Romance › Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by macho44(m): 10:21am On May 04, 2020 |
IvarDboneless: damn.....una just wan finish this girl life . baby khia my condolences Tell am Sorry  |
Romance › Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by macho44(m): 11:50pm On May 03, 2020 |
younglleo: Where can i find these women bro? Dem full Instagram |
Politics › Re: Wike Orders Immediate Deportation Of Almajiris From Rivers State by macho44(m): 1:16pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Yenefer: Our people to need reduce giving birth to children that they cannot take care of. Alamjiri is a hausa thing not islamic. I'm always ashamed of seen this little children begging. Imagine this criminal, alcoholic rubbing it on our faces
PS people saying Almajiri is a Muslim things named any Muslim countries with Almajiri besides nigeria. TRUTH is BITTER |
Politics › Re: Buhari To Gradually Ease Lockdown In Lagos, FCT And Ogun From 4th May by macho44(m): 9:28pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Senator Uche Ekwunife Distributes Food Items To Anambra Central (Photos) by macho44(m): 9:49pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Deepfeel: My friend, you sound hungry and angry what's your problem? Just tell am say he is a very "HANGRY" NIGERIAN  |
Education › Re: No BVN, No Payment Of Withheld Salary - FG Replies ASUU by macho44(m): 9:36am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Cyberterror: These lecturers are very corrupt. They have multiple accounts. Many of them teach in private universities too and draw salaries from there in breach of federal civil service laws. That's why they are resisting application of BVN and IPPIS . Biko who is not Corrupt in this kwantry? NIGERIA. Itself is corruption personified, and that includes you, because you are My fellow NIGERIAN |
Health › Re: Highlights Of Sanwo-olu's Press Briefing On COVID-19 This Evening by macho44(m): 8:52pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
RealSolution001: Ok
If this lockdown persists, I'm afraid I don't know what will happen. Look at me already I can't feed myself. I may prefer Corona kill me out there than hunger.
Meanwhile, any little assistance can go a long way to help this period solely for feeding. Imagine where even salt not available in the house. Na die be this o.
Bank name: Ecobank Plc
Account number: 3351-09-7274
God bless. U are asking us to look at you, shey u dey Ghost mode abi u be Mr Invincible? Me sef I Neva chop since when the Lockdown. Started, because of the undying Love and deep patriotic affinity I have for my Kwantry, I decided to go on compulsory"CORONA-FASTING" |
Politics › Re: Late Abba Kyari With His Beautiful Family (Photo) by macho44(m): 11:37pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
JAMO84: Salamrushdie, the chief wailing Zombie of Nairaland, 2015 - 2088 It's Salman, not Salam |
Romance › Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? The Lockdown Is Tiring Already by macho44(m): 11:37am On Apr 14, 2020 |
bonnyhope: Pussy don tire dis one
Na fever go catch u nxt Shey Pussy dey tire person ni? If e taya u, chop the Cat �. That's why oyinbo Dem call am "PoooCi Cat" or Kitty-Kat |
Sports › Re: Blessing Okagbare Files For Divorce From Igho Otegheri by macho44(m): 11:33am On Apr 14, 2020 |
ukukaegbu: Did he play for the main Super Eagles or another one? He did play for the Super Eagles team B. Very popular back then in the. Local league, made his name while playing for Enugu Rangers. |
Politics › Re: Buhari: The Lockdown Will Last As Long As Our Advisers Say by macho44(m): 1:17am On Apr 12, 2020 |
Duru9:

Which kind wahala be this
I don already buy sniper keep sha
If there's no movement on Monday I won't have any choice than to ease this whole stress I don really suffer this life Before u TRANSPORT yaself to the other side, if u get any PROPERTY or PRIZED POSSESSION, abeg dash me. But don't include ur Patch-patch boxers dem ooo  |
Sports › Re: Taribo: Super Eagles Players Slept With Women At France ’98 by macho44(m): 1:28pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
ideabuilder: Now I know why Taribo fought Keshi blow for blow on the pitch that day U too dey lie. KESHI's last involvement as a player for the Super Eagles was @ the USA 94 finals. |
Romance › Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by macho44(m): 4:43pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Awe4luv: you really dont have to tell me this coz am not dumb, but if u have someone that has done it for someone you know before so y not , no matter the risk am so certain it will work as the same company has done it for someone close not more than a year plus ago....... make your research well, yea people get scammed but there are still legit organisations that will help u out.... Ok sir. No vex. |
Romance › Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by macho44(m): 4:37pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
pocohantas: Hmmm. “Foreign women rush Naija men” Tell am, she don't know nothing. Fyne , Tall, Macho, Eloquent boys like "US", Dem no want us to REST. Every 25 seconds my phone dey beep, if no be voice notes from my women, na text messages from my girls [color=#990000][/color]  |
Romance › Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by macho44(m): 4:35pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Awe4luv: I already started bro, infact I already made an advanced payment as agreed to the agent ivolved,only for Corona to suddenly show, sometimes it crosses my mind and I feel so down, like had I known? Giving money to agents for travelling is a very risky venture. Bros shine ur eye, make person no run u street ooo |
Romance › Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by macho44(m): 4:29pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
whizqueen: My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.
I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.
Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.
Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.
I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me
What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear
If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.
Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.
Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.
White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department 
In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.
Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.
All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.
Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.
There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.
A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.
I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today 
Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely Nne, ur LOVE is looking for my TROUBLE. Biko where can I find it so I can give it to you without delay. |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Mocks Nigerians As Accountant-General’s Office Is Gutted By Fire by macho44(m): 4:06pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
kestolove95: Son of a thousand fathers U take style dey call his mama "OLOSHO" abi  |
Celebrities › Re: JJC Skillz 43rd Birthday Party Amid Coronavirus. Funke Akindele Under Fire by macho44(m): 1:33pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
Babatunde40: Frankly speaking, Some Nigerians feel this coronavirus thing does not concern them
For me, this month I am taking my online dating very seriously. A Canadian magazine reported that online dating has gone up due to lockdowns. People are indoors. To keep themselves busy, they are switching to online dating. They said the number of people switching to online dating is more than the number on Valentine's day 2020.
One of the sites mentioned is Bit Mistress (Mostly for Canadian members. See Image below)
I have registered. My goal this month is to get 1 serious lover from Canada. Someone to help me escape from 9ja when all this covid stuff is over. I dey feel u bro |
Romance › Re: She Is Always Speaking With Her Ex by macho44(m): 1:23pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
vivypretty: lol. keep up the good work, emphasis on 'good' Thankio. Once this Corona ish is over, I go come ya place.  |
Romance › Re: She Is Always Speaking With Her Ex by macho44(m): 10:25pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
vivypretty: wow. you must be the last of your kind. lol keep up the good work. Me sef ayam doing like him na. Oya hype me make my head swell small  |
Romance › Re: She Is Always Speaking With Her Ex by macho44(m): 10:23pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
aimuan: Thankx for the advice anyway. But I am actually not interested in that Toto.I have gone past that.Toto does not really move me,I just need a wife that all.. If that TOTO no hungry u, then you must be a senior broda to BOBRISKY |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Told A Guy She Is Not In A Relationship by macho44(m): 11:13pm On Apr 01, 2020 |
primesoccer: I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.
In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.
I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...
She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.
When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.
She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.
So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.
Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.
I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.
Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.
On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.
I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.
Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?
I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...
Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly Bros forget that GIRL and move on. A stitch in time saves nine. No say i no tell you oooo, before you train other men children. Time no dey biko. |
Travel › Re: CORONAVIRUS: Going Back To The USA From 9ja by macho44(op): 6:19pm On Mar 21, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: Make hin waka jeje go Airport......... Call lufthansa and see if they are still scheduled tonight........... (speak to a human being)..... Finally, my Gee was able to board LH569 (Lufthansa's Airline That Flew Out Last Night), mehn yesterday was the longest day of my LIFE, up till now, the headache wey worry me throughout never stop oooo. I just dey thank GOD say he move yesterday. |
Travel › Re: CORONAVIRUS: Going Back To The USA From 9ja by macho44(op): 10:36am On Mar 20, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: Make hin waka jeje go Airport......... Call lufthansa and see if they are still scheduled tonight........... (speak to a human being)..... Na by 16:50 dem dey open office. Was there on Monday |
Travel › Re: CORONAVIRUS: Going Back To The USA From 9ja by macho44(op): 9:52am On Mar 20, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: Buy new one way ticket....... Look for any flight departing today....... Hopefully, hin neva use money chop suya finish..............  Lol, he don BROKE, and he sabi chop JUNK food, u sabi say all those Mr Biggs & KFC dia Chicken dey expensive, na wetin make me dey fight tooth & nail make he dey go today, afterall ayam not his father. On the other hand, i just Checked Lufthansa's website, the actual Flight he was supposed to leave with is still flying out tonight, also called the agency he bought the ticket from, and they are claiming the ticket was cancelled, which is only possible from their end because it's an E-ticket. I'm doing all i can to pile pressure on em to get him a seat on that Flight tonight. will send screenshots of the Lufthansa Flight leaving tonight. |
Travel › Re: CORONAVIRUS: Going Back To The USA From 9ja by macho44(op): 7:13am On Mar 20, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: I don't like to say...... I told you so..... I could predict airlines behavior........  Actually, the ticket was bought from an Agency, and I checked Lufthansa's flight itinerary for today, and there's a plane leaving for tonight. The problem is from (ASAP Tickets), I saw this coming and did all I could to get in touch with those PHUCKERS, yet still dem no reply. Finally, the agent who helped get the ticket replied and said; He's on Vacation and there's nothing he can do while advising us to call their customer care. This is so CRAZY, I'm not even thinking STRAIGHT right now |
Travel › Re: CORONAVIRUS: Going Back To The USA From 9ja by macho44(op): 6:01am On Mar 20, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: Exactimo.......... DAMN!!! This isn't looking Good. Flight was cancelled |
Travel › Re: CORONAVIRUS: Going Back To The USA From 9ja by macho44(op): 9:15pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: CORONAVIRUS: Going Back To The USA From 9ja by macho44(op): 8:27pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: Ban is not yet in place nah........
Enforcement starts 20/3....... The ban should only affect those coming into the country, those flying out have no cause for alarm. |
Travel › Re: CORONAVIRUS: Going Back To The USA From 9ja by macho44(op): 7:18pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: I warned you things might change..... Now a flight ban is in place......
Is lufthansa still going to fly?......  Yep, a friend flew out last night. |
Celebrities › Re: Daddy Showkey Celebrates Son On 23rd Birthday With Epic Pictures by macho44(m): 6:56pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
morikee: MANNABBQGRILL Where art thou. u wan give am BELLE? |
Travel › Re: CORONAVIRUS: Going Back To The USA From 9ja by macho44(op): 4:59pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: Absolutely..... It's a fast moving story... Nobody knows what might happen this hour or the next......
Just keep observing.........  Fingers CROSSED  |