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@BlakkBoi not sure but Boi usually refers to a boy girl or gay man or boy. Usually the Boi is a submissive male. I can understand that you are shocked if this is the case. I think it would offend women to be viewed as sexualized objects.

Just want to let you know I understand where your coming from. I am not a gay guy so I am not trying to make the moves on you or build rapport.

First paragraph, you invalidate all fear based conclusions for dysfunctional reasoning for failed relationships (baggage)  - I agree.

If your an existentialist or a naturalist,  I am not sure if it was beneficial for early human females to have a multiple partner desire for intimacy.  Just does not make sense with pregnancy and ovulation.  Men I can see how we are sexually driven  because we do not bare young, so we are always able to copulate.

If there is a woman with some type of multiple love mate desire for intimacy I think it is more of a social problem and she may be going against her nature.  She is probably dysfunctional or damaged goods.  Stay away from this type of woman. And, yes they do lie.

For men to be monogamous, this is a social expectation created by females, understandably so because they need the man to create order and stability for the family in modern civilization.  Men are sexual in nature. If a man has a hard time being monogamous, it is a combination of social dysfunction and a failure of the man getting his sexual expectations met by his partner admist other social dysfunctions, such as emasculation by an overbearing female.  Ladies please learn, you can not expect a Man to go against his dispostion, we are wired this way from millions of years of evolution.  Understand a man's perspective and you might keep us happy at home.

A smooth talking guy like me can easily get into your panties. I know exactly what a woman wants and what attracts them. If your partner has no control at home, which is obvious because you asked such a question, he has no chance of losing you to me. I have no conscious, because he never had you in the beginning. When a woman is really emotionally invested into a man, she does not even think about such a question. The one man, her precious man becomes her attention. Your poor man does not even know how to get his expectations met from you or probably does not even know his own expectations or what he wants from you. I would like to be your friend. We can have a fling. I would be helping you out, helping you realize what is really important between a man and a woman.

Crazy white people used to marry kin folk. So many people out there and you select your cousin. You must have a hillbilly family. You will have a marriage based of disorderly dysfunction I doubt it will work. Not only that, but your children might come out with a few extra toes, and adnormally freakishly large heads.

Can someone who knows this person please help her before she ruins her life and any future children. Please I beg of you, help this child.

Perfect,  he obviously values you sxually.  This is good because all guys whether that admit it enjoy sx.  Just make sure to keep things monogamous, and enjoy yourselves.  Make sure to understand your own emotional needs and teach him how to give them to you.  You are obviously meeting his needs.  Good woman.

Interesting,
Men are disposed to be attracted to a good looking woman. Wealth or status does not over ride our sexual desire. Look at it this way. Would you want to make love to an ugly, fat, short woman who was wealthy? Would you select the poor farmer girl who is real beautiful? Possibly you can get beauty and wealth in the same package.

As far as women asking what a man brings to the table. Be careful of women that think this way. These marriages are full of struggle because they become competitive. Women that think this way usually have a feminist veiw and the man ends up becoming imasculated (castrated) or the quality of these marraiges are less desired. These women are in a constant conflict with themselves. They want a strong man to protect them, yet they want to be as strong of the man. Good luck

Your a man and you have physical needs. There is a lot of studies that clearly show gender differences as the priorities of sex between genders. One thing to accept is that your are a man and do not try to deprive yourself of your genetic disposition. 4 yrs is a very long time. You will go insane or fail because you were never designed to be like a women that might last four years. So think of things clearly. Good luck

Your 27 and have a long way to go. You know the answer and are avoiding it. You know down deep inside after two years and not meeting his parents. One of your friends should have smacked you upside the head after 6 months. They probably tried, but this guy has some power over you. You obviously are desperate or hooked on his manhood. Smell the roses you already know what is up.

Man should always lead and make a good decision for her to follow. Man should be responsible and make the best choice for the relationships interest. She will trust him in the future, but only if he is a good leader. The question is it better to the man or woman to relocate for the benifit of the relationship. Do not forget to be financially responsible, also think about the benifits between supported by family or friends. Either way, let the MAN make the decision.