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PoliticsRe: BVAS: Adamu Says APC Is Not Opposed To New Electoral Technologies by messenger4891: 8:47pm On Nov 24, 2022
I am not a politician but logically i will say he is right blc network has not covered majority of the rural areas in Nigeria.
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Honored In Niger Republic As A Boulevard Is Named After Him by messenger4891: 8:19pm On Nov 24, 2022
sarrki:
The best president ever ruled Nigeria

You are also handing over to Asiwaju Ahmed Bola Tinubu a good leader also

God bless you Muhammad Buhari

History will remember you for good

Thank you Mr president

God bless your family

God bless federal republic of Nigeria
Sarcasm !! grin
SportsRe: Ronaldo's Interview: We Have Initiated Appropriate Steps - Man Utd by messenger4891: 1:57pm On Nov 18, 2022
Nothing changes your personality .
Ronaldo is who he is.
TravelRe: Nigerian Woman Stranded In Milan, Italy Asking For Help. Do You Know Her? by messenger4891: 9:30pm On Nov 14, 2022
God pls come to her rescue
Foreign AffairsRe: US Voters Reelect Tony DeLuca, Dead Lawmaker by messenger4891: 9:29am On Nov 10, 2022
That is a sane country where the electorates trust their representatives .

It was also intentionally done to force a new election as the opponent has nothing or little to offer and the rights and desire of the electorates will be respected.

Unlike here where dead men happens to be political appointee and our votes and choice are thwarted ,in some case they instigate fear and intimidation to prevent certain people from exercising their rights.
PropertiesRe: Can The Nextdoor Neighbor Harvest This Plantain? by messenger4891: 8:44pm On Oct 08, 2022
TheirFADA:
For crying out loud, Adjust and straighten the plantain tree so that the fruits will be inside you compound nah undecided

You suppose don know say that your neighbour na evil man, e go shock you say he really mean am when he talk say he go cut am o, you fit wake up tomorrow morning and not find it there again
@Op pls take the first paragraph .
FamilyRe: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by messenger4891: 12:00pm On Sep 30, 2022
MufasaLion:
They should focus on having a better apartment instead of breeding like rodents in a studio apartment.
You just talked like a kid.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Lost My Job Today, After Few Months Of Employment by messenger4891: 1:55pm On Sep 27, 2022
Sirseedorf:
I feel weak, terrible and hopeless. I lost my job today due to management change of system, I never saw it coming, in fact it came as a shock to me. Am just confused on what to do next, I have huge responsibility ahead of me, even now, I have to find something doing or else negative thought and depression will kill me faster than gunshots. I can't cry out physically but inside I feel pain as if a knife as pierce my heart, my self esteem is weak, my life is heading on a rock, I don't bet, never drink nor womanize, I just want a better life for myself, but it seems better life might never be achieved while still leaving with joblessness and failure status.
Help me nairalander, I don't know what might become of me in the next few days or weeks.
What's you qualification and career path,you can DM me.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Have Decided To Accept The New Changes In My Place Of Work. by messenger4891: 5:26pm On Sep 23, 2022
UYEMDO35:
I have decided to accept the new changes in my place of work. But with terms and conditions.


That's not really the case here. I have worked for years and didn't get promoted, but then i thought of helping my friend, and my friend ended up achieving what i couldn't achieve while having the same qualifications and even been paid x2 of what am earning. though! I have no bad intentions towards my friend but I think he made a wrong move by making some changes that’s unfavorable to me and others.

Of course I have reasons to feel been treated
unfairly. Am also human too.
some said I was jealous of my friend been made the assistant Boss, but to be candid, I never did... I just didn't like the way he was acting so professional as if we that have been working there for long are unprofessional.

after much thought, I decided to summon courage to tender my letter of upliftment for the Increasement of my salary today, and for God so good... my letter was approved and my money has been increase to what my friend is earning.... so the only difference now is that, he's my superior and I will have to be taking orders from him in which I have started to adapt to it.

To be candid, my friend possesses all the quality that it takes to be the assistant Boss because he's bold and fearless.... not like me that's very quiet.

(A BIG WIN FOR ME)

i will like to use dis medium to thank those that motivated me to go fight for my right.

((Previous thread ----- https://www.nairaland.com/7341973/how-feel-when-friend-becomes ))
Congratulations on the salary increment. Be professional in your dealings
Christianity EtcRe: Is Artificial Insemination A Sin When Done By A Single Lady?? by messenger4891: 9:59pm On Sep 21, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
you are talking of the HYPOCRISY of the church here... aka they would look down on this female as if she was the dirtiest wh0re in town and completely forget that their baba jesus mother was technically the same.
I actually don't know you concluded for many Christians just for fun!

Continue you hear !!!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Do You Feel When Your Friend Becomes Your Boss by messenger4891: 1:51pm On Sep 20, 2022
UYEMDO35:
Hello guys~ my best friend and I live together in the same neighborhood.

I introduce him to were I was working at the moment because he was seriously in need of a job...

Though! He had a job he was doing but the money they are paying him is just token, so when he came for an interview today.

He passed the prescription test that was given to him, and he was made the assistant Boss and I have been working there for long without been given dis offer.

Being his first time of working with us he has started giving out policy in which I don't like, he's trying to change the system for us making it unbearable for us to cope. And to crown it all, his salary his x2 higher than mine and we both have same qualification.

So am thinking of going to my Boss to lunch complain maybe to ask him to renew my contract.

What do you all think about my step....

Should I still go on with it?
Please don't let envy and jealousy spoil good things God have in stock for you. Be patient and happy with your friend.
HealthRe: I've Not Seen My Period For Almost 7weeks Now, Yet I'm Not Pregnant by messenger4891: 11:30am On Sep 11, 2022
joyH:
Please guys I need your help.
@mod pls help me move to appropriate section.

I am confuse, needs advice on what step to take next.

The whole thing begins on 25th July when i had unprotected sex with my bf. before then my last period came on the 17th of July. so i had sex just about a week after.

Since then uptil now i have not seen my period. Initially I worried i may be pregnant but after several urine and blood test it all turns out negetive. what could be wrong here? This is the first time i am experiencing this.

I have done 4 test myself using pt test strips. but all came negative. Yesterday I went to a private lab an de used my blood and urine sample for pregnancy test, it still came out negative.

Abeg any medical expert or any one with past experience should assist with advice on next step please.

Note, my boyfriend is aware of the whole situation. he himself is confused. plus I am 23 yrs old just incase my age will aid in the diagnosis.
Go and do urine MCS and vagina swab.it could be an infection.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi: I Pray Daily That I Don't Disappiont Nigerians Who Have Faith In Me by messenger4891: 6:02pm On Sep 02, 2022
lhordspy:
i usually take my time to look carefully into this man desperation. I see it's all lie and made up fables to fool the general public. But am not surprise, this specific people from this same region have an history in fooling themselves.
I mean look at the level of poverty, bad governance, illiteracy that reeks in the south-east region, you dont need to wonder far why it is so easy to deceive the ipobians with little lies and fables.
I mean, ojukwu did it. He deceived over two millions of them into early grave.
Kanu also did it, he told his gullible fellows that buhari is dead. It takes a sensless set of individual to actually believe such.. And they all swallow the hook, lie and sinker of the fugitive before he was eventually nab by our able secret service...
Peter is a good man, but his tribesmen are the worst set of human to ever live on this planet heart. I will never vote for hate, religious hypocrite, and a tribal bigot
Come 2023, we will all put you all to your place.
Why writing with so much bitterness and hatred.....May God have mercy on your soul.
FamilyRe: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by messenger4891:
Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?
Money is good in marriage but not the basic ....The attributes of the man should be your focal point ....someone who is earning 2m per month can lost his job and the one that earning 50k can be promoted tomorrow ....pls you are entering marriage with wrong notion ....There are thousands of rich men out their yet their wife have no peace ....country is hard but it shouldn't be a hindrance to a true love.
RomanceRe: I'm Scared To Ask Her For Sex by messenger4891: 6:52pm On Aug 19, 2022
slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Simp and weak ass men everywhere..lily-livered sons everywhere

Woman way you go off her pant shaperly na im you dey looseguard

If I born male child then if at the age of 16 years he still never sabi off woman pant...I go go throwaway that my pikin for river[color=#000000][/color] be careful of what you say with your mouth.
I played my first footsie with a girl when I was in primary 6...when I come get admission into uniben I was already a pro in pant offing...especially for night class...education field, back of engineering, basement..

Wether you like it or not bros op....you are a male child...we male children are born to off pant

Ogbeni op...even if you don't want to tell a woman straight to her face that you want to bang her...your movements and body language alone will send her a strong signal that you are a sexually active man....now maybe when she is in the kitchen cooking then hug her from the back make sure your fertile rod is PARTIALLY erect so that she can feel it on her ass..
CrimeRe: How Can I Tell Her That I Saw Her Sex Video Online. by messenger4891: 1:17pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kobojunkie:
The OP said the video was uploaded 2 months before her marriage, not that it was made 2 months prior. So how did we conclude the woman is a cheat abeg?, undecided
Do you understand that word"prior" if you do understand that ,pls correct yourself so that your write up will make sense
FamilyRe: Husband Saves Screenshots Of Our Chats by messenger4891: 9:40am On Apr 11, 2022
@Op whenever you bring up your marital issues online ,be sure to take the risks that goes with it because you might get very bad advice.

While i condemn the act of your hubby ,you are not also mature blc the first thing you should have done is to try to find out from him the reason behind it ....its marriage and considering the number of years you guys should have developed a communicating skill .

Pls go back to him when he is very happy with you then ship in the question OK.
Coming here is not the best option for me.
RomanceRe: What's The Craziest Thing You Have Done For LOVE by messenger4891: 12:47pm On Mar 29, 2022
My girlfriend got impregnated by her ex and the guy denied blc as the time of the pregnancy we have not had sex to pin it on me ....she does not want to keep it and because i love her ,I had to borrow money and gave her to abort the baby because i do not have cash as that time .crazy !! lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: My Ex Wants Us To Be Having Sex Few Weeks After Her Marriage by messenger4891: 8:13pm On Mar 08, 2022
surebona:
But she said the husband said she can get sexually satisfied and get pregnant outside since they can't really afford to pay the hospital
Which man will ever grant that even if he is impotent ....perhaps she said that to make the guy man calm down.
RomanceRe: Hisbah Commission Weds Two Repentant Sex Workers In Bauchi (photos) by messenger4891: 9:33pm On Feb 21, 2022
Lavahogiesmofa:
M
People like you should be arrested .
TravelRe: Experience My First Racism In U. K From Someone Who I Thought Was My Friend. by messenger4891: 8:50pm On Feb 20, 2022
KosiGee:
For someone on his Masters degree in a UK university, your write up was horrible and very hard to read.

You should’ve complained to your landlord about Harry’s racism. He is an idiot who took advantage of your timidity.

When you got Covid, you should’ve made everyone aware via your flat’s WhatsApp group chat. If you didn’t have one, you should’ve sent messages to your mates or to the landlord to inform them.
What you did was wrong, anyone of them could’ve come back before your isolation period.
Well said .
CelebritiesRe: Jaruma: Why Promote What You Don’t Use? Chioma Ifemeludike Asks Regina Daniels by messenger4891: 8:02pm On Jan 28, 2022
Femmyfestus:
mumu man as an ambassador, they are GIVEN this phones then it is left for them to use or not. Remember when tiwa savage, wizzy, davido unknowingly did commercials for COZA program. Remember what they all did(they unassociate themself ASAP. If you no dey use jaruma product why u dey advertise am?
RIP English Language !! grin
FamilyRe: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by messenger4891: 3:06pm On Jan 16, 2022
ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?
Your husband is a good gigolo man...that is a business to him ...
So is either you leave him or you found a way to be happy ....mind you if you cheat blc you want to pay him back .....the story won't be the same.....where you live law made it available for women to be beneficiary of most separations .
FamilyRe: Help, My Elder Brother Is Taking Advantage Of My Sick Father! by messenger4891: 4:16pm On Dec 19, 2021
AndroidMagic:
Can you talk to your father, even though he is ill?

Frankly, he is in the best position to resolve this matter, without creating the impression that you know what is happening in the dark.

Discuss with him so he'll call the attention of your elder brother.

Every problem has a solution.

I trust you'll solve this creatively. I believe in you, bro!
You want to kill his Dad ba.....
Do you know his health status to hear such thing ?
@Op it is a very delicate situation ...put yourself together ,you will handle it in a best way.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Could This Job Of N130k Weekly Payment Be Real? by messenger4891: 7:51pm On Nov 26, 2021
ifytrik:
So a friend of mine who is based in Lagos state called me few weeks back and was telling about how he is earning 225$ per week working for a foreign company in Lagos, I converted the money to naira and it was almost 130thousand naira per week shocked

I asked him if there is vacancy in the company so I will apply and he said he will do something about it, he called me yesterday and said there is vacant for two workers and he has already collected one form for me, he said I should prepare myself make sure i come over to lagos between today (Friday 26th Nov 2021) to(Monday 29th Nov 2021)

He said the registration fee is 450thound naira, and I must come with the money, he also said if I fail to come before or on Tuesday morning next week then they will give the job to someone else.

Nairalanders based in Lagos state please help a brother, I don't want to be scammed, do you know of such company? Could this be real or another mmm?
It is a scam brother ....no job requires applicant paying money.
CrimeRe: Robbery Suspect Leads Policemen To Arrest 77-year-old Gunrunner In Delta (photos by messenger4891: 7:14pm On Nov 22, 2021
Why did you omitted one number?
Sunisonflex39:
Please someone should help me for TP fare let me use and attend an interview on Wednesday.. please..

00525..66722 access
Please
PoliticsRe: Anambra Election: How Soludo Emerged Winner, Performance Of Other Candidates by messenger4891: 11:51am On Nov 10, 2021
Are they actually expecting another party to win Anambra state .....Anambra is APGA and APGA is Anambra grin
HealthRe: Help: My Girlfriend Is Suffering From Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by messenger4891: 8:00am On Nov 04, 2021
Omicron007:
Greetings wink

Let me hit the nail on the head.
I have been searching for a girl I can build a relationship with. I don't really fancy one night stands.

I have been rather unfortunate so far. I have posted about two girls I met on this forum. The posts hit front page and you can check them on my profile.
The first girl told me she was fickle minded while the other one told me she can't date any guy that has a body count of three and above.


Fast forward to my current episode. I met this girl in October. Fine babe. All the curves in the right proportion and she has a high sense of humour.

We connected and started hanging out. The problem is that she is suffering from PTSD because she was raped at age seven.
Whenever we are together, we cannot have penetrative sex because she often remembers what she passed through at the hands of the evil man years ago.

She is afraid of sex all because of the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder she developed during the ordeal.

Fellows, how can I help her overcome this situation.
I really like her a lot.
Am sorry to tell you this ....run for your dear life....all na lie .speaking from experience ...fear many girls that tell you that.I won't equally give you details.
PoliticsRe: Falana To Buhari: Don't Let Police Disrupt Upcoming #EndSARS Protest by messenger4891: 8:37pm On Oct 14, 2021
dalongjnr:
SARS was disbanded by the NPF,so why protest on something that doesn't exist?
This is trouble making!
I don't know if you understand the word "Anniversary"
Christianity EtcRe: God Can Do Without Us, BUT..... by messenger4891: 1:55pm On Sep 26, 2021
HighWITCH:
Very funny.
And we can absolutely do without him.
There have always been people who exist without religion. And they have lived excellent lives, not fearing that some day someone will barbecue them for not knowing about him.
Those existed and those that will exist are all creatures of God Almighty .

He made light and darkness for, HE is Omnipotent ,However He made man in His own image that transcend to His unconditional love for mankind .....He knows you before you were born ..make a choice for He is a wise God

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