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humnsikan: A lot of people are at lost when it comes differentiating between dating and courtship. Now here's the difference: Dating may not necessarily lead to marriage, while courtship begins after a proposal has been made. Only courting partners are to refer to each other as fiancee.

i think we all knew this

lol poster . you had me worried there for a minute

25omega: if i came to you and told you i didn't want to marry you but i wanted sex only would you appreciate that as supposed to me playing games to get some azz

tough one. we all wana feel special

it wouldn't hurt much because i certainly do not have what the other man will give him but if it was him living me for another girl. I would really be hurt because we are both woman. I would rather he dumps me for a man than a woman

i said i was HIV positive and the fool ran

so love is all about his looks and his sexual perfomance? i thought it was from the heart

he left and never contacted her for years. She still held on and finally saw that she was waiting for something that might not even happen. She should marry the second guy. Who knows if the Doctor will lv again? anyway he should've known that the way he handled things was gambling as time waits for no man

kaboninc: Huh....what do you really mean?

i mean she should make him aware that she is aware of his game and tell him exactly how she feels about it and if he gets angry or walks away she must let him and she has nothing to loose except loose someone who was already going to be lost in the future

Be frank and tell him that he is trying to turn you in to a cheap girl and you are well aware of it. If he pretends to be hurt by what you are saying and tries to blackmail you emotionally , tell him that will not work either and if he truely wants to be with you he must learn to be patient and wait for when you are ready or he should just lv u alone. You have nothing to loose but a looser dol

i have realised that the most painful thing a woman can say to a man is insult his financial status Especially if he hasn't made it

190: so if i curse u while dating u, u'l cheat on me

he ddn't curse. He hurt me deeply and just like a coward who was afraid of letting go i decided to keep him but cheat. The pain was just too much. I can't say i ddn't hate cheating but at that time it was the only thing i could think off.

hearbreak which he coursed me and i did not have the guts to end it so i decided to cheat rather

just let bygons be bygons bcoz you are wasting your own time by holding on. Finding ways of making someone regret means you are still hung up on them. Moving on for real is the best solution

don't you think he reacted negatively because of the disapointment he felt when all this happened? maybe he was hurt. Other people react bad to hurtful situations. It was unfair of you to also judge his financial situation like this because other people blv in saving their cash instead of showing it off or sometimes someone might be working on a million dollar plan today and you will be in the dark about it. Even if this was not true. For the mere fact that he still wants you back after all the lies etc, it means he really loves you. Maybe you can be the leading lady in his life and help him better himself. You know what they say '' behind every succesful man, there is a very strong woman'

Sanboy25: She's shy maybe because she sees you like someone special... She must really love you.

yah i agree with this. Its normal for a girl to be shy if she takes you as very special

difficult situation to find yourself in. Most hurting is that you are even both from Nigeria. I have heard of such stories between our men and the woman they find when they go abroad. Worse now again beause there are even kids involved. Maybe you should just continue with the current arrangement forever unless you are willing to be a single mom because at your age it will be hard to find a life partner who will even love you together with the kids or you can just choose to go solo

finding a good girl to marry would not be a problem in your case but maintaining the cashflow and peace of mind would be because at some point we all have to pay for our actions

[quote author=Atheist:-D]Only if he has a ferrari



Do you like short men?[/quote]not me personally because i feel i am tall. I am 1.65 and for me a short guy would not be ideal but i know many short guys who are in good relationships

its always a bad idea for a married couple to stay with relatives.

[quote author=Atheist:-D]

It is never a break up until you ladies confirm that your "hidden" squeeze is more dependable. Then it becomes a breakup.

@OP, dont listen to her... listen to me . A break is a break up.[/quote]'' @OP, dont listen to her... listen to me . A break is a break up'' lol

violence never solved anything. What would she if the fight led to someone loosing their own life?

its a break not a break up. Give it to her maybe she has some issues that she needs to sort but also expect the worst. Maybe this might be a way for her to see if you can't be replaced

Short men get woman all the time. There is a lot of hope actually

[quote author=Atheist:-D]The reason I like Monica too. Better to be all the things she is and be open about it. A large number of women would do and think like her but deceive people into thinking they are different. She is open at least.[/quote]morning Ath

kaboninc: Thanks sugar. Morning to you

Good Morning sir.

kaboninc: Really? Then you've completed your therapy? We'll see then. By the way am not a doll oh. I be 'nna meen'

yep completed. Dealt with the issues i had. sorry brother for calling you dol

kaboninc: She just gave you an advice oh and you were happy with it.

In case that shrink is not doing a good job, don't worry, I'll just recommend another one. You have large mass of anger in you. Try dissipating it from time to time.

you too late dol

kaboninc: Yes there could be short cuts to wealth but wealth does not translate to success in this context. What kind of wealth do you wish for yourself....wealth you'll blame yourself for acquiring or wealth that will give you peace?

i like your responce

yep i would. you start small and work your way up or you hold on until something better comes. Rome wasn't built in day

[quote author=Mrs..Chima]You should know and I am a man[/quote]but your status say F. Maybe the gender is what confused most ppl.

Back at topic > maybe you can try stay away frm the inlaw for nw and try control your mind as sometimes we are able to control our bodies that way

soloyes: Just within the last 2 wks, i received 9 disturbing reports from gals who met guys online, visitetd them and got f***d and afterwards dumped. More worrisome is the fact that 6 of them confessed to having this xperience more than thrice. My question is are these gals foolish, ignorant or wat exactly is the cause of these foolish acts?

desparate

If its a lady who marries a man 10years older its normal but if its a guy who marries a woman 10years older it can be rather challenging and the 2 people would really need to be prapared for a lot of challenges.