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CreepyBlackpool:
She must be one of all these yeye NL feminists.


Spits!


wait sef, her handwriting is familiar,
looks like that of one feminist parading the romance section

U thinking what/who I'm thinking??

NobleAngell:
There's really no point keeping up the charade, its no longer news that her marriage has hit the rocks. And quite frankly,i am happy for her cos she deserves better.

Why do u think so @ deserves better

lefulefu:
malaysian and thai girls get ukwu? are u sure? anyway last time i visit lagos i see a couple of chinese girls doing a couple of shopping for shoprite.brotherly their yanshes flat pass drawing board and dere were on bumshorts to make tinzs worse.

Yes o..dem get o..thick ass Gehs...I have seen two personally!!
Chinese?? Dem.no get ass na...what they are good for is to be my kung fu bodyguard!!!

khiaa:
There is only one man in Nigeria who can get this puna.

If its not me,dont mention anything o

RealityShot:
beg the girl and repent...

Is he the one that cheated?

As in eh,she just went offkey/off point/offhandle

lefulefu:
but oyibo babes no dey get yansh nau. So hw u wan tk cope?

I dey tease her jare....
Though the Thai and some Malay babes gather big booty o

khiaa:
There are several cases of unsolved murders of young black people who were found with their inner organs missing, so what do you think?

Stop stop...now this is getting ridiculous...no matter how much u detest the whites...there are psychos everywhere. Cult wars and gang shiit and all that...so a million and one things could have occured to those black victims. how on earth will inner organs be used to generate melanin for white people?...if you are talking about illegal organ harvesting syndicate, I will understand. Not melanin!

NobleAngell:
Your question was answered.

Ok

NobleAngell:
No. But U seem triggered by my own comment.

Lol..never!!! I asked u a question. Simple!!

mekuso89:
hmm well I just feel for the guy sha! I understand what it feels like losing some one you love so badly

The key is loving them but not becoming weak in the process or too docile....

skylowlow:
Hunku lamidiz

Sup Turkeytunes!!!!

NobleAngell:
I'm not pained. I don't know any of them.

Ok...you kinda sound a bit triggered!

kernel01:
He killed her. That lady will not easily recover from the trauma. And the stigma will always hunt her all the days of her life.

Here u are again sister

NobleAngell:
It was wrong for him to end it on the wedding day, that's if he knew before then. That lady will not forget this humiliation in a hurry.
But again, its better it ends before it begins than to live a miserable life just to save face.

So that the lady is humiliated fey pain u? Not that she has been cheating on the man?

Crystalqueen:
Some people are so wicked. If u knew she was cheating on u, u should have cancelled the wedding before the day or at least before the church ceremony, not disgracing the lady after the church wedding... Just imagine, all that jollof rice wasted... U for just save the money use do beta thing

Lol,so he is wicked for disgracing the lady

mekuso89:
I taught women would kill to have a man that will love them even more than this, am no longer understanding this world again

Lmaoooo..
Seems u dont really know women o...
What they say n what they mean are different!

LilMissFavvy:
You are the one who is wrong.

Ok darling!!!
Happy children's day!!

Angelfrost:
Tell them.. I am getting tired of correcting such ignorant misconceptions... Funny thing: They will frown if you say the same trash about an independent boss lady.

Been saying it on NL since...ion know where they got that mentality from.
Lol @ ur last statement

LilMissFavvy:
Using NL to draw conclusions is a perfect medium, especially since we have men from different tribes, etc. humans are behind each moniker, and their online attitude gives atleast a good definition of who they are. We see the good as well as bad. Using few people around your environment isn't a better option.

Wrong again!
NL is not one...since those monikers give alter egos to the users.they can say anything,be anything and get away with it. So they are not real. Only few monikers are real like what they post. I mean a good majority of the 'f' monikers are actually males . you think they will talk like men?? I travel a lot and watch people in real life scenarios/situations without an option of concealment. So I have an inkling of what the true heartbeat of men and women sound like.

PotatoSalad:
Is that a fish or baby seal?

Mammy water

kernel01:
Superman you've won, try me real life, you won't live to tell the story.

U are sounding emotional and that's a weakness I could exploit. Threatening to kill me doesn't scare me cuz I'm sure u dont even know what it means to kill a human being. Nor have u successfully dealt with the emotional harangue that comes with taking another soul.

I dont want to win...I just hope u see things my way

Safiaa:
Emotionally weak = unable to cope well with situations that may toil with your emotions. Men naturally being less emotional than women may not be able to deal with their towering emotions when it comes to tragic events like heartbreak, causing them to deal with it terribly since they are not accustomed to feeling that way. Women get sad over anything, we cry a lot we are naturally emotionally, so we may know how to cope with tragic situations better. Hope you get it.

We dey say the same thing o...
The percentage of men in that regard is small,so most move on with other women or cool off before dating again. Women in that regard are in the majority,they cry and all that but do they take more or less time to move on compared to the men despite being naturally emotional? That's what the real question is...I believe they take more time. U may think differently dou! And herein lies our conclusions

LilMissFavvy:
Maybe you don't read stuffs on nairaland or observe a great number of your Nigerian male folk, otherwise you would have known that what you call alpha male in the Nigerian context, is a man full of pride,confidence, a stubborn fellow who should be inconsiderate to the emotions of a woman, ''shouldn't cry for love'' like you said. I use cool headed cuz an alpha male can never be cool headed. Concerning the issue of how women feel about men who cry, I suggest you read comments from females above and draw conclusions, rather than mention your mum or siblings whose opinions we can't read here.

*sighs*
U used NL as a judge? Lol...ion care about faceless entities with access to the internet...the men around u,the women around me are what I used as case studies. I suggest u do same babe!

damiloladuke:
A man who works as a PA has taken to social media to cry out for help after his Director at work threatened to sack him for denying her sex.

In his narration on a Facebook group, the man identified as Frank Onyekachukwu stated that he started as a driver in the organization, despite being a graduate. He was driving the manager before he was assigned to the director who found out he was a graduate and then elevated him to the position of a Personal Assistant.

She however wanted him to sleep with her so he could keep his job

I have a problem at my place of work and I don’t know how to handle it. I was employed in a company last two years as a driver though am a graduate of chemical engineer but based on that’s no job in the country I have to accept the driving job in other to survive.

I was a driver to the manager of the company for 6months and from there I got to know the director of that company a ( WOMAN ) but she is a widow, one faithful evening the company had a board meeting in EKO HOTEL which ended up around 11pm and director didn’t come with her driver that night then the manager told me to drive the director home that 9it that he can drive himself.

I did as he told me which the director started using me as her own personal driver for 2months bfor she got to know that am a graduate and she changed my position from driver to her personal assistant and pays me very well as a graduate and employed another driver.

My major work now is to follow her with company’s documents when ever she is going for a meeting within the country.

The issues now is that she is forcing me into sleeping with her which I turned her down several times and she threatened me to resign or she will sack me by herself if I didn’t agree with her conditions from the company.

The story is much but because of time I have to stop here.

Plz friends advise me on what to do am depressed right now.

https://lailasnews.com/resign-or-i-sack-you-female-director-to-pa-for-denying-her-sex/

Rubbish...coming online is not the solution. U should have recorded her several times with video evidence as proofs...now since ur name is public,she will likely know and u will get sacked...

I smell fake stories!!!

Suicide everywhere....Do Dementors have a national Headquarters in Nigeria or what?

eni4real:
Stress=Force/Area

U get it... I pour out those frustrations and add some more packs to my tummy...by the time I'm done,I'd be too fagged out to even think of it. I eat,sleep and then rationalise. First,she is gone...she ain't coming back..so should life stop? No...what next? Continue living. Other girls will come.
Shikena

Safiaa:
What I’m saying is that men handle heartbreak much worse, and that’s the truth. Once a man falls deep in love with a woman, spends money time and all other things only to be disappointed, it cuts deeper. Also because men are not naturally emotional beings, so dealing with all the heartbreak emotions can be very daunting, which also makes them deal with it terribly. Please everything doesn’t have to be an argument. This is my opinion that I believe to be factual, if you don’t believe it you can simply read my comment and ignore it. Thanks.

Now,here is what I like reading from NL gehs...cool,cold,logical facts...not some emotional drivel devoid of reasoning. I quite agree with some of ur points. Men could handle heartbreaks terribly but does that make them more emotionally weak that women? That's my point. Cuz I think the percentages favour the women more,not the men.

At ur last point,I'm not here to argue but learn and exchange ideas.so most times,I quote to learn and reason out facts,even if its ur opinion and its factual.
Thanks

LilMissFavvy:
Firm and decisive are usually strong headed and stubborn, I hate them. Overdose of confidence usually amounts to a man full of ego and pride. Why do you speak for the female gender? Are you a woman? I saw guys condemning a man for crying on his wedding day on a particular thread, but to me, I don't see it as weakness. Give me a cool headed guy, I worship and treat him like a king. Not some silly stubborn fellows, that are straight minded and can never bend.

I said self confidence, u mention overdose of confidence,seems u excel at twisting my words to suit ursef. Firm and decisive= a man who knows what he wants,not some directionless mofo that doesn't have his own mind.
U say I speak for them? Yes I do...I have a mum and sister and have other women in my life. None of them liked a crybaby guy...why? Cuz they see it as a woman's thing...they dont want they already have,they desire what they dont have,that the guy has,strength and will to lead.
Seems u confuse ursef@ coolheaded guy again. An alpha can be cool headed or u envision us as some fiery fvcks with steam oozing outta our noses and ears?? coolheaded means he is rational and even tempered. If doesn't he won't have a mind of his own or say NO to ur opinions at every turn.

I think ur being very personal, maybe from previous experiences.

I love u babe...

kernel01:
If you think crying because of a woman makes you soft, then... You're whatever your mind calls you.

If the woman died,I'd get that..but cuz she left u Ur fvcking soft...would u date a woman who cries at every little thing? Nope... Shuuuuu....a woman wants some stability and strength in a man,not a crying factory like her,so stop trying to play that reverse psycho bullcrap on me....

Safiaa:
It’s so funny because men are actually emotionally weaker than women. Most men never get over a serious heartbreak, it scars them for life and it changes their whole perspective about women. Where as women eventually get over it and will probably make the same mistake again and again lol. All these men condemning the man for crying are hypocrites, it’s okay for men to cry. Men are prone to die early and fall into depression all because society says that a man must bottle everything in and get over it. You are a human being for God sake not a robot, allow yourself to feel emotions for the sake of your sanity.

Wrong at ur first statement....where in hell do u girls get ur stats from
If that's so,why is okafor's law so established?? If women actually get over shiiit,why make the same mistake over n over again?? That's not getting over anything.
A man who cries cuz his gf left him is weak....if she died, I'd understand that. I mean,she is not even ur wife naaaaaaaaaa.....

LilMissFavvy:
You have a cool headed sissy guy like you said, then link me up. I love cool headed guys, not some egostic, so called firm/decisive men like you said. God created them all, the sissy, the egostic alphas, each has a woman that equates his attributes!

Seems ur prejudiced already...I said firm and decisive,u mentioned egoistic,how in hell do u equate the three as one? ..... Alphas are defined by self confidence,not brash ego. Where have u been getting ur info from? ....u dont even know what it means to be called an Alpha. Its not some narcissistic tendency to hurt women or some crap like that.

No woman likes a man who burst into tears at every turn,not even U!

Guyman02:
Sometimes a man needs to cry , wash your face and quickly move on. Tears can help relieve the accumulation of emotions, so let it burst and afterwards tell yourself, life goes on, I am going to be better off after this

I prefer going to the gym and venting my so-called emotions on a threadmill or some dumbbells,than crying and moping away tears