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grandlexuz:
You on the other hand is the unready one. It doesn't take a big ass, or yam pounder to make it work!

For Me Mr,it does!!!!

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Oga they are all Whites.

They call them yellow... Most Indians are dark or mixed colour too...using colour is never sufficient...better use names like Caucasians,Asians,Arabs and all that

Hintona:
What's so tempting in this half nose

Chronic jealousy

[quote author=montumonami post=78641172][/quote]Lol,true that
I'm just goofing around!!!
I wish her luck

Isabellah:
Having your first degree at 25+ is still an achievement.Being married at 30+ is still Beautiful.Starting a family at 35+ is still possible.Buying a house at 40+ is still a great move.Don't let people rush you with their timeline

Nice one....
BTW...how old are you

faithsystem:
sorry, i'm not interested in men of your kind. thank you

Dont be such a high hat!!!
So u still dey form
U say u are ready but you dont sound ready!!

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Noo they are Blacks..

They are yellow....not white!!!

faithsystem:
i'm 26 and ready to marry. if you are a nice guy that is ready to put an end to singlehood like me, then join me let's make it work with no regret

Can u pound yam,cook soup with a big ass

enemyofprogress:
The great grandmother and the grandmother are still playable. If you know you know

Ur moniker precedes U!!!
GGM n GM eh Oniranu

itspzpics:
Hmmm


Churchil Blast Tonto Dikeh says she met her in Ckub,
Expose Some of her dirty Sexy Photos => HERE
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Try harder,hungry blogger!!!!

I guess the price is high due to the components,especially the sapphire and titanium used to build it!! So its a luxury wristwatch (for the guys screaming up there at the price)
Besides all that,they pioneered the laminated sapphire and Quartz tourbillion technique with their speciated movements. Really advanced technologically and won some awards!!

So components, tech and rarity all made the RM tourbillion watch very very costly!

Sanchez01:
The Summary of your post

1. She is more of a business partner than a girlfriend. You thought to establish her because you feel you could benefit from it...
2. So you probably suggested or sold the idea of how the profit would be shared...she agreed and you lent her a 100k.
3. You automatically took control of a supposed adult by asking her to audit/give account of her sales journey because you feel she is answerable to you and needed to guide her so as not to misappropriate or spend recklessly, according to you.
4. You made it known that you'd both share her profit, being the financier. Issokay.
4. She failed to remit the capital as agreed despite good, theoretical sales...
5. Supposedly, she failed to remit the capital on the agreed time/month/date because she, according to her, used a reasonable part of the money on her dad.
6. You got angry because you felt you should have been in the know on how she spends the business money. I guess you made it known that she must return the capital and has failed to do so, month after month.
7. For the record, it doesn't really bother you that the money is spent on family. You are more concerned about how she spends and you being in the know...
8. Presently, you are nursing the idea of not going through with the plans you have for her birthday because you feel she didn't handle the business fund properly.

Let me overanalyze your case

1. It was noble you assisted your 'girlfriend' but what you guys have here isn't a romantic relationship. Money is in the way already and nothing would make sense given the impression on ground.

2. Your girlfriend isn't really your girlfriend but a business partner. Why you thought to 'help' her is because you thought it would 'benefit the both you'. By benefit, it means you collecting a part of her profit, beyond the capital you lent her. This is nothing but an investment with eyes on ROI. You could have stopped at the capital but you clearly didn't think you have a special kind of relationship with this person and even if you don't owe her a thing, seeing her do well in whatever she settles for should be your priority.

3. The capital isn't in sight from the looks of it. You made a mistake already and she hasn't done well on her part. Whether or not she spent the money on her dad isn't the issue, I'm sure she wouldn't have acted the way she did if the money was a loan from a financial organization.

4. Requesting for your capital and part of her profit is you being a loan shark. If your mind doesn't release the money to her, by all means get your capital but don't go beyond that.

5. I'd advise you celebrate your girlfriend and not your business partner. You of all person know whether or not she has been a good girl (not business partner). Don't judge her from the business angle. Take her out and celebrate her.

Seeing that she reinvests is key.

U said a lot of things but sadly you wasted all ur efforts cuz I still dont even know what u on about!!!!
I can have a gf and still have her as my biz partner,what is wrong in that...u kept on about the dichotomy between the two and I wondered what's wrong in trying to help ur gf and teaching her some biznez sense? U called him a loan shark,cuz he wanted some of the profits? I'd have done the same thing...to keep her on her toes!!! I provided the capital and even though I dont need part of the profits,collecting some of it is basic biznez training ethics which states that an agreement is an agreement. I could even send her the money back or use it to buy stuffs for her but essentially I'm teaching her biznez wise to be tough and hardworking.
Apart from all that, OP wants to marry the babe so seeing that she is not a spendthrift is a good test too.
My stand is clear, let her return that money ASAP and stick to the biznez end. Being my gf is outside our biznez. One doesn't succeed in biznez with sentiments and emotions.if OP never staked her,where will she get the money to borrow her dad? N why borrow the capital and not their profits?? No astute biznezwoman messes with her CAPITAL!!! NEVER!!! WITHOUT IT,THE BIZNEZ IS DEAD!!!

Godoverevery:
her dad is actually working.... the issh is dere no way I can confirm if she is saying the truth about borrowing her dad the money.
But to be honest she is truthful because I have never caught her lying before...

Aiit bro. I rest my case!

JasonScoolari:
"has has" I believe you're a typical Yoruba boy.

You gave her the money out of your generosity, I see no reason for this "close marking" and intensive pressure to return the capital. Allow her concentrate in the business and please reduce the pressure.

What's this one saying bayi?

CyberWolf:
Go on with the birthday but don’t buy her any gift. Also make sure she get that money back and reinvest in the business... Business never even stand, she done dey spend money anyhow.. smh

Nicely put

Raydans:
You said you both confirmed the returns from the business was okay. Just that she couldn't return the capital

It shows she can manage a business and she is a good girl. She made a mistake and your duty is to teach her what she needs to learn.

Throw the party for her and buy her the gifts if you can afford it

Then sit her down and talk to her. Tell her reasons why she should return the capital and see to it that it is returned. In business it is called discipline.

You can choose to support her with more capital after.

U were making sense till I got to the 'sit her down and talk to her part' and u lost it. I dislike that quoted above,u lots think women are some underdeveloped cretins who have no sense yet u continue being fooled by them. They are not as weak as u think. She knew already she goofed and should be disciplined,yet u advocate throwing a party for her? With which money o? Urs or hers or the business's? For me,no party anything,maybe a small gift and I will let her know the capital is the cause of that. That I need the capital back to boost my own business. That way,u teach her that business is business and defaults have consequences. She will get that money back(if she was sincere in the first place) and work harder to gain ur trust. That's how to teach discipline, not sitting her down after some birthday party issh...she might not see the seriousness of ur so-called financial lecture!

Godoverevery:
Hi everyone.... just need your veiw if am doing the right thing.
I started dating my current gf last December and it have been alot of up and few down........what really happened was Wen we met she just lost her job so I felt like helping her out so I came up with the idea of her doing a business of her own were we can both benefit....so one of my friend gave me a link to were she can pick perfumes ,body spray and female slippers in bulk at cheap prices and resale since she knows lot of people due to her friendly nature.
After discussing with her and she accepted so I sent her 100k around feburary ds year to start and got her a new phone has well cos d one she was using was bad so she can also advertise online.....sales was good according to her........fast forward to April
I just felt like knowing if she was keeping the money in her account as she Claimed so i asked her to come give account of the sales cos I told her we will share the gains between ourselves becos i didn't want her to lose track and be financially reackless ........she did the account and it good sales......i now asked her to send me the capital back...to my surprise
She said she sorry that her dad was in need of cash and was depressed so she borrow him 80k out of the money......I was really angry cos she didn't tell me before doing it so alot of drama happened..... after begging she said her dad will give her back d cash ending of last month...... ending came she started begging again dat I should give her till mid this month.....last week she started begging again I should give her till ending of D's month.

Ds were I need you guys help.....I love the gal if God permit I want to marry her.
Her birthday is on Friday and I av plans of celebrating it on Sunday with few friends at a nice lounge....(get cake, wristwatch with set of nice panties has gift).
But has I was making order for the wristwatch D's afternoon at work something in me just ask if am sure am doing the right thing and ever since I am really thinking I should just cancel the plan.... because what she did with the business money really hurt and I find it difficult to trust her.

Pls am I doing the right thing celebrating her birthday or I should just cancel it....thanks

Why on earth are u asking for advice right now??
From what u posted,do YOU think YOU still need to be advised Isnt the answer obvious
OP,haven't you been reading all stories like urs here? How did it end

U supported her which I think is brave of u but the moment she defaulted on her payment,did u find out if her dad is really sick/depressed?? Why did she give out the capital and not the profits?? Is her dad working? Even if he is,he might not give the daughter back that money. Also, she didn't tell u before she borrowed him(maybe she thought he would pay back sooner or that u won't EVER ask for ur capital back). Lots of loopholes here but I will still give her the benefit of doubt...
I hope ur mum and sisters are well taken care of, if not, u don fall hand

His sphincter muscles are weak....
Or he eats stuff that makes him gas during sex..

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, i think we Christians should learn from our Muslim counterparts who are not involved in drug trafficking. Majority of drug cases are are committed by we Christians. Really sad

When did u renew ur GoTV na
I pray thunder faya ur decoder ASAP!!!

funmisticqueen:
i wish you all the best too. may your hustle be a walk in the part and still yield hundred fold results. Amen..

Amen oooooooo

tohyorsih2:
No i don't…We don't drink that in the beautiful period of Ramadan

I never knew u be Muslim o....sorry...
After Ramadan then

Totogokillme:
You good bro,go for it man.....me and Toyo are cheering you on

tohyorsih2:
Sure i will!

I love it when broke guys make efforts or strive hard to make money.

To hell with all the lazy broke guys out there

Thanks babe
I dey inside bush dey tap palmwine to sell,u want some ??

Totogokillme:
Lumi Baba......how far na,long time no see,we no dey see you for the other side again......this one way you drag me come romance section like this,hope I am safe.......I dey always dodge this section like mad......

Why you cc me and Toyo na

Ur safe as always baba...I just want the 2 of you to witness my serenading funmisticqueen ni

funmisticqueen:
money is not all that attracts me to a man. but it is a major criteria. i understand that the economy is not smiling, but i am mature enough to know what i want in life and not waste time going after it.

Drive and zeal is good, but i prefer results not potential. i can support a man, money things apart, i can boast that my being in their life has added value to the men who came into my life. If any good woman ends up with them wherever they are in life and they are excelling, they have me to thank for bringing them so far.


The truth of the matter is this. I am fed up with STRUGGLE LOVE. I am tired of being miss BOB THE BUILDER. I want something else. I know that if i am vocal about it and keep affirming it one way or another the universe will conform to make it my reality. Calling me names, and body shaming will not change that.

We are all works in progress i know, but i do not want to give myself as a defective uncompleted product to the lucky man who is ready to walk down the aisle with me, i don't expect the same from him. I also do not want my offspring to be at a disadvantage because i couldn't control my hormones and take charge of my decisions.

Hmmmm...wow..thats a lot.
I understand you u now...u were supportive of those guys, I guess they just didn't appreciate you enough or u felt they wasted ur time or else they would have been rich now and u guys would be married or something. I get you 100%. But if u really like a guy,dont give up just yet on him unless he is lazy or unserious. Financial security is good,I know but money can be lost and without love,the home will become a battleground .so, I still think if love is involved, money can be recovered, if lost and true happiness will endure in the marriage.

I like the fact that you confess what you want too...its cool...just pity hustling guys like me...no make us drink sniper
Anyways...I wish you all the best...

funmisticqueen:
being single at 40 is better than being married to a broke man and miserable. when i am simply stating my opinion and what i want for myself, you will all be in your feelings telling me to be humble. where is the pride in my statement?

i cannot fall into the trap using my money to bring up a Man child, it never ends well for the woman. Grown women do not have time to build bums.

Call me what you like, i no longer care. maybe amatatasha can use her pocket money to build a grown man

Lmaoooo...u get bad mouth sha
So broke men like me should goan die abi??

Is that all that attracts you in a man?? Haba...that I'm broke today no mean say I go dey broke tomorrow na...gimme a chance and who knows maybe u will be the springboard to my breakthrough.I can really add value to ur life you know,money things apart... No one likes to suffer but if u see a man who has drive and zeal...won't u rather support him

Cc. Totogokillme...toryorsih2

Richdad50:


Never ever settle for polygamy or BabyMama as a woman. Never! The cost far outweighs the temporal benefits. You can win a husband at any point in your life irrespective of your age, past, or mistakes.

Richdad

Lies... Women outnumber men in this country.... I'd rather marry 5 of them,to lessen the number....every woman deserves a man in her life naaaa

lefulefu:
so girls reject u even b4 u make an advance? hmm dis is serious o.na ur appearance go be d reason.i suggest u start packaging urself.trim ur beards and ur hair and start dressing neatly then stop smoking excessively cos heavy smoking cos black lips and wen ur lips are too black girls will run away frm u.dress like more like a gentleman and less like a thug and smile always .if u do all this one and girls still dey run away frm u then i suggest u go make money and buy benz.there is no how no how wen u don get benz then babes wont start chasing u.lemme call my friends luminouz,potbelly,Iamgrey ,mikejj make dem giv their own advice.

Make the bros chillax...na anxiety dey cause am..he is too eager...let him be laid back and nonchalant a little...some swagga won't hurt ur game...no be every girl u like u suppose toast naaaa...
N go far away from his street if he wan chyke babe...dress well too...women are too plentiful for so many to reject his advances....

Cheers

Omoh...come to Ibadan@ bere, oja oba, agbowo, bodija oja, monatan and moniya slums and see correct face-me-i-face-you fights...they can fight over anything,even snoring(a neighbour started a fight early momor cuz her opposite neighbour snored too much)...

camobri:
how old are you? I think it works depending on age

Care to elaborate
Cuz everyone says pandoro...is it the leaves or the fruit

How is this news nitori olorun
Which kain yeye mod pushed this to FP

zoedew:
It’s your call!

Yes darling