Nobody here have made any meaning contribution.


He should not take the offer at all.
If his brother so care about him, he should upgrade his financial status n let him use his own money to do it.

Questions to ask
What does the younger brother do?
Did the younger brother stay with him before?

When is he so concern about paying bride price for him than upgrading him.

And your friend Bleep up big time!

DM I will give u a very cool n cruise catching advice that must work.
Not for everybody though.

From your statement you gave her money not borrow.
Because there was no talk of refund.


Or better still u donate to her ministry.

If this is true, you won't escape suffer in the future!
That your uncle who does the children regard.
Guy stand up and work ......

I like things like this.
If you are entitled to leave!
Take two weeks leave, tell them u HV resign sleep n wake if they ask u for money tell them u r saving it to start a business but you hvnt known the business yet.
If you are not entitled to, wen ever u come BK, don't give anybody face don't smile, you play too much that's why. Do it for two weeks they will adjust, then call a meeting n advice them.

I have a personal experience like this, I went far from the state.

Who can mentor me in programming pls

Me I think we should ask u now, do u really want to get a house now?
Definitely not sure.
So if it's a job u want first fine n good and you know after the job the first project is a house ....sit her down n tell her this.
But remember if she agrees ur word is ur bond.
Not wen the money comes u rember u HV some ppl u want to impress.

Yes he do deserve it, but ask yourself, amongst all of those people giving the punishment to him, which one amongst them have not done something bad greater to his own or even the same as he did? But some are hidden.


Ok nice talk.... but let me ask.....should they free him because some people have done something greater?
Every crime have its own pay day..
He probably one type post "Protect children", " Say not rape"
Meanwhile he was doing it.
Relax and have the right kind of mind if not you will do the wrong things.

You did the right thing.......now make sure u are successful, very successful.....
Move on quickly like genuinely quick, don't communicate with her but forgive her n be happy......don't bring the fears and happenings to the next relationship.


Things like this happens, don't be a bad guy to try to be intimate with her late or listen to her stories wen she is troubled!

Abegi
We have bigger problems to deal with

This is serious

You are already in finals in mechanical, so branching to industrial engineering is not bad.
I studied mechanical n majored in industrial engineering.
One thing is to be grounded in whatever you are doing, then u can add more, if u have interest in automation fine and good.

If you masturbate u need to stop it.
Then write down the things you are afraid to do most ....go n do them but wisely and legally.

Ok this is it..
He is currently working as an operator in one of leading beverage producing firms and take home plus everything is about 100+.
He has another offer in another firm (honeywell) to be a Mechanical Engineer trainee.
His questions and thoughts are
1. Should he go for the new offer since he studied Mechanical
2. If it will pay more
3. What's the career progressions

Opinions and suggestions are highly needed.

Barbiturate:
Breweries. Guinness or Ab Inbev

YOU are doing well....lets connect ok

The truth is nobody can give you the best advice, advice yourself any decision you take, live by it.
No one knows the future but you know yourself and you know her better.

PrinceOfLagos:
Ain't taking that shitt

Loooooool
Calm down bro

[quote author=sapphiere post=99611072]My cream alone is 55k and it doesn't last beyond 33days. Get a skill or go into business.[/quotel]

This statement was not necessary ok

Arewa1stSon:
Southern presidency is possible!!

But...

Dear south west... Forget anything presidency!!

Even if power is going to the south.... It will never be south west!!
You people have been canceled!!

Even if power is going to leave the north!!

It will be going to the south south!!


Just for the Records: Northerners in Oyo, Ogun etc were attacked, killed, properties destroyed and displaced in what was a planned ethnic attack.

No single Yoruba Leader either political or monarch came out to openly condemn this barbaric act.

we will never forget the killing of our innocent northern traders in the south west!!

Even most educated yorubas both online and offline justified the barbaric act!!

the NORTH remembers

Tell Tinubu that there's still time to form a political party that will bring the whole south together against the north!!

Atleast that will be a small challenge for the north... Than wasting his time and leter be kicked aside!

The north will never support a Yoruba into the corridor of power!!

Thank God that you people showed your hatred for the north on time....

I will even prefer an igbo man... My face to face enemy into power... Than a bloody back stabber!!

Here is not Game of thrones, Have u asked yourself what was the action before that reaction.
When you want to solve a problem learn to start from the root, don't let nepotism blind you


One time you are hating the igbos the next you are hating the Yoruba.....you hate anyone who don't let u do as u pls.
Is a pity we are in the same country to even see u type all this hate with a lot of ego and burst like you own the presidency.

Do they have the same income?

Ok so what's the reason for herdsmen who are attacking their host communities!

Lamido just woke up?

I tire the way some people reason.

Why did I watch this video.........
Looooooooooool
All will be well
We move

It's just they are both funny ppl, and it's cool.

The thread is true but not general..... Next time is best to use "some" .....
And on the other side of you are not affected you don't need to insult the post..
My warning to guys don't take this post to be heart it may affect how you see ladies, just have sense and be wise.

7BigSquids:






It's the modern day wife and not just about the male. Women now hate wifey and feminine roles. The modern woman has been taught to believe wifey roles is weak and her actions more than half of the time is to rebel and to fight normal. Many times its not just about being firm. Many of these ladies have developed a fixed way of interpreting life and by extension they behave the opposite of what's expected to present themselves as strong.


Many more marriages will end this way in this generation. And it's not just about males being flexible or not being firm

The firm I mean is, he been firm with what he wants and how to go about it, the world is change so are females, but as humans we know what will please us and that's what we should be after........before marriage their signs atleast little, we choose to ignore.....there are still ladies who think differently from what you have described

When it started like play you were overlooking it, how can a man sleep and you Bae/wife will go to club and you forgave, she knew you won't do anything that's why she had the guts.
It means a man came to pick her and came to drop her at your place, if all you have told us is true, then you are extremely a weak and emotional unbalance fellow.
Shake your self stand strong, stop running and calling people for help..........Be mean, firm and have sense.

My small advice.....avoid all this guy's telling you their own story here, they will send u DM, look for a way to take their own share before you go back.

*Use your head*

Heartlessbanker:
I was known as the boy who from getting 49 in maths ss1, to getting 81 in maths ss2.
I was also known for my mathematical brilliance, as I taught myself further maths from ss1-3 on my own without any teacher or tutorial.

Exactly same thing happened to me @ FGC

@Binikingdom
Come and see and fulfil your promise

Built2last:
Those who are mocking ex Lagos Governor - Akinwunmi Ambode - on the basis of the Edo election are missing the point.

First, the Edo governorship election was more of a plebiscite on Adams Oshiomole than a contest between the PDP governor Godwin Obaseki and the APC Pastor Ize Iyanmu. So in essence, this isn't Obaseki defeating Iyanmu. This is Edo people retiring the former APC National Chairman, Adams Oshiomole for his overbearing god father status. In fact, there is a sense in which it can be argued that the APC candidate could have won more votes if not for the liability that Adams brought to his campaign. When you add that ill-adviced video by Bola Ahmed Tinubu (BAT), you would understand that the duo of Oshiomole and the Lagos BAT brought nothing but 'minus' to the APC candidate. That video of a man who foisted a semi-literate 16th century-brained coup plotter on a 21st century 'nation' only to turn around to address himself as "the leader of all democrats" rankled so many people and helped cement the resolve of Edo people against the APC.

So in a nutshell, what Edo people have shown is that no force, no matter how powerful can undermine the resolve of a determined people.

Lagos State under Ambode was an entirely different case because for one, it's always difficult, if not impossible, to rescue slaves who see their chains as some beautiful bracelet. The Lagos electorates, with the exception of a few, are quite in love with one man determining their fate. Or so it would seem. So there was very little an Ambode could have done without the people. Not with Tinubu's strong hold on all the party structure in the state, Asorock support as well as a well oiled non-state actor such as the Lagos State Road Transport Union ever ready to act as his stand-by instrument of violence each time the need arises. Or why do you think the road transport union in Lagos is treated as the 4th arm of govt? Who do you think flew the union leader MC Oluomo abroad for treatment after he was wounded in a pre-election clash in the run-up to the 2019 poll?

To uproot Tinubu from Lagos will require a combination of factors including federal might. This might just happen in 2023 if the signs are anything to go by.

But for now, Edo is indeed not Lagos. Just as Lagos is certainly not Edo.

My friend sharrap ......was saraki not uprooted?....
No matter how rooted a man is one day he will leave or die.
So again sharap.

GboyegaD:
One of the things I read here is ignorance on their part. One might be thinking he is punishing the other without recourse to jow the instrument used (you in this case) feels about it.

They have erred and deserve forgiveness. Having a relationship with them to know their person, ideology, and character flaws as a way of guiding yourself is no crime. You do not need part with your money to achieve this.

Easier said .....you will not understand