₦airaland Forum

Reminderz:
when it comes to social relationships, most women are smart and not intelligent, while most men are intelligent and not smart...

women are brutally manipulative, cunning and powerful... underrate them at your own risk... a man without the redpill is a dead man walking... it only takes a predatory female to finish him off... dear awoken men, you have responsibilities to carry out on your sons and brothers to avoid them treading the same path of fallen men...

if the story is true which I believe it is due to a even more crazy scenarios I've experienced and seen, then I would say a man who let emotions override his logical ability will pay dearly for its consequences when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex...

the woman said the baby was born prematurely and he believed her... smh... and can anyone tell me? what is that route that she doesn't want to go through again? murder? bro when we warned many men here on the red flags to look out for, some foolish men and women commented that it's nothing to be worried about... well I hope they end up the same way as those fallen men... one lesson in life is to never try to save anyone who doesn't want to be saved.. life will surely deliver a very painful lesson to them, that's if they are lucky to be alive...

dear men, after speaking on some red flags to watch out for some couple of weeks ago and why it shouldn't be taken slightly... this is another set of red flags to look out for which I got from one of my divorced male friend who found out his wife was cheating on him...

1) always note down the last time you slept with your wife...

2) dna test is a must and most especially if you didn't meet her a virgin... try as much to find out and most especially on your first child...

3) her survival comes first and her child second... you're never considered or treated with less importance..

4) a woman will go any desperate lengths to get her secrets covered...

5) women will cheat on you and you may never find out till you die..

6) women will give you the craziest sex style and cook your favourite food, send you the best love letters and still be cheating on you...

7) a man who relies on a woman and believes everything a woman says is a man destined to fail...

8 ) your purpose and mission should come before any woman...

9) women are not going anywhere...

10) you can either love or understand woman, you can't do both... if I'm to choose, I will choose the latter because I've understood that women don't love men...

finally, save yourself man.. no one is coming to save you...

CodeTemplar:
Naira strengthens and an imported product goes up in price. How is that possible?

LikeAking:
Good!

Once him win for tribunal, this him tailor go swell like Agege bread.

Drsnives:
The one I get I still dea observe she n her pastor drama..
All these der I miss you Whatsapp messages, I never begin reason am..but my mind don dea comot small small..
NB hv done introduction oo.. do I confront her or lock up till they finally run matter before leaving her or do I kill whatever they are having before sex takes place

Dohn:
I go carry wwe disc from my guy place com back house to watch wt my ppl during xmas, hous don full finish, uncles, aunties, cousins ,grannies.....
Hmm after everything,,,
every body don balance to watch na, i insertd d disc ,
Omoh na 2 naked ppl appear der o... d man was serusly eating d womans cooky ....naso evrybody shout jesus com look me...... I felt lyk vanishing

RTID:
If you can, pick one or two Hausa boys from the streets.

Nurture and train them to the highest level of education.

Oh yes, they'll surely prosper and make it to the top, because the competition is less for them, considering many of them aren't educated.

And when they rise to the top, they'll never forget you.

The Hausa tribe are the only loyal people you can find in Nigeria.

Lataability:
The kind of things I read here they make me wonder if men still dey again, can you listen to this useless SIMP. Under ur roof ur prostitute girlfriend cheated on you 3times and you forgive her, now she have moved out of ur hux and you are now seeking advice on weather you should move on, go and ask your father. Go and bring her back, Na HIV or AIDS she go give you this time around. Guy you are fucking useless for bring up this crap this morning.

Heroicvic:
Do whatever you want to survive but don't take a man's life and call it grace

I don't think the problem is poverty and unemployment
It's more of religious issue, have you been to ebonyi, osun, ekiti, etc? All these state are extremely poor......

But they embrace education, the north need to learn

Truth is you hardly see a Christian terrorist... Whatever that means.....

ednut1:
Gave a stranger head, she no even bath first after sweating and dancing in the party. Stayed 3 days, she no get job A fishy story

Tranquility2345:
Person go just siddon for bunker wey heat wan finish am and be coming up with very stupid logic on women this women that. Guy you better stop filling your head with trash and go hustle o. Time waits for no man…

STEWpid:
Chai..

In other words,

So, being GBOLArised heavily can increase life span?

Ayam still learning!

Mokole2023:
Dear Nlders,

I cant say if this problem is peculiar and I would sincerely appreciate mature comments and suggestions.

My marriage is just about a year old though I had an on/off online friendship with my now-wifey since 2017 before we decided to get serious late 2021. Our physical courtship was kinda brief - about 6 months - while we both resided in the same state but different Cities (about 3hrs apart).

I used to be very sexually active in my previous relationships - trust me when i say I'm quite good in bed - but with my now-wifey, I decided to limit the sex part cos i felt at a man's age (tho my sisters also advised same) that there r other things to look out for in a woman. So basically, we did not get too intimate during courtship. Worryingly, even the few times we did it, I rarely got to orgasm cos she couldn't match my stamina.

Fast forwards to 1 month into the marriage, I was diagnosed with High blood pressure which the doctors advised BP drugs might affect my libido but it will later regulate/normalize. Then the problems started! First, I get aroused normally with good turgidity enough to penetrate my Wifey's tight "body" but I tend to loose erection after some mins of thrusting and that's the end. Never comes back on again. Few times I was able to finish but that's not without alot of mental imagination to make me finish ontime.

Very worryingly for me, I decided to check myself with other women and dear readers, I achieved stronger turgidity and no fail moment. That was my first shock.

Summarily, my wife and I still dont live together but this situation has gone worse now. I got no sexual feelings towards her and na by force we dey manage run 1 round in weeks. Meanwhile, I get sex requests from other girls on a daily. I'm very sad about this situation especially when i look at my wife because she ought to be enjoying this thicke alone forever.

As a man, you can imagine how you'd feel when your woman feels ur impotent while other women are bugging you for your time.

Various extreme thoughts have crossed my mind and I'm seriously bothered which isn't even good for my health. Should i confess to my wife?

I await your responses, suggestions and advice.

Many thanks,

Fahdiga:
How this man became a president is still a mystery to me.

Fahdiga:
Imagine what a president is commissioning in this modern age? Buhari is unarguably the worst thing to have ever happened to Nigeria. Man is a disaster.

VIPAFRICAN:
This Adeboye is the biggest hypocrite I've ever seen. The Crook intentionally refused to endorse any candidate just because Tinubu wife is a deacon in his scam ministry. Now he's coming out to cap rubbish. Where was your God when Apc were rigging the election left and right. Con men using religion to disguise. Rubbish

Britishcoins:
Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.


Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?

chrisxxx:
One day this Mike Igini will be Inec Chairman. He is a no nonsense fellow. This is the only person that the 'more money ' of Akpabio could not buy.

kay1one:
🥺😳😳

At this point, I'm sure God is even backing Obi candidacy.

Na drug dealer him wan back before?

Omooooooo:
My MD advices us to emulate him by doing some exercise to work every morning, he says he now wakes up very early so he could make it to work as early as possible by trekking


Mean while, he stays just in the third building to the office

And me Dey stay abuleegba and Works at Lekki

bankyblue:
Children of prediction

Abdul05:
Ofcourse. .he has the executive right to do so... it is his constitution

The open question l feel jandor hould have asked himself

is sanwo olu coming to their homes to force them to the rally ...?

Sit at home doesn't mean come to the rally by force by fire jandor..

dabiko:
This is about the only country in modern world where the candidate of a ruling party will brazenly avoid speaking to Nigerians about his programmes and plans for the nation yet some people try so much to justify it. This is unbelievable. In other climes if a candidate is always dodging public engagements and forums to discuss his/her plans, that candidate would be considered unserious and stands no chance in the actual election. Alas, when strange things happen in Nigeria, they are somehow considered normal.

If Osinbajo or Amaechi was the candidate, I'm certain they will make themselves available for public engagements despite their schedules. It shows you respect the people. Town Hall meetings provides an avenue for citizens to interrogate each candidates ideas, ascertain their intellectual acuity and thought process on issues relating to the office they seek.

Sadly, ignorance and illiteracy have been weaponised by the political elites and they have continued to use both tools alongside ethnicity to divide and rule Nigeria. Nigeria has great potentials and the sooner the young people realise that it is their future that is being toyed with, the better for them. Young people your time has come. Take charge of your destiny.

While voting in 2023 endeavor to do so with the future in mind and not for the present.

kk2027:
Are you sure you read the bold before posting ?
So Nigerians are his enemies that he cant come on air and talk to the people he's seeking their votes

Ok NBA too I guess are his enemies

Even accountants invited him but I guess they're his enemies too

So where exactly will Tinubu's votes come from?

YourBestWriter:
Guys good morrow to you all.

So it's going to be my 39th birthday next year and I still don't have one Kobo in my bank account. Still under my parents roof and no job. In a scale of 1 to 10, what are my chances of making it in life?

MissLAP:
My question now is, how come we beat this people at

Under 17
Under 19
Under 20

And we can't beat them at the senior level?

EagleNest:
I clearly said, unless he's being milked by his inlaws then he has the bragging right to react in a way to send a message that he's not a fool. But as the lady narrated, it's just ordinary courtesy for Christ sake. I know some relatives can be "busy-body" on things that doesn't concern them, but a smart and savvy guy would always know how to navigate thru and still go home with his trophy.

Marriage is not painted in black and white, it is a spectrum of uncertainties - all b/c people are involved. But if people are not involved, it can no longer be called marriage.

EagleNest:
Regardless of whether they all accepted him or not, it is immature to go into stupid argument with your would be inlaws unless they are out to milk you or they are simply useless. But in this case, I think he just failed the very basics, of playing and paying courtesies. You have just spoken with your lady on phone, and on finding out that her aunty was with her, may be a little hello and thanks for helping xyz with shopping today will not do you harm but endear you more to the family - regardless of whether you mean it or not. Play the politics for Christ sake. You are a stranger and you should know that every of your moves or behaviour is monitored and read. Going there and dey show yourself with crass rudeness is recipe for failure. I cannot fault the lady because the bobo failed the basics.

GboyegaD:
You are the one I should ask if you are ready for marriage. I wonder how you allowed people get into your head. You said he argued with your aunt, and you were pained. Should he keep quiet if he's not okay with whatever the cause of the argument was because he wants a marriage?

I don't even understand how your aunt was pissed that he didn't call to thank her for taking you to the market to buy the engagement clothes. Was he the one who suggested you approach your aunt to help you? If he is not, then he doesn't owe her that obligation. If he chooses to say thank you, so be it and if he doesn't, no big deal.

Lastly, your parent's (mom in particular) reservation indirectly beclouded your thought and you suggesting you put the wedding on hold gave him the opportunity to think through the entire thing. Perhaps, you guys were going on a fast lane and that statement made him think and also, have conversation with his folks who might have felt with this much troubles from external influences before the wedding, he should just save his head.

Like the Yorubas will say, "Oju to ma ba ni kale, kin ti a ti owuro se pin" implying, whatever would last long doesn't stress you from inception. You both are lucky in your ways and you both should see it as each party is right with his/her decision.

I just needed to add this, in your next relationship (whether he comes back or a new relationship), remember you both are the prize and treat each other that way. If he doesn't treat you like a prize or you can't treat him as one, please, be quick to move. Don't be carried away by the people of the world who have no place in your home. Imagine some telling you to do thanksgiving when you were the one who put the wedding on hold should tell you they are like dance instructors who teaches you to dance but will never borrow you their legs to do the dance.

To those quoting me, did you notice the guy's mum didn't bother pacifying her family? Doesn't that speaks volume?

GamalNasser:
You must be a mad man