Regular undies, no problem, look at it as just plain dirty clothes. We wash eachother's clothes.

Some women use their kitty to control men. Do not be with someone like this. Your relationship will not last and you will make it harder for the next guy after you. NO KITTY CONTROL UNLESS IT IS PMS.

Have fun with this to practice your game. You lost her cause you had no control over her. She did not follow you, but she is following someone else. Man up and start getting your expectations met, she will follow.

Hairless encourages kinkyness.

dated a bi, we had lots of 3somes. it was fun

Just like a typical woman, you trying to base love off of fears. Do you see the problem in your argument? I doubt it because you are a woman.

Don't worry African Man.  The human genome will not be hurt by the lack of your DNA in the gene pool.  Come to find out there are over 6.5 billion people on our planet.  Don't worry we'll make it without you.  One way you can help, try adopting and taking care of some of the unwanted children.

Or possibly donate the funds you were planning to use to spread your DNA to an orphanage.

Sheesh, some egotistical people got some nerve.

Men lead their families and women should follow.  When a man's family fails usually people hold the man responsible, even the courts.  Responsibilty is part of leadership.  Women do not like to be responsible and no one holds them responsible, so they should not lead.

Sometimes this leadership appears to be self centered, but it is not.

Miss B is confused, but she will learn after she fails.

Ok, so you find someone you like and you want to act like a virgin. Ok men there is a lesson: To get the goodies do not let these women think you love them.

Can someone slap this man upside the head? Here I have better advice, can you please see a doc to remove your testicles. You should never have children because they might come out as dummies.

Good Job, you set her straight. Keep training her when ever you feel chocked. She will learn.

I cried like a baby for months, but afterwards I am the most happiest I have ever been!!!!

Your a joke.

One study showed that men put sx as a priority in their lives.  Women put sx much lower.  Point is that Men are dispositioned for sx.  We can not be anything else but a man.  Many times women think men are like themselves but they are not made this way.  We do not even think the same.

Your man obviously is a man, but I am wondering if he was sexually deprived at home?  I have found when I have a women that meets all my sexual expectations, yes men are freaky, I do not think of other women.  I have also been in relationships where the chemistry is not there for uninhibited sx, and my mind wonders to find the women that meets my sxual needs.

Women that try to be to lady like in the bedroom will often find their men wondering.

I am older but look really young.  I once married someone 9 years younger, nothing but problems.  After divorce, I date a lot of women and the young ones are headaches, lack maturity, but look nice.  I like the ones my age or close to my age.  Problem is that a lot of women my age lost their looks.

Getting married is serious. Your the man and you have to be financially responsible. If women want big rings that a man can not afford it is because they are like children; they are not financially responsible. After stating this, get the best ring you can AFFORD. Some men can not afford much so they get a bigger diamond on the 5th anniversary.

She wants indirect financial support. This is legalized prostitution. Your teaching your Virgin Girl friend to use her pssy to control. You are teaching her to be a prostitute. Ask her to meet your expectation first.

Dear Black brother from Africa.  I am an American and I like this site because I wonder how black people from other places think.  I was told Black men from this part of the world were proud strong men.  I just do not get it.  From the responses, I think your reputations have been exagexaggerated
My only advice is to MAN THE FK UP!!!  You sound hurt cause love her, but you are not this womans diamond.  Looks like she has control and is calling the shots and you are validating it to yourself in your own mind?  I do not care how many degrees you have, how much money you have, how hadsome you are.  Women like MEN who are men!.  You have been P whipped.  If you were here,  I would take you out on the town get you brains shagged out with the bounty of women and get her out of your system.  After getting shagged, I would take you to a mountain top and make you shout that your the baddest Mo Fo Man in the world.  Once you adjust your perspective, I would bring you back to her and make her meet your expectations.  You tell her your the MO FO King of Africa, and she need to start treating you like it.  If that does not work, kick her to the curb and get some other woman that knows better.

P.S. before kicking her to the curb, make sure she goes down on you mandingo warrior manhood. Then kick her to the curb. Maybe if these type of women get kicked to the curb enough times you can help out the other guy that gets involved with her.

Sounds like you have a big MANGINA between your legs.  MAN-UP and get some control on that piece of tail.  You just not doing it for her, go get some tonight from her, hit it good long and hard like you never hit it before,  do it LIKE YOUR CRAZY AND NEVER HAD ANY IN YEARS and pull her hair, smack it few times.  After wards tell her go cook some food cause your tired from all the f-ing.  After you finished eating, smack your lips , wipe your hands off on the bed sheets.

Tell her she better stop all the f-ing around with everyone in town or she going to have to go downtown on your Mandingo.  NOW MAN-UP!!!!

Some of these freaky women just need to be controled!

So typical, women always want something from men while they lay on their back and use their pssy to control them.  No wonder men are this way.  You woman use to much pssy control.

Fugly

Some wht women are into blk midget sx.  Go for it shorty.

With modern woman, Both persons should pay their own way.  Think of it like an outing with colleges or co workers. 

Chivary is a thing of the past. In the old days, the man would pay, but the women would make a nice home cooked meal for the guy to show him she is a good home maker.  But those days are gone. 

If you go out with a woman that expects you to pay for everything, be careful this is a trap.  She will get you to cater to her needs and empower herself over you. You will look down between your legs and you manhood will be replaced with a big mangina.

Pssst, yeah, hey you, yeah you,
Ms busy body. Let your friend and her BF take care of it. Get out of their business Ms Drama queen. Go get your own bf, and stop being a home wrecker.

Good article. I beleive control is a mechanism for a man to create order in the relationship. Women are atractted to order. Men need to figure out what they want from the relationship and use emotional control to create the order and achieve his expectations. Thing is men do not know what they want half the time. Men are also physical animals(sx) women know this and use sx to control a man. However, men control commitment in exchange for the sx. We have the emotional control.

Lots of women are raised to have narcissistic behaviour.  They are raised to believe that they are here to rreceivethe bbenefitsof a man vs giving bbenefitsto a man.  Men further support this belief by validating their bebehavior We lie to tell them what they want to hear, because we want sx.  It is all twisted.

The funniest thing I hear is when an ugly fatty woman starts talking about her dream guy, when her dream guy would never be interested in her type.

One thing men can do to change this dysfunction is stop complementing women unless the earn or deserve a compliment.

Sounds like you given up a lot for this women. She was never emotionally invested into you. Maybe you gave or validated her to much. Her love was not recipocated. A lot of women think men are there to give to them. Make sure you get your expectations met in the future.

Fastest way to a Man's heart is to make him feel like a Man.  Problem with women is that they think men think like woman.  Men like to be the boss, they like to be strong, a protector, a provider, they like to lead, and lots of sx.  Most modern women do the opposite because it is against what society teaches them.  Most women like to compete or challenge their men.  So now we have a high divorce or infidelity rate.

Generally, how do you cope in a relationship where the other person is just not smart enough and not demonstrating a will to learn?

All women have the potential to be smart. Women in general are just socially conditioned to be what they are. A beautiful woman has been in a social climate to be retarded, because men probibly just told them what they wanted to get sex. They have been validated to act like a dumb B. Women like this just need to be treated as the dumb B they are. Eventually they will snap out of it and learn or they will get old and turned out, cause beauty is not forever.

I know it sounds harsh, but I am hoping the beautiful woman out there realize that beauty is not everything for attraction.