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emmaodet:
18 years ago, i made my intentions known to a lady-friend people thought we were dating already due to our closeness, the way she brings food for me, regularly come to my house etc.
After some time, i summoned the courage to woo her but she gave me the shocker of my life with her response.
In her words - i can't date a man with 2 legs rather the man should have 4 legs (a car).
I almost fainted, it was has if a blow just hit me below my belly.
She said she just broke up with her bf who has a car and it won't make sense coming down to date a guy without one, it will look as if the guy won when he noticed she is dating someone below him.
If she is going to date anyone, it will be someone better than the Ex so that he will know she has upgraded.
I thank God for not making her harsh words in my life come to pass. Many men are being told similar things like this and most die poor and the lady will look back and be satisfied with her actions or decision.
In life, presentation matters because we only know today but not tomorrow. The tide can change anytime.
Not dating me is one thing but presenting it in a gentle way is another thing. You just don't look down at people as total failures and nobody, it is very bad.
Well, we met 10 years after and she told me she was divorced because the man she perceived to be rich was just living a fake life - borrowing friends and uncles cars claiming to be his and sleeping with the lady in a nice apartment he claimed to be his own.
When they got married, she realized the truth and was literarily the one feeding the man and divorced him when she got tired.
She was ashamed when she saw me in my convertible car. She wanted us to start dating but nah, i ain't ready for that shit anymore.
I guessed it was the car that turned her on.
My ride below 10 years ago when we met again.

Lol...nice one.

Imagine her guts to even ask to date you after being through a divorce just cuz she saw your level has changed?
Imagine the brutal way she classified you just because she dated someone with a car. Funny enough, she never classified herself based on her personal achievements but those she dated. Na crime for her to get brand new car or house? Why being so proud of something that's not even YOURS.

If I were you, I'd say yes but let her know she is not option A or even Z anymore. She is out of the alphabet. She would see my main gf and would be forced to either be a side chick or gettaout!!!

Tadeknkeepcalm:
You see, that's where you're getting it wrong. You've never read beyond the scope of social studies.
So religion is not a set of belief that guides one life? Wait, do you not know all cultures(principalities aspect of it) are formed from religion.
The above emboldened part does not make any sense grammatically but I understand.
Now, you yourself are the very evidence of why such a union will not work—difference in set of beliefs.
I simply gave a discerning view but you're itching to call me names. Careful there, your hypocrisy is showing.
Now to address your poor excuse of an example. When you say everything you want in a partner does it not occur to you that some people consider religion and in the true sense they are not "everything"? Can you not see that, like those whom you would refer to as extremist, your beliefs and "qualities" supercedes other's? "Since I don't consider religion therefore you too must not or you're foolish". Doesn't that capture your myopic thinking?
Say for example, a Muslim woman imagines that her idea of a loving husband wakes her up for the fair (morning) prayer and together they observe solah as it is their way of life
Or a Christian man cherishes that he admonishes his family every morning with the scriptures as an important aspect of his life. So these qualities, in your own mind, are not differences when their ideals can not be achieved when they are of different religion?

If you take 5 seconds to analyse what you are saying, you would realise what you've written is just full of projections applauded by people of like mind keeping you stuck in an echo chamber.

Another example incase you're a slow person. If you wanted to get married or at least form a relationship, I presume "not taking religion seriously" is part of the qualities you would look out for. So if you see someone that has "everything" but insists on their religious principles, would you not separate from her? And if you do so isn't that within your right as an individual without being called foolish?
I would really like to know your answers to this questions mr.intellectual.

Note: what do you mean by humanity first? Have they denied you anything within your right by not giving in to a relationship with you or are you the one trying to truncate their rights and freedom by forcing your opinion on them?

You have said nothing

The dude you quoted just told you being human is not about religion,race or tribe yet you still insisted on your rigmarole.

I have a riddle for you. This is my own lineage

My great grandparents were Ogun worshippers

My grandparents were muslims on both sides

My parents are Christians

What am I?

Sandydayziz:
Are you in Anambra?

I'm in your heart babe


N.B: Don't mind me, just clowning around.
Happy NYSC

Sandydayziz:
Lies

C'mon!!!

Infact, I'm happy it's that way..I will get to taste your famous food recipes!

oludebby90:
Please ooooo. My sister was posted to cross river. Is there anyone posted there from Lagos lets travel together

So you want to travel with your sister or what exactly

Sandydayziz:
Call up letter is out. Anyone posted to Anambra?

Me me...

https://ihlayanews.com/woman-forced-dogecoin-millionaire-she-met-on-tinder-to-ejaculate-inside-her-at-gunpoint/


This is very annoying. Imagine if it was the dude forcing the girl with a gun to her head.

Romanoff:
I've learned over time that the saying "blood is thicker than water" is a scam.

Your blood is anyone who treats you the way they would like to be treated, with love, with respect, always rooting for you and just want to see you win.

What kind of brother is that?

I no dey kuku tey before I kick out yeye people from my life.

I don't want stress at all.

Yinmu...if na me nko?

*sighs*


How low can a man get for fuq sakes?

In which universe does this lame ass story finds anyone to believe it?
Can't you see how holey your storyline is? It's simply ridiculously ludicrous.

Be creative once in a while naaaaaaaa

ikillbrokegirls:
And some people have fóolishly waste their time on redpill thread looking for attention and giving away their time just because they want claim anti-truth. Thanks to redpill.
#redpillpatriarch.

Lol...
Don't know why that character won't just keep quiet. I guess we are making sense everyday.

@kellzzyy...the good thing about the experience you had was that you came to your senses,realized your errors and fixed them. In this journey, sometimes you fall but once you realise you are slipping, get back up and maintain frame. I understand that konji is a mudafucker and even messes with the best of us at times but like previous pillers advised, practise and practise and soon you will have some measure of control. I admit to you that I have slipped like you just did, in the past. But I got back up and made amends. I subjected myself to the same conditions again and learned to say NO. The truth comes after a man cums. No one knows that better than I do. What makes it sadder is that these girls treasure sex as much as we do, act like they do us a favour, they expect to be satisfied sexually without even doing their part( just lying down and groaning like a beached whale under you as you pound), are quick to criticize your sexual game but not her own, expect favours(material or otherwise) as payment for sex you both enjoyed and lots more.

@gokesoye... I know she is your gf but putting yourself at such financial risk was unwise. Didnt she have parental backing or something? Then, inconveniencing yourself to entertain her on a normal visit is too much pedestalizing. Surely, she could come to visit you without expecting something fanfare, especially if you told her how much her NYSC stuff drained you. I will make further comments after your update tonight/tomorrow.

emmaodet:
Ok, if you don't mind let's talk offline

Ok bro...send a PM then

lebete3000:
Them dey geh the tin wella ba?

Very well

Martinez39s:
Things are going well; I was just speaking in general.

See as you burst my potential client.


Spoilsport

emmaodet:
Lumi Lumi, u too like give away ehhhhhhhhh
I dey suspect say be ibadan man sef

Lol...I'm not from there but I stayed so long in that town

Lalami3232:
Guy na u fkup. If a babe dey visit me, I make sure say I give her 100% of my time and attention. Imagine say na you visit her and her friends come tell her say make she come, then she really mumuishly tell u about am, how u go feel? I no say make u be pussyass nigga oooo, but if person visit you, try as much as possible to give them that attention, no matter how boring dem be cus they left something at home just to meet you. People dey always like to visit me not because of sex or because of say I dey give money, but because of the way I dey treat visitors. Make sure say before u request/accept a visit, ur schedule dey very clear. Make I tell you one small story oooo.

As a corper, I visited one babe like that, the babe na indigene of the community. She was so happy to see me and coincidentally her friend come show that day. Three of us just dey catch fun and before I knew it, the babe don leave me and her friend to go fry garri wey her mama ask her to do. After a time, me a d the friend come dey find her, when we go backyard, she was there frying garri . As I dey go house, this babe give me almost everything wey she fry but I no appreciate am cus all I wanted was her presence and not garri. Though she apologized sha but the thing pain me cus if she know say she no go give me time, why invite me over? So bros, na u cause ur own misfortune. Next time, buy padlock for ur pots cus our babes are hungry ooooo

So she should refuse to help her mum cuz u came along?

Some stuffs happen unexpectedly na

OP na werey

You wan cry over turkey? Generator stuff?

emmaodet:


Country hard reach your side too?
Na wa ooo bcus me i no dey feel am at all oo

Bossman,do giveaway na.

ikillbrokegirls:
Dem use attention swear for some people.
You talk talk talk dem no send you and you still dey look for person wey you want follow argue on top redpill matter.
transgender werey.

That is why i love islam it teaches redpills.

As dey take attention swear for nigerian girls reach one stupid girl slide into my DM Just for her to tell to like her newly uploaded profile pics i no blame mosdii at all.

BigSarah:
One thing I dislike and admire about this presidency is they don't care, they've lost the feeling of guilt.. How can you defeat who can't feel guilt or shame?

They can feel death.

Have you tried giving them that?

Mota1:
Available

I'm serious bro...gimme those cars keys na

You know that car fits me die....

Don't be stingy. Gimme as birthday present

BLOODYSPERM:
"My girlfriend has shared a bed with male friends in the past, and I don't care because I'm secure enough in myself and trust her enough to know nothing will happen."

What a foolish Simp

Anytime I hear a girl talk like this, I be like ehhhhhhhhnnnnnnn!!! For real? Shey I be JJC ni?

Next thing is, I'm a billion kilometers away from her ass.

Jimmyubah2:
As dbanj take fade na so Davido and wizzy too go take fade.

So will every human,including you and the guy you quoted

First Tanzanian I'm seeing with moderate yansh.

Tundex911:
Awon weyrey gbogbo


Smh

They actually are not the cause of your heartache.


Chill na....

Grandmaster4:
that their small pikin mischievous vibes no dey again jare.. make dem go rest, but anyway it's good they're back..
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check my signature

What exactly have you said now?

You sound confused