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Bendeco02:
When i say real men, am not referring to wealthy men.

I mean alpha male

On your last paragraph, maybe you thought you're talking to someone that is a novice. Like i told you earlier, i have run things with your gender and know them to some extent.

For this our generation, many don't enter marriage for true love. The last girl i dated, few months to her wedding, she still visits me and we keep having intimacy. The man about to wed her calls and she tells him she is in her room.

Don't even mention true love again, because i know some married women having affair outside their marriage with men below their husband status.

After marrying the so called true love or choice. Tall, handsome man, you still go outside to Bleep shorter, ugly man

Bendeco02:


Confindence when they are surrounded by simps that praise them for what they're not.

When they jam a real guy, they fall even if the guy is ugly.

Bendeco02:
But why are you angry?

I have role and observe your gender to some extense

Even the pretty ones you see out there have inferior mind/esteem inside.

Half of these pretty ones knows that the appearance they are displaying to the public is not their actual self, from hair to toe. Hence, this is part of the reason for the low self esteem. I don't even want to talk about average ones.

A lady can remove her wig and you can't recognise her again talk more of appearing without make up or fake Butt Hip.

Some of the Busty/Chubby ones, when they remove cloth you may throw up (Vommit). Forget, there's nothing speacial about women if not for the simps among men that made them feel important

Bendeco02:
Hope you understood my point at all?

Bendeco02:
Don't mind that guy. All these references sometime are like myth.

Even dwarfs marry pretty women.

Most women have low self esteem than men. So, anyone that has the confident can approach and get them just that some men first downgrade themself.

But most important thing is your status as a man. That can cover all the areas you flop

Duttymotivation:
How about libra men. Are libra men good for Taurus ladies?

Aaaaarghmed:
But this guy wey she marry ehn,e head dry like radiator

Oloki:
Na waa for the comments up here o. you people giving him advice on how to break up without minding what the other lady had invested in the relationship.

According to him, the lady had helped him financially and get him food stuff most times because the lady belief there is something in the relationship for her.

To you OP, You are just an exploiter.

Dizzyyish:
A woman's spec always remains her spec. It never changes, and you can know her spec from her dating (or fcking) history. If a woman says you're a sweet guy compared to her exes, just know you're in trouble.

When a woman wants to move, everything around her becomes fuel for plausible deniability, so if the outcome of the movement doesn't make sense for her she can rationalize to herself and deceive others that her intent was something else.

emma2018:
Dear merry i quoted u on a dead thread

Newsmills:
Relationship is not living in bondage,because of attitudes of some nigerian pastors who extolled their wives above christ some women look at themselves in marriage as bouquet of mystic flowers that are sacred even to be corrected for wrong deeds.

AirBere:
99% are single. Have money that's all

Nnamdipapa:
Nonsense post!

I have seen adults with very little common sense who don't know their left from rights and I have seen brilliant teenagers as well. The tendency to always class people based on age is absolutely laughable.

Elders and adults have been running Nigeria aground since independence. What is the outcome? How do we know what's on their minds without engaging with them? The purpose of an argument is to establish truth and has nothing to do with your age.

Afolue:
Men are scarce, so use your brain. They come for you and you don’t go for them. The ones that you will attract, has to do with you working on yourself. No get sense. If you don’t want to be a single mother

Afolue:
so you’re even a Babe. No wonder!You must check yourself before your prayers gets answered. From all indications, you may not find a guy that will suit your kinda preference. You act too confident. Obviously a guy couldn’t have said all these…
Be very careful with yourself, things can’t work way, arrogance and pride will worse it even.

Men are easy to handle. Follow all I have said it’s wisdom. Many won’t
tell you this. And am not charging you either

Afolue:
before? is anything about marriage fun in the first place?

Dtruthspeaker:
All explained in the thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8080384/polygamy-gods-punishment-fornication-deut#129757300

"And this is where God replied and made sure that the wives and children are enemies and that every soul in that house hates the wicked husband.

And because everyone is living in a house where they hate each other to death, then there is no peace and rest in that house and living in that house is helliish for every body in it

And that is why since the ancient days till the world ends, polygamy will always be very bad an evil because God punished it.

And it is a punishment for fornication and adultery

Afolue:
contradicting all I have said, you simply an activist for “Broken Homes”!

luminouz:
Please go away with your mindset abeg. If you think our culture is archaic, then don't marry or marry a simp. You lots are the ones looking for rich, handsome, six packs and all that jazz but he can't demand submission from you? A man will pay bride price and bridal list nonsense for damaged women and he still won't even get submission in his own home?

Nah why men dey make una babymama na

luminouz:
Bla blaaaaaaaaaa....don't collect bride price then

Afolue:
one shouldn’t see that as control. It make no sense for a man to control are woman in a senseless way. Now, what’s wrong when your wife wants to attend a party or an outing, then, you as the Husband is not in support, can’t he tell her not to go anywhere and she obeys?. Avoid analyzing point in a weak sense. A man is the head, after a woman leaving her father, her husband is the next. Even if she wants to go see her father, the husband has the right to tell her not to go and she must obey. With all cited examples, Is it not same as sit down !Am not saying any man must do that. But all husband’s power is up to that level over their wives. You shouldn’t boss your wife because you want her to know you are the boss. If she doesn’t know these, then she isn’t fit. Not responsible for a marital home. Weak men cheat themselves out of ignorance. A man must be responsible, yes. By all standards. So as to maintain his reputation for who he is!

Prettygirl200:
Exactly just as the right woman will give you the respect that you deserved, that's to tell you that respect or submission should be earned not forced.