₦airaland Forum

Well all i can see there is Gej and mama peace,

4stylz:
What is this one saying ; do you have records of the wife been a bad woman? Or have you taken her out before? If you havent pls just mind your buisness and let them enjoy their marriage ; the oni love life is non of your buisness

You should be more concerned in what he doing for your people

mind your business wont work for me or Yoruba people, they dont give you a title to bear by force, you can reject it, if you looking for evidence, Google is your friend,internet never forget, he is a public figure, spiritual leader of the Yorubas just like the pope to the Europeans, what he does, what he eats everything is my fo0cking business, Just like Buhari.

Einl:
What made me laugh about this sad story was the quote below.

"Andrew added that no sooner had he given the advice to
the victim than she started touching him in some sensitive
parts of his body, after which he quickly stripped his
clothes and had carnal knowledge of her."

He quickly stripped off his clothes. This is a few seconds after giving her advice.

me too.

Joygalore:
I am on nairaland

ouch a female chauvinist.... sad. but dont mind nairaland peeps most of them are tribal ethnic and religious tolerant in real life.

4stylz:
Focus on being a good woman without controversies and please always mind your bizness

if she is Yoruba its her business, the ooni is thr spiritual custodian of most Yoruba tribes, what kind of respect will he be accorded by non Yorubas with an olori like that?

Joygalore:
I am just here to check names and was crestfallen
Nairaland has really turned me to a tribal chauvinist

you cant be a chauvinist when your dp says you are a female medical practitioner.

TPAND:
TOMPOLO is way too rich to be hiding in the creeks. This report is fake. This is conjured by insular minds that have not travelled out of the southwest. They don't hide in creeks.

Many south western persons don't even have an imaginary picture of what a creek looks like, if you know, then you will agree to what am saying.

Tompolo has a private jet, has a private island, has investments in 5 countries. He made well over $2.5billion from legal contracts awarded to him by NIMASA. You think with all this, creek is where he will choose to live. Sambisa forest is bigger than the creeks. One area surveillance will bring out hide outs of the militants.

wetin south westerners do you for Christ sake?

ladyF:
Na here all these guys go die put today. Lol.. Please take note, OP said without spending much o, not that you will not spend anything at all, you gats drop something for us...

Don't mind dettol advert o, if you don't take care of her, someone else will.

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

funny detol advert tho, anyway this is why Some of us that have dated girls from other countries both Africans and Caucasians generally have problems with Nigerian girls, and to be honest its not you guys fault, its we the Nigerian men we go overboard to buy the world for you guys, a guy spending money on you does not mean you are special in his mind, heck he is doing that to six other girls out there, if you dont take care of her some one else will, yes Her Parents should take care of her and she should work to take care of herself, and if she is still a student she should wait till she starts making a living before she clutch an I Phone, or a hair worth 100k.
We don over spoil Naija girls tbh.

Spicycat:
You're right bro am not, just stay out of my dp please.

sure"bro" God bless your hustle.

Spicycat:
It's not me, it's you

you cant be the one in that picture

oyb:
The sad demise of nl and Nigeria.
Once upon a time, professionals, even consultants from the project would be slugging it out, showing detailed breakdowns, CBAs, Stakeholder issues etc.

Today we have semi literate simpletons using puerile arguments.

Does the Ethiopia metro pass through a developed area?
Is it the exact same scope?

The project is ultimately supervised by the world bank

it actually passed through a developed area, but most people on this thread refused to note that more than half of the Lagos rail line is elevated and there is brt corridor and a ten lane road project in it, not forgetting the houses the government had to pay for.

Konnektions146:
OP,

I guess yu are not sure of what you just wrote.

Call 10 GTBANK staff and ask them in confidence and you see they are working because work no dey.

Promotion in GTBANK now is something undesirable, alot oof staff on a particular grade for 6 years and no hope pf promotion

GTBANK has not done any salary review in the past 5 years,

When Uncle T. was alive, allowances and bonuses were flying like no man business and staff working with passion, now nothing is paid

Even as little as profit sharing is a priviledge

only your salary and a meagre leave allowance (10% of basic and not 10% of gross)

that bank is living on past glory

one Admin officer now to manage min. of 5 branches, what would the others do?.....they just let them go last week.

more "lettiing go" would happen in GTBANK this year.

wondered why their staff are becoming increasingly aggressive,=---== no zeal to work cos no motivation

Oga Segun need to get his acts right

now this is someone well informed.

People will hardly read before they comment on a post, i just read about the disease although Not the 1st time hearing about it, a guy walked to create awareness about it, now i know better, it can happen to anyone,this is not a case of fake drug, alot of drugs can trigger it, and no cure.

MXrep:
Oil producing part of ondo state is Ijaw land while oil producing part of rivers in igboland. secondly, oil producing is different from availability of oil, FG decides where to explore and you know their fear of siting critical national assets in the east for fear of secession

let ilaje people catch you.

greatgod2012:
Lol........

Very funny!


op, most marriages that ends with divorce are usually embittered. It is out of that bitterness that makes one to prefer walking away or the two agreeing to go their separate ways.

Many people who got divorced do not really wish they're divorcée, they probably can't take it again, they've been probably pushed to the wall, hence, their resort to separation/divorce.


90% of divorcee are not happy being divorced, but they take consolation in "being divorced is better than being dead", hence, their choice.


Now, that being said, if the measures you put up there are to be adopted, first remember that no one actually loves to celebrate failure, unhappiness, unfulfillment. No one will want people to know that he/she has failed in that area, no one will want to spend money on what do not make them happy.


However, as you have opined, if the govt should make such laws as you have recommended, it may truly bring sanity to the marital institution, but not totally, because some people after being totally fed up with the marriage, will instead kill himself, or the spouse or both than celebrating divorce.




In a nutshell, if govt should put up these measures, there will be so many horrible stories of spouses killing themselves.

My own suggestion............ if your marriage is or has become life-threatening, simply walk out before it is too late. It is only when one is alive that such can remain married.
May God help us.

finally someone with brain.

Mods are, killing nairaland with irrelevant news about yobos, what the hell is this doing on front page for God's sake.

Lanjonath:
You'll upgrade the system to a hybrid system, it's a quick, straight forward process. However an engineer will have to visit your site because the inverter DC input Voltage is very necessary to the Solar Panel configuration.

thanks

pragmatistm:
Do you want to do it yourself or you need professional service?

both depending on the cost.

For people that av inverters already plus batteries, how can We connect solar panels and at what cost, mine is su kam, 1, 5kv inverter am not so sure the configuration.

Aniwhyte:
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You Yorubas are very funny, so you think the refinary Dangote is building its going to run with Lagos oil... Smh, Refinary dangote has already started building a very long time before oil was discovered in Lagos.
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If they should discover oil in all the local gov't in Lagos state and Ondo state combined, it will not even near a finger tip of the least producing oil state in the s/s(south south). Its like 5/5,000 in comparision.

how are you so sure of that, Equitorial Geniue with a population of 1. 3Million produce 360, 000 barrels per day, thats one eight of Nigerian production, oip was discovered in 1996, plus dangote will most likely buy his crude oil at international price, meaning if people like let them bomb the pipeline sending crude to the refinery, he can always buy from abroad at the same price, the largest refinery in world is in india, no oil field around it.

Pavarottii:
Lol, nice idea. But collect tax from who na. Person wey never chop or him business or coy is already in debt?

tax those in business, pay salaries, use the rest buy farm inputs,get extension workers for agric tell the ones not working to come at work at government platations, 5 mechanized plantation in every lga, more people working, more tax paid gdp growth, produce exports or consumed locally, its not rocket science, oil boom has made govt and the people lazy and uncreative.

Pavarottii:
Please give me a solution if u were in his shoes?
Thanks

a solution, turn 3/4 of the civil service force in to tax collectors spread th all over the state to collect tax, our tax system is the main problem, we dont pay tax in Nigeria.

Are this ppl alright? who cares.

Is this, for real? the intended account receiver should just get a lawyer and make serious money from this, displaying her account details is a major Bleep up

SLIDEwaxie:
the govt already ruled out dialogue..

What I want u guys to do is throw a bomb at the crowd at the ogoni cleanup inauguration or much more worse.

All the propaganda dt u killed 12 soldiers and blew pipes admist soldier presence will clear for ur eyes when ur region is turned into a war torn zone!

am yoruba please don't let people develop unnecessary hate towards us with your comment. Let them shutdown oil wells, the states bankrupt. maybe we can go back to true federalism.

Kherry:
By d tym u realize tym no dy ur syd u wil follow any man dat cums ur way

my apologies, because time is not on your side, will you make yourself miserable for the rest of your life? Will you follow a madman cos of time?

EzeNri:
The amendment moved it to the National Assembly. Moving it to the Judiciary is tantamount to having it within the Presidency.

how? cant they have it under the NJC? the national assembly is really a problematic institution, better still make it independent like inec and cbn.

tchaik:
It is high time. I guess the Saraki situation made them to sit up. Even the so called amendment is not complete yet. The Tribunal should totally be under the Judiciary and not the Presidency.

but They put it under the N/A

erico2k2:
As you can see,you could not name one tangeable thing he has to sone to reduce poverty in Nigeria. In finance, defence or agriculture.

oga park well abeg, I need a more cerebral mind to do this with, yes you win.