I think the mind is lustful. The spirit is love. I'd say try to love with the spirit; build a relationship off the spirit, and the love will last forever and overcome all challenges. It is hard to find someone like that, so you might have to convince them.

I lived with a woman that did not know how to cook. I got tired of paying for her to eat in a restaurant.

I eventually started leaving her home, while I went out for a home cooked meal. It was nice, I no longer had to pay for her. I started eating at my friends and family. All the time I just left her home. I had so much fun during this time, cause I would hang out and socialize with friends.

It was short lived, because my partner at that time miraculously learned how to cook. So I got stuck eating at home and the party was over.

@Poster, your spot on!!!

So many men do not know how to get what they want. The woman knows how to get what she wants, but many men have no clue. If it were up to women, men would spend their whole paycheck on them. Meanwhile men are left in financial ruin. Make it both ways, learn how to spend her money if that is what you want or make it equal and share.

By the way, a woman will leave a guy after she financially ruins him, cause he is a weak man.

It is iteresting that your classified each race by color. I wished you would have classfied by culture, because there are so many variations within each color. For example, I have seen many dark Koreans that could by brown. How about many of the dark Greeks? Black people come in so many shades, especially in the USA. Many black people are lighter then Mexicans. Not to mention, all the dark Mexicans? In the USA black is defined by each state. For ex. Lousiana, 1/32 african descent is considered Black; this is the law.

As far as my personal views, I like all women. I appreciate their cultural identify. I do have a distaste of Black women that identify with being White. I think it looks funny for a Black Woman to relax or straighten her hair, it just looks unnatural, I hate it when a black women gets a nose job and loses her ethnic identity.

Dislike asians that get the surgery to look white. Dislike white woman that get collogen injections for the full lips of a black woman.
Women always trying to look like something else? What is up with that?

Just tell her you left it off after washing your hands or something. Women are so caught up with putting a chastity ring on their men's fingers.

they are sooo insecure.

Start off by identifying the problem: Your a sx addict.

All women are virgins. I even met a 40 yr old virgin. All women also say they hate liars, and they never lie.

She is controlling you by playing the guilt game. Correct her and tell her your not putting up with such childish ways. She the one leading the relationship by using guilt.

Everyone is responsible for their own actions. Don't get caught up playing fear based games. Don't get caught up living someone elses dreams or fantasies. Live your OWN!!! If you want to be in a relationship, do it for you, not for her.

You need to be a man and take control of the relationship. Remember, men control commitment and women control sx. From where things stand she is controlling both. If it continues, your relationship will fail. Now go and be a man.

I think it all varies. Some women are arrogant some are not. Regardless, it is all a fake outer shell. Lots of arrogant woman I met put up this fake front. Once you get to know them and when they trust you. You can really know them and you might find someone really meaningful.

For me I like the arrogan women, cause if they do not put on an arrogant shell, I usually walk all over them. That is the way I am.

Disagree with everything you copied. I disagree because all your society based values of being a real man are just that: Societies ideas.

A real man is just himself. We all have the right to live our own dreams, not some image or view of how women perceive men. The perception of women are doing nothing but hooking a man in

The husband an outsider and should stay out of it. He is there to support his own ego. The man is drama bound and probably has a lot of drama in life.

Give that man a Star award for being a weakling.

this post is to general. If you think of it you can create an endless repsonse. there is a lot of info on conflict resolution.

R those real pics or is it all fake? I feel bad that the lady is all over the internet now. How embarrasing!!!

Funny though, what is up with all that hair? Give her some fake blue contact lenses. Now those look real.

a pot of ice cold water thrown on me. Worked everytime. Gave me nightmares of drowning in an icy cold ocean. Adrenaline would rush through my vains and I would crap my underwear.

Try it sometimes, it is very refreshing.

Shame on you! How could you do such a thing? Your mother will be sleeping on a bed that you fornicated on. The bed is possed with evil spirits of sinful desires.

This is very serious. You need to go to church and ask for forgivness. For your mother's sake, Ask a Catholic priest to come to the home and exorcise the evil from the bed.

MRbrownJAY:

^^^^^in today's world the mother of your kid or a common law partner would get just as much. isnt it?

I assume Douglas is in a California divorce, but not sure.  In cali common law marriages are not recognized. In Cali you have to split all assets if marriage is longer than 10 years.

Support for children is only until child is 18, then liability ends.  Child support is calcuated by income levels and amount of time child is shared between parents.

Douglas should have incorporated his name as a business corporation and put himself as a payee or worker for the corporation. That would protect his assets.

I never liked my english surnames. I have often wanted to disgard it like Malcum X did.

When you hit a certain level of financial success, you become an organizational entity. These type of people should not get legally married, to many liabilities. Just stay in a partnership.

lol, like father like son. This is cool keeping it all in the family. Older people getting it on. lol

I don't blame the mom or the girl.  I'd want my daughter to marry someone with a BSC also, and I am a guy.

A degree is important.  It shows mental discipline.  Lots of studies show earning potential and success of people with degrees.

She should have a degree also.  I like this girl, because this type of woman will inspire a man to live to his potential.  She is good for him.

Degrees create opportunity and maturity, Knowledge is power, don't let anyone convince you education is not important. Degrees are an investment into the person on many aspects in one's life.

Invalidate this woman. Don't take this talk from any person, she is belittling you.

When a woman says you can't handle me or take my load, put her on the spot, make her feel embarrased.

Tell her next time, " are all women as greedy as you, gold digger!!?" Than change the topic and do not give her issue any more attention. You guide the dialogue about what you want.

You found a good woman with good standards. A woman like this can really help out a man.  She is a go getter.  Hang on to her dude.  Don't let her get away!!!

Your kind of whimply letting this woman take advantage of you. Do not get rid of her, but get control of her. This can be a good lesson for you go grow a spine.

He has ADD"attention deficit disorder." That is how active minds are. Ask the guy if he suffers from insomia from all the hyperactivity. look into L-theodine

~Sissy~:

at the end of the day, catholics are Christians, baptists are Christians. the same Jesus, the same fight for salvation, the same Heaven. so personally, to me i still don't see the big difference.

Sissy you should talk to a catholic, they do not believe your the same. My wife is a catholic and she keeps telling me how she is so different. I am Baptist and I keep telling her we are the same. We do go to seperate churches. I reason it that my relationship with God is supreme. Hope I see her in heaven.

woman want a big fat banana.  The lady does not want to get stuck with a small pickle for life.  She wants to try him out for size, to make sure he can satisfy her.  

Maybe if he were to agree to let her give him a handjob, so she can test him out for size and stanima it might work for her.

I think she is into 69 sx and is looking for someone that is just the right height. Your just incompatible for her.

Corky Joe:

Here are two Problems I have with Feminism:

2) Feminists believe that romantic love, chivalry and motherhood are all bad because they involve sex differences

Corky Joe I have to disagree with number 2. Feminist teach women to accept a social handout. Think about it, a women can earn more or the same income, but she still wants the man to pay or be a gentleman; this creates inequality between genders.

I do not think it is about making the sexes the same, but more about emasculating or degrading men. One comment here said you lack self confidence, thus they are making degrading comments towards you. This is the motive of feminism, male bashing.

Initially I would say, Just cheat back on the guy, but maybe she is not like that, so why disgrace herself and be something she is not.

Simply she is incompatible. She has two options:

1. Accept that he is a cheater and insist that he wears condoms.

2. Move on and find someone else who shares her views of monogamy.

After reading all these post, I did not realize Naija women are such a freakin burden. They probably reserved in the bedroom and just lay there like a dead fish in the missionary position.

I would not want a naija woman either. I do not blame the guys. But the poster said you go back home to marry one Is it because naija men are bad in bed?