the redpills men righteousness slawmir

MJBOLT:

There are redpill pages on FB but be prepared because 'Mark' will fight you

so true. cause of my redpill post mark give me restriction for 12 day's

pls fam there is this sweetness in
my dvvck that's making so uncomfortable which I don't know the cause. but each time it comes if I don't soupy it will be disturbing me

it only stops when I masturbate and come back again after 3 days..
please u need your views on this my brothers and sisters any herbal way

porn and masturbation

Bennysam:

You Nairaland guy can’t disappoint he dump a girl because she’s trying to get back to her ex you people insult him but if he writes how he take her back after chatting her ex you people will still call him SIMP

them no dey disappoint

alllow her to go with her. ur daughter go soon marry ur name hmmm

e sure sa this TRP no go spoil yahoo work? smiles

Saviolamemphix:
After taking TRP, i hardly chat girls up like b4 during my simpin dayz. Now i just view ur status and pass na only my sister ft get mycompliments for free now not one random cheek

no be lie.. focusing on learning new skills no night sleep.. thank God for the TRP..

Omihanifa:
Go and screen shot this my post for reference purposes

That neighbour of yours will later fork your wife it's just a matter of time

The more the two of them see each other everyday in that compound, the more the urge and attraction will grow

** The best thing for you to do is to PACK OUT or LET HER ENGAGE IN SOMETHING PRODUCTIVE THAT WILL BE MAKING HER TO LEAVE THE HOUSE EARLY AND COMING BACK IN THE EVENING

if all of the above options fails, sharply IMPREGNATE her ASAP

guy man!!!! u too much

LordAdam16:


Apologies for the delay in my response.

As always, I'll open with a disclaimer (when necessary):

I'm MGTOW. By default, I'm a proponent of 1 Corinthians 7:1. As such, it's fair to actively parse my comment for bias and I may not be the best person to listen to on purple pill matters.

That said, the good thing is quite a portion--if not a majority of commercially successful media personalities in the manosphere are purple-pillers. So there isn't a shortage of good advice from folks who've taken the same path you intend to and who you might better relate with on shared experiences.

Take this remarkable comment by pansophist for example ('twas a response to yet another blue-pilled complainant):



If you need a precis or a pocketbook guide to committed relationships for a redpiller in the 21st century, importantly by someone who is walking the talk, that's as concise as it'd get.

The template is reproducible and easy to grasp.

A: Be certain of what you want.
B. Know what you'd compromise on and what you wouldn't compromise on.
C. Be willing to take your leave if she fails to meet her end of the bargain on a key benefit in the "no compromise" column.

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Now, maybe you want to hear what I have to say on the subject. In which case, I'd oblige.

I'd answer your question first. Then touch on the wider subject matter for emphasis

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Your question was:



Seeking women who are into the culture of previous generations is still possible in traditional climes like ours. However, times are changing for everyone and she'll inevitably be influenced by the changes. Especially if you reside in an urban setting or your own attempts at self-improvement offer her the opportunity to see first-hand what 'modern' women are up to and the complete insanity they can get away with.

Now you might be fortunate that she stays traditional ad infinitum. But the odds of that are low.

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You may have heard the expression:

Hard times create strong men, Strong men create good times, Good times create weak men, and Weak men create hard times.

This is relevant because by definition, culture is the way of life of a particular group of people. We are at the "good times create weak men" stage, which explains the changing culture. Thinking you can flip the script as a one-man army is wishful thinking.

To be accurate, we've been down this road before. In times of weariness and disaster, women don't care about rights. They just want to be safe and have access to resources. Of course, men have to bear the brunt of it and pay with our lives. However, when hard times are over and things are blissful, they get their rights without much prodding.

Ancient Egyptian women during the Middle Kingdom had more rights than modern Egyptian women. Why wouldn't they? The Empire was the dominant power on the planet, there was zero unemployment, little to no social mobility, and the concept of Ma'at meant everyone knew their place and their roles in keeping the empire running.
Spartan women had more rights than Athenian and even Persian women. Why wouldn't they? Their men subjugated a slave population that outnumbered the native Spartan population and they were feared on the battlefield. Like today with Western women having machines perform all their menial tasks. Spartan women had slaves do all their menial tasks.
Likewise with Roman women (citizens) compared to their contemporaries.

With the end of World War II and the ensuing prosperity and bliss, the same thing is happening with Western women.

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Now in the past, because of existential threats, there were hard limits to how much leeway women could get when times were good.

Today, most of those existential threats are no more with sovereignty, rules of engagement, war crimes, the ratification of fundamental human rights, mutually assured destruction and other fail-safe mechanisms.

As such, eventually that culture of previous generations that you fondly reminisce about will die out as simping becomes the gold standard. And those of us who live in urban settings or in the West/West-leaning conclaves are on the front-row.

This explains why it is not accurate to use some of the enduring longstanding marriages of yesteryears as templates for today. Ma Adeboye will not tell Pa Adeboye to go sleep on the couch after an argument. Joke Silva does not expect Olu Jacobs to share the chores 50:50. So while they celebrate their golden jubilees and you're fantasizing about replicating it or using them as #relationshipgoals, understand that the pillars and culture that made that possible are not available to you.

To get to that same point, be prepared to be chewed inside out and embark on a wildly different and rigorous journey.

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Thus, if you still decide to go for committed relationships, even though contemporary culture puts you at a disadvantage; the last thing you want to do is hope to find a unicorn. The idea of unicorns is that they're rare. Not enough to go round, are always sought after even if they're spoken for, and that at the end of the day, they're still horses.

A traditional woman is still a woman. And to give a lucid instance, most of the diaspora men who failed to realize that fact by inviting "women who are into the culture of previous generations" from Nigeria were sharply lectured with cold, hard horror experiences.

The best you can do is prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

Mind you, this is not as nihilistic as it sounds. This is not to mean that you would not have happy times in a committed relationship or marriage as a purple-piller. Especially if you continue to improve yourself and apply TRP nuggets shared here.

Heck, there are a lot of purple-pillers who say the good times are worth the risk and eventual lull periods. In any case, it's not my place to question your reality. That's one of the few good things about the current climate and one I hope more TRPillers take advantage of, you're at liberty to do whatever makes you happy.

Just remember that as investment bankers say "past performance is no guarantee of future results" and ensure you've made appropriate preparations or contingency plans should you become a statistic. Because we only hear complaints after the women have showed their wild side. But when modern men are feeling like Jay Z thinking they have their partners wrapped around their fingers, rather than make hay while the sun shines, they're usually reckless both in words and deeds.

Don't be reckless.

1. Enter every relationship with a clear idea of what you expect to get out of it and what you can reasonably expect to sacrifice.

If you're going in because you prefer to raise your kids in a nuclear family and are willing to sacrifice your individuality, many of your dreams, some of your cherished friendships, amongst many other things. Then by the gods, if years later she becomes insufferable that it begins to affect the family unit and your kids well being, read her the Riot Act.

2. I have to repeat this, have a clear idea of what you can reasonably expect to sacrifice.

Everything has a price. Including entering a marriage or a committed relationship. It might not sound like a big deal now. But 12 years later, you'd wake up, look at her face as she sleeps and wonder "how the f*ck was I so arrogant to believe I could deal with this sh*t for decades".

3. If you're improving yourself, she should be too.

If you choose to overlook this or tolerate her nasty, that's your prerogative and should be your choice. Don't be knackered into believing that while you're working on yourself and literally sucking up to your boss to maintain your lifestyle and not lose her, that her flaws are a package deal that you MUST accept without her even attempting to work on them.

In the 21st century, that's a pile of crap. If marriage is work, you should not be the only one stacking bricks.

4. Live in the moment, enjoy the little things, and soak up the experiences.

Because it might not last, it might be all that gets you through the bad times, it might be your only respite when you look back on your misadventure, or even be a critical reason why your marriage, civil union, or committed relationship lasts.

5. Have an insurance plan.

Whether it's walking away, getting a mistress, separation, signing a prenup if you're in the diaspora, having a sizable nest egg that can't be touched even if she goes scorched earth; never as a rule of thumb let yourself be at the mercy of a woman (or any human being for that matter).

Don't tempt fate! And don't let anyone guilt-trip you into thinking looking out for yourself means you don't "love" her enough. That should go both ways, if she "loves" you enough, she should want you to be happy if things don't work out.

6. Doing all these things and more does not guarantee anything.

People discover new things about themselves. Circumstances change and people react differently to change. Also, everyone has a breaking point.

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In fairness, I'll admit, it is depressing.

Most guys out there are just looking for dependable companionship, respect, and appreciation and are willing to walk to the ends of the earth for any woman who'd provide that or even the mere illusion of that. Unfortunately, they have to go searching through treacherous terrain for something their grand and great grand fathers probably took for granted.

That said, in the voice of Eneke the Bird, "Since [hunters] have learned to shoot without missing, I have learned to fly without perching."

Be like Eneke the Bird.

-Lord

u re good. Read 1 Cor 7 to the end

Dpsychologist:

If you are the ex that spend money on her, gave up your career because of her, the only thing you did in r/ship was hugging. You will not be remembered.

A lady once said, " if i date a guy and we didn't have sex i don't count him as my ex."

what about the ex that break her Virginity and spend nothing on her?

Dpsychologist:
In marriage


Case 5
The wife f*cked a dude on the day of her wedding while the Husband is busy planning on how to return the canopies, chairs, tables and other rentals.

my experience..

do u know how many rapist that was on shiloh last night? do not condemn. nigerians

virginprincess:
Hmmm, in this life i have learnt that you should never play the role of a fool for a man, men don't value such women, when you take a decision stand up your ground and also never allow a man make decisions for you.

pointless.. what are you saying?

pls no protects.. youth.. the last time people lost millions especially farmers.. pls

audio money... make una send mine

khingTony:
Just imagine bringing up a child and loving her as yours only to find out that she's another Man's child, how do these hoes live with themselves


So if he didn't have a DNA test done, his wife would have never told him the truth No doubt she's capable of killing him


Well, I know Duncan mighty is not the only man that is fathering/ has fathered a child of another man, there are many men out there fathering another Man's child, that's why you should Have a DNA test on all your children, because a vast majority of these hoes are never loyal, no matter how loyal yours may seem


Know this and know peace



Peace

Thank God for the redpill.. we learn everyday life is a lesson

duncan my man come dey enter this mess
truly akunucha (wisdom) beta pass

yanabasee:



Go and collect it and take it to Adamawa na.....





The South should just imagine if the North had even an Oil-well... They'd broken up since....



To them, they have food and meet...If they have oil nko? Everywhere for be stew for them.....



They have nearly everything. And they're absolutely in control of their natural resources, but will never allow the South to control theirs.......



I wish this country could just break apart.

tell him to ask his palei where oil was first found? this country insane people ..

Nwaotu10:
Criminals!
The crude oil belongs to Adamawa state.

chaaiiii.. naija

Marine54:
Which one be stolen It is not our oil?
Since Zamfara gold belong to Zamfara People, Niger Delta oil equally belong to Nigeria Delta people...

no mind the sick op

woman!!

chaii.. davido.. why na.. the lowest amount of one d cloth go change my life.. make I start my new farm.

the prophet so reason solution, not to cause destruction btw u and ur gf..

wow.. truth is bitter.

Nbotee:
So what do U want Nairalanders to do for U now? U have seen dat she is responsible for ur problems and have seen how promiscuous she is and yet U are telling us U are in a fix? What fix?

we are learning from experience. for us bachelor's make we no go jam delilah

tit:
Dont miss your rib because of jealousy

chaaii.. a female will not give you a good advice.. guys hv sense from this f moniker advice

planetx13:


What dirty rib are you talking about??or you just want to say something... Try and think before you talk

Ciao

lol.. no lie

G.O.A.T so sad a legend is gone. rip

phcity sweet city

lol.. all nairaland girls is like "18, 20." na wa.

na olosho wey repent..