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Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Aren't All Useless (my experience) by Mikester(op): 11:40am On Feb 09, 2021*

Chii59:
This especially. People always say "true character" anticipating that you pull of a mask and show off a Demon. How about the times you've been kind, caring, lending a shoulder, offering even to help total strangers, is that not "true character"? Very shallow reasoning.
We're all multilayered, even the simplest of us.

You're right. This message should be directed to the guy above me

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Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Aren't All Useless (my experience) by Mikester(op): 11:26am On Feb 09, 2021

Shelumiel:
OP, this girl seems good because both of you are familiar. For the love of God she even called you "brother "...! But that does not mean you should say she is good because she showed you love. Her real character is yet to come

Everyone is capable of being good or bad to anyone but like I said, it all comes down to one thing - attitude.

A woman might be rude and selfish to one man and be excessively kind and gentle to another. It all depends on how they treat her. It depends on how they make her feel.

I'm not too nice to women neither am I too harsh. I don't chase people man or woman. I'm just myself and that brings the right people around me. So even if she's just pretending, she won't have it easy as I'm very shrewd

She's a lady I know very well. Look at how we conversed. She hardly calls me bro. She calls me by my name all the time just not in the chat and we converse a lot

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Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Aren't All Useless (my experience) by Mikester(op): 11:08am On Feb 09, 2021

thebosstrevor1:
so everything is about money.

for the men

If a girl gives a guy money, she is a good girl
if a girl does not give a guy money, she is a bad girl

for the women

if a guy gives a girl money, he is a nice guy
if a guy does not give a girl money, he is bad and selfish guy.

Typical Nigerian way of thinking, Good and bad behaviors are judge with money.

i do not know how you guys view relationships, but is relationship a place to get rich or siphon each other money.

We give money to who we care about man or woman. It doesn't affect our personality.

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Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Aren't All Useless (my experience) by Mikester(op): 11:03am On Feb 09, 2021

Shelumiel:
OP this one is a friend and it is quite obvious you guys are not dating. Most Nigerian girls do not know how to conduct themselves and I stand to be corrected.

It doesn't matter. Their attitudes depends on how the guys relate with them. Attitude is based on how people treat us but our personality is who we are. There are good girls and bad girls. You attract the one similar to you.

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Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Aren't All Useless (my experience) by Mikester(op): 10:42am On Feb 09, 2021*

She is a Nigerian by nationality but her attitude is gold. Not every Nigerian girl is useless and unreasonably selfish.

Guys if you know how to relate with girls well, they will take care of you o. They're good lovers. I've different girls around me who hardly ask a dime but show me some love. I'm not too rich neither am I poor or broke but I got the looks, intelligence and empathy. (no narcissism).

Some of them even call me daddy and funny that I'm still a virgin

thebosstrevor1:
so everything is about money.

for the men

If a girl gives a guy money, she is a good girl
if a girl does not give a guy money, she is a bad girl

for the women

if a guy gives a girl money, he is a nice guy
if a guy does not give a girl money, he is bad and selfish guy.

Typical Nigerian way of thinking, Good and bad behaviors are judge with money.

i do not know how you guys view relationships, but is relationship a place to get rich or siphon each other money.

What term do you give to someone willing to help? Who do you term a good person?

I don't know about you two but I believe a person who was kind enough to help out even when we weren't so close is a good person. Kindness is a trait of goodness.

blinking001:
Low standards...so because she assisted in paying your transport that automatically translates to her being a good woman? You think women do things for free? Stop deceiving yourself OP

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Romance › Nigerian Girls Aren't All Useless (my experience) by Mikester(op): 10:37am On Feb 09, 2021*

Here on this platform, Nigerian ladies are mostly bashed and portrayed as desperate gold diggers and shameless prostitutes by some heartbroken men who somehow tend to believe that all nigerian girls are useless and have nothing to offer besides sex and children.

That may be true to an extent but isn't actual as not every nigerian lady is defined by the actions and attitudes of other nigerian ladies. There will always be the good, the worwor and the useless. They all can't be the same just like this angel below who helped me out today. She is one of the girls who had offered me help one time or the other. She isn't even my girlfriend.

Here are our chats below...

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Romance › Re: VIDEO: Ladies Beat Man Mercilessly, Strip Him Unclad For Defecating In Public by Mikester: 8:10am On Feb 09, 2021

Nothing in nigeria is more common than people who don't use their brains. Don't worry shitzy, 100% of the people who beat shit out your life have shittier lives than you.

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Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Told Me To Stop Communicating "For Now" by Mikester: 7:04am On Feb 09, 2021*

Give him some time and stop giving him sex if you know what's good for you otherwise he'll get pissed

Don't be like...

SweetCunt97:
Does that even matter? Why do you people even act like it's only men who like sex? Wo ama fvck that guy to satisfaction and if he likes misbehave na him cup of tea.

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Romance › Re: I Masturbate With Some Guys Image But I Will Refuse Them In Real Life by Mikester: 4:21pm On Feb 08, 2021

Draei:
You again? okay now i get.

Romance › Re: Guys: Who Amongst You Would Turn Down A Sex Offer From Your Crush? by Mikester: 3:14pm On Feb 08, 2021

BadRadio:
encore... let me be sure I heard u right

I believe I'm done here

Romance › Re: The 4 Nasty Decisions That Will Change Your Life Instantly [Picture] by Mikester: 3:05pm On Feb 08, 2021

iLegendd:
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Romance › Re: Guys: Who Amongst You Would Turn Down A Sex Offer From Your Crush? by Mikester: 2:30pm On Feb 08, 2021

BadRadio:
huh?

Yeah, you heard me

Romance › Re: Guys: Suppression Of Sexual Tension Prolongs Life ! by Mikester: 10:39am On Feb 08, 2021

BadRadio:
Stay away from sex just for 1 year and see how better your life can be.

God said we should stay away from sexual sin because he knows the outcome... he wants you to discover yourself and live a fulfilled life.

You're right. One shouldn't give his youth to sexual pleasures else he will spend his adulthood in troubles but this doesn't really apply to married couples though