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1st guy a Banker, 2nd guy a Lawyer. It might be hard to admint this, but you must have some good Gold digging taste. Gold Digger!!!! Don't believe me??

Lets see you go out with the janitor, the humble man. You may never find true love, cause you are in love with money. The money will always break your heart.

Men give to woman and in return woman give to men(sx). Think of it as socialized prostitution. The problem is when women take gifts and things with no intention on giving anything back. These women are the lowest of women. They should be upfront from the beginning and just not take any gifts for meals; they should just pay their way equally like a man.

Once again, Women cry victim and Man is the Villan. When will women learn to take responsibility for their actions. You friend could have left long before 5 years or maybe they just did not get along. But you somehow portray a Man as wrong and the Woman as right. Women like you give real women a bad name and reputation. Woman are very capable at being adults. Let your dummy friend learn her lesson fully, and she will be your lesbian lover. You make me sick!!!

sending people mixed messages by ending in a smile. Not only that it always hurts to break up a relationship, so pain is there, but be courageous and brave. Simple fling is easy to say good by. Remember women get easily emotionally invested into a man, be careful you do not play with their emotions and get your self hooked into a never ending break up.

Ex wife was 10 year younger and a Pain in the Arse.

Now I go for the oldies. Seem like they are more mellow, been around, learned their lessons.

Some guys never stop talking about the ex, All the pain. Sometimes you break up cause of fighting and some guys play the victim role as I am sure she is being a victim also. 5 years is a long time, so I understand.

Personally if your a man, the way to get over it is to have lots of sx with different women. It is a physical thing, so get physical. Becareful that you do not talk about he pain of the ex to the new women you meet. Just have fun and F your brains out. Worked for me.

do not carry it on, your to immature.

try masturbating, it might help you get her out of your mind.

I cry for the same reasons from time to time.  Missing family is hard.  I just let myself cry.  Someone told me that tears heal wounds.  I think it is a way of the body releasing pain or tell you something is wrong.

I got in trouble with all the pain.  It was so great that it broke my mind.  My body began to deteriate so I checked myself into counseling to get help; I knew I was in trouble.  After all of it and a few years, I am a completely new person and for the better.

If you are overwhelmed and can not get access to help, I would suggest to get some guidance.  Maybe you can join a church or somethignsomethinge usually good at things like this.

Be careful that depression does not overtake you. It is a serious illness.  Be on the side of happiness, and take responsibility for you happiness.

Think about it. Women be thinking: What can he do for me?

She has no emotional investment into you, cause you thinking to much with your own selfish feelings. Next time learn how to get a woman to love you. It is not about looks, but focus on a womans heart.

Depends, is she contacting the ex or the ex contacting her. It is a three step process to manage the EX.
1. Tell her to explain to the ex she has moved on and desire him to no longer contact her.

2. If he continues to try, your the Man and you tell him to stop.

3. If it continues, take it to the authorities.

Remember it is very important for your GF to make the first step (commitment from her is necessary).

You got a good thing going. Just make sure she do not get pregnant. Now Keep your mouth shut dummy

Go with instinct, your spidey senses are telling you something. Do not ignore them, and share them with your husband.

They are not weaker potato head.  Women and Men gender abilities.  For example women have babies; it takes a lot of strength to endure child labor.  See what I mean?  I think their brains are differnt also, something about them having better memory, and communication skills.

Men on the other hand have other gender abilities.  I think we are better at warring.  This is self evident.

There is a fine line between being a caring person and a foolish person.

Be careing, but learn to have some self-respect foolish man.

1. Learn how to get your expectations met.
2. Only be caring to women when they earn it by meeting your expectations.
3. If women do not meet your expectations, do not shower in caring love, but ignore them or make them uncomfortable.
4. Recognize people, especially women like to be validated or given attention, so use that knowledge for your expectations.
5. If you get your expectations met, your happy, because you accomplished your intent.

I know all this sounds selfish, but your the Man and leader of the relationship, half the time women do not know what the hll they want, so be more responsible and LEAD.  Remember, women control sx, but men control commitment, with both sx and commitment comes responsibiltiy.   Essentially, grow up and be more responsible on how you act in your relationships.

I feel sorry for the dude. If I were him I would just tell her to leave and try to start my life over again. I would want to erase her from my mind.

Dumb men, let your wives go clubbing and get a little tipsy. I have a few MILFS in my time. Hope to see yours there.

Women try to be men and vice versa, it does not work.  If we try to be what we really are we will compliment the other by design.

@Faher

You so harsh dude. I was feeling the guys anxiety, but you just had to say the truth. It is sobering.

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I would feel strange sleeping in bed. But being a single guy, next time just stay on the couch and if you bring over women, use the bed. Make an arrangement. That is how roomies do it, work together. Also think about getting a hammock, they take down easy.

We would all have to go sometime, so what better way than together.

Just tell her you intestered in being more than a telephone friend, and U want to see if there is something there that could lead to a meaningful relationship. U know Master_1 she could actually be the one person that could change your life, so have some faith. She probibly has nothing emotionally invested into you so she does not know what is up? Women are strange creatures.

What ever you do, don't do the same back to her, cause you will become her, so whe will be leading you. You the man you lead. If she does it again, just immediately walk away and completely ignore her. Do not explain your self to her or discuss it any longer, this is validation, and women like validation. I she does it a few more times, tell her she is going to have to leave. She will learn to respect you.

Newleyweds should have their space during the 1st year of marriage. This is the time you get to know eachother and build the foundation of your marriage. Please tell you husband your expectations. Let him know how important it is to you to try to live as isolated from the outside in-laws. Do not argue with him, but let him lead to meet your expectations.

Simply said: A family that prayes together Stays together.

Just tell the truth. Expose it so they can fix the problem.

Poster, your a man, How come your trying to create an image of woman being a victim. Can't they be responsible adults. You are insulting to them.

Yes, I was married to one. They do wash thier husbands clothes.

Dear Mr. Atheist,  Both men and woman must fulfill their gender functions in a relatoinship or they will be unhappy.  I you do not believe me, go put on an apron, do some cooking and give the wife a foot massage.  In time she will be disgusted with the big kitty between your legs and she will go out and find a real man on the side to make her happy.