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[quote author=Atheist:-D]No idea. Petty people. Soon they will all be complaining that there are no good women about or that decent men are hard tp find.

Why wont it be hard to find decent partners when people are too choosy. What if the partner only started snoring recently? Would they end the relationship/marriage?[/quote]exactly my point

[quote author=Atheist:-D]If he loves her he wont care. At least he knew the situation when he met her. She could do the same to him even if he was the first.

So you can dish it but you cant take it... interesting [/quote]yep. I am such a coward aren't i

[quote author=Atheist:-D]Depends. If it is serious then it needs to be looked into (sleep apnea etc.) but why not.[/quote]So then why does the poster make ladies snoring to look like a crime?

zeekleo: WHO HAS TRIED A BLIND DATE BEFORE I FIND IT FUN!!!
LETS TRY IT PEOPLE.

i have tried one. Back in 2010. When exchanging photos the guy looked tall, i even asked him his height and he did not want to give me a straight answer. Then the day came. I was so ambarrased by his height ( very very short and thin) and me on the other hand am tall. I did not want to make him aware that i was already turned off then i pretended to be fine through out the date but the moment i got home i sent him and email and explained that i could not see nor communicate with him again because of the obvious reasons and he never responded. I do not know if he was also bored so decided to ignor me or if he was hurt. I gues i will never know but i think its important before going on the actual date for one to be honest so that you avoid disapointment

chuksi79: how does one go about it

are you serous?

[quote author=deco_slim]There is this very good friend of mine.

I have great feelings for her, which she is not aware of.

Today I decided to spill the beans, by telling her I love her.

Now I regret my action.

She doesn't wanna talk with me.

What should I do?.[/quote]maybe the question came as a shock to her and she honestly does not know how to react to it. You know us ladies are mostly judged and sometimes fooled by you fellows so such a question most of the time comes as a shock and one really needs to think about it before responding coz we know that the way we respond will affect the way you see us

snoring is irritating and embarrassing even from men and funny enough its men who normally snore. So brothers would you want a lady to date you even if you snore?

sKeetz: Does this also include Nigerian girls?? I doubt it

lol. funny question. What are you trying to say exactly? plz give reasons for your answer

[quote author=Ijele-igbo]When she is quiet, millions of
things are running in her mind.When she is not
arguing, she is thinking deeply.When she stares at
you, she is wondering why she loves you so much
inspite of being taken for granted .When she calls
you everyday, she wants to know how you are
doing.When she sms's you everyday, she wants
you to reply at least once.When she says I love you,
she means it.When she says I miss you, no one in
this world can miss you more than her.When she
says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a
rock.Ladies are always special. She is said to be the
8th wonder. She is always a priceles
granted...[/quote]bless u sugar

[quote author=Atheist:-D]You are wrong. It can happen. Even if the first maintains things, she might start developing stronger feelings for the second dude. It is possible. The key here is to ensure that the second dude has more time to spend and can match her intimate and other needs.

The simple solution however is to move on. The commplexity of the situation defeats the purpose.[/quote]and how will one feel knowing that he got left overs? again won't he be scared that she will do the same to him? I have done what she is doing but i do not think i would ever accept it if it was done to me. If a guy has a woman i run for my life coz i get scared that even if he would choose me, maybe one day he would do the same to me.

whether its real or not. Its nice coz he is showing love for his country but i think it would scare a lady of if he tried to get naked infront of one. No one wants to look at a guy who looks like he is from jail. Maybe if it was an attractive real professional tatoo it would look less scary. I am even so scared just looking at this pic

he is a side dude and need not play victim here coz he knew she had someone from the start. Its either he takes and accepts the side bf thing or moves on. No girl in her right mind would dump the first bf ( who did nothing wrong to her) for the second one who knew from start. Your friend must also remember that if she cheated with him , she will cheat on him. Wat goes around comes around

That and more

poster plz remind what osu means so that people can give their views

ITbomb: When u find out that your free sms is going to expire, anyone can be special

i agree

Life is no fun when lonely. Think about all those lonely weekend evenings. Cold nights, lonely walk in the park, lonely dinner. No one to hold you when you are down, no one to understand you deeper than your sister. Your heart not bitting the way it does when in love , no butterflies in the stomach, being Hot. the list is endless. I hate being single

honeymoon is not compulsory. I would not mind not going. Just as long as the wedding day its self was a perfect. I would rather save the honeymoon cash and start our new home nicely

what coursed the breakup?

maybe this is your punishment for being a player before. Take it and accept that you are paying for all those other hearts you broke before. Were you expecting a saint? even though you used to be a player. Remember what they say '' every dog has its day'' and ''Karma is a bitch''

if i was a guy i would , since i am a lady i can marry a widower even though if there are kids involved i would need to work twice as hard to make sure that they accept the new mom and be understanding and patient if they resist me unless the man killed his own wife ofcourse

bin gbagbo: out of the blues

it can just be a harmless friendly text to a co worker , for you to be sure just reply and say '' yeah it did bite. would it be bad if it brought much love?'' . Well do not necessarily say what i said but what i am trying to say is get more info from her by asking questions related to it. She is the one who will best tell you what she feels or what it means. Speculations can't help

lrguru: A GAL'S FACEBOOK STATUS
UPDATES:-
"Wow I just found the love of my
life...Nothing will eva stop me from
loving my man."
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,, ,,
. ,14 DAY LATER:-
"Never make sum1 a priority when
u're just an option to them..xm!"
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,, ,,
. 2 DAYS LATER:-
"I HATE love so much!"
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,, ,,
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3 DAYS LATER. "I'm happy to remain single and I
will never fall in love again."
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,, ,,
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5 DAYS LATER:- "I'm looking for a man to love and
treat me ryt."
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,, ,,
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15 DAYS LATER:- "When u deeply fall in love with a
person,u realize why it didn't work
with anybody else but him.I love my
guy so much....mwaaah."
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,, ,, .
8 DAYS LATER:-
"bulshit..!! All men are the
same!!!!!"
TRUE OR FALSE??

Lol, sure sounds like us sister 4sho

bin gbagbo: this is the txt

" gud morning special one, last night i sent a mosquito to bite u and give u happiness, love, care, prosperity and long life.did it bite u?"


does she love me? please analyse this txt message for me sharp-sharp

have you guys been flirting or was this just out of the blue?

Fingesi: maybe I'm not ok. So I need an ok person like you to tell me if its worth investing my time on this

I sense that you love her with all your heart and you really wana make things work don't you? follow your heart

.

Fingesi: she seems to hate everything around, hate her world, hate her family and kind of hate herself too. You know, na me go still use head carry am

ah :ogosh dude. are you okay up there?

Fingesi: Are you saying I should go ahead getting married to her against all odds?

lol dude you just finish me hey

hurting

Fingesi: is there possibly a test i could to know if she truely gat feelings

actions speak louder than words. How does she behave when sober?

This is a typical lady like behaviour. Always showing offffffff. boringgggggggg. If you've got it and know its yours no need to show off. Its yours for pit's sake , what is your friend gona do after you show off? Just let her lv just because you want to help her get the job but if the motive is to show off then i would suggest you just don't do it. when will ladies stop this thing.

hyperflex: you don't believe in that logic more than i do but u can allow yourself to be smashed against the wall a few times the next time u either push back or knock the person the Bleep out. i gotta say ur right tho. shit just hurts like a mutha. plus most chics are like that nowadays

i have noticed that guys are very sensitive beings. You get hurt ones then you wana punish the whole world but see with ladies , we get hurt almost all the time but we always deal with the pain and never let it ruin our hearts. Hun before you meet that one good girl, you are going to get hurt a thousand times. Do not fear pain. Its all relative. Just learn to deal with it you will be fine. The reason we have so many men who are players is because men just fear pain. Guys a breakup is not the end of you. Never let it turn you into a monster