Blackurglyboi: Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.
Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.
It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.
I have lot of girls as my friends .. One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..
My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.
I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.
I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .
Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.
Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart. Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...
It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...
For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .
Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.
Shit ain't easy. You need a strong resolve and willpower to overcome ur addiction. To start with you can develop a habit, like learning how to code or graphic design. Or even learn about Affiliate Marketing with ClickBank. Just try to stay busy, and get a lady friend if need be.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. The girl isn't ugly, her mum hasn't been a PHYNE LADY since day one , but her husband and family people dem love am like that.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. The girl isn't ugly, her mum hasn't been a PHYNE LADY since day one , but her husband and family people dem love am like that.
Loyalqwin: I came as usual to visit my bf only to meet my own best friend having sex with him. Am devastated right now. How can I pay them back? I need to hurt him advice needed.
PrinceOfEast: Who else love sucking/licking pussy?
Have you chased a bitch outta ur house because of smelling pussy?
As for me, i love giving my woman head. And i have chased a bitch outta my house because of her "fish" smelling pussy. *No joy*
Dayummmmm!!! well, i only tried it twice. Once on a 9ja gal, as soon as i bent down, hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm broda the kain smell wey comot in between this gal legs ehn, e fit make dead bodi run comot for mortuary. Everywhere just dey smell Yansh-Yansh, na so i codedly tell am make she crawl on all fours, muscle pull don do me for mouth. The second time, was about 5 months back. This time na one Latina wey come chill with me from Yankee, u sabi as all those women dem dey get "CHRISTIAN MOTHER" hand and leg na, unto say too much PHAT-PHAT, but she was way cleaner than the 9ja gal ooo, and wetin make me reciprocate be say she "HANDLED my CANDLE" thoroughly, so i had no choice than to do some painting 'DOWN-UNDER"
My boyfriend lives in a compound like face me I face you type. I don’t have a problem with that cos I visit him like every weekend. I notice him and his neighbors are very friendly and I am not used to that type of lifestyle and that really bothers me.
My boyfriend is a Teacher and likes to help people alot. I work in an office as HR. When we met, I was attracted to his nature of kindness. I did not mind his status,I just fell in love with how he genuinely care for people including myself.
When the relationship became serious, I started feeling that some people may want to take advantage of his kindness. For example,he coaches students for free,even though I know he should get paid for his services. People come to lie to him that they have no money and he says no problem.
This is always making him broke as he has to depend on his meager salary. But in a month,apart from his job,he coaches more than 15 students. In his compound, they share common amenities and somehow,also share assets like borrowing of cooking stove or fan or go to each other’s room for a meal.
I am not used to that type of lifestyle but I love my boyfriend so I adjust for him. Until ....
Nne, ya boyfriend isn't ya PROPERTY na. It's his nature, free the bobo, give am breathing space. He's free spirited, and it's going to open a lot of doors for him in future. Take for instance, na person wey give me, na Im i dey give.
Johnbestman: Pls I need help. I can't save money anymore. I base in shomolu lagos.. I can't stay without fukin olosho and with 500naira u can fuk any olosho here in shomolu. How can I stop. I always have the urge to fuk olosho.. Sometimes I even go as early as 4am in the morning. Today Saturday I went around 5am to nack and the olosho gave me d fuk of my life that I had to run back for another round. Pls I need help. How can I stop.
Hmmmm, u na LEGEND oooo. AS e be now, me sef no sabi the main advice wey i go give you. To start with, go do series of TEST to ascertain your sexual health..
Scaredoflife: A nation we live in, where honesty and hardwork no longer pays, even ignorance is much better than been literate Crime is the order of the day, we being butchered everyday yet govt still rehabilitating this wicked souls into the society, A nation where foreigners are more valued that our dear country people. A country where has beem doomed right from after indepedence, can we say white rule was better, of cos it had it own flaws but atleast they better than our so-called black minds. I have despised these so-called people not knowing one day also love to become one of them I have made up my mind anyone willing to help me in this my new quest in life to make money should buzz me up. If you have no resonable comment, don't comment, Cos it seems am giving up already
If you can't beat them, bros JOIN them. But make you no Yahoo me ooo, because if you Yahoo me, i go Gmail you
What happened to sweet native Names like; Emeke, Obinna, Uche?
Noooooo, if the PIKIN answer UCHE na im be say he go dey look people face taya. People wey dey answer Emeka, dem too dey beat women, while men wey dey answer OBINNA, hmmm na woman wrapper association dem dey belong to. MUKAILA or ARISTOTLE go fit the pikin, he resemble pikin wey go sabi book
viviangist: On 19th of August 2020 by 9:30am, God gave us another new beginning, miraculous end and most precious new life!. Join us as we welcome Ada C-GOLD� Thank you Jesus for the gift of conception! Thank you Jesus for safe delivery! Thank you Jesus for this precious new life in my family! Truly You're a Covenant keeping God! Welcome Ada C-GOLD Welcome Mkpurumma C-GOLD Welcome Baby Busomma Mum and dad loves and cherish you�� You're already blessed!!
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Thank you all. We are now ready to reopen the blog ....
CONGRATULOBIA, Hanty VivianGist, nnem biko, KNACK us beta gist, na so so BBN tori Lalasticlala the Snake Charmer dey post come front page. We have tired to read about Laycon ati KiddWaya
I will be 28 in a month but i have not been able to hit puberty fully. Can count how many strand of hair on my pp, no armpit hair, no facial changes used to be short then i start growing from like 5.7' to 6.5'. No lies it's a very big disgrace when kids that will see my junior brother and bow their heads expect me to call them egbon.
But I have worked on my self esteem, gave myself confidence by reading inspirational books, learnt boxing, build my body, learnt dancing and i can very well say all this have really boost my confidence, i built my confidence by writing job application to jobs i know im over qualified for and intentionally bully the unlucky hr that will interview me �. I am able to read people and give good advices, as a matter of fact, i (despite my baby face) take adult Sunday School at church and I'm able to take my classes like a piece of cake (With God enabling me btw).
Never dated or toast before not cos im scared of being turned down inface i have a lot of babes that really show me emotions but because I'm scared of how the girl will act towards me when she find out my secret and i am gonna keep it that way because i can't really take heartbreak because of something i can't control. I already have a good paying Job and finances not my problem so this is my only headache but will i still become normal? Have you overcome something like this? Or do you know how i can correct things?
I have been a guest on NL for more than 7 years. Try be a troll first y'all taught me
Chai, wetin u get na wetin some people dey find. Beta Football AGE body . Truly truly, life no balance
etokhana: SUSPECTED OYO SERIAL KILLER, SUNDAY SHODIPE, BACK IN POLICE CUSTODY
Operatives of the Nigeria Police Force, Oyo State Police Command, have re-arrested the notorious murder suspect, Sunday Shodipe who escaped from lawful custody on 11th August, 2020.
He was re-arrested today, Sunday, 23rd August, 2020 by Police operatives at the Bodija area of Ibadan, the Oyo State Capital.
It would be recalled that the erstwhile fugitive is a prime suspect in multiple murder of innocent citizens at Akinyele Local Government Area, Moniya, Ibadan, Oyo State.
The Inspector General of Police, IGP M.A Adamu, NPM,mni while commending the Commissioner of Police, Oyo State Command, CP Joe Nwachukwu Enwonwu and his Team for a job well done, equally expressed his sincere appreciation to the citizens for their support and understanding while the manhunt for the rearrested Shodipe lasted.
Meanwhile, the IGP has warned against any form of complacency on the part of the operatives of the Oyo State Police Command, stressing that all hands must be on deck to bring the case to a positive and successful closure.
https://twitter.com/PoliceNG/status/1297548010755366913?s=19[/quote]All this poverty stricken and hungry looking serial killers wey our NIGERIAN POLICE dem just dey arrest sef. Na so dem carry one the other time for Port-Harcourt say he dey kill women, as dem arrest am na so dem first give am Rice and fish make he chop to show una say na hungry people wey dey aroma for street dem dey go carry. If true true say this ogbeni dey end people as dem talk, make dem travel am sef make he go face people wey he cross over to the other side, dem go treat his fuckup for dia
Themainboy22: The best way to propose to a woman is to get her pregnant, and allow her and her parents to decide wether she will marry you or not. But these chewing gum boys will not listen. Imagine crying because a liability rejected your proposal Local Man is disappointed. *spit.
@DomainKing, i've been extremely patient and heaven knows i have tried my best. My patience has exceeded it's limit and i swear with everything i hold sacred, your organization won't go scot free. Suspending an active hosting plan over a stupid domain that i neither own or have access to is unfathomable. For crying out loud, my corporate website is hosted on the hosting plan you suspended, and it's been over 72hours and counting. You're toying with my business and source of livelihood and you expect me to sit still and fold my hands without doing nothing No wahala.
juliabobly65: Hello nairalanders, I need your opinions on this matter.
My boyfriend of 3 years who is now my fiancee (we are talking marriage already) is constantly talking to his ex girlfriend (who is now married).
They discuss all manner of things, ranging from how she misses him and wished she had waited for him.
Trouble started when he told her he was planning to settle down (I still wonder why he told her) ever since she's always coming up with pots of lies against me. She claims someone told her so many things about me.
She fabricating lies isn't my major concern because I know once something good is about to happen the devil comes in many ways than one to destroy it.
I've told my man all about my past life and everything in it, recently he accused me of withholding some information of my past. The ex girlfriend had a chat with and told him things I don't even know about.
Nairalanders this lady is married, why is she poke nosing into our affair?? If she loved him that much, why did she marry another man?? Why is my man giving her audience Is he still in love with her I know she's obsessed about me. Her constant chats with him, makes him accuse me of things I've never done in my entire life.
I told him we should suspend the marriage until he's done with his investigation since he doesn't believe me cos he said if he finds out something I did in my past in the future and I didn't tell him it will be a problem.
Admins pls push to front page.
No matter how dark a person's past might be, the future is SPOTLESS only if you bury the GHOST of the past for good. Before entering a new relationship, it is very important that you open up and tell your partner everything he or she needs to know about your past, anything you feel that can bring about distrust and suspicion in future, abeg yan am make him or her know before anything because e get why, to prevent stories that touch later on.
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No wahala.
y'all taught me
. Congratulations to them.