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Ifyy25:
My dear I’m trying hard but the pains of going through pregnancy alone and the stigma from being a single mum is too much to bear

Dont think about the stigma of what people will say blah blah blah!!!! Don't listen to negative talk igonre and pretend you are deaf to what they say or will say about you. It's not worth your peace of mind biko. You need rest, peace of mind, relax. Yes, it may not be easy but we are here for you. You have a family here and ask any questions ot help from us. WE ARE HERE FOR YOU SIS!!!!! please high bp is not good for pregnancy oooo. Think about your health and baby!!!!!

barag:
Team June till the end. July geepee tank did not catch me. God has done what only He can do.

It's a boy. @ Missyblissy I don born Oooo.


Bs later

Congratulations mama!!!! Yes ooo but other june teamies make una respond to roll call oooo.

Alexandy2014:
Yea I'm giving him formula too, though people will not allow me to rest with exclusive breast feeding not knowing what I'm passing through

My plan is exclusive breast feeding but how na when the milk flow is very slow. My baby tire to suck. I don try tire. When she's hungry she dey use my breast sleep fake sleep. Once you drop her, shes awake and screaming. And she will do it all day when do you have time to rest. This night i pump 60ml only from both big breast. When my daughter dey finish 120ml of aptamil . So how do i compete with that, do what you can leave the rest.

luciouscookie:
How do I recover after CS ?
The dos and don'ts.

You need to rest, do not lift any heavy thing for at least 8 weeks or more. Take plenty of fluid, fruits and vegetables to aviod constipation( this was my problem) i took everything to make my stool soft for where. Recently i discovered that garden egg makes my stool soft so that's what i take now.

Rest ooo. For me i never dey bath yet na rub shine i dey do pending when the cut heals completely. Although doc said i can start to bath weeks ago but after i removed the plaster and saw flesh wound and blood. Those part need to dry up and heal. Because if i bath and get it wet it wilk take a long time to heal.

Take hot water like tea, not the one that will burn your mouth ooo. Stay away from cold drinks for now. If your tommy is still big, you can place hot dry towel on your stomach from time to time and sit on sitz bath when you can. My tommy don reduce ooo. In four months time na flat tommy i dey aim. That's what am doing presently.

Alexandy2014:
Rant time

I was hearing night vigil night vigil
Never knew it was like this
I'm practically crying
We are a week old today
Even with help from mum and hubby
No sleeping at night esp from 12 till around 4 or 5am
He wants to suck all night
My breast milk isn't flowing well yet upon the whole hot pap and kunu, yet when I remove his mouth, war�
My bp is now high
I'm feeling feverish
Never knew it was like this.
When will he change mbok?

We really have to Appreciate our parents koz it's not easy

Abeg add baby milk to the breast milk. You cannot stress yourself and you don't need stress but rest for adequate milk production.

I don tire oooo i still give her breast first when she cries i know the beast milk is not enough so i give her aptamil. Abeg take am easy oooo.
I hope the milk production will increase over time.

ultimatebunmi1:
thank u so much mum god bless u actually I have done the normal sleeping cs before with my daughter but the pain in sleeping is too much I can feel the pain from sleeping, but am trying this for the first time I know how the pain is my good mummy I will endure but my fear is the theater room

Please please and please dont go to the theatre with fear. I. Cast it out in Jesus Name, Amen. You are as bold as the lion. Nothing will happen to you or baby. You are victorious!!!!! We are waiting for your BA and BS!!!! Be strong sis!!!!!

Olajumoke459:
Bye team July
Edd 7/7,DOB 24/6

Our Geepee tank don catch one chai!!!!! Where is that dancing emoji? congratulations mama!!!!

@ Habbeyoluwa am so sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you feel? God knows best dear. Please be strong ok.

sayoddy:
lol. You're funny but DD has seen option.
How are you recovering from the cs ''site.''?

Great!!! After 12days post cs i was still in pain. Had to call a friend that delivered her babies twice through cs. She advise that i sit on sitz bath with hot water, place a hot dry towel on my tommy. I did for two days and the pain disappeared and it helped to bring my tommy into shape. Chunk of dark cloted blood was just coming out after i did it. My tommy no big again oooo. As in i was shocked. Am yet to take my bath cos some part of the stitch is not dry. Na rub and shine until it heals completely.

Am still taking things easy oooo

sayoddy:
Hi Mummies, I'm signing in second time. Any March 2016 mama here?
Hello June Mamas, missyblissy my cappo
Nursing is real especially EBF. He's Gum body who doesn't like to be put down and his cry could bring roof down.

I am having difficulty picking one name out of 14. My options are Zion, Praise, Ayanfeoluwa, Ayomikun, Toluwani and Mofolorunso.

Ah see my baby don prefer aptamil to breast milk
To suck na problem. But I have her time. You must suck this breast whether you like it or not. The battle is from morning to night 10pm na breast milk. She will suck 3 seconds and shes sleeping but bring feeder close to her mouth, she will be wide awake to drink. Na me born you ooooo

Breast was not flowing before, the milk flow is better than before, suck the breast my baby girl go hold the nipple for her mouth like chewing gum. Suck the breast, she no gree,next thing shes sleeping but once you drop her on the bed shes wide awake screaming. Ah babies get sense oooo but my own pass her own. You must suck this breast. I must do exclusive breast feeding ar least for 3months

Preeteejoe:
With a grateful heart I welcome my princess to the world. This God is just too good.

Congratulations mama!!!! Welcome princess!!!!

Preeteejoe:
Come see me they trek yesterday, people just dey pity me ,iya ibeji Pele ,praying for me inside of me I just dey smile.anytime I go piss my bloody show I dey always look out for.

No worry our baby is coming!!!!! Just relax and talk to our baby e hear

@luciouscookie and Alexandy2014. Congratulations to the birth of your babies. May they bring unending joy and blessings to the family. Welcome kuties!!!!

Wishing you quick and swift recovery. We dey wait for your BS sha!!!!

sunbestie:
Thanks to u mamas for d words of encouragement.. I nearly break down but we are good now.. Am getting use to her cry cry routine :Dlol and she is changing small small...
Cc: missyblissy, kaffy4bill, Pearl05, Ayomikunkco.

Congrats to all team June mamas that has delivered their LOs
Team may mamas hope we are coping with d vigilante and taking of our LOs... Looking at my princess I will just forget all my stress.
May d good Lord give us d strength to carry on in taking care of them and strength for d waddling mamas to delivery like d Hebrew women.. Amen

Welcome to my club.. My baby girl wake up na. Shout she dey shout, ig poops shout too as if say you leave am for hours. The shout sometimes dey scary cos i will think maybe something bite am but nothing ooo. Cry. Shout, cry.... We are getting use to it!!! I pray she changes

@Akorkor Congratulations mama

barag:
I'm Fyn. Been having off and on contractions for days now. Drank zobo, eaten pineapples yet this baby is taking its sweet time. I'm officially tired can't wait to offload. It will surely end in praise.

Most of us have our Edd towards June ending sha I think that's why the house has been silent. But I want to believe that before the end of this week and by next week there should be several BA.

God will perfect that which he has statrted

Amen oooooooooooooo. Baby do and come out oooo. Eviction day is near oooo abeg free your mummy!!!

Afollyshade:
To the glory of God I welcome my second princess on the 4th of June. Am sorry for reporting late, it's been full of drama but thank God it ends in praise.
Cc, June Cappo
Team June

We are still expecting your BS oooo. Birth Story ooo no matter how short or long abeg send am when you can. God be praised!!!!! He will do for other mamas too in Jesus Name, Amen!!!!

Afollyshade:
To the glory of God I welcome my second princess on the 4th of June. Am sorry for reporting late, it's been full of drama but thank God it ends in praise.
Cc, June Cappo
Team June

You are your father's daughter ahn ahn!!!! I want scream your name out for my BA!!!!

Congratulations oooooo welcome princess. I understand the vigil no gree you see road. Same here ooo but wetin we go do na. The vigil is real oooooo

TEAM JUNE ROLL CALL

1. Missyblissy ___________ EDD 1st June__Pink
2. Barag. _________________EDD 29th June
4. Waistbead _____________EDD 17th June
5. Josephine4good___ EDD 10th June___Pink
6. Twogreatnations _______EDD 19th June___Blue
7. Adaify08 _______________EDD 24th June
8. Nobledeals _____________EDD 26th June
9. Alexandy2014 __________EDD 19th June
10. Proudmum38__________EDD
11. Pitykitten______________EDD 26th June
12. Luciouscookie _________EDD 21st June
13. Sayoddy __________EDD 6th June___Blue
14. Adaify08 _____________EDD 24th June___Pink
15. Preeteejoe ___________EDD 28th June
16. Konklushun___EDD 5th June May 30 portee
17. Riac........._____________EDD 30th June
18. Foxie _______EDD 23rd June ____Pink
19. Bibbzz _______________EDD 28th June
20. MzEmeritus __________EDD 23rd June__Pink
21.omawumi17________EDD 12th/29thJune__Blue
22.Babybella91________EDD 21st & 24th June
23. Afollyshade _____EDD 4th June ___Pink
24. Akorkor ________EDD 18 June ___Pink
25. Ultimatum ________
Please answer roll call and update your sex abeg.

#Teamnoloss
#Teamsharpsharpdelivery
#Teamwaddlingwithswag

motic2:
Habbeyoluwa please post your hospital shopping list
Let's have an idea of latest price
Also where did you get baby christening clothe from have only seen nice ones for girls not boys
This is very partial oooo

They have cute ones for boys too now. Go to the plaza at idumota if you are in Lagos but be very careful don't let does fetish women that sell baby clothes touch you, dont listen to any of them, just ignore and move forward to the address

EMMAACHILE:
Nigeria has 3 types of snakes; Cobra, Viper and Puff adder.
Green Mambas belong under the cobra family while Viper is different. Viper are the most deadly snake in Nigeria and usually very short in length. Viper don't usually run away from their threat, instead the remain silent and strike. Death from a viper is almost 100%. That's why it's nicknamed Tomorrow is too far.

They have python in my myms village that it is forbidden to kill it else you will bury it like a human being. When it comes to the house, it doesnt bite, just take a stick carry out to a very far distance and drop the stick with it. If you take the stick back, the snake will find its way back to the house. Hmmm.... The first time i saw a snake was the buah where i was looking for snail, it was like a colourful rope, thank God i didnt pick it. Hmmm

EMMAACHILE:
Gobe di nisa is viper and not puff adder

What? viper oluwa oooooooooooooo
Is viper part of black mamba family?

dfrost:
That's gobe da nisa in Hausa. It's a puff adder, I guess. That snake eeeeeehhhhh

You no need to tell me ooo. The snake wicked and bad. Chai it killed some students during my time in Nsukka. It could be avioded if only they use their touch light at night. Whether you step on it unknowingly, it will still bite you. Hmmmm... I fear that snake no be small!!

Ikem11:
Brother I understand what u saying totally... Read what I wrote again then u will understand. All snakes got venoms but some venoms are very weak that even bucket of it in your system won't do u any harm.

U see that snake u said got no venoms allow It to bite you and u will notice sweat on you but it ends there to show u the venom isn't active

Oga abeg all snakes are poisonious or venomous to me. For eg echie te ka (tomorrow is too far) a snake in Nsukka, very short, black and jumps when step up on is very dangerous snake. Abeg op beware of all snakes abeg.

The 5years i spent in Nsukka i don't usually go out at night because it seen during rainy season. If i must go out, i must have my touch light to aviod stories that touch

Zammzammm:
Please nairalanders i need information about this snake. The snake is very common in eti osa area of Lagos.

This is the second one that I have killed this year in my compound . There are undeveloped plot of land around my compound, I suspect that they come from there I need to know the specie, and if they are venomous and poisonous.

Thanks for anticipated assistance

There is a plant you need to plant in your compound to stop snakes from coming to your compoind. My boss house is full of green plants everywhere roof, wall, garden etc but no snake. I dont know the plant but those plant sellers will the particular plant

My June Teamies why una quiet na . Where is my BAs na? Make una flood this thread with back to back BAs. Roll Call coming immediately

imitateMe:
That's no longer rape. It's pure insanity.


Women should learn to satisfy their husbands to avoid taboos as this from occurring. When a man is well-satisfied, his mind won't wonder to "unknown places".

[b]And if you refuse to satisfy your husband, you sef go suffer am las las![/b

What makes you think his wife didn't satisfy him? The man is insane and unstable. How can yiu think of doing that to a baby? A baby? The thought alone is sickening

jazzyjazz:
Drinking hot water helped me in my time o.
Not scalding hot water o. Hot enough for your mouth to tolerate

I will be taking hot water now. Hope things changes for better cos i want breast feed exclusively for 4 months even more..... Thank you

kaffy4bill:
Anxiety won’t help...

Breathe,breathe and breathe...

You need good mental health (adequate rest)..

Lots of fluids... water , pap

Make sure that baby is sucking efficiently and frequently...

Rest a lot...

Offer both sides at each feeding. ..

Avoid pacifiers and bottles when possible. ...

Give baby only breastmilk.

Oatmeal, wheat, amala, bitterleaf soup and fenugreek helps too..

Rofemiguwa sells lactation cookies and it works..

Bought for my sis in law and she testified so you might want to get in touch with her and try it too..


Hope this helps...

One love always...

Thanks i will do the above

Not that it's not coming out ooo. Its not rushing out the way it ought to. I ate lactating cookies and granola, being drinking water like fish 4 big eva bottle water. I will be resting ooo. Breast milk please flow ooo

@kaffy4bill please what can i do to increases breast milk. I have tired virtually everything. Please as an experienced mum, please help!!!!

Magnoliaa:
And you're sure of this, how?

Because you know the OP?

Or you don't think he will just repeat what he did, even take it further, in the future, if she accept him back?

You got to have faith in someone at least. All hope is not loss sis. People do change for better!!!!

Rbae:
WOW!!!!!!!! MAMA MISSY haf born o!!! Congrats mama. I'm so happy for you.

Thanks mama!!!!

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.

This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.

During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.

This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.

Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....

Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

You are the man of the house. Tell your wife that she should tell her sister to dress decently in the house. No see through clothes or bum shorts etc. Man up abeg!!!