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kongolo:
Good post but @mrpaedo and @Skepticus have discussed the tradcon myth on this thread.I don't know why men seem to forget easily

Men need to realise there is no nawalt anywhere, and there is nothing like happily ever after, just blissful ignorance and willful endurance. We should not forget so easily as redpill men that a woman's word count for nothing but her actions are what we look at. We don't even need their actions since the redpill has given us a sufficient grasp of their nature.

(1) Because she says she is not a feminist doesn't mean it is true.
(2) Because she says she cares about men's issues doesn't mean it is true.
(3) Because she says she desires the downfall of gynocentrism doesn't mean it is true.
(4) During courtship/dating, because she says she would never do what other women did to their husbands in the divorce courts and take your kids away from you doesn't mean she will act differently.

Presenting herself as a nawalt doesn't mean she is a nawalt. There are no nawalt unicorns. Have you ever noticed that in western countries there have been numerous protests by women against sexism, the mythical wage gap, and so-called patriarchy, but there have never been a vigorous campaign by women against the divorce courts systems, criminal child support laws, parental alienation against fathers, and gynocentrism? Not even by the so-called traditional and conservative women and nawalt unicorns. The so-called traditional unicorns just bash feminism and rarely agree with basic redpill talking points on social media just to send out nawalt signals to unsuspecting and naive men.

The realms of relationship and male-female relation are brutal games. Because men, being idealistic lovers, don't see it as a game doesn't mean women don't see it as a game. It's all a game to a woman and they are always playing, twenty-four-seven. Their games are never hindered by morality and rationality, it's all self-centeredness and self-interest. The girl you think is different and you have committed to is running a game on you, and she can maintain her act however long it is necessary. Just like some men are better than others in sports, some women are better than other women in the game of manipulation even though all of them are formidable. Never underestimate the manipulative prowess, pettiness, subtlety and coldness of a woman's heart. Female nature is brutal and unrelenting. I rest my case.

Take it easy on the dude.

Madekreem:
;-) ;-) ;-) ;-) ;-) :-) they know nothing ....they're just trynna use the truth we know to judge our sense of wisdom capacity
but it's a pity they ve lost already

I do agree with angelfallz when it comes to not trusting women as allies (in fighting gynocentrism and feminism) or verbal sources of red pill knowledge. Knowing what we know as red pill men, and knowing how manipulative, deceitful, cunning, subtle, and cold the hearts of women can be when it comes to always pushing the female agenda, we just cannot trust any woman. I am not necessarily saying that all women are basically the same (I think they are) but you need to play safe whether or not you believe in unicorns (I don't). Men have to stop trusting women to care about men's issues and topple the toxic and brutal edifice called gynocentrism. Smart zebras cannot trust lions to care about any zebra's life.

• It's sad that men position themselves to be deceived easily by women. Because a woman says she hate feminism doesn't mean she hates feminism. Since when did we start ignoring the chameleon antics of women? A lot of smart women pose as traditional unicorns to lure unsuspecting men; a woman can maintain her chameleon act for up to 25 years or more if need be. It's all a matter of reputation.

• Some redpill men believe some women are not capable of introspection? Oh my goodness! All women are capable of introspection but they don't care about changing. Why should they change and be morally upright and ethical in the way they use men? If they did, they would compromise the benefits of gynocentrism, feminism and the benefits that comes with keeping men bluepilled (securing the bag and acquiring resources from men). So what is the need? What makes female nature all the more disappointing is that women know right from wrong but they still don't care since they are dominated by step self-centeredness and lack of sympathy when it comes to keeping men in the dark about female nature, using and discarding men, and supporting each other when no one is watching. This holds even when it is utterly unnecessary. Female nature takes no prisoners. Women understand themselves and they know that they are trash (from the ethical and moral perspective).

• To show you that women are aware of what they are doing to men, each time they want to hook a man, many of them come up with good behaviours and NAWALT talking points until after marriage or when they shit test you and see that you are willing to put up with their bullshit. Ask many Nigerian men, even ask western men where the marriage contract puts their balls in their wives' hands. Where did the act come from?

Never trust a woman. I just shake my head when I see manospheres and redpill groups permitting female attendants, why? What are they really expecting from these women? Even if you think they are genuine, does it make sense to trust people to fight against a system that benefits them? When women infiltrate redpill or MRA groups, they are not coming to aid you, their cardinal aim is to see how far we have gone in figuring them out and how they can use what we know to perpetuate the nawalt illusion and keep us in the dark. Beside, to befriend your enemies and feign sympathy for his/her troubles are effective and dangerous techniques that can destroy an enemy and keep them divided and confused. The females who claim to be allies usually recycle points that core redpillers discovered themselves but notice how they never add anything new to our knowledge base; it's all a facade.

We men need to wise up. Beware of the nawalt illusion, I don't believe in unicorns. When you start talking like a redpiller, the first thing women try to do is convince you that not all women are like that, why? They are trying to send you back to the plantation to search for a nawalt. Someone's hoe or toxic thorn in the flesh, present or past, is another person's nawalt somewhere else. The nawalt illusion is a big weak point of any redpill man. With this illusion, all a woman has to do to make you fall is present herself as a nawalt. When you believe a woman is a nawalt, you start making mistakes that simps and bluepillers make without knowing even if you think you have things under control and you have vetted her. Lol. Never underestimate the manipulative prowess, coldness and deceit of a woman. When it comes to the female agenda, even your mum will place your sisters and other women above you no matter what.

It doesn't matter her upbringing or culture, female nature is universal. It is not misogyny to have men-only spaces. Women can have their own spaces, why can't we? I leave us with this meme to ponder deeply.

Draydd:
Do you have working please?

I have. Do you want to see them?

He should have stayed at Atletico Madrid. He would have helped the club and the club would have given him his position and helped his football in return. His move to barça was a thoughtless one.

idongsky:
I have this problem… I have this girlfriend we started dating like 3month now. she broked up with her ex a month before we started. but recently she is showing some kind attitudes like: being bossy, doesn't apologize and always calling me by my name when she is upset. recently she got a new work, when I asked her why she fails to inform me about her new work, she started shouting on me. please boss help me. what do you think I should do to get my respect back.
thanks in anticipation

Haba! It is not everything you must ask; use your brain. Use your common sense. You are supposed to dump her. Over 2 billions girls in this world and you can't reconcile yourself to dumping a disrespectful girl with a bad attitude? Don't be among those trying to work things out when the titanic (relationship) is sinking. Be a man and learn to walk away.

By the way, I don't know why men are still dating and desiring marriage. Different strokes for different folks sha. You need to go monk mode, work on improving yourself no matter what you have achieved, and keep swallowing more red pill. You only live once so start using your brain so you don't waste it on people that are not worth it.

NB: those arguing about the trinity should stop. Someone, a Christian, is even arguing against a bible verse. This is not the thread for religious matters. Stop!

Draydd:
Yes equivalent force is simply moment, but the answers vary due to calculator errors and +- errors etc that's why I wanna compare with other solutions

Well, the moment at O is M = (265/√345) i + (424/√345) j

The magnitude of this moment is 53√(89/345)kNm ≈ 26.919kNm.

Draydd:
Noted

Are you seeking the moment at point O?

kokaneprodigy:
I was disgusted reading that post

That guy needs 41 hot slaps.

gideonite98:
Kissed my close friend even though you claimed and showed she was crushing on me.
Then I asked her out and she did not stopped kissing my friend even while I was in the same room with both of them and baba even finger her.so I got mad but she try to put the blame on me and stuff but to cut the story short we sha made up.
She's too clingy to different guys including my friends and that makes me madder than a wet hen but she will be like "it's nothing"but I too love her back then sha.
Also whenever we fight or have a break she quickly moves on to have another bf and when we get back together she claims she have broken up with the guy.
Texting another guy and telling him "I love you" next to me and when i tried to talk she came with her defensive line of "what nau it is nothing" and I felt guilty and apologized.
Then I wooed her with a different account and she accepted so that made us broke up and that was when I started getting to know her secrets. I did not know I was dating a porn star for different niggers but still I tried to beg her but she refused saying I have know too much of her secret but months after ignoring me and embarrassing me she came back and mumu me still accepted her back because I loved her with my soul and strength until we finally broke up because of another stuff so I just decided even if the heart break will kill me I won't beg her and thank God the pain was too much to bare but here I am happy and sharing memes on social media .
So those red flags I ignored will be my next guide lines in my next relationship.

Have your parents disowned you?

A very stupid and childish individual.

N2B2:
Where do I start? My mumu was too much.

1.) She argued hotly that there was nothing wrong "hanging out" with her many male friends, even if it's in their houses.

2.) SHE ONCE ASKED ME FOR PERMISSION TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER DUDE.

3.) When her ex broke up with her, he warned me that she wasn't to be trusted.

She ended up cheating on me with more people than I could count. After wasting 7 years with her, I learned that the key to exiting toxic relationships is to love yourself and remember your worth, else you're finished!

How we go take reason this matter?

EbukaHades10:
I don tire, aje.


Wetin be all this na?

Please be calming down.

Kranediggy:
You can't blame people who they have scammed, there's nothing there. Those guys can be very convincing o!

Desperation is a powerful tool.

Mokason28:
Because Christianity is a peaceful religion you are here talking.
Do you think that there are no false Malam out there..... Can you come out and talk about a Malam either fake or real?

The OP mentioned no particular religion.

CAPSLOCKED:
LEAVE AM. BECAUSE NA FOOD I COME THIS WORLD TO COME CHOP.
SOME OF THEM SEE PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM AND THINK WE'RE ALL IRRELEVANT KIDS.
ABOUT THE FOOD AND ROOF THING I WAS IN MY TEENS WHEN I STARTED FENDING FOR MYSELF BECAUSE I WOULDN'T BOW TO ANYBODY FOR CRUMBS. THIS ONE IS HERE TALKING NONSENSE.

It is lamentable when a grown adult male thinks chidishly like that.

Blue pill programming of the mind starts at a very young age.

Why won't armed robbers be happy when their greatest competitor (SARS) are no more?

LordReed:
I don't know what he wants us to do with this. Some pastors have left the faith does that persuade him?

Don't mind him. He is a shameless fellow. There is no length he wouldn't go to make himself a laughing stock.

You suddenly reminded me of michellekabod2.

Hope you know atheism hasn't disappeared.


^{Budaatum, LordReed, CAPSLOCKED}

Your case is a sad one. I hope against incredible odds that you come out on top in the things of life.

Is it by force?

DenreleDave:

He never sabi anything.

God is nonexistent. If you are not dead, it just means you are not dead.

An obvious scam. Anyone who falls for this is a confirmed itibolibo.

angelfallz:
After cheating the man should now ask her how he can win her back. Wow just wow.

Common sense is not common.

PhonesGadgets:
Who need your helping hand? ....you sound like you can help or you're experienced and have the right advice. Someone like you just want to hear my story and mock me. You really make me laugh

You are starting to sound like a man. You don't owe anyone an explanation. Simpletoñs who would try to somehow attribute blame to you for your wife's behaviour should be ignored. Simpletòns who would insinuate that you must have done something to your wife or your story is false until we hear your wife's side of the story should be ignored.

I hope you have a great night and you do the needful. I wish you utmost peace.

davidhobo:
Go and do DNA for those kids first. Then come back

@PhonesGadgets

PhonesGadgets:
You have good point despite the fact that some of your words are so rude. But yeah I need all the scolding I can get to make me take the giant step.

I hope you take the giant step. Marriage is not an excuse to be miserable, you only have one life to live. Don't let an undeserving woman rob you of your peace of mind and happiness.

Am not a fool.I only have the future and wellbeing of my children at heart. I love my children a whole lot and just don't want to deprive them of motherly love for life because of my selfish interest. I wanted the children to grow a little more older before sending her away. But we stopped sleeping in same room and also stopped relating like husband and wife. She just there in her room and am in seperate home in the same flat and also the children in seperate room.

Oga, it is enough that the children already know their mother. If possible, when you divorce her, keep the children and allow her free visitation. Do not be responsible for her needs and wants anymore. Let her fend for herself and handle her issues.

I remember when I visited a neuropsychiatric clinic some years back as a student. During the orientation (which happens before people start their treatment and see the doctor), a staff was giving mental health tips and advice on things to avoid and how ensure a healthy and sound mind and have peace during treatment. As he exhorted people to stay away from hard drugs, alcohol, and other psychoactive addictive substances, he said something that will forever remain in my memory. He said and I quote, "if you are married and your wife is giving you problems and torturing you mentally, dump her. It's better to have your peace of mind and mental health than to endure a toxic woman." He said this firmly and repeated himself over and over even though the women and simps in attendance screamed "AH!" Are you telling me that the expert doesn't know what he is saying and hasn't seen many cases to make this his point? The emotional and mental abuse and heartache that many men are facing from their wives can just be solved by a divorce. Men need to learn how to put themselves first. YOLO. Do fall for the scam that marriage is a point of return or a do-or-die thing. Learn to walk away. Peace.

Tunagee:
Am sorry, I disagree with your advice. She specifically told him she is in love with someone else, so what the Bleep is he discussing with her. The only thing he needs to do is put the conversation in a phone recorder for reference purpose. A woman will always be foolish at one point or the other in her life. Let her go bro! Try take care of your kids. The idiot deceiving her gullible brain will soon be done with her cos no man ever respects any woman who leaves her matrimonial home. She go cry come back to you, but I beg you, NEVER ACCEPT HER BACK!!!!!!

I don't know what most modern men have turned into. An overwhelming majority of them lack common sense when it comes to women and family life. How the OP can be confused on what to do baffles me. How can someone say a man should sit down with a bold cheating wife and talk things out? What sort of nonsense and arrant stùpidity is that? How can someone be stupid enough to think he can negotiate genuine desires? Why stoop so low and present yourself like a big fool to your wife?

A woman has no respect for you, she doesn't desire you anymore (that's if she ever desired you), her utter disrespect was manifested in her boldness in cheating, your wealth has declined and OP doesn't know what to do? Gosh! What the fùck men! Did it not occur no the op that a divorce is the appropriate thing here?

I rest my case. This matter weak me gan.

PhonesGadgets:
Yes....she said she has needs I can't meet right now... Am enable to supply the family needs. But I try ...Heaven knows I try to make the family happy

End the union. That's all I can say. If you don't want a divorce and you are looking for ways to "settle and talk things out," I am sorry for you and you are beyond help. Activate your brain and do the needful. I rest my case with you.

Ishilove:
Pele o. Internet psychologist, you have already diagnosed the problem from the Op's vague concise and precise statement.

fixed.

PhonesGadgets:
38years of age

Oga, go and swallow the red pill. Your pot of gold (money) has reduced. By the way, why can't you divorce her?