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these little cutties are trying oooo, had my first shot of TT today. my shoulder has been aching badly all day, cant even lie or rest on it.

ambient:
Ready,na labour i dey wait ooo.i no sure say i wan dey team august again,i don tire mske una no vex.

I no fit laugh a beg, sis I wish you safe porting jare

@FloraEc congrat, inducement pain no be mionmoin ooo & I don't pray to experience it again.

threegees:
TEAM OCTOBER 2020
We bless the name of the Lord for the journey thus far. We know and are assured of a successful end. How's the waddling and pushing ministry? We are in our 28th, 27th, 26th and 25th week, I guess. For me, it's constipation o Just trying to manage. We will get there sooner than we know it!
Please don't hesitate to share anything. We all learn together.

Name EDD Gender

1. threegees....... 06/10...... XX
2. Annaseyi.......... 22/10..... Unknown
3. Pearl05............. 16/10..... XX
4. bukit05............. 07/10...... XY
5. Soulmate19..... 14/10....... Unknown
6. Ewaifeoluwa..... 25/10...... XY
7. divanita............. 23/10...... Unknown
8. ojantelle............ 23/10...... Unknown
9. adet991............. 11/10...... Unknown
10. mayysen............ 27/10...... XX
11. Tessicatess...... 02/10....... XX
12. Mumsyfife......... 23/10...... XY
13. Teddynne.......... 10/10...... XY
14. Deolaw.............. 09/10...... XY
15. Engraced247.... 07/10...... Unknown
16. serendipityF...... 19/10..... XY
17. missmalachi...... 25/10...twin.... Unknown
18. Modupetemmy1.. 02/10..... XY
19. P4perissos...........23/10..... Unknown
20. SapphirePRINCEX... 06/10...XY
21. suilois................ 18/10...... Unknown
22. Ogojagirl............ 20/10......XX
23. Annybens1993.......19/10.......XY
24. Sammybabelious....... 22/10.....Unknown

#SupernaturalDelivery
#NoLossNoComplications

@cappo present ooo we dey push am small small, as I dey look so, I don dey take one eye dey eye team September oooo

Teebaba1456:
Mummies in the house
Good morning to you all.
Please i am confused on an issue and i know you are the only one that can actually help me.

My wife is 36 weeks pregnant and we are already prepared for Delivery with all items intact..
According to scans and checkup by the hospitals as well as that of my mother-in-law who happens to be a retired matron/midwife. We might likely have big baby (size of current baby in the womb is likely bigger than the expected) and the fact that baby might not come till 40weeks might be a little bit tough for the mother to deliver vaginally which calls for my little concern.

Firstly, we are ruling out CS, yeah i know it's safe these days but we are not subscribing for that.

Her mom gave us the option of Induction before 40weeks which is exactly why am here.

my fears and questions are...

My understanding about induction is that it is done when a baby wouldnt come after 40 weeks, can it be done earlier? (Lets say 37/38th week)

Has anyone here done anything like this before?

How safe is induction. Are there any risk involved?

Is it advisable?

Thanks in anticipation.

with my little experience I'll advice you to let her carry her baby to term, either CS or V/D the most important thing is for the mother and the baby to be safe, I have once have a 4.5 kg normal delivery, it was even my first pregnancy, you see that inducement you're talking about; the pain No be moinmoin oooo,I had it when I was having recurrent malaria so the doctor suggest they induce me so I won't cobalize the baby lol.
you cannot compare a labour that comes on its own with inducement. in summary let her carry her baby to term and allow the doctor to suggest which delivery method is safer.

ijeije123:
Hi mamas. So I went for antenatal today and my doctor asked that I go for Pelvimentary xray. I will like to know if its normal. Pls answer asap as I will be going for the xray today. I'm 37 wks from my LMO today
Cc Team July
Cc Cappo spixytinxy

are you a FTM if you're some hospitals do tag it compulsory / necessary but if you're not its not necessary.

jenifer007:
Honestly let's call a spade a spade she wasn't wrong by slapping her....she is human.. Why do we see wives as a nobody in their matrimonial homes. The sister in law is just so spoilt and should be the one to apologize.If my brother's wife slapped my sis for bringing in a man to sleep with,I will make sure I also join my sister in law in giving my sister extra slaps so that her brain can reset to normal.

I am not saying peace should not reign but the sister in law must also be remorseful and ready to apologize... Making peace shouldn't be one sided.

don't get me wrong madam, I didn't say the sis in-law was right with her behavior and also the wife didn't say she saw the in-law sleeping with the church friend or whatever I guess he came as a boy friend to vist, but from my own point of view it is wrong to have slap her. see it is easier to judge I understand that she slapped her out of annoyance but trust me it is wrong. I also have an inlaw staying with me for years now so I understood the wife's plight cos it isn't easy to cope with in-laws unlike your own blood.

@Redrosely you've really tried cos its not easy to accommodate in-law ,but let me point this out; you were wrong for slapping her cos if you learnt a wife to your bro slap your younger sis how will you feel.
apologise to her for peace to reign, that's my own piece of advice.

go to the nearest police station and lodge a complain else another issue might arise someday and he'll beat both of you join. that man is a beast for raising his hand to beat another mans wife

threegees:
Please I want to ask. If a woman curses her husband while she's pregnant, will it work? Speaking from the place of hurt. I'm tired! My heart curses this man

morning sis, pls don't curse him for the sake of the baby , with time everything will fall in place. if one should talk or react base on the way men act or speak a whole lot of things will be damage beyond redemption. just try and look away at times God will come to our rescue, it will surely end in praise.

pls ooo am I the only wey body dey pepper, nasoso vex I just dey vex up and down ooo abeg wetin I fit do to relax or reduce it

threegees:
TEAM OCTOBER 2020

How are we doing? Just checking up on us all (pardon the tags).
Am I the only one who is impatient and can't wait for October to come like right now?
I'm almost done with my shopping too. Thank God for showing up for us.

Name EDD Gender

1. threegees....... 06/10...... XX
2. @Annaseyi.......... 22/10..... Unknown
3. @Pearl05............. 22/10..... Unknown
4. @bukit05............. 07/10...... XY
5. @Soulmate19..... 14/10....... Unknown
6. @Ewaifeoluwa..... 25/10...... XY
7. @divanita............. 23/10...... Unknown
8. @ojantelle............ 23/10...... Unknown
9. @adet991............. 11/10...... Unknown
10. @mayysen............ 27/10...... XX
11. @Tessicatess...... 02/10....... XX
12. @Mumsyfife......... 23/10...... XY
13. @Teddynne.......... 10/10...... XY
14. @Deolaw.............. 09/10...... XY
15. @Engraced247.... 07/10...... Unknown
16. @serendipityF...... 19/10..... XY
17. @missmalachi...... 25/10...twin.... Unknown
18. @Modupetemmy1.. 02/10..... XY
19. @P4perissos...........23/10..... Unknown
20. @SapphirePRINCEX... 06/10...XY
21. @suilois................ 18/10...... Unknown
22. @Ogojagirl............ 20/10......XX
23. @Annybens1993.......19/10.......XY
24. @Sammybabelious....... 22/10.....Unknown

#SupernaturalDelivery
#NoLossNoComplications

present ooo @capoo,
me wey i never start shopping , the thing just tire me ooo as I don' dash every single baby thing out thinking say baby no dey come again naso this prince come hook me for neck ooo, anyway I bless God as another soldier is about to be added to my battalion.

Dbryan:
Hello mamas good day to us all @ oct mama how are we doing hope we are fine.@ threegees cappo I greet u, May we all deliver safely and there shall be no loss whatsoever Amen.
Please I have a question for all sabi mamas and doctors in the house, during the birth of my first baby was given tear and sewed while my second baby pushed through the tear during childbirth and it wasn’t sewed, so it was left like that all this happened in a maternity home.
Now my third preg and properly the last I want to register in fmc or general hospital though it’s a bit far but I need the vj to be sewed very well even though it’s painful as hell.
Now my question is do they numb the pain when sewing and is it possible to sew even when there’s no fresh tear. Pls sabi mamas pls don’t read and pass I need this information want to start antenatal by Monday.

explain to the nurses when you go for appointment and hear what they say

I always like to be alone in a quite place, I love diluting my soft drink with cold water and the worst is that I hate greeting people but neighbours fail to understand me and tag me as being proud. I hardly step out of my flat, only do that when going to work and if there's no work i always remain indoor.

mayornmn:
Mamas please help me oo!!! Last night I had this pain from one side of my bum down to my knee sometimes to my foot and it has not gone till now.Its worse anytime I lie down and the pain is just one sided.Dh has helped me massage with aboniki but it's not getting better.Has anyone experienced this or is it normal?? I'm 17 weeks gone.

you're welcome, we are almost in the same boat just that mine is more intense. my left butt hurt so bad that I can't stand on it, sitting self is wahala and worst still I can't lie down on the left side but when I google about it I learnt it is normal it is because the baby is resting on the muscle.
I just kukuma GBA kamu, na did belle make me believe say belle dey different different. 26weeks and still counting, may God help us all.

Trippleblessing:
My sister, please listen. I don't have a child yet but I have watched my sis in law almost killed herself when her baby had jaundice and the private specialist hospital she/we was/were using continue milking us till there is no money and the hospital asked her to talk her baby somewhere else since they don't have money.
4am, she got a car to take her to shomolu health centre, from there the baby was transferred to Massey. the nurses and doctors at Massey abused our lives but we didn't mind. Baby was taken from us and kept under the light with ultimate care. within a week we have our baby back.
one thing we learnt from that situation was that, private hospital sometimes intentionally delay treatment so as to milk their patients.
I was also having some treatment in same hospital, I stopped when the madam said trigger injection is 10,000 per shot, after paying 5000 for consultation each time i visit the hospital, when I told this my sis in law, she felt I wasn't serious about TTC, until the woman milked her too.
please if you have the means take that baby to Massey or any government owned hospital that you know can take care of such. I know most health centre will such baby and they transferred to a higher institution if need be.

I had wanted to say this ( taking the child to Massey), @bettylizzy if you are in Lagos, find your way to Massey children hospital for the sake of that baby and if you are not in Lagos move that baby away from that private facility, take him to general hospital or teaching hospital around you. private will keep milking you until you have nothing more left moreover they don't always have much pead consultant as government hospital. at Massey you will spend less and the child will be well attended to by specialist but the nurses and cleaners get bad mouth sha ooooo, just ignore them.

bettylizzy:
Thanks ma, but can I give a preterm to drink as well. Baby weight is 1.5kg.

for preterm I don't know but that's what is been use traditionally for jaundice, I have used it severally and I can say it works. I once left my baby in the ward and went to look for the pawpaw when the jaundice was increasing( I didn't give birth to him with jaundice oo , it only appear on his face on the third day), he was under light and I was using the traditional method as well.. we left the hospital on the 7th day

it is well.

ojantelle:
Oh death where is thy sting? Oh grave where is thy victory? My mom passed on yesterday evening. How do I continue? Where do I start from? Pls some people should talk to me. This is the most difficult/painful part of my life.

be strong, the lord is your strength. may her soul rest in peace.

bettylizzy:
Good evening mummies, I birth my baby May 24th via emergency Cs and I have been in the hospital since then cos my baby came out earlier than expected(preterm) and also jaundice.
I need advice on what to do to clear out the jaundice. Two(2) EBT has been done and yet we are still on it though I thank God it's better than before and God made everything available and successful.
Mummies.....pls...help me what can I eat or do to get rid of this jaundice.
Biko, please, e shanu mi.
Thanks as I await your feedback

get an unripe pawpaw, peal and remove the seeds, cut into pieces and soak with clean water. drink from it and also give the baby like two to three spoon three times daily. you can make another one after the third day
that's the traditional method I familiar with

it is never too late in as much as you have enough evidence, I am still waiting for the right time to sue luth.

threegees:
TEAM OCTOBER 2020

Hi teamies,
Thank God we're all doing fine with our kicking babies
Have we started shopping? For me, I'm almost done. Was actually thinking I'd shop once but things didn't work out as planned, so I'm doing it in bits. _{Say hello to a smart mom}

Don't forget to furnish me with your expected genders so I can update. Kizzez

Name EDD Gender

1. threegees....... 06/10...... XX
2. Annaseyi.......... 22/10..... Unknown
3. Pearl05............. 22/10..... Unknown
4. bukit05............. 07/10...... XY
5. Soulmate19..... 14/10....... Unknown
6. Ewaifeoluwa..... 25/10...... XY
7. divanita............. 23/10...... Unknown
8. ojantelle............ 23/10...... Unknown
9. adet991............. 11/10...... Unknown
10. mayysen............ 27/10...... XX
11. Tessicatess...... 02/10....... XX
12. Mumsyfife......... 23/10...... XY
13. Teddynne.......... 10/10...... Unknown
14. Deolaw.............. 09/10...... XY
15. Engraced247.... 07/10...... Unknown
16. serendipityF...... 19/10..... Unknown
17. missmalachi...... 25/10...twin.... Unknown
18. Modupetemmy1.. 02/10..... Unknown
19. P4perissos...........23/10..... Unknown
20. SapphirePRINCEX... 06/10...XY

#SupernaturalDelivery
#NoLossNoComplications

good day cappo, we dey manage . the way my baby is kicking ehnn fear dey take style catch me sef as the oga dey over kick. during scanning sef he still dey kick those handsome legs.
gender na XY ooo walai i no fit cry cos i was expecting XX.

iamhistreasure:
Goodevening mama's,please has any one experienced peri-sac bleeding.Ive been in and out of the hospital because of this,was placed on progesterone which I'm still on but still notice the brownish stain when I wipe.What else can I do to stop the bleeding?I'm just about 7wks plus gone

I'll suggest you rest well and try to take your mind off it ( worry less), had similar issue at the early stage, I'm now 23 weeks gone.
so eat well, eat enough fruit and try to rest well bikonu.

it is well. for those who have it, may God heal them and for those who doesn't believe it exist I pray non of their relative fall Victim and for those of us who believe it exist , pls let's be careful and stay safe. may God heal our land and protect us all.

threegees:
Are you already on your way to the hospital or you're making plans to see the doctor tomorrow morning?

if I tell you my experience since yesterday ehnn, you won't believe me. I left for the hospital yesterday but got there very late due to traffic as they have finished consulting at the ANC clinic so I was asked to go to A&E of which I weñt
I was asked to go and get a glove but before I could come back from the pharmacy I was told the O&G teams have gone to the theater for an urgent C.S. I waited till after 8:00 pm before leaving for home. this morning again I went and the doctor I met asked me to go for an urgent scan that she wants to see the result getting to the scan room, I was told they can't do the scan today that I'll have to book for next week.
I just jejely went home as I don't want to çause wahala . but my body has been aching badly with bitter taste and the breathlessness is given me concern.

team October, pls I can't breath well ooo and I don't seems to understand the cause, its been on and off before but now its quite frequent. pls what can I do.

Itissettled3:
Capo @Patking. Sorry for my silence, I was fighting battles.

Birth announce and Birth story.

My EDD was May 10 but because I was opting for elective CS, I joined Team April.

January 31 after Eating one sweet porridge Yam, I noticed I felt wet. I entered the bathroom to check, immediately I pulled my underwear, a large pool of blood poured. I was rushed to the hospital where it was discovered I had a total placenta abruption.

Dr. Said she has to do an immediate Csection to save my life. I was only 25 weeks and 4 days (6.5 months) pregnant. My baby was brought out weighing 748grams.

As she laid in her isolette and the doctors not giving any hope, I cried to God, begging him to save her and pledging that I will share her testimony round the world. I said "please heal her and make her testimony draw souls to Christ."

God had mercy on us. He saved her. He kept her. He gave us a song and His words in John 11 VS 4 which was my prayer did not fall to the ground.

We were told the 1st 24 hours were crucial. The hospital where I gave birth has a low level NICU and so she had to be airlifted to another hospital. They were not sure how she will do on the flight but God kept her.

We had a tough start.
She went through:
1. 9 initial intubation trial
2. PDA(An open hole in the heart) which closed after ibruprofen therapy.
3. NEC Suspicion(perforation of the intestine because of its immaturity.
4. 8 blood transfusions
5. 41 days on the ventilator
6. We later moved to CPAP another breathing machine. A total of 43days on CPAP
7. She was moved to regular Oxygen. She didn't hold up well and went back to CPAP. She was tried again and it was ok. She is off all support.
8. Uncountable Xrays and ultrasounds
9. 2 MRIs.

God saved my baby. I totally depended on God and pleaded with him for mercy. My heart was in shambles but God gently put them together. I drew comfort from God's words and knew I could not give up. I said this bible verse everyday



" John 11 vs 4, When he heard this, Jesus said, "This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God's glory so that God's Son may be glorified through it."

We had a great team at the NICU(Neonatal Intensive care unit) who God used to take good care of my daughter.

After 108 days, I got to take my daughter home.

It is time to tell the world about the Miracle call Eloghosa. We spent 108 day in the NICU. At discharge she weighed 3.7kg. Is God not good?

Her name means It is not difficult with God.

God is Awesome.

John 11 vs 4.

When he heard this, Jesus said, "This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God's glory so that God's Son may be glorified through it."

Jeremiah 32: 27

Behold, I am the LORD, the God of all flesh: is there any thing too hard for me?

may God be praise, you have truly been through a lot. may God replenish you in all spheres of life.

threegees:
TEAM OCTOBER 2020


Name EDD Gender

1. threegees....... 06/10...... XX
2. Annaseyi.......... 22/10..... Unknown
3. Pearl05............. 22/10..... Unknown
4. bukit05............. 07/10...... XY
5. Soulmate19..... 14/10....... Unknown
6. Ewaifeoluwa..... 25/10...... Unknown
7. divanita............. 23/10...... Unknown
8. ojantelle............ 23/10...... Unknown
9. adet991............. 11/10...... Unknown
10. mayysen............ 27/10...... Unknown
11. Tessicatess...... 02/10....... XX
12. Mumsyfife......... 23/10...... Unknown
13. Teddynne.......... 10/10...... Unknown
14. Deolaw.............. 09/10...... Unknown
15. Engraced247.... 07/10...... Unknown
16. serendipityF...... 19/10..... Unknown
17. missmalachi...... 25/10...twin.... Unknown

Hi teamies, I trust we're making progress in this awesome journey.
Haven't been hearing from @annaseyi, @soulmate19, @ojantelle, @mayysen, @Tessicatess, @mumsyfife, @Teddynne, @Deolaw, @Engraced247, @serendipityF, and @missmalachi

I trust you're doing well (ooin )
Can't wait to hear from you all o.
Kisses to our LOs

#SupenaturalDelivery
#NoLossNoComplications

I dey here ooo
2/10/2020
gender unknown yet, haven't been to the hospital since march after registration cos of Coro ooo

Lyoncrescent:
We couldn't make it today but we would go to olan tomorrow. I think the key thing for me and my wife is not just the hospital but the experience and competency of the obn/gyn consultant that we are going to see. Not everyone of them is experienced in handling high risk pregnancies even though it's all in the hand of God you want the best care. Olan said we will be seen by Dr Emmanuel soyoola. I checked him out and he seems good. Nothing exceptional that most consultants in Nigeria don't have but I prefer someone who also has empathy.

I remember when we had a miscarriage at over 9 weeks last year at mother and child near omole, I feel we didn't get enough empathy or information or counselling. It was tough and the consultant we saw there later told us that the best thing is to remove the fibroid even though they were not conclusive that the miscarriage was caused by the fibroid and we had been assured that the fibroid won't trouble the child. The bill for the operation was 900k which we were ready to pay but my wife was such in an emotional state that operation wasn't an option . The funny thing is we saw our baby in the ultrasound and the doctor at mother and child said all was fine, an hour later she was in pain and the baby literally came out on its own when she was coughing and stretching in pain. After counseling somewhere else and all, we got pregnant again and here we are. I'm not an expert and I'm sure the doctors did their best but I didn't feel there was enough empathy especially for my wife. That's why we are Searching. All in all,I'm not running down mother and child just sharing my experience and I recognize some of these things are the will of God and no matter how expert the doctor is, God's will will be done however when God's will is done, medical practitioners should show empathy and counselling especially when you literally saw it come out. It is well. We stay strong and we carry till full term.

For Christians in the house, Exodus 23:26 New Living Translation (NLT)
26 There will be no miscarriages or infertility in your land, and I will give you long, full lives.

if distance is not a barrier to you, you can check federal medical center ebutte metta, its a nice hospital with enough experienced gyneas

Ope88:
Beautiful people, he has been found.... Badly beaten and bruised....from what my mum told me.... I'll get back to u all on this.

thank God ooo, I am so happy for you,pls you and your sis should take him to the hospital and don't allow him to return to his house else that boy and your mum will keep frustrating him. remember you only have one dad and no matter his state of health he still remains your father.
as for that boy, just go to panti at adekunle and meet any of the officer there, report his conduct I can assure you that he will be dealt with also he will be ask to write an undertaking that nothing will happen to you and your sis and also your father

trust me that boy needs to be dealt with else he might harm your dad just to inherit the house.pls take a step

he shall be found alive by God's grace, pls once you guys finds him take him to the hospital,maybe yaba or luth they have psychiatric section.
i feel your pain sis it can really be frustrating, my mum is also a religion fanatic and I use to give it to her hot hot, she can't live a single day of her life without going to church to ask a prophet what do. she would leave home and go to church for days without going home, she always believe that people are diabolic, she has been down with arthritis for some months now non of the but non of the church members came to check on her oooo but she would leave home and spend days in the church. I just have to move her in with me to take care of her. the way our parents carry religion for head ehn walai I tire.

congratulation, I am so happy for you