Women always want to get involved with their men's past. While men are just trying to move forward.

Women are eternally involved with the Drama of peoples lives.

Let the man move on and leave him alone please. We have enough problems in the world to deal with, let alone your Drama.

I believe that anyone that thinks or reasons the lustful desires of others outside of their relationships, might have a disposition of polygamy.

I know that polygamy in socially unacceptable for religious or for the reason of social morality.

Knowing your self is part of growing. So if you are this way, just know you are.

Everyman's dream, to be away from the wife and kids, so you can chase your dreams.

Even though in the movies they show tough kung fu women kicking butt. This is not real. It is only for entertainment.

There has never been any woman in history that could honestly beat up a man, not even an old man.

Try beating him with your mind. Learn a game where you can win.

Catholic sx is the best. You can really use your creative minds to do all sorts of things sxually.

So have fun.

Cork, you of all people must know that equality does not exist in a woman's mind.

Woman think:

1. take me out and please me while I will judge you and see if you meet my standards.
2. I am an average looking female, but I would love to hook up with a futballer. Pay no average guy any attention.
3. I have no money, yet I want to hook up with a wealthy man.
4. I should be treated like a Queen, yet my man he is my servant and there to keep me safe and secure.
5. I want a great deal of respect, yet I want to verbally assault a man and tell him how great I am (egomaniac).
6. etc  etc   etc

Your more man than me.

I could not forgive. I would just keep her as a bed mate, but keep it shallow.

Nice post, it is funny. Lady you need to learn how to say NO!!!!!!!!

If you don't, plan to be walked on all your life!!!

Just want to say mommas with babies are the best. Honestly, seems like moms with children are much more laid back and do not give a man a lot of drama. Older women who are divorced are better also.

I know from experience.

Met my wife this way. It really works. Got tired of all the American white women. There are so many, all wanting the black man. Also got tired of the Black American, to much drama. So I went to the net and found my wife.

I bought a pink diamond and had the ring made. Flew to London and proposed. The rest is history.

been here done this, When I got married to the wife, I puchased a home. Before I knew it, three in-laws moved in. They were living there for free, eating all the food. I lived like this for about three years. Long story short, I eventually ended up divorced.

Protect the intimancy of your relationship early in the beginning. Wait until you two are much stronger than cope with others. That is why older people in mature marriages help and share with others. They never do it in the beginning, you might end up in divorce.

MrsEve,
I do not know how nairaland is; however, I can only speak for the USA.  This is common knowledge or common sense.  It is objective not subjective.  When we go to university, diversity education is a requirement here, because we are a diverse nation.  We study the disparities between races.
I did a simple google search and I found an interesting paper:

http://depts.washington.edu/pcls/documents/research/Dozier_AccumulatingDisadvantage.pdf
You can also do google searches yourself.  This data is available to the public.
Most black women in the USA have to be stronger to have a more equitable level of income compared to there counterparts of the other races.  
Sorry the truth hurts. But part of identifying a problem is to expose the dysfunction.

When I was young and dumb, I used to think I a man needed one of three things from a woman to be happy.
Good food   OR   Good sx    OR    Good Looks.

My ex could not cook, and as we fought she became lousy at the other things.  If she could have only cooked, I would have been happy.

Now that I am older and remarried.  I am different and learned there is so much more to being happy.  Now I know it really does not matter is she can cook or not.  In fact she can't, and I do not really care.  I just cook myself,  besides I think most of the great chefs are men.

Great thing about cooking yourself, is that you can make things the way you like.  If anyone complains, tell them that it is their problem.  I've told my wife to get lost a few times she complained.  I love being a Man.

It's not about control or puting black women in line.

It is about Power and setting your boundaries.  Unfortunatley, black women are on the bottom of the social economic list, so they are always tring to become empowered, this is understandable.  The problem is that in a relationship, black woman's power struggle perspective floods over and toxifies the relationship with her man.  Other words she is constantly trying to emasculate or remove the testicles of her Black Man.

The Black man needs to understand this problem, so he does not end up becomming weak under the constant power struggle the Black woman is having with the world.

Black men do not struggle with your woman.  She is the one bringing the worldly Drama Strugle into the relationship.  Just walk away, and let them figure things out.  Maybe in a few generations they will catch on.  There are so many single black woman.  It is not because of beauty, but frankly they can be a pain in the butt.

tpia@:

well said.

Over 70% of people in California are divorced. I have ne researched, but I am sure many are divorced families with children. There can be many reasons for divorce. It has very little to do with the character of a man.

Thanks everyone, I am not going to sing. I sound pretty bad. I am no musician.

Anyone ever sing or saranade a woman?

I have never done it before, and am wondering if women like it? I am thinking about doing it, but am wondering if women really like it?

I suspect many woman never experienced something like this and am wondering if they would like it?

I know it might sound corney, but I am stepping up my romantic moves.

Thanks

Anyone ever pickle things? I have been doing everything; it's fun food science. I am thinking about making pickled whole Okra. I have had that once, it is pretty tasty. It is tart and spicy but not slimy.

Everyone is doing the C-section. Makes it easier for the doctors to run people through the hospital. They have other things on their mind, like golfing with their friends.

welcome to modern medicine a capitalistic approach to healing.

Fallacious, Either or thinking,

To many variables to surmise bad chirdren are from bad parents.

There are many disadvantages to single mothers with children.
1. Most men do not want to raise or commit resources to rear another man's child.
2. Young mothers are stifled, because they have to use their time to raise a child.
3. They naturally try to provide the best that they can for their children so incur a greater expense.
4. The physiological or emotional drain children can make single mothers feel desperate.
5. Many good stable men, even though they might be single part time fathers. avoid LTR with single mother, unless they are not a liability.

this is why in reality, despite child support, women end up paying in the end. They loose the most productive years of their lives. My advice, to future mothers, seriously think about this stuff.

Oh please!!! If the son in law said something to the mother, she should just walk away, remover herself from the abusive envirnment. If she slapped him, he should walk away.

When either one of them come back together, tell the other person, you do not condone abuse. If the abuser can not resolve his or her issure. Always assume that the person is an abuser. When you talk to others and they wonder how come so and so is avoiding the other person, just say so and so is an abuser. The abuser will be treated as an abuser and eventually they will modify their behaiviour.

Ha Ha Haaaa,

Once a playah, always a playah.

Dude can't help himself, he is going after his prey, and is stepping up his game to crack her open!!!

She going to go for it, got her all excited that anyone is paying attention to her, especially a playah.  She is already excited, and she is just as guilty of falling into his trap!!!!

Lots of people pretending to be someone else.

CrazyMan:

Well, it’s ok to cry, but you mustn’t do it publicly so as to maintain your dignity.

Never let anyone see you cry.  People judge you and take it as weakness.  Keep it a secrete.

Crazy women, buy hey if they like the accent, sure I can pretend. Maybe a Mexican accent.
Hola senorita!!!Tu eres un sapo!!

How come she could not get a job and contribute to the family?

You want to have babies so bad, go and adopt some.

There are so many unwanted children. How about adopting a teenager; they need love too.

They say you can look at the mother to tell how your future wife will will develope.

I would slow down and share your feeling with the guy. He deserves to know what your feeling. Hate to see the both of you make a mistake you'd end up regretting for the rest of your life, especially if unborn children are involved.

I think it is great to look beyond color and want to marry someone outside your race. I am half Korean and Black American.  My wife is from London, and she is black.  She says she is soley for the black race.  She would never date or marry anyone outside the black race.  I tell her she discriminates based off of race, and it's pity to love someone based off of race.  I also say she has limited her choices with that sort of thinking.  She calls it preference; I call it prejudice.

My self, I've been with Chinese, Japanese, American black, South African black, Mexican, Columbian, Equadorian, and White.  My Chinese GF was cool, she was a Buddist.