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RomanceRe: Why Is It That Men Don't Want To Come To Barrack And Seek Our Hands In Marriage? by mapist(m): 12:43pm On Aug 06, 2017
subtlemee:
Me that's a girl to even pass through their gate I hold my breath till I get to where I'm going,if I just hear "hey" my heart will start beating fast like a common criminal talk less of a bloody civilian guy that's going to check on a female soldier and their male counterpart happens to know...dem go take time rubbish the guy na

If they can deal with a harmless, defenceless, disabled/crippled who can they not deal with?
Lol..nice dentition though; i always fall for it every single time but bae's own is finer kiss
EducationRe: Slay Queen Pops 100 Bottles Of Andre Wine On Her Body After Graduation by mapist(m): 12:20pm On Aug 06, 2017
nextprince:
OP, you mean slay queen or slay idiot.

This is one of our problems in this country.

You want to show you are a big boy/girl and your way of doing that is to waste. Abeg, where else is this done other than in Black countries, because even White African countries don't have this senseless mentality.

Wtf is wrong with organising a robust party?
I honestly wasted my data by opening this thread; how did she even pass her exams if she could have such mentality.
Christianity EtcRe: Patrick Edet, Resigned Catholic Priest: I Want To Go To Heaven When I Die by mapist(m): 12:05pm On Aug 06, 2017
nattyGENT:
GBAM!!! He finished his plans sinnnncce, but waited to explode when he has gathered much gut. He was a conditional Catholic priest. He never knew what the future held for him.

In all, I pray the will of God prevails
Gathered much gut and gullible followers.

I wonder why the church lowers it's standards these days; if you are not good enough, then you are simply not good enough. There is absolutely no need to lower any standard.
Christianity EtcRe: Patrick Edet, Resigned Catholic Priest: I Want To Go To Heaven When I Die by mapist(m): 11:22am On Aug 06, 2017
GreatUniben:
There are other priests that wants to leave too. If the church is not careful more priests will leave before the end of this year. The Catholic Church no more pay attention to its people and priests, the church now pay attention to more money and the priests pay attention to luxury. There are still many more priests like Rev. Edet that is nursing that same idea. We pray for our priests and religious that God will make them more holy and know the essence of their calling through Christ our Lord.
Yes, that Nigerian factor has started to creep in; the church has become too money conscious.
Christianity EtcRe: Patrick Edet, Resigned Catholic Priest: I Want To Go To Heaven When I Die by mapist(m): 11:20am On Aug 06, 2017
FamilyRe: Benue Teacher Asked To Pay 1.5 Million Naira As Bride Price (Photo) by mapist(m): 8:12am On Aug 01, 2017
Paulpaulpaul:
I'm a teacher, bros nothing de.




Poor people teach in Nigeria
Bro, i sabi. My dad was a head teacher in a primary school in Lagos; he was very good at his desk but, little income to show for it. I thank God he was a diligent man and had plans else, i for dey bush dey hunt by now.
FamilyRe: Benue Teacher Asked To Pay 1.5 Million Naira As Bride Price (Photo) by mapist(m): 7:59am On Aug 01, 2017
AlphaT1:
You are a lady and probably don't know what young men go through concerning marriage list.
Those very wicked kinsmen are very difficult to persuade to bring down the cost of that list to a reasonable level. Only very few families may be reasonable. My friend was given a list of abt 1.8m ( @zone B Benue State). The family refused to reduce the list and rejected most of the items on d day of trads. He had to look somewhere else and God blessed him with a beautiful bride from a beautiful family in South east. He spent only 400k for the list and dowry 2geda and after d trads the father inlaw returned 250k to him to use it and feed his daughter very well. You needed to be there on the day of the white wedding to see the collection of gifts presented by the bride's family; everything you need to start a decent home was there: curtains, generator, TV, sofa, mattress, A.C, dvd, home theatre, fridge, deep freezer, standing fan, wall clock, kitchen wares etc. My friend didn't know when tears started rolling down his cheeks!
Abeg, tell her again. I love the decision your friend made; no need to talk much, FASHY THEIR PIKIN FOR THEM..1.8mm for one smellos that may not even be a full baked graduate. This is appalling.
FamilyRe: Benue Teacher Asked To Pay 1.5 Million Naira As Bride Price (Photo) by mapist(m): 7:56am On Aug 01, 2017
chivic:
This is why some men beat their wives at the slightest provocation. and cut every relationship with her family.must you rob the man that want to marry your daughter?

That's pure wickedness which have made so many ladies loose the man who would have married them.The worst is that some lady will tell you,that, if u can't meet up forget it.
Exactly @ paragraph 1. Paragraph 2, once u just talk am, dats d end.
FamilyRe: Benue Teacher Asked To Pay 1.5 Million Naira As Bride Price (Photo) by mapist(m): 7:53am On Aug 01, 2017
Paulpaulpaul:
Greedy parents like this push people into crime. Where would a teacher get 1.5m?
Even me wey dey try bro, I WONT INDULGE.. very INSANE.
FamilyRe: Benue Teacher Asked To Pay 1.5 Million Naira As Bride Price (Photo) by mapist(m): 7:51am On Aug 01, 2017
vickydevoka:
this one try self de one de give my guy for imo state na 3 million him come de beg dem make en round am up to 2 million. I knw say ur own go be 5 million
Na because him no sabi as e dey go. Why ll i use 2mm to buy items on such list and also incure more expenses during the wedding? At the end of the day, na me go still feed their pikin and not the other way round. Mk dem kuku say dem wan sell her, i ll prefer it dat way.
FamilyRe: Benue Teacher Asked To Pay 1.5 Million Naira As Bride Price (Photo) by mapist(m): 7:47am On Aug 01, 2017
Paulpaulpaul:
He should forget about marriage for now. He should continue to enjoy free ponmo. After two years, he will get the same girl for less
Honestly, i cant fault you for thinking like this; what a ridiculous list.
FamilyRe: Benue Teacher Asked To Pay 1.5 Million Naira As Bride Price (Photo) by mapist(m): 7:45am On Aug 01, 2017
Benita27:
What you have here is the list of items the groom is meant to buy and not the lady's bride price. Note the difference.

If the list is too expensive, he could discuss that with the elders and get it reduced instead of lamenting.
You left out a salient issue; why would a sane and God fearing parents cum elders give a list that amounts to such? We should learn to call a spade a spade and desist from commenting without doing a proper critque.

It's just so unfortunate that, it's only in Nigeria that parents see their daughters as a means to wealth; what a backward society we are in.
RomanceRe: Chat Of A Girl That Didn't Respond To Me On Badoo Till I Said I Have A Car by mapist(m): 2:24pm On Jul 31, 2017
Demigods666:
LOL that's one of the characteristics of a slay queen "empty skull"
Real EMPTY, bro..smh..
RomanceRe: Chat Of A Girl That Didn't Respond To Me On Badoo Till I Said I Have A Car by mapist(m): 8:01pm On Jul 30, 2017
farellstone:
and you can write correct English? Go and learn how to use the subjunctive.you people are always quick to see error in another person's use of the English language, of which it was just a chat and informality can be her reason for writing the way she did. By the way it's "if I were the one" not " if I was"
There is no informality here. "Save" has 4 letters; "safe" has same. She is just poor in that regard, no offence meant.
RomanceRe: Chat Of A Girl That Didn't Respond To Me On Badoo Till I Said I Have A Car by mapist(m): 7:54pm On Jul 30, 2017
Demigods666:
A girl who cannot speak or write English fluently without blunders is a big turn off to me, op you even tried, if I was the one chatting with her, the chat would have ended when she said "no wahala, as far am save" rada.
I'm glad u noticed.. cant diff btw "safe" n "save"..a graduate. What a shame..
CrimeRe: ‘girls Run Mad After We Used Them For Yahoo Plus’ (photo) by mapist(m): 10:33pm On Jul 29, 2017
mikky4764:
pls direct ur quote somewhere else, besides it's totally out of context.
I love your response; he has no shame. He is obviously a culprit. Wasted fellow.
CrimeRe: ‘girls Run Mad After We Used Them For Yahoo Plus’ (photo) by mapist(m): 10:31pm On Jul 29, 2017
mikky4764:
The other one said he has bin succeeding and have bin staying out of trouble "by the grace of God" which grace, which God?
I saw it and i shook my head. What a country we are in.
PoliticsRe: Soldiers Block Nnamdi Kanu's Convoy In Ebonyi, Kanu Comes Down (Video) by mapist(m): 8:17am On Jul 25, 2017
Ekiseme:
Rubbish,
Some people wasting their energies and resources for nothing
I'm telling you and the fact i just wasted my data on this video sucks. huh
NYSCRe: Slaying In Camp – This Female Corper’s Outfit Got People Talking by mapist(m): 7:56am On Jul 25, 2017
CEONAIJATUBE:
This pretty female corps member has left tongues wagging after she was spotted wearing this sultry outfit in camp.
Media users have however criticized her outfit saying the main purpose of the scheme is not to turn it into a slay queen show.

from source:http://www.naijatubeviews.com/2017/07/slaying-in-camp-this-female-corpers.html

lalasticlala
What is your definition of pretty, bleaching? undecided
PoliticsRe: Anambra Election Will Hold If Nigeria Is Restructured Before October 1 - Kanu by mapist(m): 7:29am On Jul 25, 2017
Blue3k:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/07/anambra-election-will-hold-kanu/
Even students who are expected to be exposed are in support of his cause, fantastic.
Christianity EtcRe: Mike Bamiloye Condemns Christian Ladies Who Look Different On Their Wedding Day by mapist(m): 6:34pm On Jul 23, 2017
dljbd1:
that last pix though undecided
Me sef see m, e kon b like say eye dey pain me. How can a groom tolerate dat?
RomanceRe: Lady Visits A Guy At His Hostel, Crowd Of Guys Wait Outside To HAIL HIM (pics) by mapist(m): 6:23pm On Jul 23, 2017
decatalyst:
Those guys you see outside are simply happy for their 'brother'/friend.

This is always the case when a dude moves around with guys who are "woman eaters" but he has been unable to nail down one...maybe cuz he is the shy type or lacking in "swag" or his niggas feel he is IMPOTENT or just being an undiscovered gay. grin

Another case is if the babe don dey form hard to get for a very long time...so, when banana finally fall on her, the dude that made the banana fall must receive such a humongous ovation nau grin

I just dey wonder Wetin dey run through the girl's mind ad she walks pass them
If i may ask, do you think she would be stupid to do such with so many ppl around? Girls love privacy, you should know this by now.
Christianity EtcRe: For Christians: How To Be Free From Masturbation, Other Addictions by mapist(m): 4:23pm On Jul 23, 2017
EntMirror:
5 years and you're complaining. What of those that started before they even hit 7 years and have been doing so since?

My little dog do masturbate.. It's normal and natural.

EntMirror
Home Of Entrepreneurs
Me sef fear OP o. Even Trump wont tell me he dint as an adolescent or teenager.
SportsRe: Chelsea Agrees To Sign Alvaro Morata by mapist(m): 9:58pm On Jul 22, 2017
CaptPlanet:
Now you've come back to my point. You guys don't quote Morata's initial fee which is £58m. The £70m is the initial fee and the add-ons summed up.


Lukakuk's initial fee is £75m with £15.m add-ons that will take it up to £100m.

So when people say Morata cost £70m, it'll only be fair to say Lukaku cost £90m and not £75. That's my point.

Rooney's deal was treated differently. He was valued at £10m and was structured into the deal somehow.

You can read further here:

https://www.theguardian.com/football/2017/jul/07/chelsea-romelu-lukaku-offer-match-manchester-united
I dont need to read further jor; i watched it live on Sky sports. It was part of the deal but both parties preferred to keep it's details unknown.
CelebritiesRe: Investor BJ Shades Ray Hushpuppi by mapist(m): 6:29pm On Jul 22, 2017
newsynews:
https://www.instagram.com/p/BW1tXVylxn8/



If you don’t know who Investor BJ is, then you need to start doing small Chache.

Investor BJ is one of the “hard working socialites” 9ice praised in his song “Living things”.

Many saw the song as the glorification of fraud as he used the yahoo boy code “Chache” while he reeled out names of guys with unknown source of income.

Recently, one of them called Hushpuppi aka Gucci Master got involved in a war of words with Nigerian rapper Ice Prince and Phyno.


He called them out for putting on fake Patek Phillipe wrist watches, the original he actually has.

The outburst between him and Phyno made him one of the sources for juicy gossips as he kept on displaying his extravagant Gucci lifestyle.

It seems the fame enjoyed by Hushpuppi is beginning to make the other Malaysian boys green with envy. It is in this light that Investor BJ dropped a shade on Instagram claiming he is the only recognised Gucci man in Malaysia. He claims he doesn’t go to shops to test clothes and snap pictures, he simply buys them. Omo, me ayam tayad of typing, read his words below.






http://wotzup.ng/investor-bj-one-of-the-guys-9ice-praised-in-living-things-shades-hushpuppi/
He should come back when he spots the difference between "am" and "i'm". Plenty illicit money, poor diction/writing skills yet, he talks and people get moved. Smh for Nigeria.
FamilyRe: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by mapist(m): 4:38pm On Jul 22, 2017
delishpot:
Yeah one man's meat bro. You have a right to your opinion.
Exactly. I can tolerate anything in a marriage or relationship but never ever cheat and let me find out before you tell me.
SportsRe: Chelsea Agrees To Sign Alvaro Morata by mapist(m): 4:36pm On Jul 22, 2017
CaptPlanet:
Why isn't Lukaku's add ons quoted in his deal too na? Don't they want him to be successful?
It is na..cud rise to 93..initial fee is wat ppl often talk about and remember, add ons mayb wiped off by Rooney as his transfer fee was never disclosed.
FamilyRe: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by mapist(m): 3:57pm On Jul 22, 2017
delishpot:
I don't think he made mention of her cheating on him. Those happened before they met.
Yes, she dint but, he or she who cheats at any point lacks dignity. It's sth i never tolerate and i try to stay free of same.
RomanceRe: Lady Slaps Man For Trying To Finger Her In A Commercial Bus by mapist(m): 2:59pm On Jul 22, 2017
hungryboy:
Konji don finally disgrace this Old man

Na so i almost craze because i no fvck for two weeks


Na him, i come rush go Ashawo house go cure the konji , Make i no rape pesin pikin
Just 2 weeks..smh
FamilyRe: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by mapist(m): 1:44pm On Jul 22, 2017
Nerdg:
She told me of being pregnant and later had a stillbirth at the 7months.

The background.
I met her when we were teens and have always loved her. She refused me sex and along the line, her neighbor gave me (who is her relation). She learnt about this and we had our first break up.
We both got admission into different universities and couldn't see again.
We later met again and settled with a condition that there would be no sex. This didn't go down well with me and I called it off. This repeated and there was even a time I walked her out of my house because of this issue and didn't give her tfare. My house is like 1hr drive from where she lives.
The issue:
I love this girl to the extent that anytime I thought of getting married, she will come to mind.
Now I have a good job and she's done with school. I proposed to her and she accepted it.
Is about 3 months now, she came on my birthday 3 months ago. That was all. She doesn't come always because she stays with her elder brother and can't leave house just like that.

Note, we haven't had sex till now.

About 2 weeks ago, I told her about how I got a girl pregnant and we had to abort it and that since then I haven't been myself. That it pains me to this day. We talked about it and she was sorry over it.

Yesterday, we had a very deep discussion and she revealed to me that she had a relationship at school. They were together for 4yrs. I then asked her if she had ever missed her period. She said yes. But not to this school boyfriend but another man. She wanted to keep the pregnancy but her parents refused because the guy is not a good person. The guy wanted the pregnancy but her family didn't want the guy to marry her. She finally had a stillbirth at the 7th month.

I was stunned. I know she's not a virgin, she told me but I was confused. Sex had always been our problem and I never expected that she had experienced something like this. Now she asked me that she hope she won't regret telling me this. I told her no that she won't regret but I'm stunned.

Please should I still go on with this marriage?
The red flag is that part where she was dating a school bf, cheated with another man and then got pregnant before having a still birth. Bro, if that's true, then you are in a fix. Regardless of the fix, do what makes you happy but you should be willing to accept whatever comes with your decision.

Another salient concern is the fact that she denies you sex but gets it elsewhere. That's intolerable by my own standards. No explanation justifies that act.
SportsRe: Chelsea Agrees To Sign Alvaro Morata by mapist(m): 11:27am On Jul 22, 2017
thorrvik55:
Wot u wrote is absolute bull**** . Only u said morata is not gud cos he was a bench player at real madrid( one of d best clubs in d world currently) and I named 2 gud players dat were benched last season and ur busy telling me bull**** . Besides morata had d best goal ratio in la liga last season, 15 goals from 55 shots so ur just contradicting urself...

Willian was a bench player last season but can u compare him to any attacking player at everton last season?
Use ur head to think well b4 u quote me again...
No need to argue with you as you are obviously outraged for a reason known to neutral minds. However, i shall quote you unfailingly when the time comes; i wont engage myself in a brawl with you because i wont condescend to that.
SportsRe: Chelsea Agrees To Sign Alvaro Morata by mapist(m): 11:10am On Jul 22, 2017
CaptPlanet:
Get your facts right bro. Morata cost £58m. The add ons are what makes up the other.

But since you put it that way, i'd pay 70m for a 2 time Champions league, spanish and italian league winner.

Lukaku cost £75m plus his add ons of £15m.


Now would u pay £90m for Lukaku that only scores against lesser teams with clear eye?
Morata is 70mm..Sky Sports just confirmed again. Add ons are part of cost except you dont expect such player to be successful, u get?

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