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ME ME ME - i am a beautiful woman

and let no one ask me for my pic - cos i measure myself from all ANGLES , from the inside and my brain - and i know i am beautiful.

any man who fails to agree wiht me on that can hit the high road

whilst you ppl are giving him support - also make sure you think of what is best for the girl and baby too - not just your friend - because he doesnt want to lose his gf

it was his screw up and if it means the 'best' decision for everyone involved is a termination - let him understand the magnitude of it

is it better for the baby to be aborted? - does anyone know this girl's medical history etc, or re you all just concerened about covering up his shite and keeping it from his gf?

what i am saying is DO THE BEST THING NOT JUST FOR HIM, BUT FOR EVERY ONE CONCERNED - THAT IS WHAT GOOD FRIENDS AND HUMAN BEINGS DO!

sistawoman:
If you really loved her, then her being ugly would not even matter to you. In fact you would not even notice it until someone pointed it out to you.

thank you sista!!!

it's either he is looking around for something better, listening to his friends, or now fearful of what ppl might think - as if ppl know WHO she is and what she brings to your r/ship!!! (signs of an immature mind that can not make and stand bhy his decisions)

Kamsonwill:
Luxoire, like i said I am not a child that cannot differ what is ugly or not and i did not claim i am very handsome. We should face reality too, we know when someone is ugly physically, we can see and tell. I am not being shallow here. I'm just scared my kids might not look good.

all well and fair you are a matured guy blah blah blah - you have answered that part.

what you havent told us yet - is what were you looking for there in the first place? - surely you can not give her emotional attachement - when she is committed to (after however long) you you want to leave for no other reason other than her looks - were you blind when you first started dating her? you will just hurt her like that?!!! because you are thinking about your kids - why weren't you thinking of this when you were dating her? - or the possibility that she could get pregnant and have your kids when you 2 were dating?

who told you that

fin + fine = fine
wowo + wowo = wowo

infact sometimes you can even have fine+wowo = fine - and vice versa

so unless you sef wowo, una no go MUST get wowo pikins

if you be fine guy man and d babe wowo d children can take after your looks and their mum's personality.

but maybe your anxiety stems from the fact that you are ugly too so you think your kids wont stand a chance

my friend stop being SHALLOW & IMMATURE and marry her if that is what your heart wants and if you think she will stand by you through thick and thin and be the rock for your home - if she is not all these things to you - then leave her.
if she is and yet you want to let her go because she is ugly - then u be mumu.

wettin carry u go dia in d first place? shebi she was good for a r/ship but not as wife - or where you only tehre for sex and you fell in love? clown!!!!

i dont believ in these things but they are usually an interesting read

Leo & Capricorn - let read it

some would say as long as both parties are being honest, open and communicative with each other it shouldnt be any different to a LDR

others would say they can not love someone they have not met physically

either way LDR , internet, phone, 'normal' r/ship are all relationships and if handled properly can all lead to a successful marriage

depends on you the guy.

Nothing wrong with phone intimacy - it does involve a high degree of masturbation from both parties and if you are both comforable with taht sort of thing - then you are adults and do whatever helps you both bridge the gap of physical intimacy

nothing wrong in that baby - but don't let your picky attitude and your lack of 'compromise' let a good thing get away from you - just because you couldn't see past your current standards

NOthing wrong in being picky - as long as it is applied with reason, caution and wisdom

morpheus24:
Is not how you think. We didn't bully the girl at all. We simply spoke with her about her choices and consequencies as well and if she was doing this as somesort of tactic to keep him it would not turn out that way.

In fact, my friend is at the point where he is willing to tell his girlfriend and suffer the consequencies if she decides to continue playing games.

that sounds more like a contrite man - who relises when he has F*cked up - and not the corward we have been reading of so far!

let him come clean to his gf - its the only way he can break whatever hold this new girl has / will have over him - baby or no baby - as long as there is no secret to threaten him him - then she can do her worst!

JJYOU:
did someone actually feel the need to remove my comment and why?

and you think 'pressuring' this girl to get rid of the baby means she will stay silent?

she may start disliking this guy and and tell the gf

@Toyos120 - thanks i did get come ME time - errm didnt relaly do much - just watched some programs I WANT TO WATCH on tv wihtout compromising control of teh remote

well he's back tonight so i am happy - but this stupid London Underground strike may mean he doesnt come home till later!! - or might just go straight to his house!! what a pain why do ppl do these stupid strikes when you need them to work

i'm the hottest chick on NL - wat you gonna do about that?! and heck NO i aint showing y'all my pic - you never know which ritualists are lurking out here looking for pictures of beautiful young girls like me

you teach her or you learn - if you are rich hire a maid - or better yet ready your taste buds for a life times of take aways!

platinumnk:
Laugh don kill me !!



man secretz was just leading us on, i kept checking back to see if she came back, nope














I need something to help the lonliness

my dear no die ohh - kaugh is good for the soul - i saw that - do what you told me to do

secretz - we are waiting ohh mah

@debosky

funny thing is we dont really have many pics together - its just not something that comes to mind when you are always together guess you think 'aww he's here anyway' we have pics of each other - but few together as such!! hmmm interesting - might make an effort to do more of that going forward - thank you

@secretz - that's true you never really did type it out loud - did ya hun oya come and spill

Sweet T:
pele o ajebutter. this is obviously your first rodeo. you go learn say most things you see at times are film tricks.

if you say so - although how you deduced that is beyond me

LadyT:
Please ignore Sweet T he likes pushing thr wrong buttons.

Taye like you wouldnt want your woman missing you like this fartface.

thank you - i will remember to do that going forward

@Biola - well done - that was good

@poster - oya go and get a urine test - or better yet - get a blood test - it will pick up any signs of pregnancy earlier than a urine test - and if you are - you both had better sit up and start making some RESPONSIBLE decisions like adults - not the type you made when you slept without condoms

deciding whether you keep the baby or not is a decision that will affect you (especially) and potentially him for life - it is also a decision that may affect your current r/ship

iice:
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i agree - plus if he cheats - because i dont wanna be the faithful wife that dies of HIV - it is not my portion in Jesus' name

Sweet T:
@Poster

Oniranu ni e. How 'bout getting a job? or volunteer at a leper's clinic or blind kids clinic to stay busy. He's gone for 1 day u dey get cold. Wait till another oniranu snatch him away from you then your incontrollable hot libido will get cold.

why are some of you so narrow-minded - why must everything in your books start and ends at the physical? - why you think come use only leper or blind kids as example? why didnt you say i should spend time in the kind of psychiatric clinic that released you early without discharge papers? nonsense!

if another girl snatch am nko? - and he wants to go, i will let himm, no be me born am - wettin dey dia - it will hurt and it will stop - meaning he was not meant to be mine for life - and i will continue the search for my own. knowing i gave it my best shot - or was that the worst thing you could think of that could happen to me?

same reason as why some men cheat

human being na human being man or woman - the thing our tradition and culture back home - makes it like it is OK for a man to cheat because he was born with a permanent hard-on and insatiable libido - but a woman!! NO?

men AND women both have needs - some will cheat as an easy way out (easier than sticking it out and working through the probs in your current r/ship) when all thier needs aren't being met in a relationship - others will cheat because they can, others because they have an insatiable libido (male or female) na life!

just make sure you match yourself properly to any proespective partner

Ben20001:
Lol. . . love that question

na so him be now - make i dey ask am well well - you will be suprised how many guys act foolishly because of their friends and the same friends will not even have the common sense to repriman him correctly!!

as a guy what would be your answer @Ben

spikedcylinder:
I[b] didn't say you went into detail[/b]. You'll find that not just you comes on here to talk about their partners. Some people give their relationships vivid descriptions on here.

i know you didn't hun - but i meant i haven't even seen your little snippets on here - or maybe i just havent been that attentive - will be reading ntwn the lines now no mind me jarre - i de nosy laik dat sumtimes

cos bad guys dey rhyme well well - good guys seem 'boring'

morpheus24:
It seems you already know the answer to that question.

OLE!!! all of una

seaman104:
luxior don't worry that will soon be resolve, and i will later tell you the out come but it can take me months,just to keep my head up. b4 i was thinking to be flirting around but i will end up hurting lot of girls. i will be my self and i belief God will show me the way. i will soon close at work, but when i got home i will msg u back.

thats the sort of self-less spirit more ppl need to develop these days - i am sure you will be ok - but that your poem above, na u write am abi na copy-and-paste?

agabaI23:
I will call you because your interpretation of catching up as used in the first context is a smoke screen.

There is nothing bad in him pressing your stuff for you and all that.

your catching up is more like the bolded part.

you're not serious! wettin u think say catch up mean? lol - glad you agreed nothing wrong in him being practical and caring like that

Ben20001:
Guys, let's begin to understand that these things are normal. His girl left him. . . u don't expect his body to wait for eternity
what's the probability dat his gurl didn't do quickees . . .and we only knw of the guy's part of the holiday experience _{just kidding though}

she didn't LEAVE him - she travelled briefly out of town - so yes he should have waited until she got back and if he were stupid enough to play away - he could have used condom (none of this ' i didn't cum inside her blubber) so he is foolish!!

morpheus24:
Trust me, me and a couple of other guys don shout for him head tire. The guy no fit respond.

good one - i like to see friends that will tell you when you are rigth AND wrong (but come oh - where you guys shouting because he cheated, abi because he didnt cheat proerly? )

spikedcylinder:
Like I said before, everyone's interpretation is different.
Personally, I will never come on here to talk about my boyfriend or love life in detail. Like I say to all the sistawoman attackers too, each to their own. If you want to talk about the romance betweeen you and your partner, it shouldn't be such a bad thing. Simple things as these have just been bastardised by all the weirdness on here.

You're welcome Luxoire.

not in detail hun - just lil snippets will do

morpheus24:
I have told him the exact same thing above and told him I will support him all the way and will even recruit my girl and other friends to come beg his girl if it comes to that.

I am also with you on her trying to break them up.

why did you cut out the first paragraph of my reply?   - i hope as a good friend you have also insulted him and told him what a disloyal and rubbish bf he has been by
a. cheating and
b. getting caught with a mini-me

that is what good friends do so the next time he thinks of whipping his thing out he will think of the consequences on his friendships and r/ship too

i don;t know why i love my bf - and i am happy with that knowledge

he has some amazing qualities i admire and like and want in a partner - but so have some of my other male friends

i think the day i find out WHY or WHAT it is that makes me love him - that is the begining of the end - cos i may decide one dasy to change my perception of those attributes and the love will die!

i enjoy the mystery of it all - i have never asked him why he loves me, but what he likes about me!

some lind of questions only cause prbs in r/ships especially when ppl see things differently

Feelitx:
I don't fail to remember. You really dont forget. That woman will always be special. I have always felt a special kind of gratefulness for a woman who chooses to share that with me. It's not every day you buy virginity off the shelves.

na so you dey use yarn decieve all the young chicas ehhh - we will always have a special attachment - even if i dump you 2moro for d next virgin kpa??

_{(joke) i beg no vex}

men men men those of you who cant keep your willies ziped up!! well he had sex with her - who told him he must 'cum' inside a girl to make her pregnant? nonsense, immature way of thinking at his age!! (not that i know how old he is)

as you lay your bed so shall you lie on it - the only ppl i have pity for is the trustting gf and the unborn child!

tell your friend to tell this girl - he will never be with her and if she is preganant fine, they can do a DNA test when the child is bown and ascertain his paternity then - you will help her financilally and bethere for the child if it is yours but he WILL NOT be with her, so unless she is ready for single motherhood she should reconsider what she is doing

in the meantime, he should tell his gf and prays that she loves him enough and has enough of the forgiving spirit to get past this - cos it seems like this new girl will seek out the gf andtell her if only to break them up just because she cant have him (some women can be like that)

atleats now he will think twice before sticking his willy in any odd place - without even know who the owner of the vagina is and whether or not is psycho!!