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Nnamdipapa:
Do not listen to op, live your life at your own pace and never compare yourself to others. Rather you should compare your present self to your past to ensure you are making consistent progress. I bought my first car at 22 and also bought for my dad the same day. I bought a 33,000ltr petroleum tanker for Ago business before 30 but still I do not diminish or look down on the struggles of individuals who do not have same opportunities I had in Nigeria. I was merely lucky to work good multinationals from my early 20ies.

Live your life at your own pace, try to be better every day in some form and take care of your health. Do not feel bad if you do not have a car or house at 35, you understand your own struggles the best. Life is a rat race and none of us is coming out of this race alive.

Starz825:
Its a serious issue tbh

even relationship is not the way they used to be now

i have come to notice a thing

men should also learn how to live alone

for some women...its not always abt that the man doesnt have money to offer them.

its about her ego, pride, beauty, money, her hunger for independence from a man.


Once a woman is pretty and rich and probably has a child or 2........SHE WANTS INDEPENDENCE!!

Most women are still with their hubby cos may be they are poor, cant bisect life alone and all... not really cos they love their hubby


The bible says :

when a man finds a wife, he finds favor before the lord.

do you know what this means : woman wey go dey with you till the end scarce (all things being equal; no health issues, no bad finances/investment). but if you are lucky to have that woman; bible say you have found favor from God.

for God to have related this with favor ...thats to tell you, its not a regular/common thing. its an uncommon favor. Only few will get it.

See how bad Queen Vasti treated a whole king in the book of Esther before she was banished like a plague so she wont be a bad example to other women in the province.

God so good, a humble Esther came in to replace the proud queen. For every stubborn/proud Vasti, there is a humble Esther somewhere... Even the Royal King didnt get it right until his second marriage...omooh

ewa20buredi100:
I love your perspective and the way your mind works

I followed this thread from page 1 to this very last page all because I wanted to see the very last of your contribution.

I love the way you handled your mentions, without having to resort to the use of abusive and derogatory words; though at a point I thought you were going to lose your cool.

Highly impressive.

You are very intelligent, respectful and open-minded.
Keep it up.

I am in love already.

Ingriid:
A special good evening to you.

I followed the thread cos of you and Crlomo.
You have really schooled everyone that cares to listen. Weldone!

Take your trophy jare!

numericalguy:
You are a very very dangerous person to women with your wicked and evil lies.

Women fertility declines rapidly once they clock 30 years
You may think you are attacking men but you are damaging women far more by making them to believe everything will be alright even when they are above 30 years.

cr7lomo:
After doing IVF ...ur gran ma must be Sarah in the bible ...

cr7lomo:
U have Google to help u instead of allowing ur emotions to get a better of u like every typical woman when facts are thrown at them and they are loosing.... at 30 , women loose 90% of their eggs ....I never said they can't get pregnant again, but at 30 the chances reduces drastically.... at 35 , the pregnancy could become geriatric.... it becomes even more difficult to conceive....not like it will become impossible..... but for men , it doesn't slow down, its still same like their teen years and 20s ... it remains same uptil their 80s , as long as he's healthy.... my uncle lost his only son at 73 , his son was 38 when he died... he had to marry another woman to bare him a son as his wife was aboutv60 at that time ... the new wife that was 24 when she married him, conceived within 3 months of the marriage and still gave birth to a 2nd 2 yrs later.... so this ur a man's sperm declines is just in ur head .... Trump is 78 while his last kid Baron is 18.... do the maths .... I remember the late fatai rolling dollars impregnating his 26yr old girlfriend at the age of 82 many years ago....as long as a man is healthy, he can impregnate a woman ( depending on the health issues ) ...but for a woman , even if she's the healthiest person on earth., once she reaches 40.... e don be

cr7lomo:
Madam ...stop deceiving urself....men sperms don't decline even at 70 ...as long as his healthy and lifestyle is not compromised negatively.... how many women can naturally give birth easily after 35.... Ned still impregnated Regina at 70.... a man sperms quality never declines a long as he's healthy .... feminists are just bitter and decided to throw lies cos they think everything na competition.... God has naturally blessed man to b able to father a child even at 80 .... men no de get low quality sperm unless he has health issues ....

cr7lomo:
Men hardly marry women in their 30s ...did she consider the biological factor ?? At 30 women loose 90% of their eggs and at 35yrs she could have serious problems conceiving

DyshApp:
A young lady who identifies as a Christian woman has advised her fellow women to make enough money and desist from getting married in their 20s

In the video she posted, Faithful Femininity advised Christian women to stay away from early marriage especially when they can’t cater for themselves.

The young lady advised Christian women in their 20s to desist from getting married when they make enough money.

Her words: “As a Christian woman, I have decided that my 20s are not for marriage. My 20s are to make money. Christian women stop entering into marriage so early.”

”Go and make money. You don’t have a dime in your account. God and find a way to make money. In 20s, in your 30s, go and make money. Stop following men around. Some of you are doing Hallelujah Challenge and wearing bridal gowns.


“Have you made money? Like, I will not enter a marriage without money. And I’m talking about multiple sources of steady income. I’m not that kind of Christian woman that will enter her husband’s house with nothing in her account. God forbid. My 20s now na to work hard. My 20s is to make wealth.”

Smile4mee01:
I'm a single 39yr old Nigeria guy in diaspora trying to settle down and going to Nigeria to marry is not an option.

I'm an introvert who has been through some childhood trauma in my family and really fear marriage because of what I have seen and how bad it can be sometimes.

However, an old female friend and colleague of mine who we worked together in Nigeria and now in canada recently contacted me and she is also single and not had children. She is doing well for herself and now a citizen there while I'm not. A part of me is concerned about

1. Fertility : I desire children. However, can she have me healthy children @ 39. How many can she have? I discussed us trying for a child , she appears to want a.marriage first. But what gurantees do I have to have children.


Should I be concerned? I dont want to enter one chance.



Please I use God beg you, no insults just advice. Abeg. God bless you.

cr7lomo:
Are u so misinformed not to know that women are more violent that men...just cos it's mostly unreported.... just look at the number of. Female teachers that are arrested and charged daily in the USA for child rape .... if men start to report the violence that they receive from women, u will find out that 95% of women are violent.... just look at Natashas conduct....imagine if she was in the house and was disrespected by a weaker person , she will unleash violence, all because women can't control their emotions.... men will go to war for a reason...women will go to war just for intimidation.... that's what ur gender is .... women don't have love in them , reason they never uplift anyone.... imagine if men were like women , hunger for don kill una finish

cr7lomo:
He is absolutely right.... women should not be given power , they can't handle it, reason they maim and kill maids ....women love to go violent against those that are weaker than them .... u talk about women being silenced ...women like the fool we just watched and Natasha.... I'm happy that the world is gradually seeing how evil women are .... soon no one will care if a woman suffers domestic violence or sexual harassment claims ... una don use una hand kill una self

Yugoslavia247:
Never give a woman power.

They cant handle it

pussyphilia:
WOW

That's a real woman there! Good that she knows how to discipline him and make him conform to her standards.

More African ladies should learn how to be like her!

Antwan99:
No!

How many of them.

Who brought the codes idea? Women only studied.

Antwan99:
How many of them. It can never be without the guidance of a bunch of men. Go check!

Antwan99:
No!

Biological make-up is the fundamental determining factor. Women were not, won't and never make complex technical and scientific constructs.

Antwan99:
No!

Due to better connections between the left and right side of the brains, girls are better at verbal creativity like for example, in language and arts.

Conversely, due to a seemingly greater engagement of one side of the brain in boys generally, they may have better efficacy in science-related analysis and problem-solving.

I was only casual and stating the obvious universal facts in my first post.

But trust me, if you really wish to shift or allocate blame, it must then go as far back as creation and not society.

Antwan99:
You got it all wrong.

Have you ever observed when kids of less than 7yrs old from rural settings play?

The female kids' interests are always in the less complex patterns. The male kids right at this stage are already innovating and building complex patterns.

Antwan99:
Can it be without men?

No technology
No phones
No computers
No cars
No aeroplanes
No houses
No money
No roads
No bridges
No beverages (only kunu & zobo).
Lots more...

Without women is just no new babies🤑

AfeezShomorin:
They only get tired if the guy looks hungry

fineboynl:
I thought women are happy when a guy approached them.

RealityKings1:
Keep your long boring explanation to yourself
Not interested

RealityKings1:
If someone asks for your number, you can tell them no instead of deliberately giving them a wrong number. So obviously you are too childish to stand your ground. That aside