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He is a failure. A bad representation of northern Nigeria. He failed academically, he failed as a soldier, he failed as president. He is incompetent

Beauty is nothing if she is for the streets

Hope the remember to fire the president and ministers and political office holders appointed to civil service over 50

Jovialjune1:
Pls leave.

Since he can keep something as huge as a child, who knows what else he's keeping from you

You are justified to leave abeg.

1. Be careful of single girls advising you, a married woman to leave your husband.
2. You will now be 2nd hand. No responsible man wants a woman that has had a child for another man

FERNANDEZISBACK:
While some Dumbos will say "if you ain't a virgin then you deserve no man" like WTF?
The Dumbo who made that statement is prolly a wh**re himself but deem it fit and cool to tell a woman what and what not to do..

So you want to LovePeddler away your best years in the name of liberal woman and then expect a nice guy to come and marry the used and worn out body of such a girl when the body is saggy, lady bits stretched out? Hell no!!!!!!

Women have specs, men don't complain. When men set their specs, women complain. The reality is in the old days, if a man wanted a wife, he either married a woman ( NOTE married , not dated) or went to a prostitute in city centre. Now most modern girls offer what prostitutes offer and don't reserve anything a wife should for her husband. Feminism sold women a hoax of a lie. If you doubt me, name one thing you will offer your future husband that you did not give any of your ex boyfriends

She chose him by herself, her body her choice
. I'm sure there was someone who would have treated her better but Range Rover attracted her. Things don red for hubby and she don dey nag. All these girls looking for ready made man and don't want to build with husband

A form of insurance for old age,
More children in old days meant more hands to hep with farm work and thus family wealth

Genital string

bukhety:
I have replied your dm

Thank you. I replied you

bukhety:
You are not ready to get your passport. There are some people who have contacted me on this thread and I have given them his no. I'm not an agent, I'm an applicant myself.

Hi Sis. Please help me with the number

Hello House,
Who has applied for passport (new or renewal) using DIY. And how long did it take?

I want to apply for renewal for my mom and want to be certain. Kind advise

Get professional certification

This guy crazy

If Lagos people at stupid to vote him back despite ENDSARs nonsense, then they deserve what they get

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

When a woman starts displaying mood swings, she is tired of relationship and another person has her attention

giselle237:
https://www.gov.uk/standard-visitor/apply-standard-visitor-visa

Thank you

Hello house.
Please advise. I eat to apply for UK tourist visa before month end. How do I proceed. How much is visa fee. Can I get 1year or 2 year visa? I'm a first time UK applicant. Never travelled abroad

1stGenAmerican:
You act like it’s impossible for a woman’s salary to be much higher than a man’s. The man isn’t always the prize in a relationship.

Women always leave when they become breadwinners in the family

Sweetplum:
Bros, what's wrong with a single mom?

Everything is wrong. First understand the ideal order
Married woman or widow with kids (grade 1)
Divorced woman with kids (grade 2)
Single mother who planned with family support to have child because no man wants to marry her (grade 3)
Single mother, who was refused by her baby daddy or baby daddy accepts child but refuses to marry her (grade 4 baby mama)

Single mothers should aim for single father's, divorcees and widowers because they both have kids and have equal baggage.
Childless women should aim for childless men.
But you as know female hypergamy makes women shamelessly go where there is money . I know a Hausa customs man who was married t 1 woman with kids. His wife left him to be wife No 3 to a richer Hausa man. That Tells you female mind

Sweetplum:
God kee you this AutoRedux. May your penni s shrink to size of kolanut and seize to work.
Who impregnated a woman out of wedlock?
An irresponsible man like you!

Who chose the irresponsible man of all her toasters and suitors? The major problems women have is they never take accountability for their actions. A woman chose a man of all her suitors, the choice impregnates her and runs away and the women don't blame her for choosing an irresponsible man. No wonder girls keep dating unemployed scammers who can't provide for them till someone is scammed and then end up exploiting them because they were attracted to the fake, bling life

1stGenAmerican:
Everything depends on the lady. Depending on her character, it could be a curse OR it could be a huge blessing in disguise. In all honesty, you fare a better chance of success if the father is nowhere in the picture.
With your help, you don’t know who that child will grow up to be.
Take this for example:
A single man with no kids married Shaquille O’Neal’s mum when he was a small child. Today, Shaq is worth $400 million and has never given his biological father a penny but his step-dad is living a millionaire’s life.

what are the odds of another man getting the same luck as Shaq's step father?
You expect a man to marry a single mother and live his entire life on luck the way you women live in the moment and not long term. It's like the odds of winning bet9ja jackpot with N100 ticket on a 32 combination game slip

cenaman:
Same thing that is giving me sleepless nights.

My current girlfriend was my childhood friend in primary school before we lost contact after our FSLS.
Though she's a single mom and independent woman, I don't know how to tell my parents that she is a single mom.

Don't do it. She will lose respect for you in her mind,you came to her because you could not get a girl of your own who is childless. You are just an ATM to her.

Puskas:
She will end up loving and caring for her child more than you

I don't mind being No 2 to her love but her No 1 should be my children. Her 1st kid with her ex would be No 1, the ex would be No 2 and the unlucky fool would be No3

successmatters:
There's no Igbo man that will kill any other igbo person for nothing. It has never happened before and never will. The only people who have strong murder genes in them are from the North.

Life in the North is worth less than an orange.The killing of the army couple looks like what they will do the North. Other tribes in Nigeria are also known to cut human heads and harvest organs.

But propaganda against Igbos has the support of the information ministry. These posts are paid for and will be pushed to the front page without any evidence.

I repeat, its a well funded propaganda mill targeted at a tribe.

Stop denying the obvious. Did you not hear them speaking Igbo in the video? It's sad Igbo land has been taken over by criminals because of the "money answereth all" mentality. Unknown gunmen are known to their relatives and fellow community members. They know. If care is not taken, it will consume the East. Imagine a region that allows bigots like Nnamdi kanu sow seeds of discord while his family is abroad. The couple killed did no wrong just that they worked in the federal Army. Who would be next? INEC official Conducting elections? Even colonial masters were not this heartless to blacks. I have Igbo blood in me, my mother is from Orlu but I don't support this mad violence on the innocent or unarmed. It's the way of cowards

planetE:
Such gambler is dreaming. I always laugh when ever they are wailing in shop

I use 100 to win 440,000.
I never bet over 100

bouncin04:

It's not funny, things are hard especially when you don't have a god father or relative or favour on your side. I lost my job before lockdown, was home for 2 years 4 months before getting another job. My fiance left me. But thank God I'm in a better place Now.

illuminutty:
Old man. What has he been waiting for?

Low quality women abound in Nigeria from liability families. You have to look well.

phemmyfour:
Your write up is already tilted towards not getting married. You will not know the advantages in marriage until your old age

He asked for the benefits and not one woman has listed the benefits for him. Someone aid companionship - dogs are better companion to a man than a woman will ever be, the do not entertain stranger's unlike women who entertain stranger's and stay I touch with exes

Sex: cannot be a benefit as both parties benefit from it and it has become to cheap. Most girls have given their best years to guys in their teen to prime 15- 28. Some were live in lovers to guys in campus rendering wife duties with no marriage. Heaven knows how many kids were terminated. A man will now marry with millions what other boys got for suya, fried egg, malt, pizza and ice cream. It's a bad deal for a man. A man can hardly get virgin womb to plant his sperm so that his baby emanates from a pure vessel. That's how bad it is. Some guys re celebrating their first kid, but their wife know it is not their first and the are either hiding a baby with support of her family somewhere or had done abortion in past

Speaking as a real state professional, renting rooms to multiple single girls depressed property values as various dates come look for them usually with cars and constitute a nuisance t the neighborhood. Single guys on the other hand, control the girls who came looking for them such that the don't coincide in visit and reduce the occurrence of crowds. Too many cars visiting girls, give the place a brothel feel.
This is usually applicable for ordinary girls. But may not apply for silver spoon girls as the calibre of men who came for them are few

Depends. You never mentioned your mom. If your dad is a divorcee or widower, its understandable as he wants s woman that relate to him. Childless women may refuse him because of his children

N3,000per month as a messenger working after secondary school before admission to tertiary institutions in 1996

Don't mind her
She wants to use you as ticket out of Nigeria. Let her have the baby and you conduct a DNA test. Or let her go for pregnancy test is a lab chosen by you in Lagos. I can assist with that for independent verification if she is actually pregnant. If truly pregnant, wait till after birth for DNA test to prove it it's yours