₦airaland Forum

Anny69:
Maybe she has never liked you and has been looking for an opportunity for you to fvck up. She should have cautioned you instead of slapping you.

You might be right. My bf and I want to get married soon. Maybe his mother doesn't want me to be her daughter-in-law anymore and is just trying to pull a fast one on me. She might be concerned about the age difference between me and my bf and be pretending not to care. I am twenty-seven years old and my bf is twenty-three. The day she discovered my age, she just acted surprised and told me I don't look my age. She did not show any signs that indicated she was concerned about our age difference.

tayo60:
Even if you are left handed, it's disrespectful to use d hand to give an elderly person something. Courtesy demands you swap the content to right hand before giving the person.

You are right handed so you cannot understand. Your brain is use to using your right hand so even if you are distracted you will still give things to people with your right hand, it doesn't work that way for left-handed people.

Coder2Client:
You knew it's not good but you did it anyway. The circumstances surrounding the situation could trigger such action. She sensed disrespect in the way you gave her the clothes. It is not a matter of she knows you use left hand but circumstances surrounding the situation.

I don't see anything wrong in using my left-hand to give something to someone but I have learnt to respect other people's view also.

Olasyke:
Why seun never ban una IP address sef?

For what?

I am left-handed. My bf's mother slapped me because I tried to use my left hand to give her something.

I called my bf's mother to tell her that I would be visiting her, and she asked me to help her collect her clothes from her fashion designer on my way to the house. When I got to the house, my bf's mother was upstairs taking a bath. I used the waiting time to place a call to a client to discuss an important project. While I was on the call, she came downstairs and asked me for the clothes. I did not realize that I was trying to give her the clothes with my left hand, and the next thing I noticed was a slap on my face. My bf told me to let it go, but I can't marry him if I am not on good terms with his mother. I expect my mother-in-law to treat me like her own daughter. She knew I was left-handed, and she still acted irrationally.

LegendHero:
Well I played the spoiler just like you played spoiler to the student loan.

If your own proposed policy can work, why can’t the student loan work?

Finally, what is the essence of this thread?

This is my timeline, you can also say what you want on yours.

LegendHero:
If your argument is that people won’t pay back student loans, then what gave you the assurance that people won’t abuse what you opined. Let me tell you how Nigerians can game the system for what you proposed. I’m speaking like a spoiler here.


If government support business, people will just use the money for other things and you won’t see the benefit of what they gave them in almost 50% of the businesses. Example is SureP and etc., Lot of people collected the money and used it for other things and the effect is not felt on the business like the government planned.



This dosent need any investment by government. It’s just a policy.


Same thing you said will happen to student loan will happen to this too. People collect the loan and not pay back and still spend it on something else not related to businesses. Some can even use it to run abroad.


Ghost worker will suck most of the increase.


It will reduce foreign investors because they don’t have freedom of choice.


The drivers will continue to lie that the bus got spoilt and they will be siphoning money from the government. Some might even elope with the bus and sell it and runaway. Some will use it for road side hustle and game the go ember.


This can be done. It’s a matter of policy and we have some of it in state like Lagos.



Where will the government see money to create underground rail and what is he benefit? Why does a state like Ibadan or Abuja need underground rail for example?

I don't understand most of the things you wrote. The drivers will continue to lie, this cannot work, that cannot work. Are you saying Nigeria is hopeless? All these things can be implemented and monitored.

Some of the policies put in place are making it difficult for citizens to create businesses and compete with foreign companies.

LegendHero:
If your argument is that people won’t pay back student loans, then what gave you the assurance that people won’t abuse what you opined. Let me tell you how Nigerians can game the system for what you proposed. I’m speaking like a spoiler here.


If government support business, people will just use the money for other things and you won’t see the benefit of what they gave them in almost 50% of the businesses. Example is SureP and etc., Lot of people collected the money and used it for other things and the effect is not felt on the business like the government planned.



This dosent need any investment by government. It’s just a policy.


Same thing you said will happen to student loan will happen to this too. People collect the loan and not pay back and still spend it on something else not related to businesses. Some can even use it to run abroad.


Ghost worker will suck most of the increase.


It will reduce foreign investors because they don’t have freedom of choice.


The drivers will continue to lie that the bus got spoilt and they will be siphoning money from the government. Some might even elope with the bus and sell it and runaway. Some will use it for road side hustle and game the go ember.


This can be done. It’s a matter of policy and we have some of it in state like Lagos.



Where will the government see money to create underground rail and what is he benefit? Why does a state like Ibadan or Abuja need underground rail for example?

Already existing businesses will not decide to close down because of a loan and it is easy for government to collect back the money of the loan from them.

princemillla:
They know this. Some Wil many will not but the fact that not paying the loan will hinder u from accessing any other loan in future makes it a good one for me.


Ur opinion are good but if u haven't passed thru schools u won't know the struggle some parent go thru to see their wards thru the process.

Student loan is a good move.

I am not against the student loan. The things I listed are very easy for government to do. If they add it to their projects it will life easier for everyone. If there is enough jobs, students can work part-time to pay back their loans. Sometimes, it is good for us to let our opinions out. Somebody close to the president might see this and take one or two things from it and advice the president to implement it.

chatinent:
Actually, a lot of student can and will repay the loans.

In less than two years you will understand what I wrote. If nothing is done to reduce the rate of unemployment, the student loan project will not survive.

A lot of students may not be able to repay their student loans. For the student loan project to survive, the government has to create more jobs. To achieve this, the government needs to take certain steps, such as:

1. Supporting businesses owned by Nigerian citizens
2. Reducing business policies for start-ups and existing companies.
3. Lowering business levies
4. Providing loans for citizen-owned businesses
5. Increasing the minimum wage.
6. Ensuring that 90% of the staff in foreign companies are Nigerians.
7. Controlling the transport system by:
i. Purchasing more BRT buses
ii. Acquiring all commercial buses in Nigeria at a low rate and hiring their drivers as government drivers.
iii. Making it easier to top up BRT cards by allowing top-ups in grocery stores.
iv. Creating bus stations equipped with waiting areas and display boards.
v. Ensuring that the arrival time of buses and trains is available on google map.
vi. Reducing bus fares temporarily to entice car owners to try BRT buses and other buses acquired by government. Car owners will get addicted to going on buses after they discover how comfortable it is. This will reduce the cars on the road.
vii. Creating underground railways and purchasing more trains.

Two weeks ago. In morning 150/102 after taking grapes it reduced to 125/87 in the evening.

TrainPark:
My Fiancee Is Good In Terms Of Character
But just out of curiosity, why the thing pain you so!

Which thing?

agrowell:
Leave their church for them and go to where earrings is allowed, as simple as that, but be aware that you can't choose your judgement.
Thanks

Everybody will definitely stand before God and be judged. I will not be judged by your pastor's standards. There is no Bible verse that states that wearing earring is a sin.

Cloudflare:
Referring to your post on Hilda Baci and the pastor who spoke about her olosho dressing.

It's obvious you know and quote so many scriptures but lack understanding. E be like say na deeper life or chosen dey born you. Madam, we all know deep down inside you, you want to explore and chop life and probably bang around. Of course you're very free to do so! Stop hiding behind Christianity quoting Bible up and down to justify the fact you want to hoe around. Do it proudly and receive the consequences hereafter.

You have a serious problem. How is wearing earring related to wanting to bang around?

TrainPark:
Better appreciate that good character ooo... e no reach 3 girls wey still gett am for this naija !!

He did not mention any good character or attitude, he only said she is nice and she is a virgin.

Oluromantic:
She will bro. Be optimistic

This is the mistake a lot of people make when picking a partner, they believe they can change their partner's attitude. He is doing himself and the lady a favour if doesn't marry her. Why force things? She will find someone that loves her the way she is and he will also find someone that his compatible with him.

This lady will end up being a full housewife. Don't marry her, except you can cope with a full housewife. Tell me you are joking, you don't want to leave her because she is nice and she is a virgin. Guy, marriage is deeper that.

SultanOfAbia:
I'm an igbo guy in Lagos.
There is a Yoruba girl in my workplace
She is too loud and dramatic.
I later found out she has 10 siblings from the same father and mother.

This girl talks to me without respect 50% of the time.
If I ask her anything,she will ridicle me.

To make matters worse, my boss paired me with her, and I don't even know how I will survive this Yoruba girl.

Please my Yoruba brothers
How can I handle Yoruba woman wey get sharp mouth and is dramatic

Handle her the way you will handle your Igbo sisters that are loud and dramatic.

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fyzaila:
Very true! He couldn't have said it better. Virginity is the best gift a woman can give to her husband that shows she is a pure, untouched and a virtuous woman.

It is ordained by God Almighty that pre marital s3X is a sin and depicts moral decadence of an individual.

Note: A virgin woman should make sure the man she's marrying is truly worthy of it.

I hope you are a virgin. Make sure you also give your virginity to your wife and allow her post it on social media that your virginity is the greatest wedding gift you gave to her.

GeneralPula:
It’s good if your girl is a virgin!

Whether she is a virgin or not, it is not good.

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This man totally disrespected his wife, virginity is not a gift and how valuable is virginity that he called it the best wedding gift any man would receive from his newly wedded wife?

Since some guys have decided to be ignorance to the extent that they believe that virginity is the best wedding gift any man would receive from his newly wedded wife, then the best wedding gift a newly wedded virgin bride deserves is ten million naira or more. If the bride price of virgins is ten million naira, ladies will be motivated to keep their virginity.

faceLAGOS:
You try.

Btw, you can forward that 12k into my Opay account.

It will go a long way.

91278..55246

Thanks.

I have not seen the video.

WatchYourSix:
This is funny. the op can't even see how awkward and pathetic this thread is... shalaye-ing to strangers that don't even care about her life because of unimportant nairaland gist they are all engaging in...

I nearly fell of my chair laughing when op even added she's a virgin and now posted viju products...

like wtf

This is my timeline, say what you want on yours.

Ogechi98:
omoh werey

I be your mama

AdvanceDNA, Ogechi98, Harddiskng, and faceLAGOS due to your comments in my previous post you have a chance to win a paid meal worth twelve thousand naira. The first among you to post a video of yourself begging me for money will receive the prize. My Twitter handle is @Merryondred.

I don't understand why you see such little spending as a big deal. I have assisted guys with their school fees and helped guys who are still struggling with their businesses financially. I did not attach any strings to my help. In fact, I am still a virgin. I am not rich, but I spare a part of my little earnings to help others, regardless of their gender. I made my first million by grace and I help other people in order to show my gratitude to God.

At the age of twenty-seven, going on twenty-eight, I have gained several business and travel experiences. I struggled very hard to make money, and I ventured into several businesses. I have never requested money from any guy.

Before taking a lady out on a date, let her know your financial capability. If a lady orders beyond your budget, ask her to pay for her own food. You don't need to publicly embarrass her. It is inhumane and unfair to spite someone because of food. If everybody decides to behave like this, the world would be so unbearable.

I would like to take this moment to express my gratitude to Viju Milk Company and Rite Food Limited. They gave me the opportunity to become a distributor at their reputable companies without any connections. I made my first million through these companies.

flokii:
Let's be realistic.. can the babe eat food of that amount with her own money? Your guess is as good as mine.

While some guys will just use their cards to clear the bill, others might see it as big deal.. So know your date well before going to embarrass your family in public.

If I decide to disgrace a guy this way and post it on social media, I'm sure you be among the first set people to condemn me. He could have just told her he cannot pay for her food, he doesn't have to disgrace her publicly.

Guys, stop showing off and pretending to be what you're not. Let the lady you're taking out on a date know your financial capability. I always feel disgusted when I see guys insult ladies because of the amount of food they order on a date. As a lady, I have paid for meals for guys without insulting them. I don't ask guys to pay for my meal, but if a guy insists on paying for my meal, he does not have the right to insult me no matter how much food I buy. I will not form because he is paying, I will buy my usual.

There are some immature guys out there. Ladies, buy only what you can afford, don't be extravagant and always remember to bring enough money when you go on a date so that you can refund the money for your food when necessary. If this lady had enough money to refund him instantly, she would have been the one disgracing him and insulting him.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iI4I6pmx004

Try to tolerant unbelievers and show them love but don’t accept their views and religious beliefs. Preach the gospel to unbelievers and answer their questions when necessary but don’t have unnecessary arguments with them. When we participate in heated arguments, we can easily forget that the purpose of spreading the gospel is to win souls, not to justify ourselves or prove that we are right.

Don’t be bothered if they don’t tolerant you or they reject you; always remember that Jesus was also rejected. Use your loving character to bring people to Christ, don’t try to force the truth on people. When Jesus came to the world, He did not condemn sinners or participate in unnecessary arguments. Instead, He made friends with sinners in order to win their souls.

Last year, I joined a group of Christians in the UK to visit bars and clubs. We made friends with unbelievers and invited them to Christ.

Evangelism is not a means of condemning sinners; rather, it is a way of advertising Jesus. Instead of frowning and condemning people during evangelism, share the gospel with love and respect. Use the same energy you use to advertise your business to advertise Jesus. When we advertise our goods and products, we smile and use sweets words to convince people to buy them. We should be able to humble ourselves in the same manner to share the gospel. We can't force Christianity on people, we can only convince them to see the light.

Timothy 2:23-26

smokinloud:
I'm not quoting the old testament. I'm quoting the doctrine of Paul's gospel which is of Christ.
You can dribble around it but it's the fact!.
Paul didn't say that women shouldn't get married o.
1 Corinthians 7:8-9
[8]I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.
[9]But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.

Read my comment properly, I used the word "Advised".