₦airaland Forum

Slimslimqq:
oh! My bad. I didnt seem to read it well. He's a Yoruba boy. Ibadan

He built on his father's land, not his own land, he has no right to evict his mum from that house.

I made a serious mistake and there is nothing he can do that the society would accept cos that land belong to his father, thank you.

Algold:
Do you also consider the physiological effect it will have on those teens.

Everyone has the right to protest/secede but with Easterners actions n they will tend to loss more than gain.

The igbos are the economic hubs of the country and owns so much assets more in other in other parts... The only way East can have a win-win situation is through dialogues and strike when the time is fully ripe.


All these sit at home is not the right way.
Assuming the way IPOBs are killing the police. How many fulani are in the police posted to the east. Most of them are easterners and southerners running away from blood sucking demons, only to come home and get slaughtered.

Let me ask you questions. Do IGBOS like his fellow brother?

I'm Igbo and I'm proud to be Igbo, before I answer your question, I want to know your tribe?

Algold:
You are doing yourself. No body is crying but East will continue to bleed as a result of there avoidable actions

It's better you ask question before coming online to generalize, NECO exam was not disrupted in the South East today.

Students wrote their exam peacefully across all the entire South East states.
All Igbos are not IPOB, I personally detest IPOB unruly manners and all forms of violence so also with many Igbos, thank you.

Activist001:
These people are complete idiots.

If you are reading this post as a Nigerian who's non-igbo, please note that not all igbos support these lunatics known as IPOB and their "supreme leader" who's cooling his ass somewhere in DSS dungeon.

Igbos are, and will forever be peace loving people who don't believe in oppressing anyone let alone their brothers and sisters.

- Sincerely, a sensible young Igbo guy on nairaland.

God bless you, many people in Nairaland are aware of this but hate and tribalism will not let them accept it.

All Igbos are not IPOB members and all Igbos do not support IPOB, thank you once again.

Payjuu:
What's this again

It's call "Ninja."

ursullalinda:
Pls learn to use condom......it won't kill u

I fear oh! How much is condom self? He don't want to be a father and he was busy sleeping with her without protection, "boys" eh!!!

Rubbiish:
Do u mean 3 bedroom or 3 block of flats??
U want to go & rent when u have two empty flats because u want to get married?? Who are raising these kind of weak things called men? I already feel sorry for your mom

Hahahaaa! Easy na, most young ppl of these days are something else, imagine!

[quote author=nairavsdollars post=104485334]Buhari will fix it if the kerosene governor joins APC[/


Bandits have taken over 10 LGAs in PMB home state, kastina state governor confirmed it yesterday. Charity they said begin at home, Orji Uzor Kalu is the senator representing Abia North and APC is his party, Arochukwu is in Abia North, thank you.

WibusJaga:
Sidechicks FC 2 Married Men FC 0

Hahahaaa!!! You are not serious at all!!!

ProudBornoBoy:
I won’t call you names, I’m not a cyber troll who creeps through the net doing nothing but insulting people, and I might be from the North but I’m an educated person both formally and informally, so quit nagging and go get a life.

Good response, I appreciate your maturity.

phrancys001:
No shariah for d rich

The rich have the means, this is quite unfortunate.

Toks2008:
Oniduro mi E Seun o.

Good morning, I respect you brother, you are among the few who have been here and knows their onion, I salute you Sir.

[quote author=Aniboo post=104275628]Come to think of it .
Una don chase women Comot from this platform o
Abi na only dudes Dey comment
Sha I notice some women d use male moniker to avoid bad mouths [/quotpe]

Women do talk but they are more sensitive than men.

Frontail:
Biafra Or Presidency abeg this pipu ! Wetin una want ? Choose one Biko !

Ohaneze has never supported the call for disintegration of this country by IPOB.

All Igbos are not IPOB members, many Igbos have said no to IPOB but because you wouldn't accept the truth, all Igbos are IPOB to you and yours, thank you.

Queenserah26:
My God, for how long

Nobody should celebrate this. This is not what we should be proud of, God save this country.

Igyeseh06:
Lai Mohhamed.

Let us tell the FBI that Abba Kyarri is the former chief of staff to the President and that he is dead.

Hahahaaaa!!! You eh! Where did you get that meme from?

olumzzz:
Amg is the performance version of benz.
Compare ordinary benz with lexus, not the amg/brabus.
You can compare amg with bmw m series

BMW M Series is higher than AMG, BMW and Mecedes are premier German cars.

Romanoff:
Please, don't be so sure o.

Hahaaaaa!!!, Can I share my personal experience with you?

Romanoff:
If course, a no can be a yes.

What if she tells you No cause she wants to get a job or be financially stable first?

What if she says no cause she wants to settle her family first ti reduce dependency on her?

Do you agree with me that ladies are more sensitive than men when it comes to matters of the heart?


Please forget about the "testimonies" we hear in the Church, the truth is that no man will see a lady and propose to her immediately.

Danjikanbauchi:
you are right all this he did on media without facts.

PMB is certainly not a Messiah but we must acknowledge the good ones he did okay, I traveled last Xmas, Enugu to Aba section of Enugu/Port-Harcourt express road is good now.

Calling Igbos"5%" and also calling us "Dot in a circle" is an insult but there are still one or two good things about PMB

Let's not criticize blindly, security is bad, economy is bad but there is still something good like Enugu/Port-Harcout federal road, thank you.

Quick recovery to BAT, may God heal him of all infirmities and grant him long life and good health.

Cholls:
My brother if na my Wife even if she says no hundred times I will keep asking until she says YES!...

Hmmmm!!! Today's Nigerian girls may finish you if care is not taken.

A lady most times would like to know is you are strong oh! If you prove to be weak, you may lose everything.

A lady that would stay with you is a lady who is aware that you are not desperate, many guys have lost good and genuine ladies cos of desperation.

Romanoff:
So it's okay for a woman you know to say yes to a guy she just met if he proposed to her.

Or it's okay for a girl to say yes to a guy who has said he'd change some of his bad behaviours but she's yet to see the changes?

There's always a reason for every answer, Yes or No.

That yes she's giving you could also be because you're her only option or cause you're her meal ticket out of poverty.

A No is not always bad, just get the reason for the No and be open to discussions.

If "No" is discussed as you said, can it metamophe into "yes" by the same lady?

Some ladies have said somethings and later regretted what they said.

A lady once asked me why I stalked her, I stayed away from her because of that and she later came back accusing me of not forgiving and forgetting.

DanielAlhassan:
How will you feel if you find out the girl you are in love with who also claim to love you back is pregnant for another person
Your opinion is highly welcome
No insult
Asking for a friend who is about to commit suicide
Please advice him
He is reading your comments

Why would he commit suicide? Tell him that time heals relationship wound okay, he should do his best to avoid being alone and idle, he should make himself happy.

Juoflife1:
Respect should go both ways. Some men because they provide for the house,are very rude and arrogant.

Any man who fails to respect his wife is doing more harm to himself.

debbydams:
Jesus Christ

Noooo!!! What about the men who gets these girls pregnant?

A man told me that he can't use condom no matter what and you may be surprise that many guys detaste condom.

CharisEleos:
Twp Captains cannot be in one boat.
The problem lies with both of you.
She cannot take shit. You cannot take shit. So, who will now take the shit? Pride.

Pride goes before a fall. That is what has befallen your marriage.
When you learn to get off your high horses, you both will be cohabitable.

The problem with many couples is that they place themselves higher than the other. Now you talked about her trying to measure up to you ( equality). What made you see her as trying to do that if you yourself have not placed yourself so high.? Even before God, we all are equal. So why think you are higher than someone else? Your better half for that matter.

It's normal for two people to have a misunderstanding. But you should learn to to let go immediately and also try to avoid anything that will cause any further misunderstanding. If you see it coming, quickly turn it to a joke. Is she sees it coming, let her do same. but no. Rather you'll feel, "Why should I be the one to backdown" let him /her go to hell!!!!!!. Ego.

If you can't manage your first marriage then you'll not be able to manage the next. mind you the other woman will be coming with a baggage of her own character flaws.

No one is perfect.

Good morning, I would have overlook your comment but immediately I saw "...before God all are equal" I taught it appropriate to say this:

(1) A husband and a wife is not equal before God. Use your Bible or Koran to confirm this.

(2) From this thread, he provides for the family so the wife should have done her part which is to respect him.

Lastly, most of the ladies who always shout that they don't take "shit" are taking it somewhere else, I said this from experience, thank you.

ITbomb:
Alternatively (very cost efficient), once most of the box ticks and you have made up your mind and reserved enough cash for the marriage, give am belly, if e enter proceed

Hahahaaaa!!! You bad oh!

Pecoleee345:
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Yea.....i messed up in that aspect..... Especially the background check and way of life.

The worst one was the medical check it was two years into marriage I found out she had weak womb due to abortion....

Please don't dive into many details about your "ex" wife cos it may hurt you sooner or later, thank you.

DaddyRochie1642:
Well, We learn everyday,

It seems you didn't do your due diligence before you got married, now your eyes have Cleared.

The Best Lessons we learn in Life is when we "Learn it the Hard way".

Life is an Excellent Teacher.

Please remember that some people won't survive learning the hard way, so the best is to learn from what happen to others, thank you.

Pecoleee345:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6653469/another-marriage-crash

So over last weekend.... I called family meeting my mum, elder brother and I went to my wife parents house... her family members were present.

They wanted to resolve things between us but no one gave a Bleep about me....they asked her to speak and she said alot of things both truth and lies.

I was lambasted from both sides and I let them finished properly before dropping the bomb......I looked into her eyes straight up and told her am divorcing you.

They were all stunned.... they were now interested in my side of the story.

I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.

My advice to young men.

1. Make sure u know the background of the lady u wanna get involved with....the way of life etc.

The mistake I made was not evaluating her background...... We came from completely different backgrounds....eg where she comes from people talking crazy and shouting at one another isn't a big deal but me it was a Taboo infact in my parents' house u can't talk with high tones for normal discussions.

2. See forget love and looks...... Make sure you know the main reason she wants to marry you.

I know she loves me but she had another motive which is am meant to give her everything she wants in Life.... She had that mind set of her responsibilities is totally dependent on me.

She told me she can only spare or borrow me money towards doing anything in the house but it is my duty to provide anything she wants even the riddicules ones.

3. For your peace of mind stay away from most ladies raised by single mothers because most her poison to hate men right from teens by their mother.

They are mostly insecure....they believe all men cheat and can never trust.
Comes with mad jealousy

They mostly have anger issue.... they will tell you I don't take shit... trying to show they are strong and can't take what their mother took despite you not doing any shit.....they want to have say in everything just to show you are equal.

They are always quick to be on the defensive
Just to mention a few

I once told my wife am not like your father when I couldn't take the policing, sneaking and threat anymore.

See as a man no one gives a shit about you..... people are sympathetic towards the female and expect you to take whatever she throws at you but you need your peace of mind.
The society has made it possible for women to get away with lot of things.

If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.

I feel your pain brother, how can one know about the background of "our today's ladies?"

It's very very difficult cos a lady can transformed within a twinkling of an eye just to get a man when it comes to marriage.

Please do your best to be happy and don't always talk about your "ex" wife so that ppl won't take advantage of you, thank you.

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