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Most of the aspects of Nigerian marriage culture that are taught and embraced in Churches do not align with Biblical principles.

One generation of pastors agrees on certain teachings, passes them on to the next generation, and this cycle continues. As a result, these teachings become ingrained in the culture, and subsequent generations adhere to them without questioning their validity.

frank317:
Josephine the dreamer, any dream about nigeria yet? With this ur dream power, I hope no one around u is suffering or can meet any misfortune

Mini cockroach, little pest. Christianity doesn’t turn people into superheroes. Becoming a Christian won’t transform you into figures like Flash, Superman, Wonder Woman, Batman, or any other fictional character.

I simply shared some of the experiences that shaped my perspective and personal conviction. You can either take it or leave it.

Indifferent12:
Speaking in tongues is just letting ur emotions get the better of you, it’s all chemical reactions in ur brain.

You dreaming n it coming to pass doesn’t mean anything spiritual exist.
If we analyze it well it’s probably something u were working towards already, sometimes is just mere coincidence and misinterpretation.

I have also imagineer something and It came to pass, doesn’t mean god exit.
While I was younger I had a crush on this girl, my parents change my school n I imagine I would see this girl in my new school, low n behold there she was in my new school.
Do I have super power? no, was it god also no. It’s just mere coincidence.

Sometimes it’s because we are thinking of an event too much hence we dream of it.

Whether you consider it a miracle or not, it doesn't matter. What truly matters is that a friend was saved.

I am not a pastor; I'm just someone who values logic and shares my perspective. I wouldn't accept the existence of God either if I were not personally convinced. Reflecting on all the struggles I have been through, I might have also become an atheist a long time ago.

My personal conviction led me to study the Bible more deeply. In doing so, I discovered many misquotes and misinterpretations, even from some pastors, that can mislead people away from Christ. I realized that if we come to God with the expectation that everything will go our way, we may become disheartened when challenges arise. I've learned the importance of holding on to God, regardless of the circumstances we face.

I rarely dream about myself; instead, I often dream about other people, even those I am not close to, and events I know nothing about. Sometimes, I start to feel sleepy and dizzy, as if I were under the influence of alcohol. Within 30 seconds, I find myself falling asleep against my will and entering a dream state. In those dreams, I often see something about someone. If it feels like a warning, I usually make an effort to warn the person it is directed at, because such dreams tend to come true.

Along with my own personal experiences, the fact that scientists have still not been able to create life from non-life in a laboratory, despite years of research and study, has made me realize that there is a higher power in control.

Franking:
Stop fooling around. God does not exist. Even Elon Musk and Bill Gates know.

Science has made incredible advancements in understanding the universe, yet many mysteries remain, particularly regarding the origins of life.

After several years of study, scientists have still not been able to create life from non-life in a laboratory. This ongoing exploration invites us to consider the complexities of existence and the possibility of a higher power.

KingNom:
Thank You so much Esteemed for helping keep a sister from straying away from God. Kindly permit me to note an observation in the bolded above, if she or anyone or reads it does as advised above, that would give an opening for disrepute to God's Name on her, the devil will most probably strike, and she'd be at loss.
So may I advise you kindly edit that section out of your testimony.

Once again, thank you so much for edifying us today Beloved

You're welcome and thank you for your applause. I encourage you to read 1 Corinthians 9:19-23.

I've noticed that sometimes when people evangelize, it seems more about the act itself than a genuine desire to save souls. It’s like trying to sell a product without understanding the audience or finding a way to connect with them. I don’t usually sit people down to preach, but I felt compelled to reach out and save a friend.

Sometimes, it can take a gradual process to help someone get back on track. To be honest: there are certain types of preaching that, if delivered to me when I'm sad, depressed, or upset, would make me feel like punching the preacher in the face because I didn't ask for preaching in the first place.

Isn't it better for her to vent her frustrations than to completely deny the existence of God?

jaephoenix:
So how come yhwh says we should call on him and he'll answer us? I don't think he said "don't call on me, I have given you all u need to survive. Leave me alone"

But God did not promise to always respond with a "Yes" whenever we call upon Him. As you read through the Bible, you will realize that God's responses can be "Yes," "No," or "Wait."

jaephoenix:
What is your purpose on earth and how did u know that? Is ur purpose the same as everyone else's?

My purpose is a journey of growth and transformation. I aspire to create a legacy of love and respect, hoping that my life will inspire others to live with purpose and treat one another with respect and compassion.

The core purpose of loving God and serving others is universal among Christians, but the paths we take to fulfill that purpose can vary significantly. Each of us has unique experiences, gifts, and passions that shape our individual journeys.

franvincoop:
Na different gbola sizes dey make u speak in tongues, no be God.
All the gbola wey show u shege for 2024, u know see am for dream? Or na black and white dream?
Una get luck say dat una God no di exist, if he/she be dey really exist even like Ibini Ukpabi, u for don die tey tey alongside all the other gods of men.

Your mentality proves that the women you surround yourself with are cheap, but don't pin that shit on others.

I often wonder why some people feel the need to project their own issues onto others. This might come as a shock to someone with your kind of mentality, but the fact is that I am a virgin.

frank317:
The funny thing is that his God will quickly help him secure a ticket for his flight but will watch a 5years old girl get helplessly molested by a mentally unstable Wicked man...

He started with his business issues, showing he does not have a perfect life as a believer. But his female friend going through same challenges is being tempted by the devil, while his own challenges are being managed by his God.

The way people sit down and make up super stories to suit their narratives is over my head.

When will people begin to take responsibility for their actions instead of blaming God for everything?

God has provided us with the resources we need to thrive. He designed humanity with the ability to make choices and entrusted us with the stewardship of the earth's resources.

If we could all embrace the principle of loving our neighbours as ourselves, we could create a better world for everyone. Much of the suffering we see today stems from human greed and wickedness.

Seunomobo:
I want to ask one simple question, what impact does believing or not believing in a God has on someone? What does your God need my believing in him for? Submission and control right?

First, understand why children who are separated from their parents at birth search for their parents; then you will grasp why people are interested in knowing their Creator.

God is worthy of praise and acknowledgment.

Recognizing the existence of God provides us with insight into our source, our purpose on Earth, and our Afterlife.

advanceDNA:
u are just exaggerating joor

then u shouldn't be this upset over a guy u dont want....

What is bad is bad; being hot-tempered is harmful, it can lead to hurting someone or even worse murder.

I can also be possessive, but not to the extent of threatening or killing someone. If a relationship isn't working, I would choose to end it.

Not every threat is a mere threat. Don't you think it is possible for her to act on her threat if I were actually dating her guy?

I remember a case where a woman was kidnapped because another woman assumed she was dating her boyfriend. Fortunately, the police were able to locate her in time; who knows what would have happened if they hadn't.

advanceDNA:
so u are saying until she's his wife she has no right to feel like owner?? Wait are u for real ?? So by this logic ..u don't expect faithful oo until marriage??

i think toxic is an exaggerated word here...she only called u to back off, which might be an over kill but necessary if she feels u are threat.......because its norm for pple to start seeing the ex they are no longer with as an option when they meet again.......
everyone isn't the same...


Thats very reason this current one called you to warn...mayb u have olosho vibes or u are finer than her and she feels her husband might start to feel the need to enter the place again.....

So it is logical for her to be possessive to the extent of threatening my life.

No be only olosho vibes. Nothing concern me with her guy.

advanceDNA:
he's just an ex u dont want anymore, so why u angry someone is being extra over something u done give a flying fvck about ?? You should be laughing at her instead of being angry....Abi a part of low key still wants the guy??

Oya confess....I won't judge you...

I have no interest in the guy. The lady is not yet his wife, but she is already quite possessive and feels she can threaten anyone. She seems like a very toxic and aggressive person; I could have shown her that I am not intimidated by threats.

I have visited an ex to say hi to his wife; she was aware that I am his ex and still treated me nicely. She had just had a baby girl. I carried her baby and even took pictures with her. This particular guy is very nice to me. He is a Muslim, and after my visit to his wife, he was still proposing marriage to me.

Peakdesign23:
Old firewood not dey quench. Why should they bump into each other in the first place? What the heck have they not discussed before? Mtcheew...

I am still in contact with his mum. She said I should come and greet her, so I went. I wasn't expecting to meet him at his mum's house because he doesn't live there.

TheFinesseKid:
Mumu topic. Mtcheww

Cry harder

3shadi:
i get everything for here oooo na only that six pack part humble me

😂 Let's go to the gym.

purples25:
Don't mind him, I was wondering if you really own the profile pic, you are very beautiful. I mean that sis.

Surely you get a lot of attention and compliments and favors in real life.

❤️ Thanks sis

LoneSoldier:
Ugly bitch....

Troll

LoneSoldier:
Ugly bitch....

Troll

LoneSoldier:
Financially secured by your own means or another man's money?

This is the reason they where showing you shege, so you stole there money and think you can escape them....

How are you healthy with this your flat plasma body, you have contracted HIV from God knows where, and you are looking for an innocent man that will die with you.... See this fool, that HIV will kill you this year....


Your face is so ugly, damn you are such an irony.... Damn 🤮🤮

Troll

LoneSoldier:
How can we ascertain that all the men in your life are prospering, with this your ogbanje face on your profile..... You should be ashamed of yourself, your face is dismantled everything about you is flat, God forbid.... Tueh


Weren't you the one complaining how many men showed you shege in 2024, if a man was really happy and fulfilled around you as you described, why will they now start showing you shege, if you aren't a witch that have collapsed their life, with your badluck.....


Oh, you want to see my face, so you can carry my picture to your fetish shrine, mugu like you... You have lost big time.....


This is 2025 stop fooling around, you can do more better this year....

At least we can ascertain that they are not murderers or insecure, depressed individuals who are looking to end the lives of others.

Okay, troll, I have accepted that my face is ugly, I am flat, I am shapeless, and I have an ogbanje face. But at least I have some reasons to love life and thank God: I am healthy, happy, and, most importantly, financially secure.

LoneSoldier:
Irrelevant flat slippers of the century, wow it looks like you have won another title....

You are irrelevant on this forum, foolish Osakpolo like you.... With your dismantled face, the men that dealed with you, I give them kudos, they tried very well.... It would have been better one of them adds sniper in your drink so you can die, you are worthless.... Daughter of a foolish man and ashawo mother .... You don't deserve to be in this world, no reasonable man can ever have you as a wife, you are a full time vagabond.... Fugitive like you, you will die like a hopeless chicken that you are ....

I am not bothered by all the nonsense you wrote because you are simply a troll. I double dare you to post your picture on your profile.

I don't date mentally unstable people. All the guys I have dated are happy and fulfilled in life; they are not a bunch of murderers or insecure and depressed individuals roaming the streets looking for ladies to prey on.

Everyone has the right to live and deserves to live. If you are personally unhappy with life and feel like exiting this world, that is your business. I won't join you in that ambition because life is just too sweet; life is beautiful.

advanceDNA:
Be like u seff get vawulence for blood....
As in ..... u will throw urself at a guy just to spite another ur fellow woman........??

I now get the reason revenge sex makes sense to you women ...sigh!!

Her own is too much. She couldn't even speak sensibly; she really got me angry, but I just decided to stay calm.

advanceDNA:
U are just pretending not to get her....
Advertising sometimes makes u to buy what u never wanted, needed or thought of buying..

As far as she's concerned u are advertising so she decided to send u vawulence before her man starts subscribing to what he doesn't need and already has

It is not a wise move. If I still had some interest in the guy, I could have decided to date him just to spite her.

LoneSoldier:
So you cant also comprehend the word relevant, your illetracy is topnotch...

So na relevance people dey find for on forum, as you be, you don get relevance? I no fit waste my time dey comment on different matters wey no get any relevance. My dear, keep crying.

Yaiba:
Useless STVPID bastard damned putrid pathetic foolish bit.ch BAs TARD bit.ch pi.g LovePeddler

Omo, see tears.

LoneSoldier:
Cover your head in shame, you ain't relevant on this forum....
your irrelevancy is shameful....

A forum is simply a digital space where people can come together to talk, socialize, share knowledge, and discuss a wide range of topics.

LoneSoldier:
Frustrated and depressed Flat slippers of the century stop quoting me....

🤣🤣🤣Did you just talk say 'Frustrated and depressed Flat slippers of the century? Chai, na serious insult o! Oya, no cry again, you don win.

LoneSoldier:
It obvious in your profile that you are the one depressed and also frustrated with your flat plasma nyansh and fallen Jericho boobs, continuous flatness will hammer you well this year..... Foolish flat slippers like you....

🤣🤣🤣See frustration o.

richmond500:
I think she should approach her guy.

As long as they are not married, he is still in the market and u have every right to make him urs.

Before, I used to be timid. I don't think any of my exes have issues with me, but personally, there are some of them I cannot consider dating again.

Let her keep him to herself. He is kind of toxic; even his mom knows I tried. Even though I broke up with him, she still considers me her daughter. She was the one I went to greet when I met him.

advanceDNA:
She knows what her gender is capable of ..
So she decided to attack the issue from both sides....... She be like.... "Make nobody can snatch man wey I dey manage"

Some women are just funny, how will someone snatch a grown man.

LoneSoldier:
With your bole hole p*ssy that you are using to get attention, like I said you will wait till you die....

🙄Bro, take life easy o.

Na insecure or depressed people dey talk this way.