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Sebastine1994:
I hate to brag

We spoke recently, he told me himself, everything, I wouldn't say more than I should, even before the everything happened.

I just believe nobody is indespensible

mariahAngel:
One question I'd like to ask him; was going into drug trafficking worth losing your freedom and everything eventually?
What a waste of life!

Kobojunkie:
1. So, even though neither God nor Jesus Christ said any of what you claim, you are convinced your ignorance of the Truth of God serves as some sort of excuse for the lie you told using their names?

2. But Jesus Christ, the God of Christians, never said that one can be led to lust by another. And He certainly never imposed any laws as far as dress code. So, when you claim the Holy Spirit said or Jesus Christ said, you sin against God.

3. You are kidding, right?

Kobojunkie:
1. Now you resort to lying? Where did Jesus Christ say what you claim?

2. The holy spirit said this? Why are you lying? You are actually lying against the Holy Spirit too?

3. That's another thing, in the Kingdom of God, no man has the right to insist on what another man can or should do. So assuming she is Christian, all the more reason why no butthead should tell her anything since Jesus Christ made clear that He alone is the one and only Teacher to those who belong to Him - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10.

Kobojunkie:
He has no point since Jesus Christ did not send anyone out to use His name in monitoring or enforcing a dress code on anyone else.

Kobojunkie:
Seems every Nigerian attention who0re these days is under the impression that all that is necessary to trend is to put pastor title in front of name. Give this one Hilda for a girlfriend now and he will move heaven and hell to please her. Nonsense!

Rayban25:
If we say women are not capable of being logical all of them will be crying..just look at

PoliteActivist:
What feat?
OP can you please patiently explain this "record" to me without insult?
Record usually implies EXCELLED in something - did something better than everyone else, or did something no other person can do.
ANY Shaolin monk and some men can cook three times longer than Hilda did.
Please patiently explain without insult

PaulOtl:
I have said what I have said, aunty. And you there forcing a narrative on me as if...

Your talk is just too long and unecessary, for reals.
Again, at the emboldened Typical Nigerian female reasoning when a man doesn't care if he loses them and the kids. How are you so sure, even...don't answer that.
DO NOT CARE IF SOCIETY LAUGHS AT ME. I am wired differently. I'm so glad I'm a man and I can stand my ground on what I decide to do, so long as it brings me peace.

PaulOtl:
At the emboldened words...It would be as easy as taking candy from a white kid for me. I will do it in a heartbeat.
I have no time for nonsense. You cheat, I catch you, you go. You and your kids. You can keep them if they want to follow you. Let them keep remembering why you left my life and house.
Raise then yourself, or take them to your cheater accomplice.
That way, she doesn't stress my life and make me annoyed whenever I see what my seed and her ovaries produced, side-by-side.

Gboom:
The bottom line is if your husband cheats on you, you will cheat back and society will blame you

policy12:
Just imagine the woman still dey alive to continue the real reason he committed suicide for.

He could av go with the judgement of the elders and move on with his life, though not easy but no woman is worth killing ones self for or commiting murder for.


Same issue happened in Kaduna about two years ago, the lecturer shot himself after discovered that his three children are not his. He shot the woman which she survived and shot himself, guess what she has relocated to USA now and the man his 6ft below the ground.


Men don't kill bcuz of infidelity, man up and move on with ur life.

Fuckyoumod:
African men reserves the right to multiple wives. It's our culture and tradition. African women are forbidden from opening their legs to another man after marriage.

If you don't like it, [b]go to court [/b]and please don't marry an African man. Relocate to U.K where men don't marry more than a wife.

Ever8090:
This things hurts but I am not sure it is enough to commit murder and suicide at the same time..

HeartlessMan:
I support the beating.
Women need discipline.

Samantha124:
I don't know, but that's just me... I don't see myself raising someone else's child unless it's my niece or nephew because I'm biologically related to them.

When it comes to love, I can be selfish... I wouldn't want to share my love for my husband with another woman's baby.

And I don't expect some random woman to also raise my kids, unless she's biologically related to them because me and my family have got this close bond... I'm very close to my nephews, nieces, and sisters, and I love them so much.

That's why I've made a decision not to date baby daddies, I've even told my fiance that if he dares to have a baby outside of the relationship, I'm gone... I wouldn't care if we have 10 kids or been married for 20 years, it's over.

Once I find out that a guy has a baby, I run and never look back..

richie240:
Most definitely there are exceptions to this 'rule' but those exceptions are outliers. Just as u ursef have fathomed, over 80% of the female folks (to be modest) reason that way.

Females generally are territorial by nature. The average woman (majority but not all ) wont mind having all her nine siblings plus cousins plus nieces and nephews staying permanently with her in her matrimonial home, but once a relative of the husband (just one o) cones to spend just the weekend with his brother, u go begin see drama.

Sixfeetbelle:
Do you love every child you've ever met?

Can you honestly swear you can love unequivocally any child you'll ever meet in your lifetime?

Would you adopt kids over having your own biological ones were your husband to allow that?


I don't need sentences. Yes or no would do just fine.

Samantha124:
This is the reason why I made a decision not to date baby daddies and I never wish for my kids to be left in the hands of a step mother if one day I leave this Earth earlier than expected.

I wouldn't want to end up hating someone else's child in the name of being a step mother and I also wouldn't want my kids to also suffer in the hands of a step mother.

Why couldn't you wait for at least 5 years before getting married again? Because most women don't like raising kids that they're not biologically related to and I'm sure you know about this as it's very common here in Africa.

richie240:
No overthinkam, na female nature be dt.
Your dota too will most likely hate any child of his man (husband/bf) so long as d pikin didnt enter ds world thru her vagina.

Na their way be dt!

Wickedfacts:
Look at this weak fool. Someone who you married recently is maltreating your blood and you're asking for advice online. I don't know the kind of idiots we have as men these days.

Send that woman back to her parents house let her get the home training she missed.

yomi007k:
Wow.

What's their recommendation?

greenermodels:
I salute you my person, nothing is more refreshing and energising when long at work than a cold Pepsi.

greenermodels:
where is my own portion of the fried rice?

SyrusdeHansome:
That doesn't mean she must sleep around na. I blame the man 4 not marrying her officially but will never blame him 4 the woman's deliberate sin

obinna58:

Their general trait na confusion

SyrusdeHansome:
Cohabiting for good 22 yrs shows that both of them are irresponsible nd how shameless some women of now adays are. To her the only way to offset her debts is thro sleeping with other men. May God deliver us frm this kinda women

greenermodels:
Women would always plead lack of care as excuse for cheating, why not leave the husband so she would be free to live as she want? I hate it when cheating partners tries to shift the blame of their actions on others.

EriMma1:
He's falling for her money. Oponu. With her recent past record, no reasonable and sensible man would want to have anything to do with the public dog.