₦airaland Forum

liver123:
Please pardon my grammatical blunders. I have stayed in abuja since 2018 after my service and I have done some petty work work as a civil engineering graduate which doesn't measure up for survival and up till date I have not gotten a decent job.

This year has been very tough for me as I struggle to even feed. My rent in abuja will expire February and I don't have a job.

Now am in lokoja to visit my elder brother for xmass and he is in support that I should stay back in lokoja since I don't have a job in abuja and my rent will soon expire. Am totally confused now on whether to stay back or go back to abuja as this lokoja town is too dry and I don't even know how I can get a job here.

Nicoswit:
Every black is a suspect? Thats racism!

Nicoswit:
Why does the whites likes calling police on blacks...what do they tend to gain...i see it as wickedness

dollytino4real:
if u are shy dash dem money

banmee:
Dude, i have been to war and fought in one. It is not as sexy as you see in the movies. When it starts i hope and pray for your sake you are nowhere near that country. War should be the absolute last resort. There are ways for Nigerians to get the freedom they seek but almost every Nigerian in Nigeria is corrupt. They are too easily divided hence this regional crap they have been conned to support.

banmee:
I hope you understand that is the foundation for a civil war. I promise you do not want war. Not in a country like Nigeria.

muykem:
Unpatriotic statement from Charly boy. Who are the brain behind Amotekun? Why Gani Adams or Sunday Igboho didn't form Amotekun. South east needs Security unit like Amotekun but it must come from governors not Nnamdi Kaun a terrorist.

shantti:
ur mad, so becos na him mama she is automatically right, anybody i mean anybody can be wrong. a woman slapped me at the atm just becos i told her she has to join the queue if she has to withdraw money as she was trying to jump the queue becos we that have been in the queue for so long were not fool, when she slapped me i held my atm with my mouth and gave her a resounding slap in front of her son, she was so shocked, her son was so shocked, everyone was so shocked, i waited patiently for my turn till i withdrew my money, she was still looking at me when i left. i swear to God if her son had tried to pick up a fight with me, i would had peforated his eyes with bottle, the only tin u expected him to do was to mediate peace since his mother is at fault, i woudnt encourage my mom to go about looking for trouble, if u slap her becos she slapped u first i will come in and mediate peace, but if u slapped her without she doing anytin to u then .......

Nuyokoi:
yes

virginprincess:
Oh my God, i blame mostly the foolish women that open their legs for him, spiritual obedience indeed, mtcheeeeeew.

nedekid:
You are right.
I think the only time he could have pulled out the firearm( which is lincensed only for hunting) would have been if he had intruders threatening his life within his residence. Ie armed robbers.
He surely overstepped by brandishing it on his street.

uptimum123:
Go and face them

uptimum123:
Let them find him wherever he is...he needs to tell us where he got the gun in his possession.

Colony20:
Nigeria has been reduced to a cinema.

Vaughanlanrewaj:
Just pick up a very good economics textbook and read about what puts people in poverty trap.
All these you suggested don't immediately lift people our of poverty.
I know it could be a waste of time explaining why you don't get It sir.

You will still, as a systemically-privileged city elite-educated Nigerian, think that efficient NEPA functioning well (sold at N56 per Kilowat/hr still priced out of reach of poor people) after elite-spending of almost $20B can lift the really poor out of poverty.

That is how most you think. You see their needs through your privileged prism.
Sir, poor people don't need NEPA or IKEDC to quickly escape the poverty trap.

I apologize in advance if I no longer respond to your comments sir.
Have a great day and weekend ahead.

sexyking1:
Talking about bad governance is an internal affairs, wch every country have their own headache, but painting your country black cos of few corrupt octogenarians is what I'm really condemning. It will interest you to know that bonny camp have celebrated 2 whole years of uninterrupted power supply...

Jodha:
I don't think so please.... it's not possible that every female he comes across accused him of rape because they all feel jilted. ... it's not possible...

Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

plaindealerr:
According to Falana back in 2018, section 88 was the reason why NASS cannot summon the President.





According to the same Falana now in 2020, the same section 88 is the reason why NASS can summon the President.

In 2018 - Section 88 = NASS can not summon the president.

In 2020 - Section 88 = Nass can summon the president.


This is why Nigerian lawyers and the entire Judiciary system are pure disaster. They lack credibility, the lie easily, t's like lying is part of their DNA.Femi falana is an elderly an I respect him for that but as a lawyer I see him as a political lawyer and charge and bail lawyer but the rest of Nigerian lawyer are charge and bail and I don't respect them,this so called lawyers are the reason we have so many innocenty in our prison today they were only interested in appearance fee than wining any case you see some cases going on for so many years,fashola, osinbajo and this so called Baba falana are lawyer how many cases they don win before? Useless set of people

Vaughanlanrewaj:
Please don't repeat this sir. It is completely wrong and clearly elitist or lack of understanding of developmental microeconomics.

Even in High School economics, poverty cycle is taught.Those items being donated by LASG are items that have greater and quicker impact on taking people out of poverty cycle. It comes from position of knowledge and I commend the government.

They are targeted at women and women are more likely to prioritise the feeding of their children than men and these women may now have extra to save in ajo on a daily basis after meeting basic survival needs. So while it may take years to finish major infrastructures, these women can survive until then.
To escape the poverty trap, the first thing you must achieve is savings followed by investment. Poor people, world over, hardly have enough to spend on basic needs, let alone have anything left to save.

This is very commendable in a place like Lagos but I am not sure it will work in Osun, probably the women may need agricultural tools than sewing machines.

In Nigeria, urban dwellers are actually those cheating the poor in the villages; for years, even without having roads , internet, water ,cars and electricity, they were picking up the bills used to fund petrol and electricity subsidy of their urban dwelling relatives to the point that nothing is left in national budgets even to buy medicines in their village cottage clinics.

If a developmental revolution must begin in Nigeria, it must start from those villages to shift resources to helping our poor in the villages not this elitist one by endSars protest or political state actors like Sowore.

The revolution must be organic and bottom up from the cheated Nigerian villagers and whoever must lead it should be from among them. Not those junketting around in brief cases calling themselves development expert. Our poor villagers must force government to give them a substitute of the subsidies their urban relatives are enjoying or enjoyed for years.

They must impose special developmental tax on their relatives returning to the villages and such funds must be used to fund their own economic and political activities.

We had a similar one with the Agbekoya and India is on the throes of one with the riots by farmers for days now. Those farmers are the real poor who are now piling pressure on Indian government.

This 24hr internet dwelling lifestyle itself that makes one privileged subsidy-enjoying Nigerian to be suggesting that the poor denied of everything do not need empowerment , itself is a reflection of how Nigerian urban dwellers think. They hardly imagine that the internet itself is a luxury these poor villagers can't afford yet pick up bills for those whose stock in trade is sabotaging the country after enjoying far more privileges than the real poor Nigerians in our villages.


If you are a villager privileged to read this, please note that your redemption and economic liberation is not in the hands of your urban relatives, as a matter of fact, they are part of the burden you carry.

To emancipate yourself, organize and insist that for any subsidy or privilege given to your urban dwelling relatives, an equivalent of it must be provided for your villages too.

Everything is not about those who have access to internet and can write English, there are real people suffering from the way government give more priority to the loud urban dwelling Nigerians but the lives of the poor especially in our villages too matter.

Map1:
can you read and understand what you wrote here

Jodha:
Oga I no tell yhu say make yhu short o...

Jodha:
If I was a guy.... I'll be attracted to a tall lady with ass...either dark or fair....she should be really smart... simple and well behaved.... that's the kind of lady I'll want for my brothers...

For the guys
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I'll want a tall dark guy with cute smile....and attractive lips... He should be humble...God fearing..a man of little words... straight forward etc

Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

Nuyokoi:
neva been in love

Sterope:
You can apply for the transit visa, there may be an option for a fast-track. Immigration officers might help but I won't hold my breath on that.

Or find another airline with a stopover in another country like Turkish airline. It might be more expensive, better find the money. This is the best alternative, Chinese immigration laws are rigid.

singeronion:
Lost about 350k worth of valuables to robbers in this past 2weeks. It hurt soooooooo much

Was depressed, Sad. But as a young Man, I picked up my life n press on

Though I live in a jungle called Nigeria, I am not an animal and I disapprove jungle justice. Any other form of treatment is okay by me.