₦airaland Forum

Culture of sorting lecturers, "let my people go" mentality and English is not my language mentality, and debased educational standards with low cut of marks rather than a uniform standard

Is it that none of this man's class mates are alive? Or none of the school's he attended in Nigeria are still in existence to show his picture or photos and confirm his age. I know if he attended a foreign US or EUROPEAN school,their annual year book would have his picture. Everything about this man is shrouded in controversy from his age, to his actual origin to school(Chicago) to source of wealth.
If Nigerians make the mistake of voting him and his party, we will never recover from it. Look at how he has pocketed Lagos State. And it says a lot about the people of Lagos is this is the best the can put forward, support to run the affairs of the state. To the point that thugs have more political clout than responsible humans

Zee0007:
My fellow nairalanders help me out on this. My immediate elder sister said she can't marry the guy she's dating.

The guy is a successful barber. I love the guy because he seem responsible and well cultured. From the looks of things, he will make a good husband for her.

But my sister shook the whole house yesterday when the supposed barber proposed to her, She outrightly rejected the guy because of his profession.

She's in her mid 20s. Please what should we do? She's getting older but she seems not to realise.

The guy called me this morning and pleaded with me to talk to her. What will I say to her, now?

A wider view will be much appreciated.

But she was collecting gifts and money from his barber profession but can't marry him. The guy dodged a bullet. Pray for your sister bro

Any girl who receives gifts from a man knowing fully well that she has no long term plans with the man, leading him on with the knowledge of her family as well is an impoverished family

Listen to the fool shouting Jesus and blaming devil when a human being risked his Iife with common sense and knowledge of oil based fire and sand. Religion is a plague in Nigeria

MufasaLion:
Marry when you are ready emotionally, psychologically, financially, etc.

Marriage is different from courting/dating. Shit is scary, though.

Never let a woman nag you into marriage. They will not be the ones to bear the burden of responsibilities. Marry on your own terms and to a woman that adds value to your life and does something for a living. If she has more than 700 Instagram followers and not in entertainment or TV, don't take her serious. Entertainment girls should not be taken seriously

Keep it dry. Use sulphur hair cream like Damatol after haircut, morning and night. Dusting powder if you will be indoors. It dries within a week

He should promise us his death

Believe a woman's words at your own risk

bigjackass:
Courtesy demands she serve the guest first whether her brother or not.

Nobody is dragging head of the house with you

Wrong!!!
You serve the head of the house first, then he can invite the guest to dine and be dished. If it's not buffet style feast, common sense says serve the provider. Even if you as guest is served first, you'd be inconsiderate to eat first, instead defer to your host. Let your host be the one to waive the right and tell guest to eat. If you go to England to visit the queen, she is served and all her guests, but NO one starts eating till the Queen has taken the first spoon to her mouth

What of Mode 9's Coup de grace against Ruggedman?

Set your alarm for 3 different times, 30mins interval to when you wake.
Example. I work in VI but live at Egbeda. I set alarm for 3.00 a m, 3.30a.m and 4 a.m. when its first rings, I'm still sleepy, the second one wakes me on my bed waiting for 3rd. Then I wake and prepare to leave home by 5 am. I reach office by 6-6.30 am. I can sleep for another hour before workers arrive by 7.30 and work resumes by 8

Does ISCOM university in Cotonou Benin, offer Nursing?

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Fools. How did Nigerian fuel find its way to Cameroun if your corrupt customs were not accepting bribe to allow the product through to Cameroun

Loreettaa:
Completely disgusting. What is it with middle aged men and teenagers?

Correct, not middle aged girl. a young, mature, undamaged woman with low body count compared to the older women. Do you expect a man of his age to marry woman of his age. No. Women flaunt their beauty and have requirements for husband's to be. When men are ready to marry, they should have their spec and pick of women not accept old, damaged women as they are. At least this young girl has not lived in campus hostel with a boy as unofficial wife who used her.

The other buildings should be demolished as well. They have same design and handled by same contractor

You have billed him

Never date a girl without a job

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Your article would have made sense if women were proud to publicly proclaim their NUMBER of sexual partners the same way men are. Even prostitutes are not proud of it, thus when they leave the district of their trade, they go where they are unknown to more or less start afresh. Women with multiple body counts have tendency to wander in marriage. I know how many girls in my past, now married who have reached out to me that they aren't happy- and was I glad, I didn't settle with them. A woman is born with value from womb, and all her life strives to maintain it. Men are born worthless and must make a life for themselves.

Hello house. Quick advise please.
I am a June 11 applicant for September 2021 term. 3rd time applicant with upfront medical and biometric. My eligibility started 6days after on June 17.
Now I sent in a new LOA in late July based on advise from school that class was filling up for September 2021 and I should reapply. So I reappllied for May 2022 and sent them new LOA. Last week make it 19 weeks. I just checked my profile now and saw ghost update, but eligibility review changed back to we will let you know when we start reviewing your eligibility. What does this imply.
I have been sending webform and email reminders since last four weeks @Frankrobbn1 @Lekkiboboe and other gurus, kindly advise

Warm engine every two days. Especially nights

viviangogos:
Amen oooo . But your medical has expired though... do you want to wait for a request? But you can book for a date while waiting. I checked IOM site last night for date, and the next available date is December 30th or so. Though with a medical request, they can give you an earlier appointment.

All the best!!!

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Thanks.
Yes I applied with upfront medical. 3rd time applicant. First two applications were decided in 94 days or less. This application is now 130 days today. I just decided to chill till they asked for another. Though I sent new LOA in late July from September 2021 to May 2022 because school said class was virtually full for September

June 11, 2021 application date
Biometric completed August 24, 2020
Medical done August 22, 2020
Eligibility started June 16, 2021
BVL and PPR Oct....iJN

Thank God for a new job. And more things coming. Things I asked for and am yet to get but the signs re positive. Na wife remain

My guy take it from me: ignore those girls you have nothing to offer them at that stage of your development. Those girls have no job but are students like you and are living flashy, where do you think the money is from. Her father? No dear. They are from men, yahoo boys, sugar daddies you can't compete with. When you stay working,you will see even girls that work in bank don't fix such nails. The girls are in the prime of their beauty and will give to highest bidder. Work on yourself and improve your value, by the time you meet those same girls in 10years , you with thank God you ignored them. You will chose from younger, fresher girls who will respect and look up to you because you wil have more wealth than their school mate. It's a vicious cycle. Girls date up. Men date down

With role models like Tonto Dike, Toke Makinwa, Ini Edo, and co truly the girl child is looked down upon. With role models like Okonjo Iweala, their value is high

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for this cramped living space. Instead I'd get acres of land in GRA with ample expanse and build my mansion without squeezing myself with others

Lianna2020:
I know someone that received bvl sept 2 and PPR dropped two days ago.

He sent emails to Nairobi and also sent to his mp. The mp told him his application has passed all requirements yet PPR took almost a month to come.

You can wait it out or send.

I waited for five days n it was the worst five days of my life.
The emails gave me reasons to hold on .

It has no negative effects, it’s not like you are insulting but appealing to them to attend to your application.

I don’t even know why or when they started sending bvl first n PPR after days. It’s emotional torture .

Please how does one get email of MPs

Yes especially in civil service.
I know a female friend who told me she agreed to pay 250k for a federal job. She was posted to Abeokuta, but was based in the East. And after a certain number of years, she will seek transfer back to her base in East. She got the job and still works there