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Dem beg u to enter hia?, if u no like am, biko waka je-je

or are you one that goes with : WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW CAN'T HURT YOU?

Kissing is an Art, and i am SORRY but guys that don't know how to kiss had better learn fats oh!!

If im not feeling a guy's kiss, u either no sabi, or ur not feeling me

If you can express to your girl the way you feel by kissing and caressing her, (sha u no go need sex to confirm am) she go feel am

A lady can usually tell how attracted she is to a guy sexually and exactly what to expect from their sex, by her response to his kiss, sometimes something in them moves, other times its dead, whether or not u decide to go forwrad is upt to u then

base your relationship on compatibility, Sex is an enhancer oh, dont date a guy u can't talk to, and the only time u have anything in common is when u are filling ur animalistic urges, una go tire, because like a friend of mine always says

'p*ssy is pussy, no matter where u go in the world, what makes u prefer one to the other is the way you feel about the person'

Base a relationship on sex, and when d guy sef needs variety he will leave u je-je no regrets, afterall he aint missing nothing special that he cant get from elsewhere

hahaha

Most 'african men' run away from women who are more educated than them for a couple of reason

1. The women are 'enlightened' and some enlightened women sef na wahala, dem go question ur every m,ove and become Columbo in ur affairs, where as an 'illeterate' babe, no go sabi certain things about the ways of the world

2. Also some educated women, have taken this whole 'female emancipation' thing to a whole new level, d way they talk/act and behave, due to having achieved a higher level of education is disrespectful to guys, kai me sef i dey pity some guys way me female friends dey yab sometimes

3. Men are 70% ego, 10% brain and 20% muscle, now imagine if u hurt a guy's ego/pride by showing him up at a gathering, hmm some men do not like to be corrected by a woman. If they are in a conversation with a girl who appears to know more on the subject, or is more advance accademically than him, d guy will either change topic or become aggressive, me i don experience am plenty times sha, when i notice, i go just smile, then change topic, because u go sabi say d guy's ego has been hurt

4. Some educated women sef tooo do, kai. dem no dey hia word. hoe u go dey tell woman sometin, she go dey halla u for public, because she sef sabi d grammar pass u, lol

and u still dey call her your girlfriend?, wahala dey oo

Love is based on commincation and trust, as long as she has a just reason for staying away, then fine if not:

omo she sef been don dey tire for ur calls. she was waiting for u to lead d way in separation. she no want talk am out right, but then that means there is no closure to it,

and she might turn up one day and say/pretend everything is still ok. some of tehse girls sef today na temptation.

If u want her, call her and try to work things out, if u dont want her, call her and put closure to it, b4 she start to terrorise ur new gf

shaa, it is because some guys too dey claim, i only want 'pure' girls, me sef i don tire

one week they are wanting an 'experienced' babe, d next week, they are after a 'pure sweet' babe

so eventually they start making girls feel they have to be pure+experienced, it can never happen oo, skills come with experience, so if he gave her d impression he was looking for some one pure, she only fed him wat he wanted to hear

if he'd made her understand he liked his women experienced, he'd have discovered a different side to her

GUYS, Y'ALL JUST CHILL AND THANK HEAVENS FOR WHAT U GET, if u love d babe 4real, u'll be happy to enjoy her experience or teach her the way u like it

Then what are you still doing with him?, abbegi, NEXT, just start trating him as a cousin 4real,

The guy either doesnt love u, or is plain ashamed that ppl should think he is with u, or maybe he has a holier-than-thou image he is trying to keep, in which case, babygirl u no need stress, u deserve to be recognised for who/what u are to him and be appreciated for it,

Me sha, my guy no dey introduce me as his babe oh, my name will do, however if someone asaks him if we r dating, we will say YES, sometimes sef, by d time him dey intorduce me, d way him go hold me, dem go sabi say theres is more there than meets the eye, whether he says it out or not, me too i return d favour, afterall his parents gave him name now, his now is not ' meet my guy'

but saying ur love is ur cousin, na insult!!

hahahahaha, so how una dey do am?

una dey switch off lights, comot cloth, den start to dey do jiggi-jiggy?, when una no kiss?

Kissing is intimate, if ur babe no want to kiss your (bearing in mind u have been dating for a while), then sha she no love u deep down, she is saving it for some else

If u2 just started dating, and she no wan kiss u, ask her, maybe she no sabi, or she no like ur breath, but after a while, she must give, WHEN TWO PEOPLE ARE IN LOVE, THE FIRST THING THEY DO NATURALLY IS KISS, it just comes

until, they start thinking they can get away with it, and start slacking off, and leaving traces

haahaha, na wah o!!

Abi d guy na ur current or ur ex?, make una leave ppl drink water drop cup

It is not RECCOMMENDED, yes, but have y'all ever found urself in a relationship (e.g at the start) and u know u r sooo dating the wrong brother?, hahaha, just dont allow things to go far. Be sure u and d sibling have genuine feelings and its not lust, and u both come clean to the one ur about to dump.

ECAH RELATIONSHIP IS UNIQUE, SO AS LONG AS UR NOT ON A REBOUND, OR TRYING TO RE-CREATE SPECIAL TIMES U HAD WITH THE OTHER SIBLING, its all good

if the brother chooses u, over his brother heart?. and u love d guy, omo wettin be ur own? (BEWARE THE FAMILY MIGHT NOT BE VERY FOND OF YOU FOR BREAKING ONE BROTHER'S HEART, BUT THEY MIGHT LOVE YOU FOR MAKING THE OTHER ONE HAPPY)

thia is a question of QUALITY & QUANTITY

Quantity - Men cheat more, heck most of them cant help themselves - but they are lousy cheats

Quality - women don't cheat that often, but when they do, they do it properly, if she doesn't want u to know/suspect anything, u'll be non-the-wiser for quite a while, LOL

women are just not careless!!

I want guys to say what they like in their woman (physical and non-physical)

and also, i know women say size matters, but what about u u guys, do u feel ur size plays a part in how able u are to satisfy ur woman (i know d small ones wont own up, i dont want to know ur size, just answer my Q), thank u

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gENEVIEVE SHA, DON DEY VEX ME D WAY bEYONCE DEY VEX ME, she is pretty oh, but she aint all that

Jackie is sweet sha, na she better

having a convo with a friend right now on msn, and he absolutely refuses to answer my question, says he can't, so i thought to ask you guys

HALLE BERRY, TAMALA JONES, TATTYANA ALI, NIA LONG, TYRA BANKS, ANGELA BASSET, VIVICA FOX, VANESSA WILLIAMS, SANAA LATHAN, REGINA HALL, BEYONCE, who better?

beyonce tooo do, when she started off, i used to think she was good, granted she's a talented vocalist, but she's too forceful, in ur face all the time, she doesn't givee u time to enjoy one single, than the next one is out. I've stopped trying to figure out which is her latest song, omo i no like her again

Rihanna, is only 18, but she pretty,

HOWEVER PPL, DO NOT EVER MAKE THAT MISTAKE THAT AGE=INEXPERIENCE, infact una no sabi, maybe Jay-z might love B, but if Rihanna has him hooked, what will he do?, it depends on what she has to offer, after all, who needs who most?, to me Beyonce needs Jay more than he needs her

d bobo hot, no be lie!!

These are (in my books) d hottest Nollywod babes

which do you prefer?

me i dey feel Dakore, pass oo

waiting is not old fashioned...but u see im one of those ppl that believe you can still have fun, be in a relationship, and as long as both of you know its long term and for the rest of ur lives, waiting a few years till marriage b4 indulging in any kinda sexual activity is not wrong...if one of the partners feels its wrong...then he knows the door

NEVER feel as though ur pressured in a relationship to do anything, esp to have sex..if u feel that way, and ur not ready 4it..dat guy is WRONG for u...leave

having said that som ppl blieve practice makes perfect, or they are not about to get into somthin thats gonna last the rest of their lies when they dont even know how it tastes...how pessin go cook pot soup no taste?...lol

so i guess it should come down to individuals...whatever u do, do it for u and BE SAFE

hey wat up peeps?!
i'm one of those ppl that believe in complte and total honesty, tell me lemme know how to handle it..cos i no go find am funny at all, if i get to find out latyer on in the relationship...because ei dey automatically lose u points...
plus if u keep secrets, other ppl who wanna break u up, can use those secrets as blackmail, and in ur stupidity ur giving the a strong weapon against you!!
so i say be open...u aint got nothin to lose, cos at the start of it, u both got very little at stake, meanwhile when u leave it a while and u invest into the relationship..theres a lot at stake..and the more is at the stake, the harsher the consequences if the other person ever finds out

thx to all of u for all ur support and kind words, i guess u all have a point, quite frankly hes been nothing but loving to me, and i guess i will just 'follow my heart' and let ppl keep talkin...thx for all the advice

[b]ANYMORE SUPPORT IS WELCOME..thx ppl

they both hurt more...but they have different ways of handling it..what you should be asking is who gets over it quicker...and i think the girl does...simply because she frees her minds and her emotions..seriously if a guy and a girl are in a relatioship with same amount of love between them, and things have to end, then they will both hurt equally, btu the girl will move on quicker on the inside..the guy might get over it on the outside and get anothwer chick, but on the inside hes still hurting and dreaming of her...

on the other hand, women tend to offer/put more in a relationship than men..so it is generally natural that they hurt more than men

white guys are MORE romantic...however having said that, so are white chicks too...most of our african sisters just hear ppl talking about romance and they expect it..some do not even know the meaning of the word, let alone how to appreciate it or even offer it too ... ROMANCE IS A 2 WAY THING. dont expect it, if u cn't give it, or arent open to it...or cant even recognise it.There are some african/black guys out there...who are definitely off-da-hook when it comes to romance..they'll blow ur head away...but thing is dis my African sisters..some can NOT recognise romance when it stares them in the face...maybe its not that the guys that aren't romantic, it might be that we(women) just dont recognise it....abi? since its a 2-way thing

Friendship,is the truest gift of sheer compassion wihout the expctation of it being returned given to man by GOD, its when you can truly care about someone and look after them like you do yourself..a true friend will always be there to listen and help and always be in your mind!...however its also a PROMISE RENEWED EVERYTIME YOU ARE IN CONTACT..so stay in touch with those u call friends