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Oldoinyolengai:
Originally I'm a Congolese from DRC.
My family run away from Congo war and settled in Tanzania since 1997.
Since then TZ has been our lovely home as along the way we were granted full citizenship, we had open opportunity to return back but we declined.
Nigerians should be careful, especially when dealing with other African countries.
It's not a good thing to say but even South Africans are not dealing with Nigerians for no reason.

The level of your stupidity cannot but be overemphasized. You talk without the use of your head. The fact that the country chose to offer you a new home than your messed up place doesn't mean the truth should be hidden. Get sense abeg

QuinModah:
*DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*

You can't be too sure...

I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.

A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.

WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.

Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.

A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.

He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.

He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.

He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.

Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.

He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.

She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!

It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.

She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.

The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.

She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.

I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.

Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.

Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.

The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.

The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.

They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.

How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!

Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.

That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.

Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.

Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.

I love you all.

Omg! This is terrifying. How could they accept people's plea not to handle it legally? By so doing, they just endangered other innocent girls. God help us all.... Hmmm

Hezzyluv:
watch as guyz will start rushing the shawarma sport like 5g Network

Make una no allow slowormir see that shawarma buy ooo

Damn... nigar...

But I miss that guy where is slowormir plss....

He was last seen since January, I hope he's fine tho

Hanks0000:
More lies from these wester media.

The man is in fact still in Russia the west are just spreading false information.

Says a Putin c*cksuckerrr.

Guess you saw the man in Russia this morning to debunk the news ba? As the man be your neighbor. Get sense

MAGG0T:


Ekiti? Damn IPOB are at it again...

After making their region unsafe they've moved into our land to cause mayhem

Stop talking like a child.why must you bring tribalism into this. Learn to respect humanity and make the world a better place. It begins with you and me

missimelda01:
It feels wrong...why am I this hurt?

That's because it's (love)real. You 'll be alright

Faithqueen:
I just found out that my husband has two children. The mummy of his kids is his spiritual mother's daughter. They call each other sister and brother.

My husband has been using social media to do other things as well. He had an affair six months after our marriage. He recently had a baby with her six months ago. She is living with a guy and calling him husband. All of my husband's outside brothers and sisters know; except for history sisters that share the same mummy and daddy. I don't know if the spiritual mummy knows about it.

My husband has been riding her around in our car calling her his wife and introducing her to Apostles, pastors, etc. When we married we were told that committing a duty is punished up to seven years.

The gentleman does not even know. I need advice on what to do. He has been telling other women to come to Nigeria and marry him.

Apparently he is scamming people. It will be frown upon if the mummy amd daddy of the woman finds out that he married me traditionally and we had a white wedding. I remember now two months before we got married hearing a lady making noises on the phone. I should have known better.

Advice please.

This is deep !

[quote author=Bestiee01 post=111166864]Some men really do have terrible choice in who they sleep with.even if konji wan kill me,I rather masturbate than sleep with this ugly, shapeless mofo.


Hadley Chase available.

Modified:for those killing me with mentions,na comment I comment,I no kill person o.[OP/quote]




She looks like the hulk

nakaman:
op do u know the English name

Cherry

NkanuSon:
The west just want to destroy anything that is not in their favour,they hate seeing any country competing with them,they want to be above everyone and keep milking their slaves.

I laugh at all these fools in Africa that are surporting them,they are hypocritical.the best way to enslave someone is to influence his mentality not by force,force was used in the stone age,most of u don't know Nigeria is a western cage,u are all animals in their eyes but because your mentality has been tired ignorance will never let u know

We are not even suppose to be speaking their language but they've made us think using their language makes u responsible,just see how our locals are going extinct bcs of them,their agenda is to westernise they whole world

Let's be careful of what we wish for and tread cautiously. Hatred for the western world should not blind us completely to our love for each other as humanity. That was how boko haram started and look at where we are. Countless lives are lost.i believe the world need genuine love to heal and not hatred. Peace

Insecurity:
85-year-old man ‘killed’ in Ogun, body dumped beside river



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/03/85-year-old-man-killed-in-ogun-body-dumped-beside-river/

God help us all

Loewe:
It would be very foolish of any Nigerian student to go to Russia for their degree knowing fully well they caused them to be displaced in the first place.

I pity any Nigerian that would be falling victim of this hilarious prank. Putin is looking for volunteers to help fight in the ongoing war. Don't be fool by handshakes,the game of football is personal.

MadamVanessa:



Since the mere commissioner/Buhari house boy is a Christian and a redeemed pastor, he's going to doubt this and still go ahead to contest because it's from Witches


If I were him, I will listen to this people, because they are the only group that speaks nothing but the truth. But sadly, the mere commissioner house boy will doubt this and go and disgrace his family.

I still remember when this group told Tinubu that he's going to urinate on himself and that which he's planning to be will not come to pass, I personally doubted them, not untill the first thing they say will happen to Tinubu happened, the second one is yet to happen, which without d3oubt is going to happen soon.

Get sense asap

verybadmouth:
Make the missile no go miss road enter Abuja ooo.

U no well I swear

Tovard:
Gradually, it will happen.

Drum of War have being all of over the countries but my question is " what do we have in Nigeria to fight against these people if they attempt to launch attack to Nigeria?"

Are you kidding me? Is that even supposed to be a question? We have fulani herdsmen, boko haram, unknown gunmen and the likes....

Candidlady:
Naija men are worst compared to Ghana men

Be calming down small small. You can't condemn all naija men cos of some few bad ones you've come across

Zonefree:
Where are you from?

Question, take a look at the answer

Candidlady:


Her mum is in her late 30s...

How old is the girl ? _______

Mathematically, she should be around 21 if her mum started early around 18years(mum is probably 39).

Zonefree:
Ask her, after paying her mum's bride price, will her mum be your wife?

This guy wicked o

babyfaceafrica:
he started searching very late, his dad will be around 90 now, so you are right, he will likely be dead

What if God Grant's him a long life? My granny lived over 100years

loosingfaith519:
I recently discovered my husband has an addiction and I can't stay married to him.
As soon as money enters his hand, he starts funding some online app and start gambling.
We got married last year Nov.
We have needs and plans we agreed to achieve before the end of March. Which a better accommodation is one of our first goal. Our present accommodation is not ok at all.
On my own part, I'm saving to meet up with our Target, but I discovered, he has nothing. He collected contributions last month, over 200k. All that money wasted. He can't account for it.
January salary has entered, he has started wasting it again.

I'm expecting him to provide 300k at the end of this month. So, that when I sum it with mine, we can have over 600k. Get a decent accommodation and invest the rest.
We need to plan, save for our baby, but his attitude with money is not encouraging me.
The truth is, my husband is stressing me for lack of accountability.

Pls, how do I go about a peaceful divorce? I'm confused, because I'm pregnant.

All the things I'm seeing him do, suffocate me.
What do I do?
Pls, advise me.

There's nothing peaceful about divorcing, it doesn't go down easily and it may even get messy than you could possibly imagine. Just pray for him

Michelle70:
the truth is bitter.
Ur Otueke thief couldn't even build the mbiama bridge that leads to his state, I was on that bridge back in 2015 during heavy traffic along mbiama and the bridge was shaking like hell, I was scared it could collapse.
It was Buhari that had to rebuild a bridge leading to Bayelsa.
It will never be well with whoever supports GEJ

We all see things from different perspectives and I don't think you enforce your opinion on anyone, let alone insulting people based on your beliefs. Let's pray for God's mercy, that's all we need. Shalom

Bar1941:
E no easy to be oga for places like MTN with those beautiful ladies and still hold your zip tight, even our fake online pastor Righteousness89 will fall victim in such circumstance.

Make dem free the guy, e no go do am again.

Really? You're kidding right?

Anonymous03:
I'm a 21 year old virgin , a final year student in Babcock University and I created this new account to ensure anonymity.
People say I'm good looking but I don't see such when I look into the mirror.
Girls love to associate with me ( Note; I don't spend) but none is ready to get down with me. Girls flirt with me a lot but they would never have sex with me.
Some of the girls willingly sleep with guys that are less cute and not rich,yet they deny me sex but still cling on me even when I try to caught them off.

Most of these girls are act naughty with boys but they suddenly become saint and holy when it gets to my turn.

I almost begged for sex at one point and I don't want to patronize sex workers.
Where am I getting it wrong? How can I sexually attract girls? Do I need to dress like a pop star?

I solicit for your advice.

God have a higher purpose for your life and mind you,life is not all about sex,know this and know peace. Sex is worth waiting for. Rom12:1-2

GOFRONT:
Chelsea fans and their agberoism. Now He has killed Yaya Bello sister....

Get sense asap

NigeriaZoo:
https://www.reuters.com/world/europe/france-says-putin-needs-understand-nato-has-nuclear-weapons-2022-02-24/

b.j



Please where is the damn nigger guy?

obembet:
There is questions I want to ask our religion brothers and sisters here..

Please can someone educate me why God allow all this suffering? Watching innocent children suffering, watching wicked man Killing the unharmed people, watch wicked one living longer in wealthy life?

Geni Sani abachi is one the most wicked man we have in this country, after his death, his 4th generation can never be so poor like adenuga or adeleke, look at the wicked people In North sponsor boko Haram and bandits, they are enjoying life, according to the history, Gumi father enjoying life more than anyone in North. Look at Buhari, Putin, Africa slavery... etc. Why God is watching all this people without any action on them. This people nare living longer and leave inheritance for the generations to come

Don't you think wicked are enjoying life then good people?

Please correct me with fact if am wrong.

Who are you to question your creator? Who made you a judge over the almighty?
You're a dust that carries His breath in your nostrils. Pray for the peace of the world at large and stop pointing fingers or what is your role? Criticisms doesn't stop Him from being God.

[quote author=BoredBerry post=110464822]Let me be honest... She might not like you... You might open up and ruin your relationship with her...

Steel your heart... Okay?

This might be the beginning of the end...

Maybe she's lonely... God knows how many guys I've been really close to just because I was in need of their friendship...






Well,you can't really tell the mind of a female cos the depth is so deep. I once had a close friend I fell for who was with someone.i couldn't talk to her cos I don't wanna lose my friendship but it turned out she wanted a relationship. She later blamed me for ignoring her and I was left frustrated. Girls are mysterious in their ways.

Sense have departed from their brain. Criticism is all some people know, yet they are utterly useless.



If you are falz, after reading comments from this set of people, what will I do?







Do you see that u can never please Nigerians.

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Ttalk:
That's what they deserve

@Vaselinecrew

Do you know meaning of oppression?

NEPA that didn't provide transformer, the community contribute to buy one.

They didn't erect pole and install the cables, it was provided by the community,

Individual buy meter with their money, but NEPA claim ownership

When there's repairs in any of the facilities, the community mobilised and pay for the repair.

They would bring fluntuating light that would end up damaging your gadget

They only bring light in the middle of the night when you don't need it but wont blink it during the day when it's useful.

Now tell me who is oppressor here

Solomon the wise.�

Confused personality. I bet the guy has no idea of what he's saying. SMH

Illuminatiship:
My name is John and I am 26 years old I was in a crusade yesterday and the pastor asked us to pray for increment in our lives I prayed for increment in my finances and age 30minuites later I became 50years old.what God cannot do does not exist hallelujah..

Sense have departed from your brain