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It's not strange. Its a point that most relationships get to. When the euphoria of hearing from the other partner is no longer there. At this point, many assume that the love is dead but its wrong. This situation arises because after constantly talking, you come to a point when you lack something special to talk about.
At this point you must make concerted efforts to spice things up. Personally I scout for personal stories that are interesting so that I can share with her. That way, we always have things to talk about.

Who else has noticed that the army will talk of how sophisticated these bandits and terrorists are but when they arrest, they usually recover just a handful of not-so-sophisticated weapons?
Is it that they usually have enough time to flee with the more sophisticated arms?

Those of you shouting 'true talk' should wait and see the state of the schools in like 5-10 years. If state governors are finding it difficult to fund free education, how does the church intend to do that?

What kind of books?

Some of you bashing him won't understand what it feels like to be full of life and ambitions but have a partner who has no plans for the future. Personally I have dated someone like that too and its the same reason I left. Imagine someone finishing NYSC without a CV. It was the worse I could take coupled with other such actions

BIDOO:
Can't Help It But To Laugh ! Imagine How I Lost The Sense To Comprehend Your Topic, All In The Name Of Job Frustration.

that is where the answer lies bro:- in your focus and determination. Am sure something good will pop up soon enough

BIDOO:
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I am not a business owner o! I am looking for an opportunity just like you

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Four hundred and eighty (480) graduands on Saturday received Postgraduate degrees and diplomas of the University of Nigeria in what the Vice-Chancellor, Professor Benjamin Ozumba, described as “the highest by any Nigerian university in one year.”

At least, 480 of the 2,113 graduands, who were conferred with postgraduate degrees of the university by the Chancellor and Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi Akande, were Ph.D candidates.[/quote]I can't imagine that over 50 persons will comment on a post without even reading the content. We are in trouble in this nation. The man said 480 postgraduate degrees not PhD

OP the registrar said received (POSTGRADUATE DEGREES) oh! not PhD. Postgraduate degrees mean a combination of all postgraduate programs (PhD, MSc, PGD etc.)

Go and buy one sex slave because no man you marry will do that. Buy a slave and before you do that, make all the money you can make so that you won't have to be leaving the house but you will rather live on his dick alone!

Where are all the "money na money" girls?

mhizbel:
What I know is that first impression matters a lot...
You made her see that you're a cheerful giver, oga just be cheerful nah. Even God loves a cheerful giver... Abi no be so?

You just said the bitter truth that most don' t want to accept. Before you start shouting she demands too much, ask yourself the following:
1. How did you meet her? so many will do anything (including borrowing and or forming loaded) to please a girl and gain acceptance.
2. How do you dress? Some guys have no shi shi in their pockets but will dress far better than Otedola and the likes in the millionaires leagues.
NOTE: am not saying you shouldn't look good. However, as much as you want to be addressed the way you are dressed, you should be wiling to take responsibility for all the addressing you will receive.
3. How do you talk? some guys have next to nothing but like talking big just to impress. When you talk big, the girl will see you big and demand big. So do not insult her afterwards.

Moral Lesson
None of the top 20 billionaires is on that list. This is to show that these things do not define wealth. The really rich ones put their monies to better use. Selah!!

mmb:
Carry go Baba.

Do you think Atiku can get this type of salute from Gowon, except from Obasanjo his god.

I salute your level of ignorance! This is a veteran saluting another veteran and zombies are making nonsense comparisons. I shake my head for you and your type.

How come physiology is occupying the 5th spot? I don't get it o

kotv:
It does not work anywhere else except southwest. Noone is stupid enough to have one person to control an entire area.

It doesn't happen because no region has a brilliant politician/ godfather like BAT. If you doubt it ask Ambode. The man will not bring you and allow you to establish your own political structure.

Your confusion is to doing warmup pressup. She told you shed had someone yet you continued dating her. To what end? Now God has answered your prayer by changing her mind to accept you and you are complaining. If you like yourself better reprepose to her and marry her before she will pour you acid for refusing to marry her after she has turned down someone else.

I need a comprehensive list of educational publishers (Popular and Unpopular). Please fell free to write any that you know of.

masterchi:
what's your location?

Sokoto

912:
Hmm everyone is shouting Articulate now o. All of a sudden we are totally blind to this dude's corrupt and ill gotten wealth. Let's be careful what we wish for o. A word is enough for the wise

In Nigeria, every rich person is corrupt. Has any court ever indicted him? Are u saying OBJ in all his pursuit of Atiku's downfall didn't want to unleash the effc against him even if he was convinced that he was corrupt? Let's stop beer palour talk and face facts.

foyeks2001:
Is Mummy justifying those married women cheating on their husbands? Like what if the man loses his source of income?
So women are permitted to fall out of love?

Hmmmmmmm I guess buhari was right with his lazy youth comment. The woman said get a job before you marry not become a millionaire before you marry. Even billionaires have moments when they are financially not OK so equating the statement to asking women not to faithful in times of want is totally baseless. Many girls will pester a guy into marriage and even make him feel like it doesn't matter if he isn't working. But as soon as they become Mrs, the story changes and they start bashing him as to how he can't even provide.

Flirtyjane:
Why did he run? some lecturers are fond of this kind of attitude. Always feeling like gods.

Say this same thing after your younger bro or sis brazenly disrespects or disobeys you in an annoying way and I will take you serious. We are just too quick to condem people without getting details. Mchewwwwww

They are all too selfish by default to have a leader. To them it seems like bravery but its the most foolish stand ever and that is the reason the region doesn't command much politically (No common interest). Let 2023 come and we will see another region will still snatch the presidency because they will be too busy fighting among themselves to be able to unite and win the election.

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carammel:
What is he doing wrong?
Has he gone out of shape?
Has he stopped being romantic?
How does he dress and smell?
Does he give her more money?
Mr man,you have to do everything to keep your wife,those other men out there are not smiling.

Madam did u read the post? Its not a question of what he is doing or not doing. The woman maintained her old apartment from the start of their marriage.

Anybody for sokoto here?

For all the men looking for happier lives, the answer is here. It is as simple as ABC-marry an orobo. Below is the full text of a study that shows that men who marry plus-sized women are happier.

If you’re a guy who tends to take a woman’s looks into major consideration when choosing a prospective mate, then you might want to read this article. If you’re like most other men in this world, you’re only going to be physically attracted to ladies who are slimmed down with great figures. Of course, no one can really blame you for being like that. It’s just how you have been conditioned by media and the rest of modern society.
However, science has proven that it would do you some good to be a little more open-minded. Don’t completely shut yourself off to the idea of dating girls who aren’t as slimmed down as you would typically like them to be. Open yourself up to the idea of dating a bigger girl; a plus-sized woman.
Science has shown that if you want to have the happiest life that you could possibly have, it would really help if you choose to marry a woman who is considered to be bigger and meatier than most others. Of course, we all want happiness in our loves. So, it would really help you out to at least read this article in its entirety. There’s nothing to lose and everything to gain here. You only need to maintain an open mind.
There have been many recent studies that have been carried out by leading researchers and various experts on the field. These trained professionals have found that men who were in marriages with women who were considered to be curvy and plus-sized were men who led very happy lives. In fact, in a comparative study, these men who were married to plus-sized women were likely to be 10 times happier than men who married skinny women. Hard to believe? Well, these were the findings of those exhaustive studies. And it can be really hard to argue with science.
These studies also produced some other very surprising results: the same men who were married to plus-sized women were more likely to smile more in a day; and they found that solving problems were a lot easier when compared to those marriages that involved skinnier women. One of the theories behind this phenomenon is that women who were bigger tended to be more anticipatory.
They were women who were really mindful of the needs and expectations of their men. Contrary to popular belief, plus-sized women are more thoughtful in marriages. They are less selfish. They are woman who are always looking for ways to satisfy their husbands throughout various aspects of their relationship. In short, fatter women tend to be more delightful; hence, the increased happiness of their husbands.
In that same study, most men lamented that the genuineness and honesty of their wives made it a lot easier for them to stay in love. Fat women tend to be very upfront about who they are and they don’t hide whatever flaws they might think they have. And it’s that kind of self-awareness that makes their men much more content and happier. Another factor that went into play here was the fact that plus-sized women tended to be more likely to have healthy pregnancies. They have wide hips that make it conducive for birthing. And the added weight during pregnancies isn’t really an issue for them since they are used to being generally big people.
And if you’re still curious about the many other reasons as to why plus-sized women tend to make their husbands happier, here they are:
1. They don’t pressure their husbands into being unreasonably physically fit. They don’t really require big arms and chiseled abs.
2. They always make it a point to make food a real experience. Having meals with them is always going to be enjoyable.
3. They can be very easy to please. Even something as simple as preparing a nice snack for them can be enough to lift their moods.
4. They tend to have a better sense of humor than other couples. Remember that the more laughter there is in a relationship, the happier the environment is going to be. And when there is no shortage of laughter, there is no shortage of love as well.
5. They are just better huggers; plain and simple. There is so much more warmth and affection in a hug that comes from a plus-sized woman.
6. Fatter women just tend to be better cooks as well. Men are bound to be happy in the kitchen with the way that their wives wield the spatula.
7. They’re natural foodies. They’re never going to say no to a nice date at a nice restaurant.
8. They are natural sweethearts. They know how to be romantic.
9. They tend to be more confident. They accept the fact that their bodies are like that; and they don’t really have a problem with it. They don’t try to live up to society’s standards and expectations of them. (Am skeptical about this though)
10. There is just more of them to love.

https://www.relrules.com/science-reveals-that-men-who-marry-plus-sized-women-are-much-happier/
#iLuvThemChubby

meforyou1:
and who is the president of nigeria for the 3 years?

Go to Sokoto and see the Jega-Sokoto road and you will know that Mark had a golden opportunity to something. If Tambuwal could influence that as a speaker, what stopped Mark from doing same for his people?

For those who always shout 'churches are milking people dry', go and find out where that guy worships. It will most likely be winners or some of these 'new generation' churches because THEY ARE TAUGHT THE DIGNITY OF LABOUR and how to carry yourself in what ever you are doing. The church is raising creative minded people but we will never talk about that. Is it a crime for some of these people to give back to the church that has taught them sound financial management and business transforming tips?

Many things in the story don't add up. Looks more like a daddy freeze and Linda Ikeji disciple trying to lure people into immorality.
1. How come you moved in with him if you felt you weren't married yet? Does your church permit cohabiting but frown at sex before marriage?
2. How come the distance between the trad and the church wedding was as wide as the gulf of Guinea?
3. How can someone who had the courage to even physically resist sex with someone she did traditional marriage with easily spread her legs for a mere boy friend before and even after the incidence?
Please let's fear God o! He might be slow to anger but when His anger eventually comes, there is no hiding place o!

Where are all the "they are selling their daughters" , "they charge too much"....? Let's provide credible info for the sake of posterity. A lot of young people just consider these areas a no go area just because of what they heard. This is a chance to set records straght. If you are from the area and have access to the list or is married from there please do us a favour