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seaman104:
luxior, dont mind dose people way dey pock nose. is good de way he his doing, cos i can do more dan dat aswell.

good to know there are still some men out there - willing to go that extra mile for a lady

keep it up @seaman, i am sure once you sort out your confusion with your ex you will be OK

spikedcylinder:
Everybody's interpretation is different.
She's missing her partner and wants to sample opinions on why she feels that way and how to fill the void till he gets back? How will she achieve that in Journals and Diaries?

ROFLMFAO - ahahhahahaha - dis reply sweet me well well - maybe d poster wants me to keep a diary of what i did from Mon - Weds until he got back

seaman104:
Wednesday is knocking at the door, be rest assure that your joy is on the way. humm. i belief he is missing you as well

aww thanks hun - i know he did - but thats the first thing i'll be asking (did you miss too? just to hear him say it )

spikedcylinder:
I don't think it is. Threads like these should be the ones in Romance section not the daily bastardisation that goes on here.

tboy1:
No offence but this thread is kinda weird

why is it weird? because d tin dey chack me like dis? abi because it is one of the few topics on here that is NOT A PROBLEM and not derogatory to any particular gender? na just sweet love?

no mind am @spiked - thank you angel

agabaI23:
I re-read my post and I confirmed that I never said or inferred you were having a hormone imbalance!

So he going to do all those things as catch for you at 10:30 pm when he will be tired? he will come to home to iron your cloth for you? That night? Now the only truth in your mouth is 'good morning'

why not? if he's going to press his clothes for the next day - he always does mine too - after we are preapred for the next day and prepared dinner - then he is tired - unless he begs off as tired in which case i'll do the pressing and let him go to bed jeje - but i will be repaid for my kindness

do you call me a liar because he is a guy who has time for woman, and will do certain things to please her?

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Luxoire, that's the spirit. Now all those plans will occupy your mind, but then again its only a day to go [/color]

hahaha trust me - i can feed an army when i set my heart to it ( think i got that from my mum) lol - so its a heck of planning to do! ahhaah - you're right that should keep me busy for a while

agabaI23:
OK what has been happening with your hormones in his absence?

nothing's ben happening to my hormones - they are quite balanced thank you very much - - just miss going home to an empty house - not having anyone to help me with dinner, or get in my way in the kitchen to annoy me, no one to run me a shower - or press my clothes, or just curse out the day's stress to - funny how life is

seaman104:
Ben not the way you are thinking ok. i'm confused that is all. but i think i will take my time and look what is on ground has luxior said earlier

seaman104:
thanx luxiour, maybe i should give my slf break. cos i'i not really sure if she has change 4 better. that is the reason i need help from the nairas

you're welcome - dont ruish into anything your love and your time is yours to give - give it to the right person and don't rish - if she has changed and truly wants you bak - she will undertsand that your need time to come around and she will be patient - just dont be playin around with someone else and possibly hurt them in the process

good luck!!

agabaI23:
Please what does the bolded portion mean?

catch up on what has been happening - what were you thinking?

hahahaha

@iice and spiked
i know ladies - i'm usually the level headed one! didnt think it'd be a big deal - till it hit me yesterday - @iice - dont laugh  :Plol

yes tomorrow is weds and i am sooo excited - good to know i am not the only one feeling this way cos he too is like sneaking off from seminars eveyr hour to send me text msgs - so i'm glad its mutual 

i am already planning what i will cook him for his dinner, run his bath, and have a long catch up - he doesnt get home till about 10.30pm tomorrow - so i still got to wait till then - but its like one day ONLY to go - lol

hmmm love hurts only whn it goes sour - i bet you dont think this way when it's all rosy do ya!!

seaman104:
What do you think i should do? should i keep going with this new relationship or go back to my ex-girl that is willing to come back 4 real? there is a proverb that said the devil that you have knew b4 is better than the one you just want to meet. or should i keep two relationship at ago?

it's up to you - no point dating a new girl when you till love another - either take your ex back and hope she has changed for the better - or keep away an give yourself time to heal before you move into the next r/ship

JJYOU:
buy now pay later

no man is perfect - all sin are equal in the eyes of God - be it a lie, murder,sex before marriage or theft

so yes it is ot acceptable in God's eyes and as all sins we are better off not engaging in it - but we are all sinners and we will fall short of God's mercy one way or another.

Is it sinful - yes - but no more or less sinful than theft or murder
should one engage in it? - Morally no, but the realisty for most ppl is very different

you can be realistic or ideal about it - but it doesnt mean you or a loved one hasn't done it

vizzy09:
the truth is that we are both seriously in love. she once told me that she will want to have my baby even if i don't want to marry her. somebody asked the mum for her hand in marriage and she told the person that her daughter already has somebody even though I am not finacially buoyant now, not only that, she always settles us whenever we have little misunderstanding.

Not disputing that y’all aren’t in love – you must be – but all I am saying is that be careful of a woman who even harbours such thoughts as cheating in her matrimonial home before she even knows who her ‘future’ husband is – no reason to say she wont execute such thoughts if she met someone else she loved more than you whilst she were married to you!!

Good luck though – but be careful

nethacker:
hey dear,i told her but she felt she could have her way by initialising her feminine antics.I did not fall for any though.I told my girl everything without ommission.wenever my girl is with me and she(my ex) calls,the fone will be on speaker and my girl do hear our conversation.I hide nothing from my babe n i nvr for once encouraged her to keep coming.My babe even told her that she is doing watever she is doing at her own risk, so my dear i am not in anyway encouraging her .thx sha for ur opinion

noe your gf is putting up with it because she thinks she is in the picture - soon she will be fed up of having a 3rd party in the rr/ship - talk to your babe and tell her how you feel and tell her how you feel. next time your ex calkls tell her if she doesn't stop with her attitude you will stop taking her calls - and stick to this - it is only A matter of time before your babe starts feeling like your ex should be exactly that and you shouldn’t be entertaining certain things – whether she knows or not – women can be possessive like that – I should know – I am a woman and there is only so much understanding I can give in certain situations

You’re welcome though

nethacker:
na true
this is happening to me.My ex still wants to shine my congo despite thet fact that she knows my babe, i tire oooo

you get women like that - but you too must be encouraging her somehow - though not overtly - but by not telling her STRICTLY where the line is, you are encouraging her . if you love your babe, and dont want to ruin your r/ship you should tell your ex where to go shove it - or you cut all links with her - afterall she be your EX not your PRESENT - let the future plan itself

slimfine:
nope! a lady can drink whatever she choose to but in moderation! I can never understand the concept of drinking oneself to stupor. quite irresponsible for both men and women

my point exactly every since!!

hmm i dont know - dont tie yourself into a r/ship for life because she says she will cheat on her husband with you

that one is just to boost your ego - as for me, any woman who will consider cheating in her martimoinail home BEFORE she even gets married should have her ethics and moral code reassesed. it is one thing if she is married and 'it just happens' - its another thing for her to plan it in advance and use it as an emotional blackmail for you

who knows - a woman that considers marrying another man and cheating on him - might even do it to you

thats my 2kobo on d matta

sorry ladies - me too i am well over 21

secretz - u neva come out wiv d tin wen u wan jist

no main all dis nosy-guys in hia who call dem enter our discussion?

secretz - lol - dey yarn, make i dey read!

wat does it mean SHM?

everything about him - simply everything

Secretz:
His Sincerity, his hygiene, his intelligence, his sense of humour, his touch.

we can all dream!

plat - ok i will check that forum out now

yeah oi know - guess today is over already

platinumnk:
i gotta bone to pick with u

@topic, go shopping, or read a good book, or glue ur self to NL lol


thats what i do

thanks plat i'm doing the NL thing now i guess

Igwe.:
Glue yourself to Nairaland, that's what i do sweetie welcome to my world

i have kinda been doing that - wouldnt normally log in from home - as that is our time - but now here i am

St☆rStruck:
Try to get more involved. That might help getting your mind off him.

i tried today - its funny how know that he wasnt around today, made me think of him more during bthe day than i normally would

St☆rStruck:
Do you have a job?

yes full time 9-6, mondays to fridays - y do u ask?

Emeka - no thnx - i'll pass only one man for me

puskin - no need its not always about sex - more companionship - doubt u  the meaning of dat

@iice - thanks hun - ur always a joy to read from u - i suppose i could rerad a book - cos we pretty much do everything else together - even the tv soaps dont seem as interesting or funny without him

hmmm - think i got it bad!! i got it real bad!!

cant wait for weds

i think in an understanding r/ship there should be a mutual understnaidng that the party with the most resources calls

of course a man who wants to live up to his image - will insist on calling her more often - but no make your guy-man tiff only to get money for credit to call you

befoe i answer - what has that got to do with anything?

does it determine the degree of fondness?

@tpiah
i believe that although i know some women try to erase history and pretend it / he doesnt matter or doesnt even come to memory but even a prostitute who has been with many - will remember her first time

FL Gators:
Hmmmm!


SHM

errm what is SHM?

He only left this morning on a trip will be gone till Wednesday night - i started missing him from last night

now i am thinking of all ways to keep myself occupied until he gets back

any ideas on how i can reduce the loneliness and keep busy? - i know know, but i am sentimental like that - and being best friends and doing everything together always doesn't help at times like these