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Hamster143:
Did any1 read it, can't get it. what is she saying.

You are wasting valuable space, if you cannot read and comprehend, move to the next post sharp sharp

chineloSA:
Kenya is not number one in Africa. It is number one on the list of the countries with low HDI

There is Botswana , Namibia which are better than Kenya

Mmm! Botswana and Namibia are my favorite locations in Africa, so is Tanzania

samocholi:
I thank u all for ur words of encouragement.From the depth of my heart i say a big thank u to all.Stay Bless

You are a true example for marriage gone bad

Divorce, and move to a new state, make sure she don't know where you live,

Because you will need the blood of Jesus after divorce, she will kill you with her own arms.

Who did you marry ?

a devil reincarnate,

Satan or who, you don suffer my dear

( when you marry church girls who impress in laws by getting up at 4.am) in Michael jacksons voice

Divorce, divorce and divorce

When a marriage turns to violence, it's always time to run

Tallesty1:
You are the wife are wrong.

I'm not wrong I don't hire anyone young in my house, my mom gets me those village women her age that need help, all they do is primarily take care of kids and very little house work, me and hubby do chores together

I like older women because they are mature, hubby will never sleep with them you can never mistreat a person your moms age so your conscious is always right.

When did men start picking maids, end time husband

What would be his reason for him not wanting an elderly maid, why can't he make breakfast himself for the kids, some of this bushmen husband masquerades smh,

I only hire elderly women in my house, no young maids for hubby to abuse and impregnate, ( that hubby probably has hidden agenda)

How should she live her job, will he provide all the household needs, I thought the more income in the family the better

The wife is right

Kenya number 1 in Africa followed by

Angola

Swaziland

Countries I thought were real good, I need to visit Angola

Only in Nigeria

Four months? Even the sand in the grave has not dried

Evil couple, I hope they did not conspire to kill that woman so they can be together

End time marriage

flawlesRebirth:
PUT PASTE ON THE BRUSH AND HAND IT OVER TO HIM....DONT FORCE HIM...JUST HAND IT TO HIM AND PUT UP A TOPIC OR SING HIM A SONG..DO IT FOR A WEEK...IF IT DOSNT WORK.....TRY *SPANKING *

Spanking a 22 months old baby, what is the world turning to.

Lhanavikky4:
I also stayed in London for 5yrs, Tracy is a mother of seven,five of her children are for four different fathers and she had two sons for her present husband and the man took responsibility of the children. Anytime she has problem with her husband she prefer arresting her husband rather than sulting it out, she is also the same person who ruined her husband brother's life name withheld, she separated their homes. her husband gave her 2million to start up a business Tracy used d money to decorate the house. Tell me is that a responsible woman, so I don't think there is anything bad in finding happiness some where else.

You must be the idiotic husband behind this story, your story has no leg, next

Move on with your life, you have no husband, sometimes I wonder why people rush to marry

edwife:
What are you doing about your situation? You said you face domestic violence?

I'm sure she enduring, praying and fasting, they way poster will be advised just at 22

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placeofallure:
It's not a nice thing to be strangers with your siblings. I think the bulk of it lies with the parents. I have 2 sisters, like the op but I am in the middle. I can't even tell the one I'm closer to between them. In fact my big sister is like my twin regardless of the 5 year difference, cos we have the same body frame, we have many clothes that are alike or the same. She returned from Dubai recently and got 3 robes, one for each of us. You can start from there, buy stuff and get hers too.

Also find topical issues that will interest her. My husband is always afraid of our gist moments cos it's endless. Parents, especially mothers should create that bond from the outset. We carry this sense or idea that one cannot survive without the other, even our other siblings who are boys have caught on and that mentality is being passed on to our children now.

Be her friend and not sister. You know big sisters can be bossy at times. If you ask my sister's kids who is their mum's friend, without thinking they'll just say my name. We are that close. As the eldest sister you should make the effort to bond with her.

Good luck to you.

It takes two to make a relationship work, poster said she tries on her part and the sister still gives her a side eye

claremont:
He has been with his white wife for years, they can't prove that this is a sham wedding. He already has kids with her. The section of the law you quoted doesn't apply here. In the event that he is convicted for bigamy, that's not enough for his UK citizenship to be revoked. It takes a lot to revoke UK citizenship, the decision has to be made by the Secretary of State herself.

My dear, it is not my job to sit here and go in circles with you, trying to justify insanity, I have better things to do with my time,

Good bye Felicia,

claremont:
He has been with his white wife for years, they can't prove that this is a sham wedding. He already has kids with her. The section of the law you quoted doesn't apply here. In the event that he is convicted for bigamy, that's not enough for his UK citizenship to be revoked. It takes a lot to revoke UK citizenship, the decision has to be made by the Secretary of State herself.

How can you not prove a sham marriage when the husband goes to his home country on vacation only to suffice married

No divorce, (bigamy)
No separation
Kids waiting
Plus am Sure he frauded the white woman money to go marry

Where in the above stuff does it show he entered marriage in good faith, a requirement for visa, he probably calculated his wife overseas will not know and he will come back live as if nothing happened


You have probably never dealt with immigration officials abroad, they don't think like you do, especially in UK

claremont:
He has been in the UK for years, he is probably a citizen now or at least a permanent resident. They can't deport him anywhere.

My dear, UK citizenship can be revoked or taken away
That man was not the wisest

Their British citizenship may be revoked if: 1. It was obtained by fraud, false representation, or concealment of a material fact; or 2.Jun 28, 2014[/font]

claremont:
The man should divorce the white lady, move your brand new Nigerian wife to UK and live happily ever after.

The man used the white lady for papers, the white lady used the man to get some good loving every night for years. They both exploited each other for mutual benefits. Learn lessons and move on , no news here.

White women don't go down that easy, the kind of suing and reporting that will be done to immigration, this man better start

Struttling his behind and start life in Nigeria,

The law will listen to the white womans(it's own citizen) unlike the two timing bushman( especially in UK) where Nigeria has been blacklisted

Truckpusher:
There is no future with a foreigner, we all know this but due to the harsh economic condition our people are going into unions that they are well aware that they would be emasculated.

No continental African will put up with a white woman unless he has decided to take it the way it is.


Let the guys taste both worlds and see the difference - That doesn't make the black woman a saint but my dear I prefer them to any other one out there.

There is a whole lot of Decent African men married to white women and happy,

Koffi Annan is one
Gabons president is married to a white woman

Talk for yourself, don't talk for all African men,

Some African men are no lowlifes marrying for their selfish needs, they marry for real, irregardless of color, religion or creed.

rhames:
a drama ends with a big round of applause.

so there are still gullible people in the white mans land.

tufiakwa.

White people are raised with honesty, this does not give a Nigerian power to take advantage of a person's love and emotions( ain't this why people brand Nigerians fraudsters and scammers)

What was wrong with him entering the marriage in good faith and divorcing first.( then when UK deports 5000 Nigerians people start throwing in religion.

Did this man even care for the kids he sired for honesty,

Ojady:
A lot of people say a lot of things here, full of ignorance or just plain out of touch with reality. As an African man or woman, married or not, how many of us will, knowingly, deliberately, being nubile, go out, talkless of marrying, a woman/man who already had 2 kids from a previous alliance. If you say, why not, then you are the true offspring of the devil - A LIAR.

First of, anything can attract the sexes to each other, both were emotionally available for different reasons, she for reasons bothering more on the heart, he bothering more, on that of the mind - typical of the way both sexes approach life and its issues. Now for 6 years, their needs were met - she, a companion who judged her not for her appearance ( traditional African men like their women healthy not hollywood promoted anorexia impressions on telly) and he, an opportunity to be a man again, that is work, commit, protect, provide, lead, make good African intercourse with a woman.

Now no one knows the antecedents of both prior to 2004, neither can we say, if it was pure bliss within the 10 year time they were together. Nevertheless at that time, both were beneficial to each other - he was a father to her prior kids, he was a source of clean credit for her, he picked up her kids and literally, was a father to them; he had to endure the covert discrimination of her friends, society and even family, even insults from her previous baby daddies; he perhaps was reminded every now and then of how she made him whatever he is in the UK - I mean the circumstances are innumerable...

What we see here is a clash of cultural differences...something and someone had to give, and No, it wasnt going to be the one who had the upper hand (the oyibo) but he who realized he had an alternative. Now before anyone goes on about UK getting nasty, do you really think "anybody got time for that", anh han! He, a British Citizen now, he got British kids, He entitled to welfare benefits if he needs them, and, if there is the chance, the UK want to take a piss, he would just cross over to any of the developed countries of the Commonwealth say Canada, Australia, New Zealand etc with his new bride, and he'd be just fine...

Did anyone force him to marry a woman with kids, he knew this ahead of time and continued to propose,
Nobody held a gun on his face, did he not know about clash of cultures before marriage

Why did he not divorce first, why leave kids wondering where is daddy, hopefully the white woman sues him until he is deported.

amunkita:
Woman = b1tch
Dog = b1tch

So the OP's subject should be dog beat dog, Husband beat dog...

The husband must be an Amunkita to ve beaten an Nkita..

They shouldn't let all this school kids post here, damn can't wait for school to open so this underage can go to school

I don't trust this men that loses wives and marry in three months

Most of them conspire with lovers to poison their wives,

I know someone that remained without marrying until his kids finished school

End time man, now the kids will suffer under a step moms care

You can only try to be her friend, if she is not willing there is no much you can do

See embarrassment now, Chei!

Trust UK to deport this man for bigamy, UK does not play( evidence pictures)
So the woman will have the last laugh

I hate it when typical Nigerian assume it is ok to play with women's emotions whether Nigerians or not

SEGUN2003:
I am very proud to be a Nigerian but at moments like this, when I do read these undesirable commentaries and could observe that some Nigerians are supportive of his attitude, I become very sad and ashamed of being a Nigerian.

Nigerians are hypocrites they use religion to cover there vices and culture where it deems fit, things like scam and fraud get justified immediately, very shameful

Finish school first,

Iam finishing my masters with a husband and kids and trust me I have tried to drop school a couple of times because am so behind.

It is almost impossible, especially with no house help, my advice, finish school first.

Poster I also have the same experience with my sister

I only have one sister, we are 16 years apart, when she was born I was almost finishing school, then I went abroad,

I never grew with her, never really got to know her, so anytime I try to get close, she pushes me away, am very supportive to her even though she keeps a distance, she is in college making so much mistakes and my parents ask me to talk to her,

What I can think of is you and your sister might not have same personalities, some siblings are different characterwise like day and night

I had two friends that were sisters, one would gossip to me so much about her sister, it wasn't funny.

Just continue being there and loving your sister, she might change her attitudes towards you and maybe not.

Bolade005:
Exactly. Teething could be the problem.

My daughter is about 17months old and she hardly eats too. Doctor told us she's probably teething and we are lucky she's not running temperature. Obviously, she's not sick cause she's energetic and playful but she just won't eat. She prefers drinking tea, caprisonne, sweets, ice-cream. Anything but solids.

OP, I'm almost sure your daughter is teething too. No worries.

My son stopped eating at 16 months and apparently the doctor told me it were four end teeth growing all at the same time.
My son drunk juice and sweet stuff, but at 18 month he overcame that.