₦airaland Forum

kimbraa:
No human being is indispensable. Just make up your mind to focus all that energy you're using now into something more productive for yourself. Some women don't understand days of little beginning. At least you know she's not the kind that'd stick around when the chips are down.

Another salient point; if he is an ardent user of twitter, he ought to have known that twitter ladies always want trendy and stacked guys. Swag alone doesnt win you such ladies, money does. Staying with his cuz was another "let-down". It spells out alot.

kimbraa:
On coming to your cousin's place, and getting to know you better; she realised you weren't the dude she was projecting you to be_in essence, you're not her kind of man. It's best you let her be, though it hurts, but if you make up your mind to, you'll.

Thank you for echoing what he already knows but doesnt wanna accept.

Nltaliban:
Lol. Abu isn't that competitive, they don't have much aspirants like Ui, Unilag and Oau self. The only problem is Abu is like uniilorin, they prefer to give admission to aboki and muslims

I dislike ehnic bigots but you are spot on here.

Amarabae:
A LETTER TO THE BROKE GUYS.
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Greetings all!
I will like to briefly to thank all who wished me a Happy Birthday yesterday.
Thank you my Darlings. *kisses*
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Back to my main subject, THE BROKE GUYS.
I have noticed that one of the most frustrating moments in a man's life is when he is broke!
This era of financial scarcity always leave many men with feeling of emptiness,
No wonder the sighting of that word "BROKE" always touches the nerve in many guys, no wonder the insults, bullying and aggressiveness they exhibit as a response to any thread that is dedicated to such a dreaded word.
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NOW Broke Guys listen, let me give you a bit of advice..
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Every woman dream of a comfortable future, a future where even if she is not been treated like a queen, atleast she will not be a slave.
Most ladies grew up and saw the financial difficuly and suffering their mothers went through in the name of marriage and thereby took a resolution not to be part of that fate.
So before you blame them for rejecting you as a broke guy, remember this.
1. Being broken is NOT a permanent situation, work hard to change the status.
2. Even if you are an unemployed graduate, you can raise a capital and move into business.
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FINANCIAL STABILITY AND SECURITY is an Important Requirement many women look at including me.
How can you expect a girl to reject a rich guy for you that live in a public yard and earn below #30,000 monthly?
The girl may really love you but she need a partner who is Financially stable,
Many ladies are not looking for a Dangote kind of guy but a Hardworking Financially Stable Guy.
and I see nothing wrong in that.
He may not have his own house, atleast let him afford a 1 or 2-bedroom flat.
He may not have a murano or quest, atleast let him afford a mercedes even if it is old model.
Women just want to be comfortable.
So Mr Broke guy,
Why not focus on improving your financial status instead?
From #30,000, aim to be getting atleast up to #70,000 and above, monthly.
From Public yard, aim at living in a comfortable apartment.
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No woman want to suffer, YES the woman may have a good job or business, but she need an equal or higher earner than her as a partner.
You get the drift?.
ALSO.
Some Broke Guys are LAZY in nature!
Women do appreciate hardworking guys, we do.
But the lazy type! Hush.
There are many unemployed graduate who love staying indoors, sleeping and always online looking for a girl to bully.
Why are such guys suprised at being broke?
They are proud and lazy to humble themselves and learn an income earning skill.
Tomorrow, these are guys who will be calling girls "GOLD DIGGERS" for rejecting their lazy azz.
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Dear broke guy, Wake up,
Work hard to improve your financial status,
Go and learn an income earning Skill,they are many out there to learn from.
My Final point is that a guy should be financial stable first before thinking of a serious relationship or marriage.
OK. Broke is not permanent to a hard working guy.
LOVE YOU ALL.
Thank you.

Sad but true.

OlujobaSamuel:
they build big churches and mosques but build manual borehole, blackboard schools, 1week durable roads etc for the masses just to hold the masses to ransome.

Lmao. If he likes, make him build a sanctuary, judgement dey wait am according to his deeds.

naijafox:
True, long distance relationship is so bad, just one sex with another person can make the girl love up once,


A girl that love you and miss you so much, once u tell her you are close by , she will leave every other thing and meet you

I can personally attest to this.

jerrisonjeff:
Marriage is for better or worse..
Stay in that marriage...


If na me i go do my own x10 and she will see it....I will tell her it is a colleague of mine also.....that I am also joking with her.....


Or maybe u are ugly that wen u have no choice

Read Matt 19:9; i am sure that ll answer your "for better for worse".

missfadesola:
i would be grateful if you can forward the gmat question to my mail sparkoolfreeme@gmail.com
Thanks in advance

Please, send the past Q to weetinee@gmail.com.

Thanks.

missfadesola:
Received. thanks

Please, send same to weetinee@gmail.com.

Thanks.

LolaCole1:
Be certain before you mislead people.
40,000 throughout training schl that lasts for 4months. Then 225,000 for Entry level after training schl. Some take car loans which will obviously reduce the monthly basic salary , some don’t.

Training is 50k not 40k.

toro92:
I remembered I said 2 /3 months or so if you open your eye to read my post.
Yea 4 months....
cos I have a colleague that applied too and he is working with GTB..

Access is the only one that pays almost 200,000 gor graduate trainee..
go and confirm your info too and stop posting whatnots here

Very wrong, brother.

freshkpomo:
she have cancelled the wedding and moved on!she told me she was stupid because she and the guy just met and did not know for long!!this is a big lesson to those girls running into marriages without taking time out to know the person they getting married to!

You can imagine. Marrying who you just met without knowing the person? Joke of the decade. Well, i second her decision; the guy has no business getting married.

Purebeerry:
Just wed him like that, you should have seen the sign but its already too late.

Wed fire. What makes it too late?

Next2Bezee:
You are just wasting your time. Since you already have proof of her infidelity, isn't it best to just vamoose now that you have no emotional attachment to her?

If you think confronting her will change things then my brother, you are on a long thing. Once a hoe, always a hoe. I'd advice you not to waste any more time & drop all contact with that girl, for the sake of your own progress in life.

Leave am, make him dey ask mum Q. Tcheww.

juddexy2:
Enlighten me please

Ahh..police wee catch me na..

darqly:
Lol, Access ALREADY uses the GTBank Playbook, everyone knows this, even your MD. Why do you think it's easy for ex-GT to waltz into Access and not the other way round?

Lol

davide470:
If we are going the "i know people who works there" route, then i know people who work with Access bank and they are still there rising through the ranks. Not everyone would like where they work, so factor that in before giving a general statement.

Intelligent comment.

juddexy2:
Targets everywhere in Access, compulsory bonds, compulsory storming..even this recruitment is based on targets. Access bank is the highest paying bank but mehn what's the use of the money when your peace of mind ain't very stable. I think First bank and GTbank are top leading banks to work for in Nigeria currently.

No sir, they aint the highest paying bank.

lokobyforch:
Please do well to list miracles that can happen only by fasting?

I am a Christian but it ll be needless to say that i dont believe in his write up in the slightest.

theblessings:
ok. happy new year

Lol..Compliments of the season.

theblessings:
keep faith, say some prayers by midnite, it wil be well

I get you, Blessing. As an individual, i am doing very good & i thank God for that but i cannot use one sample (me) to draw a conclusion that the society is progressing.

sinaj:
On my bed

Same here. Not deceiving myself with these new year wishes when everything out there remains the same.

matrix199:
The UN should close down this country. It has failed woefully.


We're like a mermaid dying of thirst in her kingdom. How can we be an oil producing nation and still be an oil deficient nation? That's a paradox.


Here's how daft the immediate and the past leaderships of this country are...

They sell a barrel of crude oil(159litres of 6 constituent oil) @ $59/N17,000 per barrel)

They later buy a barrel of 1st constituent of the crude, which is PMS, (1 barrel @ $55) + a barrel of 2nd constituent of the crude, which is kerosene, (1 barrel @ $57) + a barrel of 3rd constituent of the crude, which is diesel, (1 barrel at $70), then sum up all they spend importing what they exported @ $59, that would give $182.

They earn $59 per barrel exporting crude oil. They spend $182 importing a barrel of petrol, a barrel of kerosene, and a barrel of diesel.


A mermaid sells her fresh fish at N100. She later buys it back as fried fish at N200.

Isn't she a daft mermaid?

Bro, not daft. CURSED.

The SIMPSONS with Bart my main man.

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

Yes, basically it is consent but why would should imply she agreed to his demands by passing the night when in the real sense, she dint want it.

I just wonder how some ladies think; i still believe lack of contentment causes most of these.

Papiikush:
Slut!

A guy who is not your boyfriend, what in the world were you doing in his house overnight?

Forget the whole rape brouhaha...she is trying to play the victim card here because all I read is about a one night stand gone wrong.

Wait... How in the world will someone rape you with oral again?

I mean he was licking your pussý comfortably and you couldn't do anything? Ha aye mi!!!!

If a guy can be so comfortable to the extent he goes down on you, removes your panties and use his tongue to wipe your pussý clean without you breaking his neck with your laps, then you are a slut

I need to start telling these Unilag girls I have free WIFI maybe they'll come and spend the night in my apartment too. Awon olosho gbogbo

Forget self control, bìtch if you come to my apartment and you running around in your bumshort I'll fück that pussý.

If you are looking for men with self control don't sleep in my house go and sleep in your pastor's house.

Mehn, i read her story and i shook my head. You have said it all, bro. Nothing more to say. I ll have a bae, she ll go and spend the night at a guy's? ...smh

Munae:
few guys don't

Yes, i agree with you. I personally get irritated by the mannerisms of many so-called matured ones here. So many unintelligent comments and posts.

JamaicanLove:
STORY FOR THE GOOSE

Hey, pls check your twitter.

Munae:
I totally agree with the kiss and tell part. They're mean, I swear.

Lol. Not all guys do this, you know. This is sad, though.

dammytosh:
Some one will sleep with your wife too.

In fact most of your kids will likely not be yours and you will not know.


That is what the book of Karma says.

Some people are just insane. You slept with a married lady and you have the guts to tell a story about it. Smh.

Rokia2:
Lol not only uninformed but they have the lowest of self esteem.

So sad for them.

I tell you. I wish you witnessed one frustrated lady that sat next to me earlier. Seeking public consent to make herself feel good despite being wrong.

I will not be surprised if she calls herself a graduate; that is what the future holds for us in the country. People who lack the ability to critique situations from vast perspectives.