₦airaland Forum

End time mother

I know a guy who lost his legs and his mom used to treat him even worse, now he is richer than all the other kids.

The wife is right. The newly wed's need privacy and room to grow and know each other before a third party joins them.

So you blame the victim and not the rapist

Shiningmama:
This post is definitely not for me, when I showed my mother in law love, there was nothing I fit do wey go satisfy her.. after serving her for 5 years me sef provoke. She no inform me the day she go carry her load..

I agree with you, had same experience, some mother in laws the more you try to please them the more they burn your heart, sometimes you just have to let them be, and live your life.
Some have never seen or known happiness in their whole life, trying to please them is just burning your self even more.

Jalal:
Endtime AU! How can only 7 Nigerians be selected, this is an affront to Nigeria where the program was launched, nurtured and funded!

Naija should pull outta the AU

Au was started and funded by Nigeria, what kind of weed are you on,

Eziachi:
@op, Can you tell which part of the United Kingdom where you had that sort of sunshine and people wearing T shirts as seen in the picture?
Am curious because most places were close to sub zero temperature today.

They were in jail, some were pulled out of their homes with no time to dress appropriately.

looseweight:
Kenyans black oooo

But they get the love and respect from the world, you can tell

STFUareyouGod:
but you said your dad was a military man who while you was growing up wouldn't always let you and you siblings out cuz he's strict
So how come he left when you was very young? or am I missing anything?
Why you lying for? Why all this 'word and opposite' stories?

I think she has been consistent with her parents divorce situation, am familiar with her stories

And are you guys doing better than step moms kid?
That's why I hate polygamy. All this uneccesary competition.

Just let her be. That is in the past. Let bygones be bygones. Focus on the future

Onegai:
There is nothing wrong with a Stay at Home Mother. I wanted to be one (because I know I can give my kids more education than they will get in school). However, the truth is that I have rarely seen a full-time Stay at Home Mums in Nigeria: all our women may leave their white-collar jobs to start families but quickly begin to run to start their own businesses. I think your kids are as motivated as you want them to be.

I agree with you, I have stayed home with my son for one year and in that year acquired a degree, something I would have never done working 8 to 5, and with all the family commitments.

fittty:
This post is only for the UK I presume. Come to America and see as dem dey give all these illegal mexican rights like say dem be citizen. Most states are beginning to issue Mexicans drivers licenses. Banks even issue them accounts to save. Their kids go to school sef. Most of them that don't even have drivers licenses have been driving for years and police do nothing even when they're pulled over. I'll say 80% of them who commit a little crime and go to jail come out and continue to live here. Only those with serious criminal case end up deported. They live like they're legal. The only thing is once they step foot outside the country they can't come back in. So they can only talk to their family in mexico on phone but NEVER get to see them. America has too many problems to take care of than illegals.

And when Mexicans get deported they run back in, I've seen a Mexican than has been deported 6 times and he sneaks back in.

AngryNigerian:
Pls when will a dark-skinned girl enroll, contest, & win a beauty pagent in Africa?


...seems someone needs to show the world that 'black is (the most) beautiful'


#WeAreBlack
#MyGirlieIsDarkSkinned
#BlackIsOriginal

In Nigeria only, here in South Africa dark skin wins pageant

slimmy05:
She over-stayed her visit. She was stamped in 6 months

So what do you think she should have done

slimmy05:
why, when did she enter and when did she apply. There are techniques to use to clear off sudden change of intention

She arrived last year in January, I think we applied school in April and Texas INS denied the application. Very sad because she cannot work.

slimmy05:
Thats not entirely true. I;'ve got like 5 friends who came with B1/B2 conference and they are all back to school. USCIS don't just deny applications like you guys paint it here, even re-instatement.

my sister got denied with a b1/b2

Litmus:
Pointless preaching, Nigeria leadership knows what to do but they're just hoping the don't have to, still hanging on to old good-times memories.

Not preaching honest but:

Nigeria should trust no so-called foreign allies.
Nigeria should trust no Neighboring countries
Nigeria should do all it can to control its borders
Nigeria should mordernise the military and stop fearing powerful military (with Biafra, Niger Delta, Bokoharam and others still in the mix, government probably fears thel possibility of Military coup)
Nigeria should stop hanging on to the stupid belief that Bokoharam capacity has been degraded.How is Bokoharam capacity degraded when their capacity does not reside in Nigeria ? Did Nigerian special forces kick ass in Niger, Chad, Cameroon, France or the White-house?

Nigeria is the only independent black nation in this world, remember that (Nigeria most not be allowed to survive) (we can. Our chances of surviving will be better when Obama leaves office, even better if the Republicans win)

The strongest country that cannot deal with boko haram
What had Obama got to do with Nigeria. Is he Nigerias president or US president
You are high on something

Wonder where the people that always foam that Nigeria Is the best in Africa have to say about having the worst airport in the world and the dirtiest worst city

Mindfulness:
Not every elderly person is disabled or retarded and everyone should take care of themselves for as long as possible. It keeps you fit. Just because you are 60+ does not mean that you can't meet family and friends, have something going for yourself or a hobby.

I plan on working till the day I die, I want to have hobbies, meet friends and family, I want to travel and I want to have fun when I get old. I do not see myself depending on others and HBP is definitely not anything that requires support from others.

Thank you! There tons of independent elderly people out there, going on their businesses until they are no more.

daretodiffer:
Your mum did not have to ask before you take the initiative

You assumed that your mum does not need any help because she is always busy. I asked whether you ascertained that from her or was it based on your conclusion.

I don't but unlike you, I have taken time to know what is going on all around me. There are older people who feel lonely but cannot voice out, thanks to our 21st century standards. The ideal thing to do is to ask them and give them the support they need.

So miss or mister know it all, because you have taken time to know what's going on, you think you probably know all the mothers situations in the planet including my mum. Get a life busy body
Note that you and mine opinion does not matter in posters house. At the end of the day, poster and wife will make their own decision.
Now this your bickering as if your life depends on it is ridiculous.
Stop making this post about you, give other people a chance to respond to the post.
You have commented for everyone. Do you think this addresses, just you.
How narcissistic?

daretodiffer:
Your mum is not every mum

....but she has kids and they are alive!!! If they lived closer to her, there is no reason why she can't live with them. If they are living abroad, what is stopping them from bringing her into the country.

Dint you tell me I was bad and my mum did not have to ask?
Now you don jump to tell me that my mum is not every mum.
You put me on defense. I answered you.
Nobody is holding a gun on you neck to answer my post
You might choose to ignore and move on
Don't mention me then react as if you hold a litmus paper for all mother's or mother in laws smh!

daretodiffer:
Your mum do not have to ask.

If you were a good daughter with common sense and foresight, you won't let your mum live on her own ALONE if you can help it.

My mum has lived by herself for years, nothing has bothered her, she has farm help, she is busy with church activities to even notice she is alone.

What if posters mother was by herself, all kids abroad or dead. She would have had to manage life at times happen.

daretodiffer:
You are harsh. Would you say that if she were your mum?

My mum in her right mind will not pack out of her home to go settle in her kids home.

She might call for help then sought herself out. Don't even forget my mum had high blood pressure same as Op's mother

Dheartless:
this is why I hate family section.
gender war don remove all of them brain.


even if it were not my mother but I know that she needs help I won't let any witch confuse me otherwise, I will go ahead with the help I can render.

if it was the woman's mom would she have seen any reason for her to go back to the village, considering the moms health situation?

bullshit everywhere.

Did you bother to read the part that says mother in law has gotten well, she is healthy and just needs to take her blood pressure medicine home, if she stays in the city who will take care of her home,
Op never said she was disabled.

That your mum has gotten better
Let her go back to the village
Hire someone to take care of her, then visit her weekly. Bp is here to stay at this age she will not get better.

The kind of mother in law that I have will never leave in my house. The kind of cases she faces in the village every week for trouble making is beyond anything.

Can you exercise some sensitivity to the mans plight,

Chai! Some of you will die sooner than him.

Conjoined twins is the word,

Have you guys never heard of conjoined twins

I think people should keep in laws at arm lenths,

Some sister in laws are worse extension of mother in laws,( not saying your sister is bad)

Your wife should hire house help to help with the baby, family especially in laws always end up with some drama

Divorce him poster! Sharp sharp

If you were the one that did that you would have been chased by now

Reference:
1 in every 4 black persons' on the face of the earth is a Nigerian courtesy of our out of control galloping population, so we qualify for a permanent seat on the Negro Nations Assembly (NNA). We ably qualify to rep the black race at all times, good, bad or downright.....

Since Obama is a Kenyan, Ben Carson is definitely a Nigerian....because he's brilliant and.....conservative. Now how's that.

Don't you think it is Nigerians that have travelled doing very outrageous stuff all over the world

V0lv0:
@ Jiggamangh come and see this. I just can't

don't forget to call OXYGEN this is funny stuff