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manie:
How did you get the N40 million? Did you get it through saving or investment? Did you inherit it from your parents? Did you get the money through lottery? Did you get it through legitimate deals and businesses.


Your answer to these questions will determine the type of answer or advice I will give.

I will advice you to be very careful of people of people giving your advice on this forum, as a matter of fact your made a big mistake by making your contact public.

This is my 20cent.

Yours truly is an investor cum businessman with more than 22 years experience investing in the capital market, money market, real estate and small businesses.

sorry to hijack this thread Op.
I am interested In your advice for anyone with a similar fund to SPARE.

Be warned @ OP. I lost £20000 recently in Nigeria by investing in wood exporting business in the hope I will get 20-25% profit as promised.

tochilastborn:
An invest could yield 10% but i will give you 9% per month.

That 1% is my motive for advertising.

Contact me at godalepriest@gmail.com

Can you post a bit more detail here.

MrsChima:
Lol. That's A Nigerian man for you! I swear he thinks he is proving himself. I don't know why there is such hate for feminism!

"
Firstly, feminism should be about gender equality". Anyone who has ever talked to a feminist for any length of time will know that this is far from being true. Most feminist i know consistently view the world from the perspective of women, while sometimes adding the phrase 'and men have problems too' in order to create a smokescreen of gender equality.
Like some posts here on nl, the generalisations that nigerian men are not allowed to defend themselves from include, but are not limited to: thinking a home invite/car ride is sexual consent, being rape apologists, seeing women as nothing more than vaginas, having perfectly fitted shirts, always sending women creepy messages etc leaves nothing to desire about feminist.

You have my sympathy.

multicast:
I am a fervent reader on Nairaland and i dont miss this forum in 1 day, i have seen people share their concerns here and a lot of people have contributed through their comments, though some are hillarious while others are on point. i will appreciate matured responses.

I did not marry a stranger to start with and its why i am very pained cuz i come here on nairaland and see how people get frustrated about their marriage based on cogent reasons but mine is different.

first of all, I got married in february and am already very tired of my wife, not because she isnt very sexy or good in bed as other may experienced but because my wife starts arguments from little things as little as why did u miss my call, even if its a BBM call thats dependent of network, after hours of begging i have to end up with uncountable "am sorry".

secondly, my wife find it very easy to engage in malice for days without bothering to reconcile, and i have to talk to her over again and make her see reason why such act is not good in marriage, for which she will later apologize and the next day or same day she is back again in another episode.

thirdly, every man love to be respected, when my wife starts her drama about missed call or other flimsy excuses, she starts talking to me like am her junior brother, calling me names and after noticing how mad i am with her, she will apologize but always repeat such act.

i feel the amount of love and attention she gets from me is too much and i am beginning to think i should make her understand what it feels like to have a frustrated marriage. though am yet to do that.

i honestly am not perfect but i have never used any harsh word while addressing her even when she is obviously wrong, i dont do so because i know the feeling when she use them for me. i wish i could anyway.

i grew up in a place where women are highly regarded and well treated and maybe its affecting me because i also help her do chores and i dont push all the house work to her as most men do.

i noticed i am always very unhappy and depressed the moment she comes up with this episodes and it may be because i love her so much and this is beginning to affect how i study and i might be forced to push her away first by not giving her attention as i used to.

My fellow Nairalanders, i respect ur opinion, hillarious ones and reasonable ones, marriage is not a bed of roses, i love my wife and i am not cheating on her, i am 100% married to her alone but her attitude is frustrating and i might have to leave her in the end. i hope i get lucky and this make FP so i can learn from experienced members before i take a decision, as we speak she has began the malice episode with me and if i dont apologize to her in 3 days, she is ready to go that far too.

I am sorry about your ordeals. Hence you are married I shall out of respect for you say nothing bad about your wife.
As a man you need to take control, It's too late now but this shouldve been done before marriage. I have dated crazy girls, they tend to calm down if you are also crazy with them. Sometimes it might come down to not caring about where the relationship ends up, again this mind state is only advisable before marriage.
In short you need to put the gird down.

Edit: It appears she doesn't see you as alpha male and she is rightly just like with most girls, taking advantage of it.
Can't deal man Grrr.

Nubian113:
It's the truth. I was baffled and now I feel silly because I feel i reacted insecure I think. It all just felt awkward because I've never been on this side of the coin.

You need to find put if the guy can perform in bed. Heard about dudes like this.
Lastly, just like with everything in life, whatever u work hard to get tends to hold more value than what u got easily. If you are looking for a long term relationship, u need to hold out for at least a week (lol), otherwise you won't create a lasting impression(meaning more chance of getting bored of u).

Girl want sex on a first date... dude too scared to have sex. What can go wrong?

2:1 in Electrical/ Electronics and still getting offered 40k. Don't know what to make of this, but that is a slave salary in Nigeria. Op can you tell us which uni you got your degree from? Do you have a masters? A little more Academic info(mini CV without personal info.) about you will be helpful.

Regards

cherryice:
hahahaha its crying smiley

whts d hottest thread nw

Wana mk troubles

Hey trouble maker.

That's deep man. Can we see your pictures so we can judge how much of a looker you are.

[quote author=subbieD post=32504795][/quote]You are an attractive lady, so could be worse Drink protein shakes or eat more food with dense calories like nuts (Groundnut, peanut etc). You look like my weight in size sef

subbieD:
Hmmmmm, OK.....Fenks alot

Are you sure you are 45 killo? That is an anorexic weight for any height over 4 ft 9. Anyways, you don't look it.

Obinoscopy:
It's definitely going down. Check the staircase slabs in the picture, you'll see that it is from top down. Engineers would agree with me on this one.

lol you had to spoil the fun. That's the most logical explanation.

She looks handful

vjsmiles:
mummy and daddy play

Mummy and daddy play you know.. lol.

Quite cool. looks like he will be holding the record for a while. Nigerian politics requires a certain level of emotional intelligence, that can only be acquired with age.

Too much jokes in this thread. Should come here more often.

I am outraged.
The difference between the Qur'an and the "Old Testament" is that the former actively calls on people to commit acts of violence when something or someone goes against Allah's creed. Unlike the "Old Testament", every verse of it is used as a divine blueprint for human behaviour. Devout Muslims (much like flat earth fundamentalists) will not accept that the Qur'an was the work of many different hands, not a single strand of divine revelation, issuing death threats against those who want to examine its textual composition.
Alarming numbers of Northerners does have a fundamental problem with coexistence and they don't appear to share the same views as we do.

zwar:
Lool...it does not work that way dude...you can not just put anyone in a position because of some high grades
Leadership is different from academic ability....though both can work in tandem at times...but not always
There have been so many other older Nigerians that have acheived such feat, but choose to keep it silent..
Ain't no biggies...

Absolutely. If history and experience is anything to go by, I will go even further by subjectively saying leadership and academic ability are not mutually exclusive.

JonaTheClown:
ok,

Great achievement .

He should be the next Minister of Health!

Buhari Take Note!

Going by that logic, I should be a minister.

Regards
Oxford alumni.

To say that watching room look modest is a master piece of understatement.

Some of my fellow countrymen swings at the tail end of stupidity curve. How any sane person can attack fellow innocent citizens over political parties is beyond me- Perhaps I am losing my mind. Rather than sticking up blinding for one party, why can't some of us logically assess both candidate without bias and choose the best person for the post?

It is well . Cleaners get that amount in UK per month, so that should give some clue. Heck, plumbers can earn up to 5* that amount.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1322363/How-women-earn-From-lawyer-DJ-salary-guessing-harder-think.html

lawlahbammy:
Seconded.......some people can lie

TBrownAuto:
1000 pounds per day i hate lies

I rarely post on this forum but I shall bite. While it's true £1000/day in Uk/USA puts you at the top end of British workers(even for couples), it is nevertheless not uncommon- as it is the case with me. I am sure Uk resident on this forum can confirm this, that If you are an experienced GP consultant/Doctor/surgeon, an IB in a top tier bank etc, then 1k per day is not uncommon(Depending on experience/skills).
In addition, the poster said it's between two people, so it isn't impossible nor as eye catching like you all think.

It is in bad taste to post salary but check this out.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2913890/Anger-250-000-average-wage-staff-investment-bank-Goldman-Sachs-hands-8-4billion-pay-perks.html

The stated figure for creche is pretty common in UK and USA, and the reason why there is so much uproar is down to Nigeria's relatively low per capita.

Two things are for sure in life as a Nigerian, Death and theft by Nigerian Government. The reality is more than the alleged $ are being stolen from Nigeria every year.
VOTE wisely for lesser of the two evils, It's just a shame the two candidates presented doesn't inspire confidence.

shittu is far more rock solid in defence compared to yobo in my opinion

definitely  www.freshmillion.com/livefooty/live-streams/ is in english or alternatively type in justin tv on google, that is the biggest football streaming station.

here we go mr yobo