₦airaland Forum

ednut1:
Why do we equate beauty with skin colour tho😒

But I see different skin colours up there! How does this equate with skin colour?

Curious345:
Actually easier done than said

Have you ever been a farmer, crop farmer to be specific?

superCleanworks:
looks like they left the husband alive to teach him a very personal lesson. That man needs to explain his connection with those killers.

This is so sad

These people are criminals, they are murderers. You don't need to rationalise their barbaric act, there is no point in it.
The husband had been looking for a baby for ten years. To "teach him a very personal lesson" would have been to kill his child. Don't you think so?

Curious345:
🌲 Start farming corn
🌳rice bran is cheap and free
🌴start a pko mill so you can get PKC
🌵farm soyabean
🪴for calcium?get limestone ,it's cheap .
🍀the other supplements like lysine and methionine are cheap

☘️🌿🌱🌾

Talk is cheap, easier said than done

ambale:
When will the country starts reaping the so called benefits of the tough decisions of the president?

This ain't funny any longer, money no dy even fit stay person hand again for this country sef 🤔

We won't reap anything as long as our presidents and presidential aspirants remain adamant about fuel subsidies being gone.

Oluwomonext212:
It doesn’t define u as someone responsible or capable of building a home and caring his responsibilities. But if na abroad and ur parents have BQ at the back of the building for u to stay for free, u wouldn’t mind oo, cuz rent is fucking high. We count too many things in naija because life is relatedly cheap, especially rent.

It is wrong if the location is Nigeria but it is okay if the location is abroad, right? Or, may be I didn't catch the sarcasm sha

ZIMDRILL:
like i said thread was looking at from
the point of being a permanent resident, if it was short he wouldnt open a thread like this becoz we know that you would soon move out

Have you ever realised that most things for free sonr make you wiser.

There are many options if parents die while you live with them, rent out the place let it generate money

Hehe! What's this kind of mindset? Is it a curse to continue living there? Even the Whites are not this too harsh on themselves! Besides, I don't know any culture in Nigeria that forbids it or stigmatise it.

Nazgul:
Your mom and your female siblings wouldn't respect your wife. She won't feel comfortable in that house

Only a desperate woman would marry a man living in his parents house .

Now, I have heard everything.
There is this rich man in our city. Every male child married into his small "estate" at first, they later moved out when they themselves were becoming big men in the society. If you had such a man as a dad, wealthy and loving, it would take you time to finally move your family out

Tokskob2008:
Everything is wrong with it in this part of the world...

Let's even assume your parents still lived in their own parents house till now how would you feel

If not for anything but for the sake of respect you just have to move out and start your own family on your own turf....

What's wrong in this part of the world or what makes it wrong in this part of the world? We're always too much concerned with the opinions of people about us. We would rather do what people/society expected of us than do what is better and convenient for us. Thank God I don't belong in that class

Nice2023:
U brought a topic and u still don't want us to air our opinion.

U are too immature. Is like u are being spoon feed at home and that's why u want to live till u are 60years in ur fathers house.

Be deceiving yourself.

U want to enslave another man's daughter,lazy man.

What a mentality? Wetin u want the Arabs do? Their generations live together despite having money and wealth.

Nice2023:
No woman should ever stay in such a home.

It wouldn't be long before ur mother in law will tag u a witch,there must always be friction between them.

But in all,I don't wish any woman such a trap as home.

Really? My wife, my mother and I were living together in her husband's house, I got married in there. When I built my house, all of us still moved together with the kids. My wife and mother have have been living together for 12 years, no friction and no one is tagged a witch. Only God knows where you guys always get this notion!

Nice2023:
Then allow ur sister to marry into such a family. U will know why most ladies avoid such place.

Name the ladies u know and give us their contacts u think it's by lying.

And I just quoted you above.
And one more thing, who is running the house between the two: my wife is in the control of how the home is being run

Ahmed0336:
There's nothing wrong with it but I WILL NEVER TRY THAT OR ALLOW MY CHILDREN TRY THAT NONSENSE WITH ME.

See thinking! Chai! Then, in the old age, you will be lamenting why you don't get to see children paying you visits, lol. You haven't even said why you hate it yourself and for your children

10%! Too much if you ask me. What was he doing with all that money? Well, Afe Babalola University comes to mind. No patriotism whatsoever. Shame

Laple0541:
The amount Mr Ibu received from donations seem to be more than what he made in his entire career.

Imagine a whole #55M was stolen by those parasites, yet he still had enough to take care of himself.

That's his reward for making people laugh over the years . Don't envy

henryadex:
The village is even not your last destination you'll end up in the grave one day the better you should get closer to Jesus now

Dem religious brainwashed. Even Jesus ended up in grave, that's even after he ended up on a cross

Patriotic9ja:
Cool but mama still failed to take responsibility even at old age. Still blaming the government for her own wrong decisions.

She didn't know better, she still doesn't

omoredia:
But u concluded that i am an Obidient u see that u people really do not reason. No wonder u have found urselves in a pit

You are not new on nairaland now, only Obi rodents react to unfortunate incidents this way. That's the trait of Obi rodents, u wan deny?

StaffofOrayan:
Nothing like jazz abeg,
You heard the amount at stake and lost ur mind....and ur money, just like most scam victims

There was jazz indeed, the jazz in this contest was the MARRIAGE PREPARATION. They didn't see the guy coming at all, he uses the marriage preparation to borrow their senses.

omoredia:
U supported Emi lo kan and want to quickly escape fron the consequences. U can see how wicked Nigerians are. U support what is wrong but u dont want to stay under it. God don catch u

How could you conclude like that on who he support? You knew him or just because of his name (tribe and religion)? It's like dem use politics of bitterness swear for you Obi rodents

Barcalee:
Both genders crave of freedom,they see marriage as being tied down to just one person who Lord's over them. Both genders are guilty of this. But what they don't understand is that na when rain stop person wey carry umbrella go know say he carry extra load. Make dem wait till old age

I always said this. With exception of early death of one's partner, you're going to be left with your partner in old age and not your children. Your children will go their own ways and you may not even see some of them in years for various reasons.
Marriage comes with sacrifices and compromises but there is always benefits too. If you fail to look for your soul mate while you still can, loneliness will deal with your sorry ass in old age

fineboynl:
the only problem i have with you use forcing a lifestyle on your kids. The biggest problem i have with my parents was I don’t have a say over my life. The restrictions and all the negative vibes, that really affected me to the extent I don’t have a parental love towards them. I don’t seek any body approval to lover my life. That i will never do that to my kid. You are free to life your life as it pleases only that you cant steal under my roof

You meant that as a parent, you are going to allow your kids to live a care free lifestyle or what? Is it possible for parents not to guide their children at all? Because, I don't understand you.

Rich4god:
Now sef... The men will boldly tell a lady to get pregnant before marriage, and when the pregnancy come, he start singing another song. The lady will now end up bearing the bulk of the consequences as her life is definitely distorted .

Very big lesson, learning the hard way You are very much correct.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Simple.
Women want to have children without the wahala of MEN.
Do you know how difficult it is to live with the average nigerian man? Firstly, A woman life is in danger when she encounters🍆, and everything 🍆 brings.

The average nigerian man cannot look after himself and need s a woman to do so for him. He is dirty and messy.. He has the potential to be physically abusive, unfaithful, small minded with a big and fragile ego. and the most annoying thing is she now has to be subservient to him in the institution called marriage. Her major benefit is that he foots the bills which isn't so much of an advantage today.

I wonder where all this is coming from

Now if she is offered the deal to have a child that is biologically hers without all the stress outlined above, and a stipend to boot? It is hard for some caliber of ladies to resist such temptation.

You made it look like ladies willingly choose to be baby mamas, lol. It is usually about the relationships that went south after pregnancy. Most baby mamas would settle down if they have opportunity either with the fathers of their babies or another men who are ready to marry them. Go on Facebook and see them there, they plenty pass sand looking for men to settle down with. Many of them don't even mind becoming second wife

Rich4god:
Let me just add this one...

What do you as a lady stand to gain from being a baby mama. A guy who is out looking for a baby mama is likely going to try to claim the child for himself.

No ladies set out to be baby mamas. Things usually go south after pregnancy as in most of today's relationships, pregnancies usually preceed marriages

motionarena:
Nope
Thats money for new keke or fairly used korepe

People want to sell cars too, most especially now that the cost of fuel and maintenance have become outrageous and there are no buyers

EreluRoz:
Should I tell my dad my observation? What do you think?

Lol
And what your dad is gonna do with your observation?

adesegun121:
As a lady, can you start life with a man that lives here?

Drop your comment Below

I didn't have up to this standard (single room) when my wife and I started our life together. We thank God for where we are today.

Angelfrost:
None of those oil-producing nations sends crude oil out for refining, only to 're-import' fuel at higher amounts.

Lol. And you think that's why their citizens are paying almost nothing for fuels? Their govt is paying subsidy, heavily.
If Dangote starts producing petrol at full capacity, it won't bring the price down up to 100 naira per litre

The fact that your country has failed to establish and maintain functioning refineries in over 6 decades of Independence is not my fault, Sir.

An average Saudi Arabian can't even comprehend such ridiculousness.

Nobody holds you responsible now

Ijaya123:
Can you share with us the source of this info of countries selling petrol for equivalent of N30 naira per litre?

It was posted here on fp.

Nokio2:
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I no Wetin u want him roster to be like

Wed: business meeting with chinaza
Thurs:Take lunch to Yomi at efcc underground cell
Fri; hookup with Habiba at citylodge
Sat:remove diesel from office gen
What a balablu

He asked a sensible question, why taking panadol for another's headache?

Angelfrost:
Gone where??! Lol.

If they truly removed the subsidy and deregulated that sector, you should be buying petrol at almost 1k per liter.

And we should be happy, right? A country in the category of Saudi Arabia and UAE! The last time prices of petrol in different countries was published, none of the oil producing nations sells above 30 naira per litre. What a shame!

Testiebobo:
Now that petrol is 650per litter, in my family we no longer use our car anyhow anyday, our car is on vacation. To pop your bubbles we made a family roster on when to use the car. See below;
\MON\ unavailable
\TUE\ AVAILABLE (bible study in church, due to its far distance)
\WED\ unavailable( hour of favour, but in a nearby church\
\THUR\ unavailable( prayer meeting in church) use keke or okada or legs for transportation
\FRI\ unavailable
\SAT\ unavailable
\SUN\ AVAILABLE(sunday service)
In this tinubulation era, our car is on vacation and holiday by force by fire. The car cannot come and be enjoying money than the entire family.

Looking at that roster above, you would be one mother fvcking brainwashed.

Smile4mee01:
Should I be concerned? I dont want to enter one chance.

Please I use God beg you, no insults just advice. Abeg. God bless you.

You should be more concerned about her past concerning abortions that might have gone wrong than her age. She should still be okay at 39 as long as fertility is concerned. Just remain for her to be open with you if she doesn't have anything to hide from her past concerning ability to conceive (again).