I think your saying an uneducated man lacks character?

I have to disagree. There are plenty of educated men in the world who have committed some of the most heinous crimes in the world. Many politicians and lawyers, finance directors etc etc.

I do not think Nigerians are as pure as they would like to think.

The milk man has visited your granny back in her sxy days.

I do not think Nigerians are as pure as they would like to think.

The milk man has visited your granny back in her sxy days.

Put him in jail

To hell with that dumb Azz white hoe. She got knocked up on purpose. Do what you can to avoid that crazy bich.

Another thing, why did you marry such an ignorant man? Oh well, work through your problems. at least your family is still together.

Next time keep the man on a leash.

Men do not play that dumb AZZ Victim game.

If U want someone telling you sorry all the time go have a child that apoligizes for doing stuff wrong to you.

Your not so smart.

Turning it up or telling her your more inclined to turn it up since she objected to the song is a passive aggressive response.

Kind of feminine (passive aggressive)

Just do what you want and ignore her test. That is what most grown men do. Do U always respond to childish behaviour?

sounds like your looking for an excuse to be a Player.

we know you guys only really approach the easy ones.  the good looking ones are already taken and already have the cream of the crop.  Your friend gets hit on, cause she is probably average looking.

Ok, so he has a temper when someone dies at his wedding. Maybe he was stressed.

either way, you have a baby and must love the guy. Work with him as a couple. This is your first major hurdle, there will be many more to come in the following years of marriage. This is part of marriage. If he is an abuser, work through that as well. just another challenge to make you guys love eachother even deeper. just remember with every challenge you accomplish you guys become stronger. Good luck.

involve your fiance, that way she will be part of the solution for the honeymoon and cerimony. If you don't she will not understand why you made certain financially responsible decisions and my resent you for being a cheap man.

Good way to start off a marriage also.

Tell Dad, to come and live with you. Cut you bills and dig in for the long haul. He is your dad and will always be until the day one of you die. Nothing better than relying or helping family. But real help is what is important.

Agreed, put your faith in the Lord.

I like to raise my children better, because we moved up on the economic ladder. Why suffer? No need to. Just prepare the children to become independent.

U distrust her? How come? What did she do?

wishful thinking romantics is not real. Fact is in Cali 75% end in divorce. So prepare yourself for reality. I think kids cope with divorce. It is not ideal, but it is a reality.

Unubi - get over yourself. You judging her, yet we all know you have your secrets. Maybe internet prn, you lied, cheated, stole, something? Do you think your Jesus Christ.

Expose your secrets so we can judge you and call you dishonest. Get over it, challeges you overcome in your relationships will make you stronger. Do not believe people here have perfect relationships. We all have problems, but if you can make it and overcome this hurdle, you will be closer to the person you love.

I married a woman 9 years younger. Biggest pain in the Arse! Never again. There is to much age difference and there will lots of conflict waiting for you to grow up. I divorced and married a woman older than me. While single and after my initial divorce lots of young women, but a pain in the Arse!

look out for your marriage and not youself. Insist your wife do the same. Having a child take both parents, even for adoption.

Just bury it and have some kind of grieving moment. It is your pet and I am sure it will have some kind of emotional attachment, so treat yourself right.

4 years and supporting her!!!  What a waste.  Cut you losses while you can or you will continue to loose.  Don't get stuck marrying this woman.

"What I saw was that she sat close to him while the the guy pretends as if He was sleeping " - Sounds like she was giving him a BL0W JOB.

If the man was laying down and she was sitting up in bed, figure it out.  Sorry if I am harsh, but these other posters are not tellling you the truth.  Wake up!!! Learn your lesson and don't do it again.

Also seems you have some kind of rescuer personality.  This is a dangerous view to take with people.  You will loose and the people being rescued will loose as well.

Hold on, you said you don't have sex with him because you love him?

Are u a virgin or did you have sex with others that U do not love, but found someone you love and want to be a born again virgin?

Another race dividing post based off the color of skin. Sounding like white folk to me.

Screw what women want. Just do or become what you want, soft or hard or in between.

Men are so obsessed with what women want. Sound like a bunch of Pssy whipped boys who are running around sniffing a woman's pssy like a dog.

Memories are thoughts and dreams of the past that reside in our own minds. I say come to the present where we exist in reality. Love the ones who are here and now. Don't spend to much time dreaming or living in the past or future. That world only exist in our minds.

yes, we all have to be persistent at changing our spending habits. Give it time to slow down.

You are living as a recuer to the younger brother. Stop playing this role.

You are filled with lots of counteracting thoughts(CLASH). Your mind and emotions are fractured. You lack harmony with your inner self. On your level of unconsciousness, you are filled with all these fractured emotions and thoughts, but only the strongest will win and your outward behaviour will follow the strongest thought(form follows thought).

I hope that some day the deeper inner self will not follow the conflicted thoughts of your mind. In fact you might get to the point that you realize the thoughts were never yours to begin with. They are just ideas put in you head by society or incidences in your life. Your spirit or inner self is a sleep. Someday I hope you will wake up.

funny, You sound like an accountant talking about appreciation and depreciation. I think it is strange to think of people as assets and liabilities. You also put value or manhood as an appreciable asset.

I say as a man put your value into the amount of male authority you have. That is how men are measured or valued. A woman will value a man by how much authority he has over her or in life. Do his children listen? How about his friends? It is all about authority.

Think about becoming a catholic priest. It is obvious that you can do with out sex, in fact you sound proud of it.

omega25red:

that friend of yours has unrealistic expectations. she really seems immature. Anyway if she continues like that she will be one of these 30 something chicks out here who are holding on to the last few eggs they have and praying for a miracle

I agree, plenty 30 something single women out there waiting on prince charming. Creates the perfect enviroment for some average dude to hit a few times and move one to the next one.

Funny thing is when these women think they come across their prince charming; they play hard to get and become a born again virgin.