₦airaland Forum

gift2xl:
Biblical standard for divorce is when caught in adultery. When you see am yourself for eye.

Don't think when you leave your marriage there are better options. You might commit same sin, by dating another woman's husband. Be careful because THE DECISION YOU WILL TAKE WILL EITHER MAKE YOU OR BREAK YOU. Forget about those gingering you. APPLY WISDOM

May God bless you,I picked some point in your comment, what most divorced woman don't know is that, the largest percent of Men are not faithful, when a married woman divorce the propability of marrying single man is low and the highest number of divorced woman always regret their actions and if I may ask with what a responsible Man contributed in marriage what do they gained from it?

donbachi:
Why not.
You guys don't marry them in nigeria.but, will come overseas and marry great-grand mothers.

here in Nigeria they don't add value but over there they add value to your life.

blessingnenye:
I've noticed this. Men love to hunt. They will act interested at the begining, give you maximum attention and lead you on, but once you begin to reciprocate, the interest begins to wane off. They usually come up with excuses like I'm busy, I've been up to something lately.i will get back to you which they never does, so guys tell us, why do you withdraw once the energy becomes mutual. Or were you never interested from the onset?



https://loveonet.com/why-men-withdraw-after-the-chase/

one thing most of Nigerian girls don't know is that, chasing them take alot of time and stress which some one like me don't like because it will take your time, energy and money in terms of communication and visitation, you will also keep repeating yourself all the time.someone like me hate such a situation.

Ayomide11111:
Medical practitioners in the house should please help me ooo.
I discovered blood was coming out with my stool few days ago and I was surprised how it happened. I am not a gay that I will say maybe one idiot has furk out my anuus, I no dey do menstruation when I'm not a woman. How come blood has it way with my stool
Some people said it is hermroid(piles), although I do feel like my intestine want to come out of my anus if I touch my anus during the time when I'm deficating.
Some people said it is infection ( not STDs oo)
Some people said Na Jedi-Jedi.
One of the surprising things about this issue I'm facing is that I will not feel any pain when I'm deficating and blood will be dropping out enough to wet my stool.
I have never experienced this in my life.
I have used different infection medicine and different Hermroid(piles) medicine but this thing is still persisting.
This issue has been so tough for me that some pharmacists gave me some terms and conditions on my food Intake that if Na 4 Akpu I dey take before make I reduce ham to 2 Akpu or if possible I should not even take any swallow food for this period because my stool is always HARD when I'm about to deficate. Haaa!! Which kind of whala-whala-whala be this ......
Help me. I beg both English and Native medical practitioners In the House, and probably merciful people that knows the way out of this, should please drop comment for me on how I can come out of this mess and have my full health back Blood is life, I don't want to lose any of my blood inside the toilet again Help me please for quick medical or native solutions. I will be grateful to you all. I LOVE NAIRALANDERS

Comments for solutions plss.

stop taking bread, take more cucumber, watermelon and alot of water

Why you put am for corner snap?

The implications of marrying a jobless wife who brings nothing to the table,
1hatred will set in
2fighting
3 divorce
4the man will become single and start afresh
4the woman will become the sole provider
5the woman will need to date multiple men to meet up the responsibility
6 the woman might contact disease through this
7the woman might die untimely
8the children will locate their father after the women have finance them through university.
9but if the man continue taking up the whole responsibility because he didn't want his home to break, stress, depression, sickness will set in he might die at the age of 45 to 50 and the woman will rise up to the responsibility when she has no means and the strength again.then who loss?

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Damian92:
Hi fam
Good day everyone

Please I need suggestions/solutions as regards my current predicament. Some time ago, I went to cut my hair at this barber's shop but after some days I noticed a small boil at the back of my head and I used my fingernail to bust it, with time I noticed another one again.
Honestly, this beginning to wear me out, if you have suggestions or solutions to it. I will appreciate it. I don't know if it's just boils or keloid scars.

Because of this, I had to buy my clipper.

do you stay in Ibadan?if yes get back to me i will give you a soap

It's just a pity we Nigerians are too emotional,i can tell you this either young or old those physically challenged are very dangerous in characters, tell you kid to fight back.my daughter of age 5 always told my, daddy am not going to school,8 now asked her why? She now told how her mates are bulling her,I told her she has to fight back, when ever they beat you hit them from face let the cry.now she doesn't complain about school again.

Is this how jobless you are?

Jeweltz:
I'm happy Nigerian men are facing things like this. In Nigeria, y'all cheat on us, belittle us, can't take care of women or appreciate us a little. All you know is to insult us and calling us golddigger. Outside Nigeria, Nigerian men aren't dateable. Becus when they even get to overseas, most of them are still broke and poor. They can't work like other immigrants and see good money.

Can you now see that Nigerian women are the best or you need more evidence?

be calming down sister,the issues over there is that there women don't see dating as benefits and they don't also see marriage as achievement the way we see things in Nigeria also there set up is quite different to our own here were you can tip our girls to bed because of suya and indomie

davizfx:
can you do one for me? Im passing by the ancient city tonight.

which area will you be

Dafresh:
Thanks I didn't go to school can you help pay my school fees

no problem when you are ready no vex.

Dafresh:
Please I no understand did government ban POS

you no dey read ni abi you no go school ni?

lebron7:
Can you hear yourself?
Trekking and fake bullet proof is invention to you ?

you can believe what ever you choose,i will only advice you to go a9 learn about your history, you are talking about trekking have you heard of kanako,aferi before, this are what our forefathers used then,eraze your mind from slave mentality.

MasterShifu010:
Unless the lions have their own story tellers , the story of the hunt will always glorify the hunter ….

Do we have books that tell our stories as Africans ?.. we have books that tell stories of things that happened in Europe 2000 years ago , and these books were written by Europeans , even if there are books written about Africans a long time ago , it was still written by Europeans , this is to tell you that Europeans open eyes pass us , look at their countries and look at ours , do you think even aliens would believe we ever invented anything ?..

wake up brother our forefathers dont write history but told their children the history of their making.go and learn your history,seat with your great grandfather they will tell you what to know about your history.

kollinzgee:
If Europe,Asia and America gets wipe out in a nuclear war today which is is looking very likely,will Africans be able to produce,phones,laptops,Airplanes,car engines,infact will a blackman be able to go to space to at least launch a satelite to aid telecommunications? Despite having the richest minerals beneath of soil.
All we do everyday is cry victim of white oppression while we are the ones helping to conquere us, we fight against any good that come out of Africa.i doubt we will ever get it right in this our lifetime.maybe our children children.

Before the evolution of slave trade our forefathers has been leaving conveniently with out any science and technology, our forefathers can move from egba,ile ife or ijesha and covered many miles without a car, they communicate with their people with out telephone, they have their own hospital, bullet proof,gun, warriors, they have everything that makes them different not until those you are worshipped today came back after the slave trade and introduced Jesus to us as our lord and saviour and took everything away from us to developed what you called technology today.so dear for your oyinbo never made us better but distroyed us.learn, learn your history and stop praising the man who distroyed u.

VEXT:
Poor children..

While the parents keep voting the wrong leaders base on tribe and religion...

Because they don't know that, their leaders are the provider of their social amenities.they believes it comes from God, that is why they call God's name from Monday to Sunday through out the 365days with out rest.

TIDDOLL:
So I'm sitting here at the dinning close to the reception, Yemetu Ibadan precisely and it's 2am...
Took my rage down the steps with my backpack and my face cap on!! Had to take some shots of Orijin bitters to type this...

I'm happy I could tame my anger though, else you'd be seeing this on Instablog by dawn.

Probably titled "Middle age man slapped hook up girl and she fainted" or better still...."Hook up girl caused drama after client refused to pay up"

I did pay though...25k !!!

Started from a dating site, and we agreed 15k overnight for 3rounds, to include kissing et Al...well I've been busy for days since our agreement, and I eventually put a call through at my leisure, got to know she sells men's wear, told her to bring two packing shirts along.

Got to the hotel first, yea I bought rice(jollof nd fried) waited for her and got zoned into working on my PC.

She called, went down stairs to bring her up the stairs, room 9...I wasn't even interested in the asthetics of the 12k room, all I wanted is sex!

Though the fan works like a snail...
She complained, told her to keep calm...AC would come up by 10 according to the receptionist..

We got talking, she wouldn't stop about the heat..
Thanks to being plus sized..

Went straight into shower whilst we talk about her going back to Delta state, getting a shop and all..

She wouldn't stop about my height nd bla bla..

Let's just dive into this, tried bringing out my "fire" protection ..
Damn, I bought two! Then it all started..

No no no.... I'm here with my condoms she screamed...
What!!!.....see, I've got history with Durex getting torn nd all..reason I prefer this.

She no gree o.....I succumbed, she brought out a weird lubricant...
Blehhh....I cared less..she rubbed it on..
Nd I worked her a bit..she wouldn't even let me touch her spot.

I was irked, must it all look robotic??
She doesn't care a bit!

Did the first round....went to bath and she got dressed, let's go downstairs..

Woman?? For what exactly, I'm not going...got work to do on my PC, let's stay here and talk.

Started threatening she would give our her number if someone asked downstairs..

Oh well, go ahead..
About 45min downstairs after taking shots of bullet, kept on calling me to come downstairs..
Said I wasn't interested..
She later came up minutes after while I was dumping in the toilet..

She flung the toilet door open, I was pissed, close this door c'mon.
Finished...cleaned up nd got on the bed so we could kick on with the rounds..

She caught fire right away...
"Don't fucking touch me please,just go and sleep with an angry voice, I kept my cool..

Went to the sofa, kept on working but nah that urge won't give me a rest, went back to her.

I'm sorry I couldn't go downstairs with you..
No vex, Okay I go run you 5k more with the 20k

She got up, started negotiating 10k...
Told her 5k or nothing and turned my back..
She agreed!!

Ordered me to get the lubricant, I didn't flinch got it right away.
Told her to turn over, she bossed me around so good...

No I'm not doing, it's from the front or nothing..
Did some front...30min and I'm still not done then she went haywire.

You're sweating!! What is your problem self!!..
Stop pinning me down!!

Then and then my face changed!!
I payed a whole good deal for this..
Why would you be the boss here, da Bleep!! I've been so gentle all day, kind words nd all even while you spewing insults.


At 2am....she took a chair right to the door of the hotel room nd started screaming I want to hurt her..

Oh my...I still need my pride nd dignity intact..
Packed my stuffs nd all...
Nd went straight down to sit at the reception.


Can you be the judge of this















This is not a hoax,it actually happened tonight.

if you are based in Ibadan let me get you some clean girl that will satisfy you with less pay

Kreddy:
I've been battling with this kind of rashes more than a year now. It keeps on resurfacing after every 5 months. I've been into both private and public hospitals,a doctor once told me it's a familial disease, but none of my family members has ever experienced this kind of disease.

Though I have been experiencing scratches anytime I take my bath since my primary school days and I think I'm getting use to that as a doctor advised that I should stop using spong,it seems there's no solution to that.

But this rashes is taking a lot from me, I'm really perplexed and I don't know what to do. Pls has anyone experienced this,and how did you get cured.
I need suggestions to be free from this reoccurring rashes.
I've been to hospitals both private and public.

this is what we call narun in yoruba,where do you base?

toujurs:
But let me ask, how is a relationship about. Who can take care of her. Mehn you guys should stop dating urgent 2k's. Go for girls who can afford to take care of themselves

Don't mind the op,he is still a kid,Many guys don't know what love is, when you are controlled by physical appearance with a jobless girl of 22years of age who could not feed her self, could not add value to your life and say you love her, what does he loved about her?

YinkaOlusesi16:
someone like me can never knack her with her baby inside the room, but i can marry such lady. 90% of nigeria girls doing runs are tired of the life~style, they will be serious when they get married.

never marry anyone out of pity.

olaeffect:
It is well.
I no dey like put mouth for this kind talk again.
May God never let us find ourselves nor put ourselves in a helpless situation.

My neighbour son is in part 2 in one of the southwest universities.
I would be washing my car by myself he will ware Jens and pass and greet me as a university big boy (as if me too no go higher institution )
He was to go back to school his mom now came to me that "our son" is going back to school I should help her with something I just smiled and gave her N1k, she shock because she knew I could give at least N5k.

But why should I?
Some people can hardly do anything for others for free, but they are always shocked when people don't help them

May God help us all.

one thing i see about Nigerians is that we are too emotional, when people ask for help they wouldn't put you into their consideration if truely you have the capacity at that moment where as they don't know what you are going through but they want you to do it by all means when you can't there tag you enemy of progress.

CANDYDADDY:
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It not a must to go to university, if you finding it hard u better drop out


no one owe u shit

bitter truth.

Prettygirl200:
It's okay, if no man will foot my bills, then he doesn't expect me to clean, cook na watch for him. It's funny how some stupid men of this days wants a lady to prove themselves as a good wife material by sleeping with them, cleaning, cooking and washing while they don't want to prove the husband material part. To whom much is given much is also expected. Any man who cannot foot a woman's bills shouldn't expect her to same. He is free to call his mother to do so for him.

your yearly visitation to Shiloh will soon tire you.

YorubarLord:
I pity these fulanis when buhari leaves office Nigerians go use una do suya. The Animosity towards fulanis is exactly the same Nigerians had for ibos pre biafra war where killing ibos was for fun. Fulanis are next, just flee Nigeria the day buhari leaves office. All these ethnic supremacist power loving tribes always trying to subjugate other tribes need to be dealt with in this country.

Dont forget that Atiku might take over from Buhari and the killings continue.

Emeka and chidera will do anything for money.

That is how you think when you finished secondary school at the age of 14

About second coming of Jesus Christ, count me out.

Nigerians are smart but not intelligent

Heathrow44:
This is d background story 2 how naija feminist were made, all this gals that re mean, this is where it all started

You might be right but they should stop falling in love at a wrong stage which is there teen age.