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SmartManJoe:
I am writing this post from the deepest depths of my heart. I am not trying to insult or vilify Nigerian women, I am only speaking from experience.

I returned to Nigeria two years ago after living in the United States for over a decade, and ever since, I have been actively searching for a wife. At first, I was a bit naive, thinking it would be easy, but I have come to realize that most of the beautiful women I meet are either into "runs" or for the streets.

Let me be clear, money is not my problem. I am the head of a major company in Lagos, and I am ready to take care of my wife in every way possible. However, finding the right woman has been a struggle. Many ladies nowadays prioritize the wrong things, and I am tired of meeting the wrong ones. Every beautiful girl I meet is either a low key runs girl or very irresponsible. I don't want to be with a girl that clubs. I don't want to be with a girl that smokes and I don't want to be with a girl that keeps friends who spend nights out partying 3 times a week. I don't want to be with a girl that dresses scantily. I simply want a responsible girl that is good looking. Is that too much to ask?

That’s why I am turning to my fellow Nairalanders for help. If you know a lady who meets the following criteria, kindly recommend her to me:

Age: 23-30
Looks: Beautiful and not short
Body Type: Slim and preferably busty (I am very attracted to busty women)
Character: Responsible, well-mannered, and properly dressed
Education: Should speak good English and

To encourage serious recommendations, I will pay ₦50,000 for every relevant suggestion.
If you have someone in mind, please contact me via joetheman869@gmail.com
Make sure to include:
-A picture or a link to her social media so I can see what she looks like
-Her phone number or contact info so I can reach out and speak with her
- Your account number so I can send the money to you.

I trust the Nairaland community to help me find the right woman. I am looking for something serious, not games.

Looking forward to your suggestions. Thanks!

PressMyButton:
Why must it be after Ramadan?, Why must you put the lives of people on hold for 5 weeks because of Ramadan?



CAN wants fairness, they pay taxes that runs those schools, they're speaking for their kids in those schools. You should rather stop playing God, putting the lives of our kids on hold because of a religious doctrine. How would you feel if the reverse was the case. I hate nonsense.

Ebbysegun:
This piece of news is totally fake, Gov Ademola Adeleke is prudent and very sensitive to the plight of Osun people. If the state has this amount of money to throw around, Gov Adeleke will rather direct such to paying backlog of salaries and pensions owed by previous administrations like he has been doing.

Disregard this completely please.

cr7lomo:
Madam. Get sense na.... ... People gym for health reasons ... go and Google the meaning of a narcissist.... anyone that's obsessed with their looks ...that's what a narcissist is...

At bolded ...what do stated is fact ... if u are wired to think that it means hate for women, then u also prove my point that u guys are never logical .... the gender that is known for not hold themselves accountable for their bad behaviour.... Natasha has still not apologised ...typical woman ....they never accept fault ... Akpabio did same years ago and when he realised , he apologises to his colleagues and the SP saraki ... but look at this one ... first time ever being elected, she don de do like market woman... what a gender

cr7lomo:
Hahaha... once a man goes against a woman, he's a narcissist, he's a misogynist , his controlling...the next u hear is " he sexually assaulted me" hahaha...madam, una don cast ... for every woman hater , there are 10 men haters , most women are misandrists , extremely controlling, reason u can't control ur emotions when jealous, and psychopathic narcissist, reason that one de wear shades whenever she speaks to the press like say she be Abacha.... narcissists are those that will do anything to look good to their satisfaction, na who de post pictures for social media pass , no be woman ?? Same will use make up, do BBL...anyone that's obsessed with attention is a narcissist, and that's what women are known for ....

cr7lomo:
U don't get it...the major problem with most women is when there's a real situation, they really don't know how to face adversity.... and it's because men always come to their rescue, so they really don't know how to deal with troubles.... how she acted with the seating arrangements is the problem men have with women....always acting irrational, especially with trival issues ...

cr7lomo:
It's absolutely a gender issue cos women are Known to act irrational and immature when things don't go her way ...

cr7lomo:
It's absolutely a gender issue cos women are Known to act irrational and immature when things don't go her way ...

cr7lomo:
Ndi woke 😂🤣😂.... men are wiser now....liars forming activists ... stood up for her delusional self and her delusional fools ... stand for herself for acting immature like most of u women , always acting b4 thinking like bunch of 10yr old ... stand for herself for breaking the house rules and putting it in disrepute ...more evidence that women leadership is a no no , more reason why women will never be allowed to get that stupid bill of having a number of them in senate.... mumu gender , una no de know when una de even do una sef....lol... she will be suspended and later kicked out of senate and replaced by a man

cr7lomo:
We don't need Natashas .... once a woman has money , she becomes disrespectful and arrogant

cr7lomo:
We don't need Natashas .... once a woman has money , she becomes disrespectful and arrogant

COOL10:
That's always the excuse they give when men no longer want them because of their disgusting, condescending, silly, rude attitudes. They should get ready to remain single and lonely for the rest of their miserable lives. Men don't need marriage; Women do!!!!

COOL10:
That's always the excuse they give when men no longer want them because of their disgusting, condescending, silly, rude attitudes. They should get ready to remain single and lonely for the rest of their miserable lives. Men don't need marriage; Women do!!!!

essentialone:
Apart from sleeping with men, what else can a lady do to own Billions?

AllBlack:
So we should ban WHATEVER is not in the Bible? How about you start with your phones and school degrees. Oh let's not forget your television, freezer and generator plus your car.
What an idiot.

brain54:
Can you date a younger man...?

Odingo1:
Una nodey hear word, my mouth is not smelling. I never have mouth odour. She said is a phobia she developed at teenage age that I can confirm from her ex if she ever agreed to kiss him.

Hellisreal70:
It's not by force to kiss.
So far she is not kissing any other person.
Abi na kissing go make her get belle ni?

Jman06:
She might even have other guys he's dying to kiss but denying you. Our girls need reorientation about kissing. I don't know the kind of mgbeke girls we're having nowadays! You can't claim to love someone without desiring to kiss them. Kissing is impulsive when you are with someone you truly love

brain54:
I had this boss one time...

The very first day I met him I thought he was a driver because of the way he was dressed...he came down from his car with worn out pam sandals and a slacked round necked lopo(not polo) he came with his well dressed and pleasant looking friend so I assumed his friend was the boss, even though I greeted both of them warmly.

This boss of mine hardly spent money on him self... If we had gigs outside kaduna he would buy tickets for staff to travel by air,while he would go and board those luxurious busses and arrive a day later. Infact some one even said he never paid for a seat but would pay for standing so when a passenger dropped along the way he would sit.

This is a man that had wealth and could afford most things if he wanted.

I never really gave much thoughts to his actions but like most have stated on this thread I agree that it could be poverty mentality tied in inferiority complex. This man came from a humble background and built his business from scratch. Maybe he felt he didn't deserve the good things in life.

The peculiar thing is he had no qualms spending on other people. His staff had the best welfare packages compared to competitors, he also had better salary scale and never had any problem giving people gifts or helping them financially - he just never spent on him self.

Maybe other things gave him satisfaction!