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The money might not even be enough for extended family

If you guys receive the money and after dividing have extra you can give them

It's not such a big deal, just take it easy

daret002:
Thanks for your response. Which/what type of identification would suffice?

Documents in your name, national ID, drivers license, credit cards, just more stuff to show who you are

If they still don't give you, email embassy explain your problems, at least they have your fingerprints if they don't trust your word they might use this.

You will get your visa, they might just need more identification documents or a police report that your stuff were stolen.

Ioannes:
yes please do. good idea. just make sure there is an ambulance parked outside the venue in case...

Make sure you buy peptobismo and anti diarrheal pills in plenty all visitors will need them

I have a friend that sayed she served his ex boyfriend urine mixed with ice tea lol

Did he not see all this before marriage

End time man

Stick to till death do us part

Help your wife out and continue encouraging her

Pray and fast for your wife, God will intervene

You should be glad your step mum came to your life at 19 and not three years of age

Don't fight back you will never win/ in case she poisons your fathers mind not to educate you

Go live with your relatives, siblings, grandparents then only show up to collect school fees

At 19 this shouldn't break you.

Cutehector:
Nna dis ur english sef

I almost cracked my brain trying to understand him

Cutehector:
poster is female.. U wrote male

Whoops my bad, I wasn't even replying on this post, never mind.

[quote author=Cutehector post=41077365]understand who[/quote

Cutehector:
U should become a catholic!

I almost cracked my brain trying to understand him

Exponental:
always having one problem or d other.......

PushMusic:
She seriously needs it.

PushMusic:
That has always been her dream. I thought you could talk some sense into her peanut brain.

Ginaz:
I dont know why someone will be writing all the time about her step mother, I hope you won't kill her one day.

olashas:
I am in awe of your crazy imaginations

Afam4eva:
Thus is the first Onila's thread to receive serious attention.

Do we really have to judge this girl, I thought this forum is open for communication and personal problems are part of this.

I have followed Onila in culture and maybe fashion and she had wonderful insight there. Could we please let people be free to post there thoughts, rants, vents frustration and happiness here without judgement from wherever you all know her.

Find out why you are depressed, are you jobless? Are you an underachiever, are you lonely? what makes you not want to live, they got to be a reason

I think sertaline is an antidepressant, those medications give you suicide ideologies

Try to talk to a counsellor or a pastor.

Onila you have a lot of unresolved issues from your childhood

Try counseling, I thought you said you all turned out fine, try to move on from such adversaries, good luck

prettysolid:
Ur father of course. U said they r divorced so d judge should have mentioned something in court called child support to ur dad.
If custody of u guys was given to ur dad based on ur mums financial incapabilities then its time for your mum to take back custody based on negligence and ur dad is required to pay child support.

You are talking about child support in Nigeria, did I hear you right
Looks like her mum has no financial capabilities of educating them, either way I'm never leaving my babies with a step mom

Your dad should give up At 74, talk him over about forgetting this boy stuff. Girls are kids too.

How about hardworking men that loose everything then hit midlife crisis then give up completely

Ahnie and onila can you stop, this is getting old

My village high school looked better than that room.

TessaEdin:
Basically, the same is all over the world. My sister studies in Ohio State University and accomodation issues are pretty much the same. High room and board fees don't make everybody happy. Surely, dorm amenities are better than ones in images. Still, there roommates who aren't fans of cleaning so somes dorms can have disgusting smells. And positive impressions of wonderful college experience mentioned at the post by customwritingcompany goes down like a house of cards. Well, this is a college life, isn't it?

You compare those rooms especially the kitchen to Ohio State University, are you sure your sister is in,Ohio or some village school.
I've never been to Ohio state university but if I pull pictures on Google they will never look like the pictures above, stop lying.

EnlightenedSoul:
What's wrong in her buying land with her father, alone, or with anyone else for that matter? And what's the essence of the husband's consent in this context? Did they con the man out of his money or something?

Iam wondering too, if the man is working and the woman is working what's the big deal,

Consent my foot, women need to shine there eyes especially for the sake of children

My dad was always never there, my mom never disciplined my younger ones, the were bad kids.

I have bought one land without hubbys knowledge and it will remain like that

Iam in the process of finish acquiring a second one. - this lands are my personal security in case hubby kicks me and my kids out, in case he marries another woman, shit happens, we live in a real world.

My hubby has three in his own name not mine, what if anything happens to him and his family takes everything I'm I going to be mumu to start from zero suffering,

xoxo001:
Some people will still not listen, all they want to do is travel. I pity you guys! I'm in Russia now and mine is worst. I will soon be back to Nigeria by God's grace next year.

What made you go to Russia, I will be worried if I were you, how is Russia, maybe write your experience here so people can learn.

Poster I'm glad you have said all, but just wondering how about you come back home if you are done with schooling.

KINGOFJAPAN:
Retard.Ed gaynaian whor.e .. you come on a Nigerian site and spew trash about Nigeria and expect us sit back watch...

In fact I'm gonna put you on my radar.. Ur own don too much for NL insignificant gaynaian biitch.

Who are you? Oga Seun, or his personal aide, get your own personal website to spew trash, son of a beech

I will post anything here, whatcha gonna do idler.

oluafam:
Thanks soo much. I'll check the blog out.
@ richy4. Thanks. if he suffers much, I don't really care, I don't think the pain of betrayal I felt can be compared to any suffering his undergoing. I and sil are two important people in his life but do not occupy the same position in his life. I don't think he will feel good if I fail to protect him from my people. He broke the oath first. Don't forget that any day, any time, a man ought to be the voice of his wife especially in family matters like this. She's voiceless without him. He really failed me.

Hang on like a fool now, wait for your sister in law to go to serve
As soon as she leaves take charge, completely make sure next time she comes you are the one handling money and don't move for her
She can start her own business
Some in laws do not know there place
Jobs are hard to come by hopefully you get a job

When a Nigerian man shot and killed a judge in Baltimore

How come this noisemakers were not here chest thumping how they are better than USA and richer huh! Or US is jealous and envious of them, their most popular line.

Now look at the kind of insults they are throwing on Ghanains then acting as if they are victims, pathetic

When boko haram attacks there own people, they assume that's normal

When ritualist kill them. It's normal

When madam attacks and abuse their maids and helpless kids normal

When Nigerians kill other Nigerians in Nigeria that's normal

One death in Ghana, they start forming a caring heart, which way Nigerians na (as if the world will stop)

janellemonae:
It all started on big brother Africa forums. Trust me, its d truth. Big brother was all well and good until Nigerians became active on all their social media platforms. Loudmouth arrogance. Very disgraceful. If any country's contestant gives d Naija contestant a side eye, d abuse no be here o. They will so diss d life out of d country calling it poor, insignificant and jealous.

Then when a Nigerian is evicted they will come up wt conspiracy theories trying to manipulate other countries against d perceived enemy. All other African countries started hating Naija. Seriously some set of pple in this country have issues. The braggards - I didn't recognize d culprits until these elections & their behaviour on naira land. U'll find them on YouTube too.

You know this our angry brothers more than anyone

There reputation always speak for itself, but trust them to act like the 48th state of America with chest thumping and arrogance

PunkyVeer:
And to that I say, good riddance to bad rubbish. Mazel tov!

Punky don't mind them Nigerians are good at playing victims. Especially with fellow Africans countries

iamord:
Btch sharap!! What kind of trash talk is this?
Where do I even start from with this your stupendous post?? Like I said. A lot of you are so immature and fond of playing the gentle victim. Cry baby.!!
How do u know Ghanaian media houses did not carry the news? . Is the case not being followed by the Ghanaian police and concerned agencies . ?! Has the case not been condemned by concerned Ghanaians on social media and off? What then do you want?? If you want to see the case is followed up you follow up the case through your high commission or keep your beak shut.!!! The fact remains that Nigerians in Ghana and visitors know that Ghana is one of the most peaceful countries in the region. We don't promote false security, and will ensure the perpetrator of the crime will not go unpunished. Irrespective of the nationality. Nigeria would have been a better place if all this care attention and affection that you display was showed to the numerous number of unfortunate Nigerians souls that have been lost in your own hands and for being careless. Hypocrite!

Iamord ain't you surprised with the hypocrisy and ignorance being portrayed here

This playing victim, is something else, really( let me just save my poker face)