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ABANGWABOI:
Luminouz
Abeg my Gee come and Read the nonsense this pathetic Weakling is spewing..

I just weak bros mi.


The punk just played into the hands of a girl who fuqed several guys after the break up, still dates one of the fuqers and Gods save me, gaslights OP, emotionally wrecking him and making him doubt his manhood.

Heavens help me, OP will soon have a heart attack on that manipulative little witch. The fact that he is on NL asking for 'what to do' shows he is not sleeping well and prolly his BP is 200/130.

She guilt-tripped his ass and he fell for it

kelspinall:
love makes men weak but we don't notice it until we start regretting.our forefathers married 4 wives and they we're submissive to him because he never showed weakness.we think being romantic and loving caring makes us a man.no it makes you weaker.relationship is a big deceiver,the Mexican, philippines and Koreans telenovelas lied to us.wise up guys everything is not karma use ya head.

2 months ago 2 different gals came with love and relationship so that they can fool me and I get something from me.i watched closely and asked them"what are you bringing into this relationship" long story cut short they left and no longer show up again.guys are growing weaker nowadays.

i saw a trend where a young guy stood in the rain professing love to a gal under a roof.i went bezerk,why, lastly he will always beg in the relationship when things are going sideways and the same gal will be manipulating him through that..

my ex told me that I have changed because i failed to listen to her manipulative ways of duping men with lies that someone close to her is sick and needs 30k for treatment.i stand on my ground to never give her that money...2 weeks later i asked her how is the sick person doing,she said forget and inserted a laughing emoji..wise up.love/relationship is not the way we think it was.. peace

You are a real nigga!!!

You have my respect for unplugging from the matrix.

AmazingELixir:



These Redpillers are beginning to constitute a serious problem to nairaland platform....see the number of likes this youngman hot just for indicating his intention to become a Redpiller.

Only people with troubled upbringing will hate women the way these Redpillers do.

Something is very wrong with you.

That a man decides not to be manipulated by his yeye gf who posted her exes on her status always and cheating on him...is now woman-hating?

What a load of Bullshiit!

Goodnigga:
lol, what's wall is that bro?

The wall is age.

When a woman hits 30, she panics....because at that age...her SMV is two-thirds depleted, her eggs are getting old, stale and smaller in number and the number of men who would even look at her for marriage are almost in their teens, if not digits.

The wall is every woman's greatest fear and biggest incentive for marriage. They don't want to be alone and will also gladly look for a retirement plan of bill paying simps to help them live out a relatively easy life.

The wall is every woman's literal definition of Hell.

EmiDon11:
Why are some people like this?
Why such discrimination against women?
Why is it that every single guy in this forum hates women?
Thesame woman that gave birth to you?
Thesame women that will take care of you while you are small?
Thesame woman that will loose blood,just to save you?
Thesame woman that carried you for complete 9months?
Pls, lets stop this discrimination against women pls.,
I will forever respect my woman.,
Pls guys, let respect our woman bcoz it is not easy to be a woman.,
I wish i had a sister, i would have protected her with my life.,
And wont take it likely with any man that messes around with her.,
Pls guys let respect our women.

Lol, take it easy nigga.

I'm a redpiller and I love women. Hell, they fuqin love me too. But most of these guys posting are still in that anger phase after realising how they were played by women. If you know some of their experiences, you'd understand. Some would mature and go on to be redpillers while others would become worse, branching off to become blackpillers or so.

Respect your woman, that's good but don't think women are these angelic beings that can do no wrong or can't swallow two wraps of fufu and goat meat at the same time. They will shock you bro. I see that notion in your write up and just wanted you to know that.

engrchykae:
I read a story in 2008 where a group of hunters went hunting.
A hunter shot and killed an elephant.
The other elephant ran away
While the hunters gathered sharing the carcass of the elephant, the one that fled returned with about 5 elephants.
The five new elephants stood back while the the one that fled to call them stepped forward and trampled the particular hunter that shot and killed their colleague.
But they allowed the other hunters to escape
Do you know what they did next?
They threw down trees upon the dead elephant so that no one can take away the body.
Animals are part of life and we are to treat them with respect.
We are even supposed to learn from animals.
What's it in elephant that help the animal to sense water many miles away?
What's it with whales and sounds?
What's it with serpents and infra red?
But we are deceiving ourselves about be higher intelligence whereas we are the problems of the planet

This is more believable. Elephants can behave like this. They have a large brain, complex communication system and social structure,just like humans. They have a compassion range similar to humans too. They mourn their dead and even bury them and often return to these burial sites every year to visit their fallen colleagues.

N.B: Elephants have a range of senses to figure out water from miles away. They can smell it, from moisture in the air or by seismic senses ( ground vibrations detected by their large flat feet) and prolly more than science don't know yet.

matrix199:
There are two animals you don't want to f**k with, the elephant and the tiger. These two creatures can hold grudges for years.

There was a case of an elephant attack in Congo. A poacher with his accomplice was after a particular bull elephant wanting to kill it after failing to do so previously. The poacher didn't know the bull elephant saw him from afar. The elephant charged at him. Before he could shoot his rifle the elephant trampled him to death.


That late woman must have shuued away a smaller elephant trying to drink water from the river. The herd must have seen her shuu away the young elephant thus the mother elephant lunged at her killing her instantly.

Aome tribes in Indian openly cremate the dead. The body was not in a coffin. The herd of elephants with keen sight must have sighted her corpse and thought to give her a last beaten.



Mind how you shuu away or throw objects at animals. Some animals hold grudges and would attack you when they get the chance.



The tiger, the bear, and the elephant are wild animals that hold grudges.

I don't agree with you on what you said about an elephant 'keen' eyesight. Elephants are not eagles or some shiit. They have moderate to poor eyesight and can see really well up close. They thus rely on their other senses, seismic senses(ground vibrations detected by their feet), large ears and sense of smell.

Your stories about keen eyesight and being able to see from afar are conjectures at best. Elephants don't have such strong eye sense. Ground vibrations, smell and hearing must have played greater roles in what happened in the Congo. On the Indian woman issue, Why would she be killed for shooing away a baby elephant? It's more like she threw rocks or something at the baby elephant and the mom heard her baby's cries and came running, only to find a human and decided to get revenge.

But I keenly suspect that the actual truth is closer to what the woman did while young(poaching or inhuman treatment of elephants) and the younger matriarch at that time, marked her face, smell or something. And since they never forgive nor forget, she still remembered her face years later and killed her.

Deborah98:
You think animals are like humans,they very intelligent and revengeful at the same time. I was coming back from either class or somewhere else two days back and I met this fierce and mad looking dog giving another dog a hot chase,who knows what the latter mush have done to it. It seems the woman took the elephants baby away from her or she displaced them from their habitation. There's a reason why they are animals and should be treated with wisdom. I can't keep any as pet. Never!

Lmaoooo...your analogy is very funny. Dogs chase one another all the time na!!!
On what that woman did to earn such hatred, I'm very sure she can't do that shiit(taking the elephant babies or displacing them from their habitation) by herself. I suspect she is mixed with a poacher group somehow and that herd matriarch has marked her face for a very long time, prolly when she was a lot younger.

Slynation:
Me? Forgive cheating partner?? When I'm not yet mad, I caught her and it led to that statement...!! I withdrew myself immediately and allow the confusionist to carry on with her life, she came back begging like they always do, but I'm far gone...

Now, she's a church goer because she's looking for an unfortunate husband that will accept her for who she is...!! Me...I can only wish her well

Your first paragraph is gold. Nicely done. No forgiveness for a cheating gf o.

Second, that's all they ever do after they hit the mudafucking wall. They fear the wall more than hell fire.

[quote author=pillager post=113965810][/quote]That first post is classic women manipulation.

I love the dude's response.

Slynation:
The bolded

Bro...I became very scared of girls the day my ex opened her mouth to tell me that "She didn't beg me to do all what I've been doing, So I'm not her father, nor her elder brother nor husband to detect how she will live her life, infact make everybody get out"

This was someone I caught cheating red-handed oO... The word is still very fresh in my memory after 2years, Omo...I smart by force

Lol...she served you a hot one.

You goofed by forgiving her for cheating....never ever forgive a cheating woman

Harrisonwo:
Pain wetin! E be like say you still dey learn.

Still childish... When you grow up, learn to engage in meaningful and mature conversation. It will help you a lot.

I go just ignore you until you act matured

E pain you ooooooooo!!!


On a serious note, take a chill pill nigga...don't take it so serious. I was just messing around

Harrisonwo:
See who's talking, I just dey remind you say if you wan shoot know who you wan shoot at cos me I Sabi shoot back.

Illiterate ����

E pain am

CaveAdullam:
1. One thing you must understand about weak people is that by all means possible, their weakness must be justified through righteous means. Their predicament is always a result of so, so and so.

2. Quite alright, there are genuine predicaments, and out of pain, the victim will complain and yell for help. This genuine suffering can be easily detected and in most cases, it is characterized by its ubiquity in many places. E.g the suffering of Africans/ citizens of third world nations.

3. The weak will always show the strength of their weakness when a phenomenon appeals to their state. E.g Mother's Day.

Women don't wish themselves a happy responsible mothers' day, it is a happy mothers' day. Single mothers, casual sex workers, divorcees, adulteress, and widows are masked, their wrongs even before and after that day have been washed away because they are women, mothers, and even mother nature. Mother's day covers their weaknesses and on that day they turned saints. They are not belittled by men and are even appreciated more. And as a result, they feel justified in their weakness...why won't this celebration occur more than twice a year?

4. But on fathers' day, men are scorned and less appreciated. They are only reminded of how much work is remaining and the weakness responsible for this. Rather than their wounds being dabbed, it is exfoliated by subtle henpecking by mother, wife, girlfriend, sisters, and female friends. On their day he protects them but on his day of celebration he is ridiculed...this should tell you that it is the man for himself except he has a god/God on his side.

5. Happy responsible fathers' day - meaning that some fathers are irresponsible. Of a truth some men don't live up to their standard, however, with careful, thoughtful, deliberate strolling down the lane, many of these men are just unlucky. It is never the intention of any man to watch his family live and die poor; it is not in the nature of men. It takes an empathic heart to understand this.

6. However, some men still choose not to live to their standard even if they are up to the task: these men are not the majority of men, they are subsets who out of their volition or lack of wisdom are negligent and nonchalant about their family. Overall, men provide for and protect their families in poverty and riches; health and sickness.

7. Women use this subset of men: deadbeat dads, men that broke their hearts to justify their "happy responsible fathers' day" platitude. Here again, their weakness has found a justification. They blame men for these but do not blame themselves for being myopic and unable to judge these men before any sexual engagement; they don't do it because they are myopic, too fast to jump into any boat provided it makes them feel comfy. Predatory do not make up the majority of men!

8. The single mother and jilted lover don't blame themselves for choosing the wrong men but always wait for a day to accuse every man that breathes the same air as them.

Her mistake is not her fault, it is always his fault. She is always responsible and her lover irresponsible. These are characteristics of the weak and conflict avoidants, they always look for a way to justify their lack of accountability and complacency.

9. The intriguing part of this is that men have inculcated these platitudes and see themselves as true sinners! Many are now a shadow of themselves - no self-love and empathy. They bear this shame, scold themselves and always want to please women especially.

10. The problem of the modern world is not only a lack of positive masculinity but that a rising generation of young men is gaslighted to see every trace of masculinity as toxicity that must be abstained from. It is a pity!

11. Dear men, learn to take good care of yourself. Don't mind others ridiculing you, do what's needful and true for yourself, they won't come to your rescue in time of distress so why bother about them and what they think about you.

Raising a family is not easy, you must understand this task before engaging in it. And if you are there already make sure you do your best and hold your partner and children accountable. The fact that you are a leader, provider, and protector doesn't mean you are the Titan, Atlas. For a family to succeed, all hands must be on deck.

Happy Father's Day.


DAY 170, REDPILL 2022.

Authority: Put yourself first. Positive masculinity.

Gold plated

There is nothing like love....

Respect all the way babe.

kkins25:
Thank God i no comment for the last post. but, i no go lie you bro, I don laugh hard just now... hahahahahahahaahaha....
You mever see anything. Hahahahaah.

You dey mad aswear.

I don laugh taya. OP is a funny dude

Martinez39s:
It is on father's day that some women remember to wish single mums and "women playing the role of fathers" a happy father's day.

That annoys the fuq out of me. Why can't they just give us today and let us be without some emotional bullshiit? There have been close to 6 mother's days this year alone and no one castigates or says 'responsible mother's day' but today I have seen terms like 'responsible fathers...protective and caring fathers'

Like WTF!!!

Palazee:
So sad that the F gender is dictating to us how to be a man

You dey mind them..naso I tackle one resident feminist and she was yarning rubbish. Guess what, others joined and were calling me 'ibadan most wanted' and all sorts. I laughed my head off.

Today is happy father's Day, not happy responsible father's Day but they won't let us enjoy the day without saying shiit.

cococandy:
Hopefully one day your enjoyment won’t depend on anyone’s submission.

You’ve seen women enjoying Mother’s Day without demanding submission. Yet they manage to have a great day. If you don’t find who to oppress, your joy won’t be complete. Too bad for you.

Coco Andy...face your husband and leave me alone.

Today is father's Day, celebrate your Papa and your husband naaaa..


Lemme alone..ozuor!!!

YommyOG:
I work in a commercial bank as a full-time employee. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. She has called me broke to my face a couple of times (I'm in some debt I'm trying to pay off and currently going through other quarter-life crises). We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

- Yomi

Lmaooooo

Redpillers, should we tell him

I'm feeling magnanimous since it's father's day

cococandy:
This thread is where you’re enjoying your Father’s Day?

Go let the people you’re “fathering” celebrate you.

And why does your Father’s Day have to involve women’s submission? You can’t have a good Father’s Day unless women submit to you? Ode!

Back to sender!!!

Today is father's Day. Shut your piehole and let us enjoy it in peace. Cho Cho Cho from you even on sunday?

Coco, biko, what exactly is your problem naaaaaaa?

Oghene1st:
How una raise am! Is it parenting failure?

You are such a fuqin buffõōn!!!

CrownOfClay724:
Your brother committed suicide.

No be everything person go chuk head.

Shut dafuq up!!!

cococandy:
They are going to jump through hoops to avoid giving a direct answer

It's father's Day, mudafucker!!! Yet you won't let the men enjoy their own day?

You already had 6 or so mother's days this year alone yet you won't allow us enjoy a day in peace?

Dem swear for you ni? Hoop jumper!!!

folake4u:
Lmao @bolded. Spot on.
I had a neighbour who treated his wife as trash and he kept yelling the submission thingy to her.

Generally speaking, Submission comes naturally to a woman when the head of the home/husband is fulfilling his own duties well also.

Another fuqin lie. Submission is submission, no conditions attached. Why is it that every thing y'all do, has to do with conditions na? Did the Bible even say you must submit, AFTER your husband has LOVED you? That's some premium Bullshiit na.

You quoted your bad neighbor, why not quote dozens of your neighbors who treat their wives nicely

BloomingDale:
My father and mother has earned the right, not one small boy in the name of marriage. Tahhh

You said 'there is no iota of submission in my body'

No mention of daddy or mummy earning right or not.

You need a man like me to teach you some real shiiit.

BloomingDale:
There is no iota of submission in my body. Rather I will prefer the man submit to me. Not everyone believes in your misogynistic Bible and quoran that was made to cage the feminine energy.

Sometimes when you talk, I just shake my head for you. Since there is no iota of submission in your body, how then do you treat your father, does he submit to you?

MallamChukwudi:
Submission should not be confused with obedience. Obedience is like how a lady endure her rude boss due to her inability to get a good job out there, while submission is more of respect, because you can tell him no. You're strong on your right, which makes your submission an admission of strength.

Tell your boss no and term it submission na...

Deborah98:
The word submission don suffer for Nigerian men month. Any small thing submit... interesting. You don't force your wife to submit to you. You love her to submit to you. It's a two way thing. Wives submit yourselves unto your husband and in return husbands love your wives shikina...

This is wrong biko

Sweetnesstwins:
Dear daddy, I just want the world here to know how much I love and cherish you...and am not just saying you, am glad you get to see it every day, you are the most important thing to me, and I pray for health for you, because sometimes I get scared for you, but I keep praying for...place Lord bless me with a child for my father's sake, I desire is to see him carry my child/children before his time on earth is over, let a child be the next father's day gift I will give to him through your mercy, if it didn't happen may his time be my time, I can't imagine my life without him...I love you, always.

Oya....let me be the father naaaa....I go give you fine babies

sanchell:
Not the the deadbeat fathers though. Women are now breadwinners now the future is female mothers comes first anytime any day

You need to shut dafuq up with that bullshiit. No one talks of deadbeat mothers on mother's Day...so shut your piehole or you don't have a father?

It's father's Day...leave us be!!!

JESHAL:
Bluepilled cucks don't understand okafors law, alpha imprinting, alpha widows, pair bonding, other valid tenets of the redpill they will fight tooth and nail to commit to hoes,this set of idiots always use binary extremes to make their arguments, female nature is universal virgin or not, but we deal with probabilities not possibilities or bluepilled delusions, they are many redflags in vetting women aside the virginity aspect and we not saying men shouldn't be aware of them because the lady is a virgin, I don't care how religious a woman becomes, I don't care whether she has changed her past, her past exes will always have part of her soul,you must choose the best option for you

You nailed it mudafucker!!!

For every ex (Chad, Tyrone) who she has been with, they all took a part of her soul and left parts of theirs as well. Till it gets to a point where she will lose the ability to pair bond with you or anyone else again...and you already married her, so you are fuqed.

I read a research somewhere about women still retaining the DNA of their ex's sperms, in their brains, spinal cords or hell, their amygdala whatever!!! Point is, these DNA are now part of her and influence her decisions too. Imagine a 20 year old female who has been with 20 men, a 30 year old who has been with 60-100 men and incorporated their DNAs too. Is it a wonder why they can't make their husbands happy or be content in their marriages.

N.B:
The lesser the body count, the lesser the emotional, psychological and mental baggage you will deal with if you marry her