divorces or single parenthood prevelance.

These reduces the risk you are scared of, greatly.
NB: These kind of persons are rare and can be in Nigeria or Abroad. Location isnt the problem. The person, is.

That number 4 is your number 1. No dey disguise
The reason y'all won't like to take an African woman abroad is because she will get to know her rights, and "use them against" you.
You want to be able to get sex outside without her wanting a divorce and taking the house.
You want to be able to beat her/the kids "in correction" without them calling 911 on you.
First World countries respects the rights of women far more than Africa does, and the possibilities of what she can do with that knowledge, scares you.

Define "misbehave"

When you guys marry white women, you cook, clean, care for kids and still work and pay bills.
But when you take an African woman who has been marginalised all her life abroad and she realises that women are respected over there and demands more, is that "misbehave"?
You want amaka to go abroad and be spoiling her lovely nails cooking breakfast, lunch and dinner 3 times a day, 7 days a week?
Or you want Abisola who's barely getting any dicking from you, to be praying and fasting and not to go outside and look for some, LIKE YOU DO? You think it's like Nigeria where you can shame her into submission?

For most of you abroadians, we already know you prefer to keep a woman in Nigeria where your family can press her neck if need be.
The day chiamaka comes to obodo oyibo will be the death of your fragile ego.

If them try this one for my church, e go too make sense.