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OcVoice:
Had a similar case. Everything was going well till I lost my job. She couldn't adjust cos she was used to enjoyment. We were going for our marriage course, I had done introduction sef. She just woke up one morning and decided to break ties with me. She aborted the pregnancy.

I had since moved on though.


I don't know what happened to the girls of our time. Our moms suffered well with our dads without complain. Love was REAL and TRUE then. It was beyond money.

God will help our generation!

nothing wrong with the ladies of now are days, we men should stop dating a jobless ladies

adeola1097:
Where are the people who said jazz exists?

hey common don't say that again, just that the guy na foolish how can you allow a woman to text a gun on you? That one alone can spoil the work.come down to ikire,ilaje and modakeke you will see confirm.omo agbara wa Nile Yoruba o but you must do a research on it

xolocious:
I used to to think this man is EDUCATED. It's obvious and just as 2face mentioned in his song "TO BE CIVILIZED, YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE EDUCATED". This says it all.

weting be him offence now

ILoveDemMANNA:
Professor Ganduje in the building.
Apart from the allegation on him,
He has performed wonderfully well in developing his state, and doing well for his people.
Almost competing with Abuja and Lagos in developments, unlike some of his his colleagues still sharing kerosene, eba and egusi soup along with ijebu garri with kulikuli in 2020!!!

Argue with your 2 litres of kerosene and garri with kulikuli.
I don talk my own!


Go and ask your eba and egusi soup Governor.
No worries. Xmas don reach, u go soon collect another plate!
Shamelessness @ it's peak!

just a pity bro,the whole Kano state is not up to 3 local government in oyo state and they received more than what oyo state government collect in allocation aside Kano city where is the development?I hope you know what that mean

KosiGee:
Lots of people don’t understand sarcasm.
I’m sure this man would be somewhere laughing his azz off at the reactions especially from religious zealots who’d accuse him of careless talks and blasphemy.

most of we Nigerians lack understanding and knowledge.

[quote author=Perfectsouth post=96430898]Cc royalroy

Well, I don't wNt my kids to go through what I went through so I forgave her.. God was answering my prayers and things started picking gradually.. I went to meet them, took them all out and did shopping for them..
I was planning on how to relocate them to where I was...
Now this is the revelation..
My wife has been used,thats the fact...
My photography business first collapsed.
I did about 5 businesses that just one of it can make me a millionaire, every business collapsed.. The more I sleep with her, the more things become worse for me...
All these revelation came after I was told to pray and fast..

When things started picking gradually for me this year, I payed for a shop 300k,it was almost my son's birthday. So I went to see them.. We slept together, I came back after the birthday.. Could you believe, I was chased away from that shop and till now, I was only able to recover just 50k from the money..
Before my mom's birthday again, I was doing some business and it started picking. Went for my mom's, she came for the birthday too, we slept together, and when I came back to my business, the war I fought was unfathomable.. It collapsed too..
I am a very prayerful person and believe me, in the 8yrs we've been together, I never slept with another woman. I sweared with everything they gave me cos they couldn't believe me..
Before my daughter's birthday, God was merciful to me and I started another business.. I was warned severely never to sleep with her again.. Till now, my business is gradually picking and am able to send them money for upkeep and my kids school fees....

Now this my wife have an immediate younger brother who is a travel agent, I remember last year I introduced a friend to him and even vouch and stood for him that nothing will go wrong.. Truly he did this guy's traveling to Dubai and the guy went.. But we didn't know what happened and this guy came back.. Maybe he was deported or not, nobody knows but this my friend came to arrest me and I was told to produce my Inlaw.. He came and we were both locked up for 3days..along the line, the matter got settled, I parted with some money after selling one of my equipment. And he too also raised some money.. So this year, when things were already picking up for me, he got into another problem and this time, they were gonna jail him, so I borrowed him 100k and he promised to pay them 50k monthly till he complete the payment.. It was a travel gone sour though I know some people he has done traveling for and they are doing fine in their respective country of choice.

So this year, someone decided to help me travel out, he gave me UNIVERSITY OF MANITOBA admission processing fees, it was 120cad, but I gave this my Inlaw 150$ believing that atleast, since I am his Inlaw and have done him alot of goods before nothing will go wrong..
That was in August..
Fast forward to 2days ago, I messaged University of Manitoba since I wasn't getting any update, and I was told my application was not submitted neither paid for, I almost collapsed... So what he did was doctored some documents and sent to me and I believed him..
Right now, I am in a fix..
About my wife's promiscuity, I have all evidence of their chat..
After forgiving her over that chat, when I went for my daughter's birthday, I wanted to go through her phone, she gave me a heavy fight that I can't go through her phone, the phone I bought for her with my money..
When she slept, I opened it with her Fingerprint.
The chats there are so damaging. Some have slept with her and still wanting to do more, some she is already negotiating with.
She works in a beer parlor now and she is already using waist beads, she knows I hate these things..

I can't tell it all but if you have a question to ask, or anything you think I missed, ask me and i will tell you the truth..
My Inlaw hasn't pick my call to tell me why that happened..

If you think this is a fabricated story,
I have all evidences.
If enough people ask for it, I will release it here..
[/quote my brother you have no problem but your problem is the more you don't want to get to problem the more you keep pushing your self into problem, first of all you get married to her simply because of her beauty not because of good character i can point out your many mistake but I will not go there for now, you are your own problem, because you failed to take a drastic decision,if you can take my advice, for now forget about your so called wife and the kid,stop seeing or sending money to them thank God you are in different state get your self working class single lady let her know your marital history and promise her the former will never come back to your life again but your kids will come back to you in future and make sure you stay with your words,in the cause of abandoning them it will get to a stage she will be tired of taking care of the kids and will be looking for you to take up the responsibility by this time around your kids would have matured a little bit and be able to decide who to leave with from there you gain their attention thanks.i hope men should learn how to marry not because of beauty and stop marrying jobless hole in the cause of love women don't love they only stay with you because you can take their responsibility little only stay for love.

Sunshyne200:
Seems you aren't in Nigeria and probably schooled abroad.

Here, the company is doing you a favour in employing you and if you see the post she is applying for "intern", I am sure they aren't ready to invest so much for internship.

When I was seeking job, to be on a safe side, I dedicated one of my line to anything job, CV etc.

So any calls, text or contacts I get from that line, is probably job-related.

you see we Nigerians still have alot to learn,we always thought we are civilized but we are too local,learn how to speak to a stranger either face to face or on phone no matter where ever you find yourself.

Jashub:
I am sorry to say this , but Nigeria and poverty, has made you, and a lot of folks out there, have this slave-like mentality.

Many of you no longer know your rights, hence you are cheated on a daily basis.


And let me tell you this up front : no company has the right to toss information to applicants without giving a specified mean of notification to successful applicants.

Even as whacked as N-power was, they still tell applicants they would be reached via SMS(a specified method of communication).

So what this company did(in my own opinion )was was wrong.

you see this kind of right add no value to some ones life ok the reason many people don't see helper might be the way you react to someone in their presence,if you have this kind of right make sure you change from it is not right in any situation always try to compose your self it those not make you a fool but knowledgeable.

flames007:
One mistake im confident of not making is replying rudely to a strange number on whatsapp! It could be anybody for crying out loud!Be nice and let them state the purpose why they came ans respond accordingly!

you get sense jor, that is the way it should be

BluntNigerian:
Whoever that cherish his/her privacy so much should stop seeking for jobs..
Secondly, he/she should not start a business, because growing a new business involves a lot of marketing and connections.

most of them are not intelligence,and proud to much

Jashub:
I agree, but try and look at it from this perspective : you receiving a text from an anonymous number on WhatsApp is a breach on your privacy and security. And as you know, this is 9ja, and you cannot vouch for the next man. So her response is only natural given the circumstances

can you listen to your self,most of we Nigerian are so proud and have nothing upstairs which privacy are you talking about,most of this ladies we are talking about spend their time online begging,beg for data,beg for urgent 2k beg to eat 97 percent of Nigerian women depends on man to survive so what privacy are you talking about? Yeye people

Bornsinner7:
Awa fierce gan to ba n wa mi

This looks like Nollywood but e no concern me, wetin really draw my attention na the way she dey reply, typical Nigerian girl with empty brain

"5n" "hu is dis"..

Chating with a Nigerian girl can be so tiring

kk,lol, smile,brb that is there way when it getting to this kind thing I cut them of immediately,I don't blame them although if not we men that are running after them and they add no value to our life jobless, begger still be proud to leave

TriCee:
Ok, that's all they do... Condemn! Nonsense!

I only pity that Governor that has been trying his best to save his people.

pity who?my brother don't be fooled the insecurity problem in North are for business the whole Borno state is not more than a local government area in oyo state and every state of Nigeria always receive 450million naira every month as a security vote and the more the issue of insecurity in your state the more the security vote you received at the end of a month and yet they can't secure their state.so tell me the reason you should pity anyone of them

Nwaelohim:
Only if NIGERIANS will appreciate it and protect it from endsars criminals.

you are a barger

DaddyRochie1642:
When any Pastor talks like this, I can assure you, such a "Pastor" is not Truely a Man Of God

is there any man of God of you know

DominionGreat:
There is hunger in the Land...

A hungry man they say is an angry man.. not until the system begins to work, more of such nonsense will keep happening.. it can only get worst.. This is reality not a prophesy

my condolences to his family and the people of his kingdom

many people will not agree with you.

Kestolove:
Has adesuwa given birth? She should be more concern about giving birth not lauretta

she doesn't need to be concerned,she is not a maker her time will surely come and for you to bring this out from your mouth then it shows how typically a Nigerian women think and don't forget to have kids are choice

nduwale:
But the military gave in. This and several other protests are why we have democracy today, why the military cannot attempt to come back. Many people died for America to be what it is today not just lost of dreams and aspiration.

don't mind my people,many Nigerian thought they will just wake up and find a new Nigeria without fight for it, sieria Leon, Liberia, Zimbabwe,south Africa even the Europ they are running to sacrifice were made before seen the light but here in Nigeria we don't want to die but we wan go heaven.a coward has nothing to defend.

kolinz01:
Wow. He's over 40 years old and he still want to go and study law outside the country!? I'm sorry man but you fought for a lost cause!

be a real men bro,there are so many ways to die, every soildier can be a man not every man can be a soildier.they took the action not because they want to bring the heaven down but to make the point known and they achieve that with Toy gun and he never regret his action and let me remind you the real player of democracy of Nigeria never benefitted from it.i call him hero

tutudesz:
Labor unions should stop disturbing us abeg last last they will support Government increase, just like they did with power tariff

the politians fail in representing us,the security failed, labour leader are also failure in representing us, don't you think this is the best time for us to tell them what we want?

festacman:
My brother Chris Ngige has been very busy lately.

Labour leaders please softly softly as any strike at this time will make the recession worse.

we Nigerians are the architect of our problem we always afraid of the worst when the one we even leave in is more dangerous for how long my people we leave in fear?

Escabado:
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A man earning 80k is very good and right to get married. Your woman is a materialistic woman and so is her family. If her elder brother thinks u are not doing well , he should assit you with some money to start something that suits him. Pls man up . Don't allow them determine for you , other wise they will be the one controlling the marriage. U need to dump that girl and find a better girl. Imagine a jobless girl complaining about your income. She should go and work to make money too .

most of our men can't see beyond their nose, reason we have high rate of sudden death of men this days, for how long our men will continue marrying jobless woman? And they will be the one spending 80percent of the salary .

Afikoo:
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I am 32. I have been working for 7 years here. Also working while in school. Just finished last year and got a pay rise to 80k as security administrator.

Baba, my issue isn't the marriage. My issue is the money. I am desperately asking on how best improve my income. Concrete suggestions on what I need to lay my hands on now to get started. I am tire of submitting applications

it's just a pity we men don't realise what we have until it lost, now if you ask me I will tell you 80k monthly salary is not that bad,my question for you is that at 32 why rushing into marriage,if you must married at 32 must you marry a jobless woman,must the parent of the girl been the one to tell you when to call them? Don't tell me you love her or you can't do without her o because the moment you can't provide for her she will do without you.80 percent of Nigerian married women of to day are into extra marital affairs with okada men,Maruwa riders and meat sellers for favour,my advice for you is if you must marry at 32 marry someone who has a job and ready to settle down now with you not someone who will be controlled by her family and too young to take decision on her own.i repeat don't marry a jobless woman.

Golan007:
Always looking to bash your country.

Funny enough, even in your local area you don't stand out.

Mtcheew.

dear are you calling Nigeria a country?one day when you come out of your shell you will know how a country look like and judge your self if truly Nigeria is a country.

internationalman:
If you'd traveled out of Nigeria you'd know that you are not living a life in Nigeria rather you are just existing to survive

a clapp for you

sammy329:

I blame SanwoOlu for the level, Lagos has fallen into. He should have curb the protest when it was still at a small stage, but he was unnecessarily diplomatic and now Lagos is still paying for it.

I'm beginning to see Sanwo as a weak man, he should learn a lesson or two from Governor Wike.

yes you are right you can say what ever you wish simply because the citizens are weak and corwad if we are strong and ready to fight to the end even the sitting president who could not provide a safe certificate and the dull professor as vis will never utter that trash from your mouth

Aaronzy:
You see some miscreants above applauding those okadas chasing the police officers
By the time police turn face them now, una go bgin cry the call amnesty international

it seems you are a stranger in this land, the government can't provide nor create a conducive environment for business owners yet the citizens still provide a means of survival the government are still dictating where to operate so where is the freedom of movement as a citizen of this country? You know the worst part of it this same police officer will convert the seized okada to there personal used and people like you will tag them jobless thugs.

jerryidinoba:
Wow really!! I have been hearing about this OPPO A93 since it launched - wahala for who never buy am oooo

how much do you get it

ilebaye2017:
Fix the economy and issue of insecurities would be less than 20 percent of the current situation. Most crimes in Nigeria is because of the belly

you are blessed bro

360degreess:
.. You are wrong. They are trying to follow their scriptures. Alcohol is also prohibited in your scripture, it's just that you are too ignorant to know. See : proverb 20:1, 1corintians 5:11, 1corintians 6:10, ephesians 5:18 etc..
You prefer to follow(worship) your pastors, Bishops, Rev., etc.. The Christians only follow Jesus by lips not by deeds. No wonder the Qur'an described the Christians as ignorants when it comes to "spiritual" matters.

but it's not forbidden taken vat from the sales in other states abi? Yeye dey worry you

WilliamsDeGreat:
Christmas they come na this will be frequent occurrence. Occult people.

The other day it was trailer that crashed into school bus. No coincidence

your comment shows the level of your reasoning and understanding, which is bad for mankind grow up.

weyreypey:


The youth in return started hurling stones at the soldiers and ambushed them after, which they snatched their rifles.


No case

how could civilian used stone collect gun from Amy,you think am now