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Leobreezy: Fortunately i havn't made any nuptial vows yet. Ladies and Gents, marriage is nt meant 2 update ur facebook relationship status, it is a life long vow u will make 2 be with ur spouse TIL DEATH DO YOU PART. It petrifies me 2 see young beautiful girls breeze into marriage and after 2 yrs dey end up looking like they have pellagra due to marital problems. I will address d ladies bcuz dis issue is predominant in d fairer sex. If u want 2 get married MAINLY bcuz u think u're getting old, den my dear ur definitely nt ready 4 marriage. Age is nt d reason 2 get married, LOVE is. Unfortunately our primitive african ideology doesn't support dat, bt dat should'nt intimidate u. And most importantly shun arranged marriage. That is d main reason why we have broken homes today. If u knw nothing about him then DON'T GET MARRIED. I'm nt just talking about his family and what he does for a living, i mean his nature, attitude, character and orientation. What is courtship for?! U put urself and ur unborn progeny @ risk of living an unhappy life. Dats my advice sha.

Ur on point. Ur grammer 2 mush o!

debrief08: Go and look at yourself in the mirror and start saying positive things about yourself.
Look at yourself as Precious not as "mrs" this or that, start loving yourself first, if you don't love or respect yourself no one else will.
Stop being a doormat, be a human being first before being a wife, also teach your children that marriage is not their goal in life, their goal in life should be to be productive, respectful, serve God through serving humanity, seek Gods purpose in their lives and fulfil it.
When our time in the world ends, God wouldn't ask if you married or single, he will ask if you did what he sent you to do. We put so much pressure on ourselves to fulfil societail pressure that we forsake Gods plans for us, and rush into rubbish. When you have a bad marriage everything else in your life will loose focus.
When I talk about serving God I am not talking about Pastor worship or fasting and prayers, I am talking about serving others, taking beverages for strangers in the hospital who can't afford it, buying books for children in public schooks who can't afford it. That is service to God.
Love yourself, You were not born to be "mrs", you were born for Gods glory, only you can achieve that

Tell am o e never hear say rapture is around the corner.their is no marriage in heaven.

lola.luv:
Very true. The relationship world would be a much better place if people learned to this to one another.

Show working o!,no be 2 talk plenty.

Mynd_44: You dey mind am. She dey upgrade herself for NL

Na wa o,upgrade ke. Internet love.

Idowuogbo: Format! All na WASH!!!

Babe na wa 2 u o,

M M M: Ok
No wahala

Which babe do u need here, make I do am point & kill 4 u

Just tell me her name & give me ur home address

In d nite when u get 2 ur house she will be nak ed waiting 4 u in d bedroom u know what I mean

Don't dull

Na so,bad nigga. Mobile Man with Money.

*dhtml:
Kai, I am just seeing this thread, unfortunately, I have already picked the call moments ago, and i DIED!

Say mi hi 2 to those there.

Mynd_44: And how many time has a girl asked that of you? Your dreams included

I wonder o!

md4real: That lexical is over flogged! Get a new life starting with a change of user ID. Inbetween, the post I'm sure was not meant for lousy tins like you.

I dnt go sniffing arouNd pEeps.unlike mkpi awusa di ka gi.I have seen u, hardworking baboo. if u dnt like my user name.make use of the lagoon.na ur papa get nairaland?abi na u go tell me username.enyi a be kiaful. U wan answer anoda pesin phone call.

maasoap: Is he your God or what? He insulted the girl. Abi u no get eyes?

Thumbs up dude,dnt mind them. I jst dnt notice insignificant figures.

passionate88: story... The very dax she accepted ur surname over hers, either she luv u, wants ur cash, wants a cover 4 her guy that couldn't marry her or u ard her last resort

Who did this 2 u guys? Dnt wry Rapture is about 2 take place and u guys wil suffer no more heartbreaks.

bayulll01: malaria or wat they bleep u call urself insulting mighty 190,u just unleashd d dragon he's gona get u down

Almighty indeed,wetin concern the topic,concern my username.abi he be seun? he is SHE hater,that's his pee.

D star: hmmm! Is her choice.

Thank u babes

Decryptor: This is "one of the women" that the OP expects a man to love unconditionally? SMH

U can join the league,bad losers association.

nonen: Who still uses kerosene lantern, hand fans and morter and pestle in the big city. What are the electricity charged lamps meant for? What are blenders meant for? What are electric fans meant for? I can only say the type of gift presented reflects the capacity of the senders mind.

Waddafuck are u saying,enyi a pack wella jor,even with modern technology,ppl stil use mortar and pestle.abi u knw wan ur wyf pound yam 4 u? I bi like sey ur wify go feed u with indomie 4 the rest of ur life.

Duke_Nija: @Op Its obvious your 'ex'(let me aid your breakup) doesn't listen to the news. I pray she does not end up like that Cynthia girl that was strangled by her facebook friends.

Ke ife I meani, na pesin send the cynthia go see ppl wey shre no knw,evry1 can't be that daft,that u met someone on social netwk dosn't mean the pesin is real. Social netwk is an imaginary world nothing there is real,if anyone decides 2 take that 2 heart,na 4 the pesin PING SHOE.

Duke_Nija: @Op Its obvious your 'ex'(let me aid your breakup) doesn't listen to the news. I pray she does not end up like that Cynthia girl that was strangled by her facebook friends.

Ke ife I meani? That the so called cynthia decided 2 go answer imaginary ppl she met on fb is her own cup of tea. Others wouldn't be dat daft. if anybody decides 2 take things of social netwk 2 heart, na 4 the pesin ping shoe.

Paris all the way,

Poster ur man is a single married man.

sting_224: “When we didn’t get any money from her, we tied her mouth and strangled her and then we abandoned her in the hotel and fled.”


When the suspected killers strangled Cynthia, they deposited her corpse at the mortuary of Isolo General Hospital in Lagos.

Follow me ask them o,such a complicated story.

tonyx4x44: How far is kuvukiland?

FAaaaaaaRrrrrrrrrr?

190: I wish d whole nigeria was here on NL

190 would have been a president by nw

Eghu,who would vote u,not the ladies I guez

Sometimes I wonder what it feels like 2 celebrate ones' birthtday once in 4 years.is there any special joy there,how do the parents take such occasion. Any member of the house born on a leap year should pls tell me what it feels like.

Op may be ur gfs wives sisters and relations or in ur village.a lot of ppl dnt use make up and they are still pretty, fake hair or not pesin wey fine don fine. I dnt use make up and I knw too well am %100 far from wogly. besides wearing trousers dosn't mean the legs are bad.2 me the legs are not meant 2 be seen by evry$ the trousers protect them..funny enof na those wey get bad legs dey like wear mini skirts. Stop judging ladies by the kind of local,ugly and cheap ladies u hang out with. I bet u the beautiful ones are not seen anyhow.get that into head.

fresh_dude: With the way your mouth is running, I doubt responsible men will stop by to try to have a chat. Surely you don't expect the man to be all that you listed and then present him with sharp mouth and impatience. Now that's deluded!

Her mouth wz nt running na her hand dey type fast.

Danka7777: This will never happen.

Many Nigerians don't understand the politicking and the few oligarchs who control this country. These people will rather die than to see this country disintegrate. Their wealth is based on the unity of this country. Imagine telling 100 senators and 360 house members that you want Nigeria disintegrated, they would look at you like you out of your mind! Nigeria is their source of income.

U are +10000000 correct.